1 hour ago, rumak said:

And isn't it amazing how these girls with a 3rd grade education can beat the heck out of all these

educated males that portray themselves as successful and worldly persons ?

 

quite amusing to watch,  at times  

 

Most western men vary between a 'bit soft' and 'complete walkovers'.

You've only got to look in the "She says she's pregnant threads".

 

2 hours ago, AlfHuy said:

As she often tells me: she knows many ladies 555 who are together with (especially) old germans, living in Germany and getting every months a minimum of 50,000 baht.

I told her, wowww, tell them to show some evidence. Sure they all live in villas, swimming pool, Porsche etc and a big cash allowance on top. 

Yeah but the fat old Germans are a bit shouty.

I'm guessing the poor girls have to endure a lot for the money.

2 hours ago, kingofthemountain said:

don't worry too much for her, as soon as she is sure

it's over with you, she will be in the search of another victim\provider

if she is young, attractive and with few talents in the bed, even with the

actual lack of foreigners she should be ok.

Dunno about that, there's a lot of unemployed gogo dancers out there to compete with at the moment.

5 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Yeah but the fat old Germans are a bit shouty.

I'm guessing the poor girls have to endure a lot for the money.

No pain no gain

7 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Dunno about that, there's a lot of unemployed gogo dancers out there to compete with at the moment.

True, at the moment the fight is fierce between the girls for the rare customers

however the most talented can still find their way if they are really motivated

the gogogirls were used to easy money, doing the starfish in bed doesn't work well now

Edited August 13, 20205 yr by kingofthemountain

If you decide to go down the I make the money road, and no more for you.

Please get a friend to let us know here on TV how it worked out.

12 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Most western men vary between a 'bit soft' and 'complete walkovers'.

You've only got to look in the "She says she's pregnant threads".

 

Its about being responsible for ones actions about caring about your off-spring , rather than just having the morality of a horny soi dog .

  Its about the consideration of other people, rather than just selfishly thing about yourself all the time .

I think they learn about relationships by watching Thai drama's. 

Enough said. 

3 hours ago, CorpusChristie said:

Its about being responsible for ones actions about caring about your off-spring , rather than just having the morality of a horny soi dog .

  Its about the consideration of other people, rather than just selfishly thing about yourself all the time .

 

haha no, it's about not being a manipulated, gullible, naive, etc. mug...

15 mins is a fairly long attention span for a Thai woman...

 

How well does she communicate?

 

She may be acting out due to frustration...

9 hours ago, AlfHuy said:

Girlfriend is not able to have a meaningful discussion. Concentration seems to last only 15 min.

Trying to explain something is useless.

What do you want to have a "meaningful discussion" about ? What do you want to explain to her ?

If you want to discuss getting your nails or hair done, buying a new pair of shoes, Ok maybe possible.

Beyond this there are very few topics that will interest her. She is female, females look at things from a different angle. Life's hard enough don't make it harder.

1 hour ago, samsensam said:

 

haha no, it's about not being a manipulated, gullible, naive, etc. mug...

I guess you are not a mutually loving relationship and have joined the bitter and twisted club ?

6 hours ago, kingofthemountain said:

doing the starfish in bed

translation ?

41 minutes ago, scammed said:

translation ?

She lays on her back waiting (and hoping) you come quick

she doesn't move or help in anyway and usually asks on a regular basis ''you finit?''

that's a ''starfish'', a very widespread model among the gogo girls

she is young and beautiful, it was you paid (A lot) for, in normal time

she does already tons of money only with ladydrinks, she thinks she

does you a favor to come with you in short time, then she doesn't

understand why she needs to do more than the minimum in the bed

 

Still few rares exceptions as usual

This situation is very dangerous.  I was in this same situation a few years back.  Exactly same progression of events.

 

99% of the time my ex girlfriend was delightful, interesting, charming, lovely, talkative.  But then out of nowhere something would cause her to go crazy.  Violently crazy.  And each time violence escalated.

 

I was talking to a buddy on skype one night and she woke up and went crazy and came after me with a giant knife.  Crazed, insane attack.  Luckily I got out ok.  3 security guards escorted her from building.

