Popular Post cms22 Posted November 13, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 13, 2018 OK. So I know I was stupid and, given personal reasons, very wrong. I was drunk and had sex with a bar girl without a condom. I have been living in absolute fear of HIV since doing this. (Especially as I have a beautiful family and wife here in BKK. Please don't tell me, I know I was very wrong) Had several sleepless nights - and I could take the anxiety no longer. So today I went to a clinic in Silom, Pulse Clinic, and they checked me for HIV. I am negative - and the pure relief left me in tears whilst sitting in the doctors' room at Pulse Clinic. The procedure took 20 minutes and cost 800 baht and, thank the lord, I am free from this disease. This is just my experience but I want to relay...... Stay loyal to your wife - don't have intercourse with bar girls (especially without a condom): the anxiety I suffered was horrible. Just don't want anyone else to go through that. Cheers. C 9 1 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
giddyup Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 I can relate to your relief. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted November 13, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 13, 2018 3 hours ago, cms22 said: the anxiety I suffered was horrible. Just don't want anyone else to go through that. Cheers. C Not everyone is daft enough to imagine they caught HIV from a single encounter with a woman who probably wasn't infected. 16 2 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post damascase Posted November 13, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 13, 2018 (edited) I hope you are aware of the fact that when you took the test after only ‘several sleepness nights’ since the act, you are well advised to have your blood re-tested later on? It can take up to three months before HIV shows up in your blood. Edited November 13, 2018 by damascase 32 5 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cms22 Posted November 13, 2018 Author Share Posted November 13, 2018 1 hour ago, BritManToo said: Not everyone is daft enough to imagine they caught HIV from a single encounter with a woman who probably wasn't infected. True, but any exposure is scary 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cms22 Posted November 13, 2018 Author Share Posted November 13, 2018 1 hour ago, BritManToo said: Not everyone is daft enough to imagine they caught HIV from a single encounter with a woman who probably wasn't infected. True, but any exposure is scary 59 minutes ago, damascase said: I hope you are aware of the fact that when you took the test after only ‘several sleepness nights’ since the act, you are well advised to have your blood re-tested later on? It can take up to three months before HIV shows up in your blood. And yes, this was about two months ago and, according to Pulse Clinic, is 99.4% accurate. I am very happy with that assessment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted November 13, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 13, 2018 (edited) 4 minutes ago, cms22 said: True, but any exposure is scary There are many easier diseases to catch than HIV. I've banged about 50 bargirls with no condom, over the past 10 years, and caught nothing (as far as I can tell). Edited November 13, 2018 by BritManToo 9 1 2 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post catman20 Posted November 13, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 13, 2018 (edited) i did not think you could get the test results that quickly. id would of been more concerned of catching other STDs and passing them onto the wife. Edited November 14, 2018 by catman20 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cms22 Posted November 14, 2018 Author Share Posted November 14, 2018 10 hours ago, BritManToo said: There are many easier diseases to catch than HIV. I've banged about 50 bargirls with no condom, over the past 10 years, and caught nothing (as far as I can tell). This is the OP. If I were you I would have an HIV test. The results are accurate and available through blood testing from 21 days after exposure. This is according to the doctor at Pulse Clinic, who is a specialist in HIV. I know the risk is low. But it is a risk where the consequences are dire, especially if you have a family that relies on you like me. Thanks. C 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dreckenfousnoll Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 i just hope you waited a while before doing the test, too early after the act can be false-negative... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Emster23 Posted November 14, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 Nice advert for Pulse Clinic. What hours are they open? 24/7? Sorry, but clinic name, location, cost, how long it took to get results etc are irrelevant to the narrative. 2 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cms22 Posted November 14, 2018 Author Share Posted November 14, 2018 10 minutes ago, Dreckenfousnoll said: i just hope you waited a while before doing the test, too early after the act can be false-negative... I waited more than six weeks. Tests are accurate after three weeks (according to HIV specialist I talked to). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post cms22 Posted November 14, 2018 Author Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 11 minutes ago, Emster23 said: Nice advert for Pulse Clinic. What hours are they open? 24/7? Sorry, but clinic name, location, cost, how long it took to get results etc are irrelevant to the narrative. No, I think it is relevent. I was very scared about the whole thing. But they were as nice as pie and as professional as I could have hoped for. Made the whole thing very easy. And very quick (20mins). And cheap (THB800). Just want to highlight how easy the whole test thing is. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dotpoom Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 "Stay loyal to your wife - don't have intercourse with bar girls (especially without a condom): the anxiety I suffered was horrible. Just don't want anyone else to go through that. Cheers." With the greatest respect, most adults are very aware already how certain actions they take will affect them. If not, then they will learn by the mistakes they make. Different experiences affect people differently. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cms22 Posted November 14, 2018 Author Share Posted November 14, 2018 2 minutes ago, dotpoom said: "Stay loyal to your wife - don't have intercourse with bar girls (especially without a condom): the anxiety I suffered was horrible. Just don't want anyone else to go through that. Cheers." With the greatest respect, most adults are very aware already how certain actions they take will affect them. If not, then they will learn by the mistakes they make. Different experiences affect people differently. Totally agree. This is just my two penn'orth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 (edited) 56 minutes ago, cms22 said: I know the risk is low. But it is a risk where the consequences are dire, Pal of mine has HIV, consequences don't seem all that dire to me, 2 pills a day, can eat and drink what he likes. Cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, dementia are diseases with dire consequences, not HIV. I've known people with all the above, if I were forced to pick one to have it would be HIV. PS had HIV tests the last 2 times I moved a bar girl in with me (long time), and the last time I had a child. (250bht each at CM RAM for the moving ins, 250bht at the government hospital for the pregnancy) Nobody had anything. Edited November 14, 2018 by BritManToo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1337markus Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 1 hour ago, catman20 said: i did not think you could get the test results that quickly. id would of been more concerned of catching other STDs and passing them onto the wife. I agree, years ago I did the same silly thing. Had to wait 6 months for the final results, mainly HIV result. