AGITATORKEN Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 You might have a winner but you have to get her out of Thailand before she becomes seasoned. A lot of girls start out innocent and are actually forced into this life. Most of them love it and adapt well but others dont.There are poor people in a lot of Western countries too but they dont sell their little girls into prostitution. I sometimes wonder if these people should be considered human. Hello everyone, I hope you are all doing well and are having a lovely weekend. I have read many posts on this forum and decided to make a post myself asking for help. I have been Thailand 3 times however the 3rd time was a weird one. I met this girl who works in a bar, she is a waitress and gets guys to buy her lady drinks. It's a small bar in bangla road, phuket. She has been in phuket for about 23 days, which is true i think, as i have her original Facebook with her real name which was on ber ID and her FB confirms her story as well as her phone messages with people. I went through her phone with her consent ofcourse. Her English is about 2% it's so bad, we had to communicate with Google translate the whole time. I mean 23 days in phuket seemed a little more real now as she came from isaan where there is no english, i mean It could be true. True/Fake or not? She has only been with 2 guys in 23 days before me = 3 in total. She said she needed the money urgently and they paid her 6,000 baht for the night. She didn't want to talk about it, I think it upset her. True/Fake or not? I met her in a club. (Sugar club) we partied all night, I didn't buy her a drink, we then went to patong beach for a few hours and she stayed the night at my hotel but we didn't do anything and she didn't ask for money. I then spent the next 6 days with her, I paid her 5 days bar fine because 1 day she wasn't working so I didn't have to pay. The barfine was 1,000 baht a day. However when I left and came home she still didn't once ask for anything or ask for money or ask to come to my country or anything like that. Well she did say her mums tyre ripped but she didn't ask for money and I didn't send any. I came home and we spoke for a week before I got lucky and had to fly back out to phuket for work for a few days. We also spent these days together without me buying her anything only paying the bar fine. Just for confirmation I did pay for food which was once a day and travel which was mainly walking. I am now at home which is the UK and she still hasn't asked for any money. It's been 5 days now. The only time she asked for money was when I asked her to get a passport to come and visit me, she said she can't afford a passport yet and has to wait a few weeks before she can get one, so I decided to pay for her, she said it was 1,000 baht. The reason she couldn't afford it was because she just moved rooms when i asked her to go get the passport. I knew she moved rooms as we were talking about it, also she didn't ask for help when moving. She will provid me with the proof of the passport which should be newly registered and last 10 years. She did show me that it cost 1,000 baht. I mean she could have said 2/3/5,000 baht right? She tells me if she's going out at night and we FaceTime everyday/night even tho taking is really hard as she has no english. I am now taking thai lessons. So please help me, what do I do with this girl? Is she real or is this another thai lady trick that I haven't read about somewhere? Thanks for the help everyone.Sent from my SM-G965F using Thailand Forum - Thaivisa mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JaiLai Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 4 hours ago, NCC1701A said: you met a prostitute in a bar... how old is she? how old are you? that is literally what they all say. do you do this with other girls or something about this girl makes you feel insecure? sounds like she likes you and wants you to think she is a good girl. this is called the long play. don't forget 100 baht is a lot of money to a Thai. Sometimes just covering meals and bar fine plus having fun and drinks in a club is a lot of money. plus staying in air conditioned room. for what it is worth, just tonight I hooked up again with my friend who has a Farang boyfriend in the UK. She asks me to be quiet while they talk. She says "Thank you for understanding me." The is very common. she will. wait about 10 more days. this behavior is very common. it is up to you to see how you feel and don't go over budget. are you going to marry her? or just party when you are in country? just friends? of course she wants to marry you and not work in the bar anymore. then comes buying the house, car... "100 baht is a lot of money to a Thai" This is hilarious - maybe 30 years ago it was, certainly not now! 7 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Destiny1990 Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 Another way to spot fishy posts is if they are extremely long. I stopped reading half way true but personally i wosh u all the bezt and let us know when the wedding day is. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
