Laotian woman who left baby in Pattaya "was not ready to be a mum"

[rooster59]

Laotian woman who left baby in Pattaya "was not ready to be a mum"

 

Image: Sanook

 

Sanook reported on the sad case of a woman who left her newborn baby boy in front of a house in South Pattaya on Tuesday. 

 

It turns out she is a 28 year old Laotian woman who said she was not ready to be a mother. 

 

Pattaya station chief Pol Col Apichai Krobpetch was announcing the arrest of Praphai Waengsaka.

 

Residents of a house in Soi 10 South Pattaya had seen her cradling a new born baby. She told them she was waiting for a friend. 

 

But some time after she left the newborn boy outside the house - and analysis of CCTV proved it. 

 

Police conducted a campaign through social media to try and find the mother and a member of the public reported seeing someone like her eating at a nearby restaurant. 

 

Police were sent and the woman was found to be the mother of the baby and on overstay. 

 

She admitted everything, reported Sanook. 

 

She said that she had come to Pattaya with her husband to work and was staying in a room in Soi Buakhao.

 

She gave birth to the boy in the room there. But she was not ready for motherhood and was unable to look after him so she left him outside the house. 

 

She has been charged with abandoning a child under the age of 9 (Article 306) and being on overstay and has been detained. 

 

The police have handed the child over to the temporary care of a children's home. 

 

Source: Sanook

 

 

-- © Copyright Thai Visa News 2018-12-01

[sammieuk1]

Not a great start to life for the little fella is it ????

[Phuketshrew]

and the husband is where?

[marko kok prong]

IF she was 18 i could understand this,but 28,perhaps it was not hubby's baby,that i think is a more plausible explanation.

[mikebell]

4 hours ago, Phuketshrew said:

and the husband is where?

If he was AWOL he would be Thai - they usually disappear with the onset of morning sickness.

[BritManToo]

12 minutes ago, mikebell said:

If he was AWOL he would be Thai - they usually disappear with the onset of morning sickness.

If you hate Thai's so much, why are you here?

As far as I can see Thai men have it right, and white men are mainly pussy worshipping fools.

 

But back on topic, a 28-year-old woman not ready to have babies?

What is wrong with modern women, they were designed to have babies from age 14 up.

Edited December 1, 2018 by BritManToo

[Small Joke]

Whatever else she was. She wasn't wrong.

[klauskunkel]

4 hours ago, rooster59 said:

a 28 year old Laotian woman who said she was not ready to be a mother

maybe, and I know it's a long shot, but just maybe she is now ready to insist on using condoms when having sex...

but then again, probably not

[Basil B]

16 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

If you hate Thai's so much, why are you here?

As far as I can see Thai men have it right, and white men are mainly pussy worshipping fools.

Sorry but know of many Thai women who have come to Pattaya because they were deserted by their husbands, recall one who owned a restaurant with her husband, a few days after telling her husband on returning from shopping found her husband had sold the restaurant and done a bunk... 

[lust]

She should be sterilized 

[hobobo]

5 hours ago, Phuketshrew said:

and the husband is where?

Probably not "ready to be a father" someplace...

[BritManToo]

13 minutes ago, hobobo said:

Probably not "ready to be a father" someplace...

She was a prostitute, her customers don't expect anything more.

[MaksimMislavsky]

1 hour ago, Basil B said:

Sorry but know of many Thai women who have come to Pattaya because they were deserted by their husbands

So they were saying...

[seajae]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

If you hate Thai's so much, why are you here?

As far as I can see Thai men have it right, and white men are mainly pussy worshipping fools.

 

But back on topic, a 28-year-old woman not ready to have babies?

What is wrong with modern women, they were designed to have babies from age 14 up.

sorry mate but its a fact that many thai men do a runner as soon as they find their gf/partners  are pregnant, happens all over the world but thai men are not called butterflies for nothing and it is why many thai women want a farang husband, they do not want a thai male because of what they are like.  As for this one if she was old enough to do the deed with no protection then she needs to accept the consequences, dumping the baby was not the way to go, there are other options. Problem is too many people have no conscience and just take care of themselves, happens a lot here.

[hansnl]

1 hour ago, mikebell said:

If he was AWOL he would be Thai - they usually disappear with the onset of morning sickness.

So do Lao, Pinoy, Khmer and Vietnam men 

[hansnl]

1 minute ago, MaksimMislavsky said:

So they were saying...

And most of them are probably telling the truth.

[seahorse]

1 hour ago, klauskunkel said:

maybe, and I know it's a long shot, but just maybe she is now ready to insist on using condoms when having sex...

but then again, probably not

Quote

If you use a condom every time you have sex, it has a 98% theoretical effectiveness rate of preventing pregnancy. Since people do make mistakes and do not use a condom properly, the effectiveness rate of condoms is around 82%.

