You come across as a person that is not self motivating, and require other people to entertain you.
I could try and explain, but I doubt you'd understand why some of us don't need other people to entertain us and can be happy just living in a quiet environment without gyms or bars etc.
On Than Sadet I was content sitting in a cliff top restaurant looking at the view for an hour or two, or in a hammock in front of the cabin looking at the sea.
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