worgeordie Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 4 hours ago, Jack19290 said: check her messages to see if she really did come 23 days ago to phuket. Maybe true,after 4 years in Pattaya. good luck you seem to have found a keeper,one that's not only looking for money.???? regards worgeordie 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 Another meal-ticket thread. Nothing to see here. Move along now. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NanLaew Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 29 minutes ago, AGITATORKEN said: There are poor people in a lot of Western countries too but they dont sell their little girls into prostitution. I sometimes wonder if these people should be considered human. They only do this in Thailand, then? Really? Who told you that (and how old were they)? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NanLaew Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 13 minutes ago, worgeordie said: Maybe true,after 4 years in Pattaya. good luck you seem to have found a keeper,one that's not only looking for money.???? regards worgeordie Here's another keeper. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kadilo Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 4 hours ago, Jack19290 said: Im a good dancer, I danced my way over to her and she is also a good dancer so we bounced off each other. Sounds like Grease 3 in the making. 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chou Anou Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 "She has only been with 2 guys in 23 days before me = 3 in total" hahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahha 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 5 hours ago, Jack19290 said: I never look at people's message I just wanted to see her phone and check her messages to see if she really did come 23 days ago to phuket. They usually have more that one phone, I knew one girl with 5 phones each with a different fb account, one for each foreign boyfriend and one legit for family and friends. I'm thinking you were shown the legit phone. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, JaiLai said: "100 baht is a lot of money to a Thai" This is hilarious - maybe 30 years ago it was, certainly not now! Not for a village girl from rural Issan. Average Thai household income is still only $3,200/year, which means 50% of households get less than that. Edited March 2, 2019 by BritManToo 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 1 hour ago, AGITATORKEN said: There are poor people in a lot of Western countries too but they dont sell their little girls into prostitution. I sometimes wonder if these people should be considered human. That's because of welfare. But it's becoming far more common in Spain and Greece these days, where there is less welfare. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Kadilo Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 You will get a mixed bag of posts. There will be those who have shacked up or even married ex bar girls who will tell you that it can work and she may be genuine because it makes them feel better, and there will the bitter and twisted ones who have tried and failed because bar girls are traditionally liars and cheats and they have been a victim of it. The novelty will will wear off for you soon if you’re not returning for 2 years. She certainly won’t hang around waiting for someone who isn’t sending her any money despite what she may say. My best guess is if she’s not a real looker and earning big dosh she will soon ask you to take care of her so she can return home. Whatever happens things won’t stay the same for long. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Kadilo said: There will be those who have shacked up or even married ex bar girls who will tell you that it can work It can work if you're there to watch her 24/7, but when she's not with you, she's with someone else. (And she needs to know all kids will be DNA tested) The bitter and twisted guys are the ones that trusted them. Edited March 2, 2019 by BritManToo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Spidey Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 9 minutes ago, BritManToo said: The bitter and twisted guys are the ones that trusted them. The bitter and twisted guys are the ones that screwed over a number of girls and the one screwed them back. More bar girls get screwed over by punters than punters do by bar girls. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 Just now, Spidey said: The bitter and twisted guys are the ones that screwed over a number of girls and the one screwed them back. More bar girls get screwed over by punters than punters do by bar girls. More white knight BS, the only way you can screw over a hooker is by not paying her. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JaiLai Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 29 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Not for a village girl from rural Issan. Average Thai household income is still only $3,200/year, which means 50% of households get less than that. Irrespective of the annual income, 100 baht is not a lot of money for anyone!! 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JaiLai Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 1 minute ago, BritManToo said: More white knight BS, the only way you can screw over a hooker is by not paying her. Are hookers the only females that you know? Thought you were some sort of stud? 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post swissie Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 Threads concering "Love and Hate" in connection with Thailand seem to create a lot of interest. At some point this discussion must come to an end. Once and for all. Our Grandfathers and Grandmothers in Europe married for money. Period! - In todays Thailand it's still the same. I humbly ask: How long does it take for elderly Farangs to comprehend that it is not the lenght of your hair nor the lenght of your Penis that qualifies you as a good provider. How long does it take for Farangs to understand this fundamental sociological concept, that has been in effect for the last tousand years in Thailand. Farangs are not prettier than the next door Thai-Bloke. But Farangs are better providors. AND THAT IS ALL THAT THERE IS TO IT. Philosophical attempts to reduce or elevate "Thai-Thingking" into an other dimention have failed miserably in the past. Like it or not. If it all get's too much, take 2 aspirins and call me in the morning. Or head for the Airport with a one-way ticket out. 10 years of memories of Thailand can be packed into an average sized suitcase. So I was told. