Getting married to Thai wife in a month: Need help to know if she is cheating. :(

[Spidey]

2 minutes ago, donim said:

By the way, which female, not working in parlors, has name Zen?

Which female working in parlours (?) HAS the name Zen. I've never met one.

[TonyClifton]

1 minute ago, mauGR1 said:

Is it only me that smells a troll here ?

You must have a refined sense of smell.  Most trolls these days practice better hygiene than in the old days.

[scorecard]

31 minutes ago, kannot said:

no, you  "think " you  have.

Maybe you have, but that's no reason to marry the lady.

 

But yes it would be polite to give them some clue, but not allow it to develop into a major long-term discussion with many chapters.

[action]

I certainly didn't read 9 pages of comments, but if it's okay to post a web link here, I find this site to be very useful.

www.thai2english.com 

 

[anon537687643]

There is always the chance this is a new year “send up” Some folk gotta lot of free time around this time !


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[mauGR1]

4 minutes ago, TonyClifton said:

You must have a refined sense of smell.  Most trolls these days practice better hygiene than in the old days.

I'll take that as a compliment, thank you very big .

.. But i'm quite surprised that similar posts pop up every week, although this one is somehow original with the "phasa Thai" thing..  i'd guess that google translate has been quite busy lately

[kannot]

22 minutes ago, simon43 said:

Don't post her details etc on FB - remember that Thailand has very strong defamation laws, even if you speak the truth!

if  he  never  comes  back i wouldnt  worry

[sanemax]

20 minutes ago, TonyClifton said:

What does it have to do with the man?  He's not going marry the OP.

His reaction should tell alot .

[sanemax]

4 minutes ago, markaoffy said:

There is always the chance this is a new year “send up” Some folk gotta lot of free time around this time !
 

If it is, its rather elaborate , if you open the link in the O.P. it has the original conversations going back months 

[Spidey]

1 minute ago, mauGR1 said:

I'll take that as a compliment, thank you very big .

.. But i'm quite surprised that similar posts pop up every week, although this one is somehow original with the "phasa Thai" thing..  i'd guess that google translate has been quite busy lately

Well Google Translate wouldn't cut it on this occasion. Contains some Thai slang words that most farangs who read and write Thai wouldn't get.

 

If it's a troll, bloody good effort, best troll I've ever seen.

[metempsychotic]

The fact you are seeking help here is pathetic

 

If you are even suspicious why would you consider marriage. 

 

You already know the tone of the rest of your lives together. 

[Spidey]

1 minute ago, metempsychotic said:

The fact you are seeking help here is pathetic

 

If you are even suspicious why would you consider marriage. 

 

You already know the tone of the rest of your lives together. 

Surprisingly, a lot of people do go down that road, even in the West.

 

My motto, "if in doubt, kick it out". Always served me well. Had 2 marriages, both great.

[rumak]

3 hours ago, mikehongpark said:

Thank you. I'm gonna have a hard time trusting women for awhile. It never pays to be a good person in life, I guess.

Trust them or not................ just don't throw your money at them .   Try getting in shape,  learning to be confident,  learning to go slow and just see how things go.  SO MANY OF YOU GUYS ARE JUST LAMBS GOING TO THE SLAUGHTER.   Being a good person has nothing to do with it.  Just stop being ...........god, i hate this word.....stupid.      Stop throwing your money around...... try attracting someone with something else . 

[NCC1701A]

3 hours ago, mikehongpark said:

Only spied after she went to Moscow on vacation and never saw her female friend that she supposed to be with.

Wait. Dude, are you saying your Thai girlfriend went to frickin' Moscow without you?

 

She sounds like a high rolling Thai call girl. I see them on Tinder all the time. I mean for research purposes only.

 

Is she super hot? Maybe picking up some extra cash on the side. I know many Thai girls who do this. South Korea is popular. 

 

[onera1961]

3 hours ago, mikehongpark said:

I felt that I needed to give the kids a complete package.

Not sure how old you're but you don't need a wife to have kids. I have kids with my Thai girl friend of fourteen years. What does it mean by complete package? You can live with her without getting married. I am not sure why marriage is so essentials. I have never felt the need for marriage and my girl friend always says "mai pan lai" as she never intends to go to the USA. If possible live with her on a modest income (don't brag about your incomes), have kids, and see how things pan out in the next few years. 

Edited January 4, 2019 by onera1961

[TonyClifton]

6 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

for research purposes only.

Care to share your research?

[tagalong]

Why buy a book when u can be in the library....????

[NCC1701A]

3 hours ago, mikehongpark said:

Thanks. She's already been throwing around the idea of buying her a Chanel purse.

Listen. Take the total amount of money you have spent on her and divide it by the number of times you have had sexual intercourse (any type) with her since you have know her. 

 

So money/sex equals X.

