Legal advice needed

[thaibuddy]

Hi,

I need a legal advice or ideas from you for a friend of mine who is in a miserable situation.

My friend lives in Bangkok and gets blackmailed by his ex gf. She had an abortion and she now asks for money regularly. If he does not pay she threatens him to report his name to the police. 

I would be grateful for any advice or idea which could help my friend to handle this dire situation.

thanks!

[Why Me]

Report you I mean him because she got an abortion. How does that work?

[neeray]

You should just move on, cut all connections, clean up your act and think about using birth control in the future.

[Puccini]

4 hours ago, thaibuddy said:

...If he does not pay she threatens him to report his name to the police...

Reporting his name to the police will have no consequence for your friend. Anyway, the immigration police already have his name on their records.

[Enki]

Abortion is legal in Thailand, no idea what she wants to report about. And no idea why you post on Thaivisa instead of simply using google.

[Vacuum]

7 hours ago, thaibuddy said:

My friend lives in Bangkok and gets blackmailed by his ex gf. She had an abortion and she now asks for money regularly.

Tell her to <deleted> off! Report her to the police for extorsion.  Ex girlfriend,  hahaha.

[CharlieH]

Assuming the female is of legal consenting age.

The event has happened, there is nothing now but move on.

If he cannot due to work or other commitment, he should just cease contact.

 

Not enough information here to comment effectively.

Seek qualified legal advice and give All the relevant information.

[scorecard]

Agree, move on, ignore, change apartments and phonen no and e-mail address, stop using old social media accounts (if any). 

 

When she calls don't answer the phone, if she used friends phone, just say bye bye and hang up.

 

If she continues 'I will call the police', say things like, 'do you need the police station number?', then hang up.

 

 

[FritsSikkink]

2 hours ago, scorecard said:

Agree, move on, ignore, change apartments and phonen no and e-mail address, stop using old social media accounts (if any). 

 

When she calls don't answer the phone, if she used friends phone, just say bye bye and hang up.

 

If she continues 'I will call the police', say things like, 'do you need the police station number?', then hang up.

 

 

Why run away, just tell her to go away.

[TooPoopedToPop]

Marry her asap.

It's the only way you will appease her.

Thai women are like hellcats when crossed. You can't fight them.

Do your duty... don't let the side down.

 

 

 

 

[JimmyJ]

On 1/30/2020 at 7:28 PM, TooPoopedToPop said:

Marry her asap.

It's the only way you will appease her.

Thai women are like hellcats when crossed. You can't fight them.

Do your duty... don't let the side down.

 

 

 

 

Agree. 

 

She's a keeper.

Put a ring on it. 

[Isaanbiker]

Tell her to go where the sun doesn't shine and make sure that she understands it. 

[Isaanbiker]

On 1/30/2020 at 11:35 AM, scorecard said:

Agree, move on, ignore, change apartments and phonen no and e-mail address, stop using old social media accounts (if any). 

 

When she calls don't answer the phone, if she used friends phone, just say bye bye and hang up.

 

If she continues 'I will call the police', say things like, 'do you need the police station number?', then hang up.

 

 

Why not blocking her on the torasap and deleting her on social media?

 

OP< not even Buddha knows who'd almost produced a child.

 

How should you know if you were the father. You do not seem to be the only guy in her life. Innit?

 

Block her, and delete her from your life. Why should you pay anything for nothing?

 

I'd have thought that you didn't make the abortion, a doctor did? 

 

Move on, life's too short for such idiotic behaviour.

 

Best of luck from lower northeast! 

Edited February 2, 2020 by Isaanbiker
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