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spidey Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 5 minutes ago, BritManToo said: More white knight BS, the only way you can screw over a hooker is by not paying her. As the OP did. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Spidey said: As the OP did. OP is just a TV shill, it never really happened. n00b, long detailed post, unbelievable story, been about 20 posts like this recently. Edited March 2, 2019 by BritManToo 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 (edited) 9 minutes ago, JaiLai said: Are hookers the only females that you know? They're the only females that will sleep with me. Pay or sleep alone, same as you. Edited March 2, 2019 by BritManToo 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Spidey Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 Just now, BritManToo said: OP is just a TV shill, it never really happened. You are probably right but I have a mate, in his 60s, who has done exactly the same on more than one occasion. Pulls a bar girl, promises her the earth, tells her he loves her, gets her playing the long game, persuades her to spend the night with him without payment, bar fine only, sometimes not even that. At the end of the holiday , he blanks them, does a runner and blocks their line when he gets home. A real player. There are plenty of them in Pattaya and Phuket. He's played that game in both. 5 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcusarelus Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 3 minutes ago, BritManToo said: They're the only females that will sleep with me. Pay or sleep alone, same as you. Don't forget grocery store girls. Pay but not hookers. GSG's* only accept money from the main/one and only man. *Grocery Store Girls. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Katia Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 You already trust her so little you ask to go through her phone, and you can't communicate except through Google Translate, you won't be back in the country and hence will be doing the long-distance thing for two years... yep, sounds like the ideal relationship to me! Now you're willing to pay for her passport so she can come visit you-- someone you've only known a few days and who, again, you don't trust and can't really talk to-- and, I assume, also her flight since if she can't afford a passport, she can't afford a plane ticket. The sex must be phenomenal. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BigT73 Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 7 minutes ago, BritManToo said: OP is just a TV shill, it never really happened. n00b, long detailed post, unbelievable story, been about 20 posts like this recently. Oath, no way my 24 year old son would write like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post marcusarelus Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 10 minutes ago, BritManToo said: OP is just a TV shill, it never really happened. n00b, long detailed post, unbelievable story, been about 20 posts like this recently. He is doing pretty good for only being a member for 7 hours. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swissie Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 8 minutes ago, Spidey said: You are probably right but I have a mate, in his 60s, who has done exactly the same on more than one occasion. Pulls a bar girl, promises her the earth, tells her he loves her, gets her playing the long game, persuades her to spend the night with him without payment, bar fine only, sometimes not even that. At the end of the holiday , he blanks them, does a runner and blocks their line when he gets home. A real player. There are plenty of them in Pattaya and Phuket. He's played that game in both. Not getting a lot of "repeat-business" I suppose. (Word travels fast), But there is always "Nakhon Nowhere" to start again. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spidey Posted March 2, 2019 Share Posted March 2, 2019 5 minutes ago, swissie said: Not getting a lot of "repeat-business" I suppose. (Word travels fast), But there is always "Nakhon Nowhere" to start again. Another urban myth. Word travels fast in a particular bar but not in a city. Hundreds of bars in both Phuket and Pattaya. How does word travel about a grey haired Englishman (no photos), first name ****? Plus, if that were the case, each girl would have literally hundreds of punters on her "no go" list. He travels here regularly and has never been blanked. Has another one on the hook as we speak. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post thaiguzzi Posted March 2, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 2, 2019 (edited) Only read the first page. I have never liked generalizations. I also never ever judge a book by its cover. Good and bad in everybody. You may have a marriage in hell from a shop dept worker, a mall or office worker and vise versa. You may have a marriage made in heaven from a dirty, sexy dancer in a go go bar and vise versa. Plenty of people in horrible relationships with "good educated girls from good backgrounds" and vise versa. Plenty of people in fantastic loving relationships with "bad girls from a piss poor background out in the sticks" and vise versa. Only you can decide. I certainly would'nt let a Thai centric forum with a lot of members bitter, twisted and been twice or thrice bitten, sway or influence my decision. You're a big boy now, you check it out. If it turns to shIt, you've learned a valuable lesson. If it works out well, you've hit the jackpot. Thank me later, regards, TG happily married to the mother of my only son for 14 years, known her 19 years, lived with her 16 years, ex best go go dancer i ever saw back in the day.... edit oh and my parents love her to bits. Edited March 2, 2019 by thaiguzzi 15 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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