• 18 out of 100 people will give pregnant each year if they use a condom (as the only birth control method)

Effectiveness of condoms

[Briggsy]

Not one post remarking on the fact that she has been stuck in prison.

 

I am not surprised by her detention but I wonder if it is appropriate. However in Thailand, as a poor female Laotian, she has zero rights in the judicial system.

[BritManToo]

57 minutes ago, seajae said:

sorry mate but its a fact that many thai men do a runner as soon as they find their gf/partners  are pregnant,

Probably because the gfs didn't ask first.

You're one of those guys that think women aren't responsible for any of the silly messes they deliberately cause.

Her body, her choice. Morning after pills are cheaper than condoms.

[seasia]

A truly  sad case.

 

She abandoned her baby, not good but did leave the baby outside a very busy area.

 

Did not harm the baby.

 

Yet she has been arrested and imprisoned.

 

What does that achieve for mother or child?

 

She needs help as does her baby, most  civilised  countries would provide that.

 

TIT

 

 

[Bill Miller]

Do you suppose a young Laotian woman might not know that the "Morning After" pill is readily available?
Mention of a husband does raise a number of questions.
I have known of Western women who have used the pregnancy gambit to try and ensure the guys stick around. 
Seems to be especially counter productive in many SE Asian countries. Not a sure thing in the West, for that matter.
When I was a lad my dad took me aside for a "talk", and an offer to purchase the necessaries if required. Not a universal program, obviously. 

 

[balo]

11 hours ago, seajae said:

sorry mate but its a fact that many thai men do a runner

Not only Thais , you could say the same about the other countries in SE-Asia.   I think her boyfriend also is Laotian. They came to Pattaya looking for work.  

This is just an example of how little value human life has in this region of Asia , caused by poverty and upbringing. 

 

Edited December 1, 2018 by balo

[BritManToo]

9 hours ago, Bill Miller said:

Do you suppose a young Laotian woman might not know that the "Morning After" pill is readily available?
Mention of a husband does raise a number of questions.

I suspect most of the 'beach road' girls have all the info they need on such things.

At 28 she's had a few years to learn from the other girls.

[mikebell]

16 hours ago, BritManToo said:

If you hate Thai's so much, why are you here?

As far as I can see Thai men have it right, and white men are mainly pussy worshipping fools.

I don't hate all Thais.  I married one & support an extended Thai family.  I can't understand anyone condoning abandoning a pregnant woman.  You're from Britain & our laws demand Child Support.  Thai ladies don't have that protection and are forced into catering for pussy-worshippers.

[BritManToo]

4 hours ago, mikebell said:

I can't understand anyone condoning abandoning a pregnant woman.

You do understand this woman is a beach road prostitute, where dad could be any one of two hundred customers?

 

Besides that,

How can feminism demand equality, yet deny any and all responsibility?

I'd love to come back to a new life as a woman, where my entire life is paid for by others, and nothing is ever my fault.

Edited December 2, 2018 by BritManToo

[happy chappie]

This happened to me 3 times when I was born.aparrently I was so butt ugly I was a shoebox baby left on someone's doorstep and within months I grew even uglier and ended up a fruit box baby left at the back of a long distance bus.then I grew even more ugly and was dumped in the back of a container box on a international cargo ship.i sort of got the hint I wasn't wanted by then.....joking aside me and the mrs was asked the other month if we wanted a baby for free.the young mother from Chiang rai has terminal cancer and I know that for sure but as I'm getting on a bit and feeding a village already I couldn't take one more in.i now do a roll call each morning to make sure they don't slip another in without me noticing.this poor little bugger ain't got off to a good start in life,all the best and I hope deep down he finds a good loving home.

[MaksimMislavsky]

22 hours ago, hansnl said:

And most of them are probably telling the truth.

Yeah, such probability cannot be ruled out, too

[Henrik Andersen]

On 12/1/2018 at 4:29 PM, BritManToo said:

On 12/1/2018 at 4:15 PM, hobobo said:

Probably not "ready to be a father" someplace...

She was a prostitute, her customers don't expect anything more

And how you came to that conclusion??? 

[Cereal]

On 12/1/2018 at 3:10 PM, BritManToo said:

If you hate Thai's so much, why are you here?

As far as I can see Thai men have it right, and white men are mainly pussy worshipping fools.

 

But back on topic, a 28-year-old woman not ready to have babies?

What is wrong with modern women, they were designed to have babies from age 14 up.

Are you speaking physiologically or psychologically? If the former, then yes. If the latter, then your argument falls into an abyss of a multitude of factors that supply enough debate material to keep things going for a long time. 

 

The use of the word modern seems odd as well. It implies that pre-modern women were somehow not designed to have babies from 14 and up.

[mikebell]

19 hours ago, BritManToo said:

You do understand this woman is a beach road prostitute,

Could you give me a link; I only read the original report that says she came to work here with her husband?