 

now, if the amount per sex act exceeds $300 USD then you have over paid. But if the amount is more like $60, then you are really coming out way ahead. I really think any amount under $200 and this is all a total non issue. 

 

Plus DON'T FORGET THIS! The sex you have had I am sure was super great because she was trying to nail you. So be happy. Go to Pattaya, Soi Six, Route 69 bar, ask for Tuktik. You will be fine.

 

 

[rumak]

Mike....for what its worth:   MY  gf read most of this (it is pretty rambling stuff)......  and in spite of how it sounds ( tee rak and all ).....  She says it kinda sounds like friends .   Hard to believe , but who the heck knows.

A LOT more background on her (AND YOU)  would be needed to know what's really going on.  Anyway, always a bad idea to get married if you have not been living here for those 4 years to know if she is legit or not.      So,  guess i would still have to say STUPID to get married or give money.   

 

[rumak]

5 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

Listen. Take the total amount of money you have spent on her and divide it by the number of times you have had sexual intercourse (any type) with her since you have know her. 

 

So money/sex equals X.

 

now, if the amount per sex act exceeds $300 USD then you have over paid. But if the amount is more like $60, then you are really coming out way ahead. I really think any amount under $200 and this is all a total non issue. 

 

Plus DON'T FORGET THIS! The sex you have had I am sure was super great because she was trying to nail you. So be happy. Go to Pattaya, Soi Six, Route 69 bar, ask for Tuktik. You will be fine.

 

 

He might just get the wrong Tuk Tuk........ might even be a he  

[theguyfromanotherforum]

4 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

now, if the amount per sex act exceeds $300 USD then you have over paid. But if the amount is more like $60, then you are really coming out way ahead. I really think any amount under $200 and this is all a total non issue. 

 

Sex after any woman gets boring after twice. If after 15 days he's been paying the same amount then he overpaid. Anyway it looks this was a long distance relationship and her not wanting to get married she was probably a virgin.

[NCC1701A]

3 minutes ago, rumak said:

He might just get the wrong Tuk Tuk........ might even be a he  

her name is Tuktik. She is famous.

[roo860]

Listen. Take the total amount of money you have spent on her and divide it by the number of times you have had sexual intercourse (any type) with her since you have know her. 

 

So money/sex equals X.

 

now, if the amount per sex act exceeds $300 USD then you have over paid. But if the amount is more like $60, then you are really coming out way ahead. I really think any amount under $200 and this is all a total non issue. 

 

Plus DON'T FORGET THIS! The sex you have had I am sure was super great because she was trying to nail you. So be happy. Go to Pattaya, Soi Six, Route 69 bar, ask for Tuktik. You will be fine.

 

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[roo860]

Listen. Take the total amount of money you have spent on her and divide it by the number of times you have had sexual intercourse (any type) with her since you have know her. 
 
So money/sex equals X.
 
now, if the amount per sex act exceeds $300 USD then you have over paid. But if the amount is more like $60, then you are really coming out way ahead. I really think any amount under $200 and this is all a total non issue. 
 
Plus DON'T FORGET THIS! The sex you have had I am sure was super great because she was trying to nail you. So be happy. Go to Pattaya, Soi Six, Route 69 bar, ask for Tuktik. You will be fine.
 
 

How dare you, that's my wife!!!!!

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[NCC1701A]

2 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

 

Sex after any woman gets boring after twice. If after 15 days he's been paying the same amount then he overpaid. Anyway it looks this was a long distance relationship and her not wanting to get married she was probably a virgin.

OK we can apply a sliding scale over time algorithm to the equation so of like inflation. 

[Spidey]

11 minutes ago, NCC1701A said:

Go to Pattaya, Soi Six, Route 69 bar, ask for Tuktik. You will be fine.

You are overpaying, Tuktik, $30 plus a couple of drinks to get her oiled up.

 

That's what everyone else pays. 555

[NCC1701A]

1 minute ago, roo860 said:

How dare you, that's my wife!!!!!

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I asked Tuktik to come live with me in Hua Hin, but she makes a minimum of $60,000 USD a year so no way I could match that.

[Spidey]

6 minutes ago, theguyfromanotherforum said:

Sex after any woman gets boring after twice.

Sorry to tell you this, but you're doing it all wrong. Try reading "Joy of Sex".

[NCC1701A]

1 minute ago, Spidey said:

You are overpaying, Tuktik, $30 plus a couple of drinks to get her oiled up.

 

That's what everyone else pays. 555

yes 1000 baht plus bar fine. totally worth it to buy her some drinks for the pre game show. 

[johnnycthedog]

4 hours ago, NanLaew said:

In the meantime, get even and bang her sister.

At  US$100,000 spent he'd need to do it 2,000 times to get his monies (spent) worth.

 

For the OP the best way to get over a lost love is in the arms of another beautiful asian girl.

Edited January 4, 2019 by johnnycthedog