CrunchWrapSupreme Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 In many places in America, you can face charges for just looking at a woman the wrong way. My first time in a certain BKK bar, I was making out and groping within minutes. Amazing Thailand! But yeah, your mileage between the professionals and regular Thai women may vary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CharlieH Posted June 20, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 20, 2022 There is a BIG difference in making love and having sex. Many are having sex and "letting you" relieve yourself so to speak, a kind of duty or expectation being forfilled. Those that are lucky enough to enjoy the real love making will surely know the difference anc all that it entails. That is something that generally you both grow together in, as you learn and share each other over time. To me, if a Thai girl immediately jumps to mouth to mouth, deep tongue diving etc, my question would be, where and who taught you that ! because it isnt a Thai way generally, and is a strong indication of a western history of contact. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 1 hour ago, kingstonkid said: I was hoping to get answers from some of the guys here that are married to Thai ladies As to wham bam thank lyou mam I am older so the engine needs to get revved up before starting Both of my wives, that's the ex- and the current one, are mad, passionate kissers. But enough about my problems. Somewhere I read that hookers aren't big on kissing either? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NanLaew Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 22 minutes ago, CharlieH said: To me, if a Thai girl immediately jumps to mouth to mouth, deep tongue diving etc, my question would be, where and who taught you that ! because it isnt a Thai way generally, and is a strong indication of a western history of contact. Good grief. Seriously? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RafPinto Posted June 20, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 20, 2022 Just waiting for a reply from our dear member who got his "back door" kissed in a massage shop in CM. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 (edited) Two words Pla Ra Some few Thai women I met have been good kissers, most not so good, and a few not interested in kissing. Seems to me the culture of long foreplays have not been cultivated, and they do not have space to practice foreplays because middle class and poorer, the whole family live together and sleep together often in same room, and have limited space for private life. Could be the answer Edited June 20, 2022 by Hummin 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingstonkid Posted June 20, 2022 Author Share Posted June 20, 2022 1 hour ago, Hummin said: Two words Pla Ra Some few Thai women I met have been good kissers, most not so good, and a few not interested in kissing. Seems to me the culture of long foreplays have not been cultivated, and they do not have space to practice foreplays because middle class and poorer, the whole family live together and sleep together often in same room, and have limited space for private life. Could be the answer Thanks Hummin I was wondering aobut that. Makes sort ofsense in t his case I guess As others have stated the strange part of th is isthat they lick and play with the 3rd leg but have no interest in passion or love. Guess the best case is to just keep looking and testing the market that i n itself is not a bad thing lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 (edited) 4 minutes ago, kingstonkid said: Thanks Hummin I was wondering aobut that. Makes sort ofsense in t his case I guess As others have stated the strange part of th is isthat they lick and play with the 3rd leg but have no interest in passion or love. Guess the best case is to just keep looking and testing the market that i n itself is not a bad thing lol Girls and women being teached that playing with the thing, is the way to the western mans hearth, next on the list is food and beer. Edited June 20, 2022 by Hummin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FritsSikkink Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 7 hours ago, BritManToo said: Why bother when you can bang them straight away. Kissing is just wasting time. Not everybody bangs hookers, other woman have different standards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Denim Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 (edited) 5 hours ago, Berkshire said: Hmmm....I've been with many Thai women and nearly all were happy to engage in passionate kissing and foreplay. Not sure what the OP is doing wrong. My advice is don't ask, just do it. Same here. Maybe not with a pay for play girl as kissing is viewed as something done in a serious loving relationship not to any John that was a stranger 5 minutes ago. My wife loves kissing. More than me in fact. If deep inside a girl doesn't like you that much more likely to avoid long kisses. Oral sex no problem ....exchanging saliva ...........pass. When I first arrived here even muff diving and BJ's were a bit taboo so the OP should count his blessings . Edited June 20, 2022 by Denim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 Sticking a 20Baht note to your forehead is usually adequate stimulation for most interactions with a Thai lady. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChaiyaTH Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 (edited) From my experience it is girls who are in it for other reasons than love, usually always avoid kissing, unless perhaps very drunk already. That does not mean they can't do the vacuum suction kissing below the waste though. Then in terms of Thai women who date for love, I always had passionate kissers. So I guess it is the OP being the issue with the girls he dated or met so far, and/or their intentions. Edited June 20, 2022 by ChaiyaTH Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 8 hours ago, BritManToo said: Why bother when you can bang them straight away. Kissing is just wasting time. You old romantic, you. