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Broke American Man Complains He Can’t Afford Dowry For Young Thai Girlfriend

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Go back to America alone!  How hard can that be?  No money no future wife, it

is called reality..

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Just read the story .....   true love  !       what could possibly go wrong  !!!! :shock1:


Steven 100, it does look like this guy is somewhat naive. But there are other ways to show naivety. Some show it on TVF on an almost daily basis...

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Congrats to this average fatty - she is playing it absolutely right. And our David is in for a hell of a ride - now how blind can you be. She'll take whatever is left, return to her trough to wait for the next victim.

Dont blame her - he is bloody asking for it 

Quite pathetic really .Just what does he have to offer a young girl to live with him . Absolutely zero  chance of success

in the states and even less  in Thailand .

hmmm..... soooo sad.

15 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Sheep to the slaughter, but guess what, there ain't much meat!

Or vice versa. Maybe he likes them with a bit of meat on them.

20 minutes ago, brucec64 said:

 


Steven 100, it does look like this guy is somewhat naive. But there are other ways to show naivety. Some show it on TVF on an almost daily basis...

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and some folks just can't help but whinge.

11 minutes ago, jippytum said:

Quite pathetic really .Just what does he have to offer a young girl to live with him . Absolutely zero  chance of success

in the states and even less  in Thailand .

 

I agree,

But ..... what does she have to offer him??

 

I'm tired of all these articles and stories about a (naive) Western bloke marrying a (dubious) Thai bar singer, bar lady, bar whatever. 

 

Aren't there any nice stories about a Westerner marrying a Thai and living happily ever after? Two people who got their act together and "made it work". 

16 minutes ago, newatthis said:

Or vice versa. Maybe he likes them with a bit of meat on them.

 

Bigger the bowl, the more soup

:shock1:

16 hours ago, TVGerry said:

So stupid.

 

Why do these gold diggers think just because a guy is white, he'll have money? Sad to say but a lot of white trash come to Thailand! 

I would have though the girl raises a perfectly fair point, the same point that would be raised one way or the other by any young girl considering marriage with an older man.How has he reached the age of 48 and accumulated nothing? What does that say about his reliability and character? This girl may well be a "gold digger" - the invariable description sex tourists give to girls on the make out of their league - but the question is valid.Any girl in any country regardless of class, education or wealth would want to have an answer to the same question.

16 hours ago, jvs said:

Him or her?

Both in opposite directions

Why would a woman marry a loser? Ok, so she loves him. Maybe mom and dad said...have him pay a little dowry. if things go bad...and they will...at least we have the dowry money to help you get back on your feet.

I live in Thailand and single. When I meet a woman with a large family and she has no money then I ignore any urge of her being a gf or wife. I don't want a poor girl. Ooops, let me add...my current GF is not poor.

16 minutes ago, djayz said:

I'm tired of all these articles and stories about a (naive) Western bloke marrying a (dubious) Thai bar singer, bar lady, bar whatever. 

 

Aren't there any nice stories about a Westerner marrying a Thai and living happily ever after? Two people who got their act together and "made it work". 

If you can't get a nice story then a factual and real story would be refreshing

14 hours ago, Machiavelli said:

Correct. Thailand is white trash capital.

So in your midguided opinion every white foreigner that comes to live in Thailand and is not loaded is “trash”?  Get a grip and pull yourself together ( not to death!).  Many people have circumstances that leave them without a huge stash of cash through bad luck or costly divorces.  Not what I would call trash.

1 hour ago, bandito said:

 

No Honey!

No Money! :biggrin:

 

Only for Mamasan's !

:sleepy:

10 minutes ago, Aussieroaming said:

If you can't get a nice story then a factual and real story would be refreshing

Yes. I forgot the factual aspect. 

13 hours ago, aboctok said:

"he went to Thailand in 2016, hoping to rebuild his life with a new romantic adventure."

 

Som nam na.

Yeah he needed an experienced and very loose girl...one who has many experiences with all types of guys. And she needed to sell her experience, but to mom and dad she was an angel who does not even know about the birds n da need. Hehe

9 minutes ago, AboutThaim said:

So in your midguided opinion every white foreigner that comes to live in Thailand and is not loaded is “trash”?  Get a grip and pull yourself together ( not to death!).  Many people have circumstances that leave them without a huge stash of cash through bad luck or costly divorces.  Not what I would call trash.

It's a gross generalization and as you say there are some events such as divorce which can be financially challenging.But Machiavelli does have more than a grain of truth in what he says." Trash" is an unkind word but the fact remains that much of the itinerant expatriate community is not exactly distinguished in terms of education, social class or high culture.Even in the bar of the British Club the tone is definitely downmarket.Take a look at the mob of proles at the Ploenchit Fair.And as for the farang denizens Lower Sukhumvit, Pattaya, Patong, assorted Isaan cities and even Hua Hin say no more.Thailand simply doesn't attract many classy types.

I'm 61 and I don't have much, Any girl that asked me for a dowry would be out of the door pronto!!

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17 minutes ago, Badrabbit said:

I'm 61 and I don't have much, Any girl that asked me for a dowry would be out of the door pronto!!

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A dowry is strictly speaking the transfer of property or money from the bride's family and is payable to the groom.Now that would set the cat among the pigeons if interpreted in its proper sense in Thailand.

Reality TV <deleted> wit.  BS actors.  But still good entertainment for the dumb masses.

 

Yes of course I love you long time, but just remember, my money is a my money, and your money is a my money, no have money, I have to go back to work to give money to pappa and mamma, buffalo can get sick many time

 

 Image result for picture of a Thai bar girl

19 hours ago, webfact said:

at a price he might not be able to afford in the long run. 

just might be for the best; he likely doesn't appreciate the significant possibility that her and her family would become money pits

2 hours ago, stevkob said:

 

I agree,

But ..... what does she have to offer him??

 

You really have no idea do you.

How naive can you be !!!  Never get engaged or married to a bar girl .  I expect she is wanting a substantial sum before engagement . Absolutely NO !!!

When you are 50 get a retirement visa , find an educated professional woman nearer your own age . Don't get married , but if you must , a simple Thai wedding , NO official Amphur wedding .  The Thai wedding has no legal ties , if it doesn't work out pack your bags and leave .

Google David Toborowsky for lots of additional info.

that girl is fat and ugly, and even worse on the inside (resting <deleted!> face also isn't a great quality). this guy is going to get destroyed if he doesn't run to the hills after what we just saw.

6 hours ago, Metapod said:

that girl is fat and ugly, and even worse on the inside (resting <deleted!> face also isn't a great quality). this guy is going to get destroyed if he doesn't run to the hills after what we just saw.

you are really one of a kind.....:passifier:

36 minutes ago, daftdada said:

You really have no idea do you.

 

What? So a man has to fork out financial support until the day he kicks the bucket and then leave behind assets and cash, and in return she gives him?? Sex and a clean house? Not a good trade. May as well rent it and hire a maid, either way you're paying for it but it's probably cheaper to rent than buy.

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