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlQaholic Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 https://www.ucsfhealth.org/conditions/hiv/diagnosis.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laza 45 Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 1 hour ago, catman20 said: i did not think you could get the test results that quickly. id would of been more concerned of catching other STDs and passing them onto the wife. ..what he is experiencing is 'Afraids'.. common condition when one thinks they have been exposed to HIV.. more likely to get STDs.. another test in 40 days is advised.. as the virus doesn't develop in just a few days and is undetectable immediately.. sorry... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4MyEgo Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 1 hour ago, cms22 said: No, I think it is relevent. I was very scared about the whole thing. But they were as nice as pie and as professional as I could have hoped for. Made the whole thing very easy. And very quick (20mins). And cheap (THB800). Just want to highlight how easy the whole test thing is. I have been banging bar girls with condoms for the past decade, always told me mates never have sex without a condom, problem is, as soon as I slip in on, Willy goes south, now that is frustrating to say the least when you have a beautiful creature spread eagle, so to speak waiting for you, and no I cannot take any kind of pills, like Viagra, Kamagra, and the like due to a heart condition. The above said I met this young creature a few months back who was working at a bar for a couple of months, (usual story), quite educated and didn't appear to be your typical bar girl, suffice to say she had previously been studying to be an Electrical Engineer, but split up with boyfriend who wasn't prepared to support her education, and looked clean, yes I know, don't judge a book by its cover, suffice to say, I had unprotected sex with her twice, and it was damn good, and can't say I have caught anything or passed it onto the Mrs, but your story may have just made me think about getting a blood test for HIV, i said maybe, anyways glad your all clear, now how about the confession to the Mrs, or is that going to be in another post......lol 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sanemax Posted November 14, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 4 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said: I have been banging bar girls with condoms for the past decade, always told me mates never have sex without a condom, problem is, as soon as I slip in on, Willy goes south, now that is frustrating to say the least when you have a beautiful creature spread eagle, so to speak waiting for you, and no I cannot take any kind of pills, like Viagra, Kamagra, and the like due to a heart condition. The above said I met this young creature a few months back who was working at a bar for a couple of months, (usual story), quite educated and didn't appear to be your typical bar girl, suffice to say she had previously been studying to be an Electrical Engineer, but split up with boyfriend who wasn't prepared to support her education, and looked clean, yes I know, don't judge a book by its cover, suffice to say, I had unprotected sex with her twice, and it was damn good, and can't say I have caught anything or passed it onto the Mrs, but your story may have just made me think about getting a blood test for HIV, i said maybe, anyways glad your all clear, now how about the confession to the Mrs, or is that going to be in another post......lol Way too much information in your post , especially since its not even 9 AM yet 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wake Up Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 (edited) I hate condom sex. I have screwed many bar girls without a condom. I don’t fear HIV. Leave your judgments for a PC country like the USA. Thailand sex is great. What a puss@ post IMO. Grow up Edited November 14, 2018 by Wake Up 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sanemax Posted November 14, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 5 minutes ago, Wake Up said: I hate condom sex. I have screwed many bar girls without a condom. I don’t fear HIV. Leave your judgments for a PC country like the USA. Thailand sex is great. What a puss@ post IMO. Grow up That is being quite irresponsible and selfish, you could be infecting the girls or getting them pregnant and your only concern is yourself ejaculating without a condom . Extremely selfish and you can have no complaints if one of the girls gives you a STD 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Proboscis Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 UK guidelines state that 4th generation HIV tests (antigen/antibody) will detect 95% of infections four weeks after exposure. A negative test after four weeks then needs to be confirmed with a second test three months after the risk. This is in case you take longer than four weeks to generate an antibody response. You should take that second test too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post elgenon Posted November 14, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 If you and she showered before and after and you are convinced this is what she always does, you are probably OK. In general they have good habits. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KKr Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 53 minutes ago, sanemax said: now how about the confession to the Mrs, it was said in a humorous tone, but nevertheless my thoughts. how about not confessing, c.q. boasting, being an adulterous / promiscuous person with inter alia a personality that needs confirmation and recognition. I say : do not project your feeling of guilt on another person, especially not the one you hurt most. Just enjoy life ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Fat Controller Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 Certainly get a second HIV test as advised. Suggest also Chlamydia and Syphilis tests. No test for Herpes, just keep your fingers crossed on that one ! As for Genital Warts, keep a lookout for lumps and bumps. Good luck..... 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chicowoodduck Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 Hate to burst your bubble.....but......wait six months and get tested again....wait six months and get tested again......???? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarteso Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 “This is just my experience but I want to relay...... Stay loyal to your wife - don't have intercourse with bar girls... or ladyboys ???? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Baerboxer Posted November 14, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted November 14, 2018 16 hours ago, BritManToo said: Not everyone is daft enough to imagine they caught HIV from a single encounter with a woman who probably wasn't infected. It's his guilt complex kicking in - and the realization of what he'll loose if his wife finds out because he as a STD. He's so worried about HIV he's forgotten all those other juicy STD which many bar girls do have and do transmit. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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