Popular Post Jajazazajaja Posted May 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 13, 2021 Sorry if this is an odd question. My teeruk is coming down to BKK to stay with me, as she’s worried about me staying alone. im just trying to think of stuff to do so we don’t drive each other mad. Normally I go on 2-3 hour walks of an evening, but she’s a Thai girl, so obviously isn’t going to do that. what can we do besides kitchen and bedroom? again, sorry if this is a silly question 2 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Maha Sarakham Posted May 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 13, 2021 You know her better than we do. What does she enjoy doing? Is she a Facebook zombie? If she enjoys cooking, generally eating and then planning the next meal is of critical importance to a Thai woman. Go out in the evenings to shop for the things you need to cook that days meals. Maybe introduce her to your hobbies and see if she has any interest in the things you do, if not just find some common ground or make going to Lumpini Park to exercise a thing. P.S. She is probably worried you're staying alone so that you don't find another woman ???? 3 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jajazazajaja Posted May 13, 2021 Author Share Posted May 13, 2021 53 minutes ago, Maha Sarakham said: You know her better than we do. What does she enjoy doing? Is she a Facebook zombie? If she enjoys cooking, generally eating and then planning the next meal is of critical importance to a Thai woman. Go out in the evenings to shop for the things you need to cook that days meals. Maybe introduce her to your hobbies and see if she has any interest in the things you do, if not just find some common ground or make going to Lumpini Park to exercise a thing. P.S. She is probably worried you're staying alone so that you don't find another woman ???? The parks are all closed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maha Sarakham Posted May 13, 2021 Share Posted May 13, 2021 Just now, Jajazazajaja said: The parks are all closed. They'll eventually reopen, how long will she be staying with you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post OneMoreFarang Posted May 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 13, 2021 1 hour ago, Jajazazajaja said: Normally I go on 2-3 hour walks of an evening, but she’s a Thai girl, so obviously isn’t going to do that. Get a motorcycle and ride around with her. You still get out but she doesn't have to walk for hours. Win/win. 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simple Jack Posted May 13, 2021 Share Posted May 13, 2021 Not a bad idea ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jajazazajaja Posted May 13, 2021 Author Share Posted May 13, 2021 I’ve probably phrased the question wrong we have both recognized that in our relationship in the past, we wasted time not doing a great deal and that maybe we should do do “things” we talked about volunteering at an orphanage, but they dont allow people in during the lockdown. Maybe we can help handing out food somewhere I’ve got a dodgy volunteer visa, I might as well earn my keep Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Johnny Mac Posted May 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 13, 2021 3 hours ago, Maha Sarakham said: If she enjoys cooking, generally eating and then planning the next meal is of critical importance to a Thai woman. Oh dear. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Maha Sarakham Posted May 13, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 13, 2021 1 minute ago, Johnny Mac said: Oh dear. If you have ever had a Thai girlfriend or wife you would know how important food is to them. Halfway through their 4th meal of the day they are already planning the 5th and 6th. It's pretty impressive. 5 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Airalee Posted May 13, 2021 Share Posted May 13, 2021 We are all in the same boat. Not much to do these days in the way of outside entertainment/activities. Watch ‘Breaking Bad’ with her. My (ex) girlfriend loved it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tonray Posted May 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 14, 2021 Sit her in front of Netflix and then go out and enjoy yourself for 6 hours or so. When you return she won't even realize you'd been gone. 3 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KannikaP Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 10 hours ago, Maha Sarakham said: Go out in the evenings to shop for the things you need to cook that days meals. And for the next 5 1/2 hours??? LOL 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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1FinickyOne Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 9 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: Get a motorcycle and ride around with her. You still get out but she doesn't have to walk for hours. Win/win. last I heard sitting in traffic jams is an acquired taste and on a motocyy, bad for your health... op - when living in Bkk many years ago - we used to mostly go our own way then meet for an afternoon movie or dinner and whatever friends we were hanging with could come too... or not... we did well with spaces in our togetherness... and 20 years later, we do the same.. just out of Bkk... marriage is nice - freedom is nice... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OneMoreFarang Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 2 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said: 9 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said: Get a motorcycle and ride around with her. You still get out but she doesn't have to walk for hours. Win/win. last I heard sitting in traffic jams is an acquired taste and on a motocyy, bad for your health... With a decent motorcycle there is not much traffic jam. And with decent I mean a bike which is small enough to maneuver between the cars. