Married man suffers years of abuse from crazed stalker after 'Thai cupid' dating site fling

[cocoonclub]

4 hours ago, Dmaxdan said:

Yes, she is clearly a complete fruit cake, but the husband is also partly to blame for joining the dating site in the first place.

There is no mention of how much encouragement he gave her before she realized he was not for real and subsequently lost the plot.

In the actual article, it mention he'd previously had a filipino lover so clearly he is no angel.

 

 

4 hours ago, starky said:

Partly to blame? She was single he was married he frequently met up with her and offered to facilitate a partner visa . And if you can believe the Mirror as a reputable source they were together a number of years before he decided to break it off and had been with hookers from other countries.  So I'm gonna call more than partly on this one.

None of that would give anyone the right to stalk, harass and even blackmail someone using photoshopped nude photos of their daughter sent to her school. It‘s his right to end the relationship, and she doesn’t have any right to anything whatsoever, legally and, for most people, morally as well. 
 

If anything, you may call him a fool for trusting some Thai chick from some dating website with too much personal information. 
 

 

[cocoonclub]

3 hours ago, DerbyDan said:

 

The reason I never did the Facebook thing. Deleted it years ago. Your whole family is there. It's just asking for trouble.

The 7 years I‘m living in Thailand, I’ve been fooling around a lot while I was single. A different girl every other day, often using Tinder and other platforms in addition to hitting restaurants and clubs. I’m actually surprised how few psychos I met given all these horror stories. I must say that the vast majorities of girls I met were actually pretty nice. Nothing I would have ever considered girlfriend material given their financial and social status, but all of them decent people who were always fun to hangout with and who never seemed to be up to anything bad. 
 

I think I had 1-2 psychos, of which one actually managed to find both my Facebook and Instagram and kept creating new profiles to bomb me and my family and some friends with messages. It went on for many months and her messages kept getting increasingly harassing and threatening. In the end, simply ignoring it worked and she just disappeared. 

The funny thing is that when I show her photo to friends everyone says that she looks like a psycho. 

 

When I first arrived here, I briefly hooked up with a doctor (a gynecologist actually) from one of the Hospitals here who kept warning me about this type of Thai girls and who told me how they would have Thai guys with their cut off dicks in a plastic bag showing up at the hospital.  

[DerbyDan]

25 minutes ago, cocoonclub said:

The 7 years I‘m living in Thailand, I’ve been fooling around a lot while I was single. A different girl every other day, often using Tinder and other platforms in addition to hitting restaurants and clubs. I’m actually surprised how few psychos I met given all these horror stories. I must say that the vast majorities of girls I met were actually pretty nice. Nothing I would have ever considered girlfriend material given their financial and social status, but all of them decent people who were always fun to hangout with and who never seemed to be up to anything bad. 
 

I think I had 1-2 psychos, of which one actually managed to find both my Facebook and Instagram and kept creating new profiles to bomb me and my family and some friends with messages. It went on for many months and her messages kept getting increasingly harassing and threatening. In the end, simply ignoring it worked and she just disappeared. 

The funny thing is that when I show her photo to friends everyone says that she looks like a psycho. 

 

When I first arrived here, I briefly hooked up with a doctor (a gynecologist actually) from one of the Hospitals here who kept warning me about this type of Thai girls and who told me how they would have Thai guys with their cut off dicks in a plastic bag showing up at the hospital.  

 

You could write a whole book on meeting women in bars and clubs.

[cocoonclub]

Just now, DerbyDan said:

 

You could write a whole book on meeting women in bars and clubs.

Definitely. When I tell my friends back home some of the stories I (or others) experience here, they can hardly believe it. Good times. 

[P Funk]

5 hours ago, Wiggy said:

She looks like a nutter. 

Yeah, but nutters are usually great in bed...the problem is keeping them there.

[starky]

1 hour ago, cocoonclub said:

 

None of that would give anyone the right to stalk, harass and even blackmail someone using photoshopped nude photos of their daughter sent to her school. It‘s his right to end the relationship, and she doesn’t have any right to anything whatsoever, legally and, for most people, morally as well. 
 

If anything, you may call him a fool for trusting some Thai chick from some dating website with too much personal information. 
 

 

So if you quoted me twice you probably would have seen where I said in no way would I condone that fruit loops actions or do you prefer to just cherry pick the bits that suit your response?

[klauskunkel]

Note:

She is identified with her full name (Thanyaras Siriphanuruk) by the Daily Mail UK without having been convicted yet. However, the plaintiff enjoys full anonymity (Australian man, Padbury man) by the same publication.

[brucegoniners]

No shock. Some of these broads are nuts. I remember when I was single and out on a date. My date and I came back to my hotel room and this other chick I had seen once and banged shows up and is waiting by my door. I told her to get the <deleted> out. She was screaming at my date and I. She kept contacting me. Her name was Noi (I'll never forget). I called her "annoy"...

[cocoonclub]

1 hour ago, starky said:

So if you quoted me twice you probably would have seen where I said in no way would I condone that fruit loops actions or do you prefer to just cherry pick the bits that suit your response?

Didn’t you write he’s more than partly to blame? “Partly to blame? (...)  I'm gonna call more than partly on this one.”

[cocoonclub]

1 minute ago, brucegoniners said:

this other chick I had seen once and banged shows up and is waiting by my door.

Classic. Happened to me with the chick I mentioned in my post earlier. 

[hotchilli]

8 hours ago, ThailandRyan said:

Unfortunately when you stray you pay one way or another.  Feelings aside he was in it for sex she was in it for what she thought was love and security.  However, they both are a little nuts if you ask me.  He obviously shared all of his personal info with her when he got cold feet and cut it off.  

That was a bit dramatic?

[LukKrueng]

A bit strange. How did she have the wife's contact details? And the kid's school? The contacts of all those people at school? How did she know about the filipina ex?

From the op "they often met between Perth and Singapore". Did he arranged a tourist visa for her to visit him? And why Singapore and not Thailand?  

[katana]

7 hours ago, klauskunkel said:

Note:

She is identified with her full name (Thanyaras Siriphanuruk) by the Daily Mail UK without having been convicted yet. However, the plaintiff enjoys full anonymity (Australian man, Padbury man) by the same publication.

From the article, she has been found guilty and will be sentenced on May 20th.

[DBath]

She makes Lorena Bobbitt seem tame. 

[Natai Beach]

So now TVForum is sourcing its Thailand news from the Australian version of the highly esteemed UK Daily Mail? 
What next? New Idea?

[ThailandRyan]

8 minutes ago, Sticky Rice Balls said:

I too have had this happen..she texted saying she was coming over after I threw her out days before---makes sense about key cards and security guards in LOS..

Scenario has played out in my experience as well.  Had one, when I was in Phuket, show up two days after a date with her bags all packed and ready to move in.  Had to call the unit manager to have her removed from the corridor.  Shortly thereafter I moved locations and changed my rented motorbike out as she was still trying to follow me.  Stayed away from the location I had met her at for quite some time after that....argh

[Berkshire]

18 hours ago, P Funk said:

Yeah, but nutters are usually great in bed...the problem is keeping them there.

No, the problem is getting them to leave right after....555