Younger. Always younger. 

Some guys like me, simply prefer younger women. Not kids, but women who are 5, 10, 15, even 20 or 25 years younger than us. For a dozen very valid reasons. I could break them down, but why bother? The PC crew will jump on this and say it is not right. You should not be able to have this kind of life, without jumping over ridiculous hurdles! Means nothing to me. I do not do PC.

 

The other wonderful aspect of a younger woman, is her open mind. Alot of women here, who are over 40, tend to be highly conventional and conservative, stubborn and strong willed, and NOT open minded. Not open to spontaneous ideas, or changing the routine. They have done it their own way for so long, and it works for them. Why would you even hope any of that rigidity would change now? 

 

Why be with a woman our age, if we do not need to? Nothing wrong with it, if it works for you. But It is virtually impossible for a 60 year old man in the US, to hook up with a 35 year old woman, unless she is very fat or very ugly, or he is a centimillionaire, or is famous. Period. It just does not happen in this day and age.

 

Here it is possible. Granted he will likely get with a woman of lesser means, who wants a guy who can provide some financial stability. So what? Who cares? Most women want financial stability anywhere in the world, whether they admit it or not. The difference is here the women are more honest about their financial needs and desires. I know a lot of men who have engaged in relationships with lovely, kind, supportive, intelligent, humorous, and sexy women here, who are no longer lonely. We have very good lives. Fulfilling lives. Lives we could never dream of having back in the US, Oz, NZ, UK, Canada, or Scandinavia.

 

Granted, even though my wife is very smart, I do not get much intellectual stimulation from the relationship. But, I get so much else. And in all of the relationships I was ever in with really smart women, who I got intellectual stimulation from, there was also so much grief to contend with. Such combative women. So much competition. Always a debate. Yikes. Thrilled to have left all of that behind.

 

When I was only in this relationship with my wife, for a year, I had dinner with a very sharp American friend. I asked him about that. Told him I was concerned. I needed more intellectual conversation. He laughed. He said, when you feel the need for intellectual stimulation, call me. We can hook up for the meal, and break down the origins of the cosmos., our species, fusion energy, or philosophy. Do not fret. That same brain that gives you that stimulation, also tends to give you so much grief, it is not worth it, on any level. Get over it. Enjoy all of the other qualities, that make your day so delightful and fulfilling. Great advice, that I have followed to this day. And so many years later, she is still utterly delightful, on a daily basis. Never had that in the West, nor with a woman my age. 
 

6 hours ago, Leaver said:

 

Will she tell me her buffalo is sick?  ????

No buffalo's, she breed horses.