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Swede Left Broke After Romance in Chiang Mai

A Swedish tourist was found wandering the streets of Chiang Mai after reportedly losing all his money following a relationship with a Thai karaoke worker, according to local residents.

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The incident was first reported after Chiang Mai Provincial Police received complaints about a foreign tourist causing traffic disruption outside the Chiang Mai Red Cross building, behind Yupparaj Wittayalai School. Witnesses said the man was walking aimlessly in the road, in front of traffic and attempting to catch a sick pigeon, before blowing air into the bird in an apparent effort to revive it, will blocking the traffic.

Police from Mueang Chiang Mai Police Station were sent to the scene. Officers found the man holding the pigeon and persuaded him to move safely to the roadside.

Local residents told police the tourist is a Swedish man believed to be around 40 years old who has been staying at a guesthouse in central Chiang Mai for more than a month. They said he had become involved in a relationship with a woman working at a karaoke venue in the area.

According to residents, the man regularly travelled between Sweden and Chiang Mai and was always welcomed by the woman when he returned. Over time, people in the neighbourhood came to believe the pair were in a relationship.

Residents also claimed that when the tourist first arrived in Chiang Mai he appeared to be financially secure. They later learned that he had allegedly been deceived by the woman, who reportedly took a significant amount of his money before disappearing.

They said the man had been left both heartbroken and without funds, and believed this contributed to his apparent distressed mental state and aimless behaviour witnessed in the city.

Police safely removed the man from the road following the incident. Khaosod reported that further information has not yet been released regarding the tourist’s condition and if he required medical treatment, or whether authorities will investigate the allegations made by local residents, in connection with the alleged financial deception.

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14 July 2026

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WHansen Silver Member

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12 hours ago, Georgealbert said:

They said the man had been left both heartbroken and without funds, and believed this contributed to his apparent distressed mental state and aimless behaviour witnessed in the city.

I suspect it was the distressed mental state and aimless behaviour that made him a victim, which left him heartbroken and without funds.

rattlesnake Diamond Member

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7 hours ago, Korat Kiwi said:

Possibly he wasn't using the right head in his decisions.

PossiblyDefinitely he wasn't using the right head in his decisions.

Sir Dude Gold Member

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Can't fixed stupid... the lambs will continue to keep going to the slaughter as few warn them or want to listen.

However, the previous poster that said that if the boot was on the other foot, then the police would spare no resources in trying to find them and recover the money if it was a foreign scammer... bad optics that the police don't care about this guy because it was a scamming Thai woman.

Although, trusting a bar girl etc. is a moron move. Guess he only watched a couple of YouTube videos and thought he knew what he was doing when he got here... facepalm.

impulse Star Member

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I know we never will, but it would be interesting to hear her side of the story. Every once in awhile I used to run into a pretty coworker that just couldn't shake off a foreign guy she had no romantic interest in. Cultural differences made it tough to communicate that lack of interest. And who can say no to a wad of "money for nothing"?

I can't count the number of love starved guys I've met on flights to visit their sweety in Asia. I've also run into a few guys on flights headed to the local US Embassy to read the riot act to whoever isn't issuing a visa to their sweety, in spite of months of online chatting and 2 or 3 weeks of meeting in person.

I suspect this is one of the zillions of stories of sick buffalos, monthly allowances from back home and promises of faithfulness. Lord knows, I've seen enough YouTubes and TikToks advertising how they'll teach the local girls how to get (and stay) on the foreigner gravy train.

Reddavy Gold Member

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9 hours ago, petermik said:

A bird in the hand is better than two in the bush....

No bushes on thai birds 😉

Ralf001 Star Member

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8 hours ago, Korat Kiwi said:

Sure some of the girls look great but I'd never form a relationship based solely on that...

Agreed, they gotta be freaky between the sheets too.

KhunHeineken Ruby Member

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Similar topic came up in another thread recently, and this case is a perfect example.

As an informal and inside the thread poll, and there are no right or wrong answers, can members post a percentage of who they attribute criminality / blame to in the case?

Is it 100% the guys fault for handing over the money, thus allowing himself to be scammed, or is it 100% the Thai girl's criminality, in which she scammed him, or, can it be apportioned to each. Eg. 70% the guys fault 30% the Thai girls fault.

Just interested, but for sure this guy is destined to be another "miserable expat."

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