How Porn ripped off so many men! Thai Rath list the ways including sex!

[MJL1962]

On 07/09/2017 at 12:26 PM, hellstens said:

One girl try that when I first come to Thailand, she says she was pregnant,

are you sure I ask,  and she says Yes,  

Well, Good luck and have a nice life I say and walk out from the room.

The thing is I can't make any Baby! I turned that off 25 years before ;-)

 

But I learn how they try to manipulate you, so I move out side of the tourist city's and up the country  

to the real Thailand and its real beauty!

 

I. Too have had a vasectomy. But still use condoms on every occasion especially with "new" ladies as I'm not stupid enough to risk infection for fun. 

[LannaGuy]

rent don't buy

[spidermike007]

When this con girl says she loved them all, she is showing her extreme confusion. In Thailand alot of women do not really know what love is. They confuse a slight degree of affection, and the thrill of the exchange of money, with love. It is a perversion of the term. What she means to say is, I liked most of these guys. And I loved their cash.

 

The biggest part of the problem here, is the extreme emasculation that is taking place in the West. Most men, in the US, Europe, and Oz, are no longer real men, when it comes to dealing with their women. Their women have made their lives so difficult, and alot of women have gotten so far away from their innate femininity, and have become dominant, and super controlling, and men just go along with it. Most men have become so hungry for love, or emotionally desperate for some kindness, and TLC. And most are so desirous of being around a real woman, who knows how to act like a woman, and manifest the dignity, within femininity. So, it is easy for the con artists, like this worm Jariyaporn, to take advantage of emotionally wounded men, who seem to be willing to do anything to regain a semblance of normality in their lives, with a decent woman. 

 

The bottom line is this. Take your time getting to know a woman here, or anywhere. Time is your ally. It is rarely their ally. They are usually trying to step up the timetable. We need to push back. We need to assert control. An environment like this allows us to do so. Take advantage of that. Be a man. Step up. Pay tribute to the gender. Refuse to lay down anymore. Refuse to be a doormat. Refuse to check your cajones at the door. Start making the decisions, and stop saying "honey what do you want?". "What will make you happy?" "Where do you want to eat?" I have so many friends, who come here, and from the very start, make the same mistakes they made back in the West. Except here, they do not need to make those mistakes. The environment does not dictate that they behave like lambs. Many do not know, or realize that, or they succumb to "force of habit". Every ship needs a captain. If the man is not willing to be the captain of the ship, the woman will take over, here in Thailand. Most women here seem to want a strong man. But, if they end up with a wimp, they will take charge. Someone has to.

 

Always remember, if it is good, it is only going to get better. If there are problems, or if she is a big baby, who only looks like a real woman, but in reality is a 13 year old, or if she is a con artist, if she is only in it for the money, those realizations will manifest themselves over time. Time allows clarity. Never, ever move too quickly. Never, ever even allow them to discuss any significant sum of money, until many months after you have met. The correct response to them bringing up the topic of money, whether it be for the sick buffalo, or a sick mom, or a business opportunity, or anything else that clever fool can think of, is you are crossing the line. I told you I want to get to know you. At this point, the jury is out. Not sure I will be with you long term. Still trying to decide. You want to walk? See that door? It serves many functions. You are always welcome to use it. 

 

Allowing them to push the agenda, and not pushing back, is the undoing of most of these guys. Be like Bond. be a real man. Man up. Do yourself proud.

[bkk6060]

Just now, spidermike007 said:

 

The bottom line is this. Take your time getting to know a woman here, or anywhere. Time is your ally.

 

Know them for 40 minutes.  That's enough!

[spidermike007]

5 hours ago, bkk6060 said:

 

Know them for 40 minutes.  That's enough!

Funny. Of course, for the more independent minded man here, rentals are a possibility. Far less responsibility and fewer problems. Far easier than in the west. It is a matter of style, what you want, and what you need. I have a good friend who absolutely refuses to engage in a relationship. He has established friendships with about 40 different women, who are happy to service him for as little as 700 baht, during the day when they are not "working". He is happy as a clam. He simply sends texts, and when one responds, he makes the arrangements. He gets his needs met, does not have the obligations, and all is good by him. The women are happy, as they are using their down time, to earn a little extra. I have at least 10 friends in the US that would love to be in his position. He goes for the 90 minute option. 

Edited March 22, 2018 by spidermike007