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Mac Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 7 hours ago, Maha Sarakham said: If you have ever had a Thai girlfriend or wife you would know how important food is to them. Halfway through their 4th meal of the day they are already planning the 5th and 6th. It's pretty impressive. Yea, yea. Any other cliches? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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1FinickyOne Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 9 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said: With a decent motorcycle there is not much traffic jam. And with decent I mean a bike which is small enough to maneuver between the cars. and thankfully there is so much traffic that the cars can't change lanes w/o looking or drive erratically... but then visiting the hospital is something to do together... of course it is more expensive than a movie. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kynikoi Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 (edited) 9 hours ago, Jajazazajaja said: I’ve probably phrased the question wrong we have both recognized that in our relationship in the past, we wasted time not doing a great deal and that maybe we should do do “things” we talked about volunteering at an orphanage, but they dont allow people in during the lockdown. Maybe we can help handing out food somewhere I’ve got a dodgy volunteer visa, I might as well earn my keep You need an activity that you both enjoy doing that will carry the relationship forward. Hiking, bowling, golfing, kayaking, baking, running, gardening, traveling, diving, camping. Touring Thailand and neighboing countries to see all the best temples. Teach her a skill of some sort. You shouldn't ask a poor person to give their time to other poor people. She should elect to do it of her own Accord and would voluntarily do it without you. Volunteering will be problematic for you. For myself motorcycling around Bangkok, going to 'parks' bad ideas. She'll hate it. Hot, sticky, dangerous, unfun. Start off by going to the movies if open. You can make that a fun activity by visiting what's left of the old movie houses like Scala (which I think closed now). Edited May 14, 2021 by kynikoi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 Just now, kynikoi said: Hiking, bowling, golfing, kayaking, baking, running, gardening, traveling, diving, camping. Touring Thailand and neighboing countries to see all the best temples. Almost all prohibited during COVID. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post kynikoi Posted May 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 14, 2021 Just now, BritManToo said: Almost all prohibited during COVID. Just saying. The basis of healthy relationships. She really shouldn't be coming to Bangkok the epicenter of covid. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tonray Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 30 minutes ago, Johnny Mac said: Yea, yea. Any other cliches? Walking back to the car from lunch...GF bought roast duck and noodles.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Mac Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 (edited) 40 minutes ago, tonray said: Walking back to the car from lunch...GF bought roast duck and noodles.... Noooo, really?! I also sometimes buy stuff for dinner when out for lunch. I need to check my birth certificate! Edited May 14, 2021 by Johnny Mac 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rampant Rabbit Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 (edited) 13 hours ago, Jajazazajaja said: My teeruk is coming down to BKK to stay with me, as she’s worried about me staying alone. My Wife told me this tripe, I told her to stay where she was , I wasn't lonely in any way, she's a walking untidy nightmare when she comes so I prefer it if she stays in the condo I bought for her in Bangkok???? meanwhile I stay far from the madding crowd. Edited May 14, 2021 by Rampant Rabbit 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NCC1701A Posted May 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 14, 2021 (edited) 13 hours ago, Jajazazajaja said: what can we do besides kitchen and bedroom? Have you tried all the positions of the Kama Sutra? https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2385370/Kama-Sutra-app-lets-insatiable-couple-try-400-sexual-positions.html Edited May 14, 2021 by NCC1701A 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post clivebaxter Posted May 14, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted May 14, 2021 All they need is piles of food and the internet, and a bed to lie in most of the day. They don't want to do much at all 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 2 hours ago, Johnny Mac said: Yea, yea. Any other cliches? ok.. one of my favorites... a washed pot never boils... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Johnny Mac Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, clivebaxter said: All they need is piles of food and the internet, and a bed to lie in most of the day. They don't want to do much at all So the same as most farangs then? Like all year round hot countries, the motivation to do much isn't there as it's too damned hot. It's not a normal way to live. Far from it in fact. Edited May 14, 2021 by Johnny Mac Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Heng Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 You can catch the tail end of the ski season in Colorado. I think Winter Park and Breckenridge are still open. Just a quick 22 hour hop (couple hops) on United. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
madmen Posted May 14, 2021 Share Posted May 14, 2021 Candy crush for her, that should give you a 10 hour window. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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