 

I am a retired professional, with advanced university degree and would never even consider hurting another person, let alone a woman.

 

I changed the locks, notified building security to not allow her entry, paid rent for her new room, and took a holiday away from Thailand.

 

Never saw her again.  Cancelled all contacts, phone numbers, line.

 

Words don't work.  Actions do.  Talking just seems to infuriate them.

 

Please stay safe and good luck.

7 hours ago, samsensam said:

 

haha no, it's about not being a manipulated, gullible, naive, etc. mug...

Agreed, complete Sap

Edited August 13, 20205 yr by Kadilo

Maybe she is unhappy, maybe time for both of you to change partner

6 hours ago, Kadilo said:

Agreed, complete Sap

Yeah, a complete sap because I havent got a crazed short tempered abusive ex prostitute as a wife ????

13 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Maybe she is unhappy, maybe time for both of you to change partner

I'm one to leave as soon as i am unhappy after trying two or three times to fix issues

I also leave if they are unhappy after trying as well.

 

rather have them being happy with someone else than unhappy with me.

On 8/13/2020 at 7:24 PM, northsouthdevide said:

I think they learn about relationships by watching Thai drama's. 

Enough said. 

Wait until they start watching EastEnders. Then spice your life up  little bit more by moving next to farm storing ammonium nitrate.

On 8/14/2020 at 4:53 AM, Mark Nothing said:

This situation is very dangerous.  I was in this same situation a few years back.  Exactly same progression of events.

 

99% of the time my ex girlfriend was delightful, interesting, charming, lovely, talkative.  But then out of nowhere something would cause her to go crazy.  Violently crazy.  And each time violence escalated.

 

I was talking to a buddy on skype one night and she woke up and went crazy and came after me with a giant knife.  Crazed, insane attack.  Luckily I got out ok.  3 security guards escorted her from building.

 

I am a retired professional, with advanced university degree and would never even consider hurting another person, let alone a woman.

 

I changed the locks, notified building security to not allow her entry, paid rent for her new room, and took a holiday away from Thailand.

 

Never saw her again.  Cancelled all contacts, phone numbers, line.

 

Words don't work.  Actions do.  Talking just seems to infuriate them.

 

Please stay safe and good luck.

Great story.  Similar events  happened to me too.  To fix the violence, I left Thailand and traveled in SE Asia, completely disappeared off the grid.  Deleted all media accounts. Stayed single for a few months, then dated asian women in other countries to see if this was normal.  Eventually I returned but with a better and safer reset/outlook.  It was the BEST decision I made.  Unless you feel you like or deserve to be abused, Leave immediately.  

After having not spoken a word for the last 5 days, we sat finally down and had a quiet discussion (finally).

Before even starting, I told her that in case the shouting or screaming starts, conversations stops immediately.

To my surprise it was very quiet.

We both decided that we are not happy and best solution is, to separate.

Obviously, for me is easier as the apartment is in my name (lease).

I told her to get back on her feet and I would support her a few months with her bills as work is very bad for the moment.

I am happy that a mature discussion took place and parting as "friends".

7 minutes ago, AlfHuy said:

I told her to get back on her feet and I would support her a few months with her bills as work is very bad for the moment.

She was only ever with you for the money, so now she gets the money and doesn't have to put up with you ...... sounds perfect for her. The day they stop banging me, is the day they stop getting paid.

Edited August 17, 20205 yr by BritManToo

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

She was only ever with you for the money, so now she gets the money and doesn't have to put up with you ...... sounds perfect for her. The day they stop banging me, is the day they stop getting paid.

not really.

I will pay for her room (5k) a few months and that's it. She didn't ask for it, it was my decision.

I am happy it turned out like that.

1 hour ago, AlfHuy said:

We both decided that we are not happy and best solution is, to separate.

always the best solution, even if one person is unhappy .. usually as long as you tried to fix it (if you care to)

great to hear it's sorted. might be sad for a bit but definitely best choice

On 8/13/2020 at 11:03 AM, Oldie said:

If the concentration lasts 15 minutes you have achieved a lot. Normally they don't listen at all. 

I'm sure she'd concentrate for longer than 15 mins if you talked about giving her money or taking her shopping.