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 8 minutes ago, ChaiyaTH said: From my experience it is girls who are in it for other reasons than love, usually always avoid kissing, unless perhaps very drunk already. That does not mean they can't do the vacuum suction kissing below the waste though. Then in terms of Thai women who date for love, I always had passionate kissers. So I guess it is the OP being the issue with the girls he dated or met so far, and/or their intentions. Could be opposite and it didn't strike you for one second ???? A pro know what it takes to get what she wants, so the the intention of the kisser or no kisser is still unknown ???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChaiyaTH Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 1 minute ago, Hummin said: Could be opposite and it didn't strike you for one second ???? A pro know what it takes to get what she wants, so the the intention of the kisser or no kisser is still unknown ???? There are always exceptions, and a pro would indeed not behave as a casual bar girl for money. However, if you can't notice those red flags along the line, you are lost to begin with already hehe. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lacessit Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 IMO Thai women are no different to any other nationality in being different individually. Some enjoy kissing, some enjoy foreplay, some get straight down to business. It depends on how horny they are. Back in the day, I remember fondly one woman in Chiang Mai who could orgasm with zero involvement of my todger. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 8 hours ago, sqwakvfr said: I am trying to understand Thai women This may take a long time. Reality is that many Thais (F and M) are convinced that human saliva is quite dirty, full of diseases, contagious diseases and germs, and therefore to be seriously avoided. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted June 20, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 20, 2022 Just now, scorecard said: Reality is that many Thais (F and M) are convinced that human saliva is quite dirty, full of diseases, contagious diseases and germs, and therefore to be seriously avoided. I definitely avoid any areas that might taste of somtam or pla ra. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DrPhibes Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 6 hours ago, Excel said: Well in that case forget the kissing and get her to use her lips in others ways, to get you revved up for action as you put it. Just don't overdue the throttle though on the high performance models as you can experience blow back ???? I actually prefer your standard 4 on the floor sleek petite model, gets good mileage per compliment, quality head gasket, almost flush headlights, and purring motor on regular ethanol mix fuel (no large guzzlers). Of course, I always first check under the hood for a modified tranny as those can be a pain to deal with, require extra lube service, and can lead to a thrown rod. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sqwakvfr Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 39 minutes ago, scorecard said: Reality is that many Thais (F and M) are convinced that human saliva is quite dirty, full of diseases, contagious diseases and germs, and therefore to be seriously avoided. The human mouth is a filthy place. I once arrested a woman who bit her husband. She went to jail and the husband had to spend the night in the hospital. I thought the ER doctor was kidding when he said "it might be better to be bitten by a dog". Ah, memories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sanuk711 Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 7 hours ago, kingstonkid said: LOL I keep having this dream that people can talk sensibly on here but it never happens We have been having the same sorts of dream's about the posters............ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post sqwakvfr Posted June 20, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 20, 2022 I have been living fulltime in LOS for almost 7 years and have given up on trying to understand Thai woman. When I first arrived my apartment complex had three woman and a ladyboy in the office. The ladyboy was the most beautiful. very friendly and most attentive. The three women in the office could care less when I went to the office. But the Ladyboy always greeted me with a smile and was always attentive. I thought this was different but based upon my experience if you want affection and passion the last place to look might be a Thai woman. Every Thai woman, no matter the age, that I have dated never expressed any kind of warmth or affection. Even when we were alone. Thai people generally do not express affection in public but I thought it would be different in private. But I was wrong. The Thai women i have dated are pleasant, polite but "there was no fire". I have learned not to expect western style affection or passion from a Thai woman. The only really passion I have felt from a Thai woman has been anger. This is my experience only and for others it will be different. What do I know? I'm just another old dude living in LOS who still can't understand Thai People(especially the women). I just try and get along with everyone(sometimes I fail but mostly I get along just fine). 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor Tom Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 9 hours ago, habuspasha said: This response actually supports the OP's observation: Thai women (right or "wrong") do not generally kiss or engage in foreplay. that has not been my experience. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BritManToo Posted June 20, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted June 20, 2022 8 minutes ago, sqwakvfr said: Every Thai woman, no matter the age, that I have dated never expressed any kind of warmth or affection. Even when we were alone. Almost all the Thai women I've been alone with displayed warmth and affection, even the ones I was paying short-time. Maybe it's you and not them. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixelaoffy Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 sex with Thais.. the most unfeeling and non sensual experience in life 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixelaoffy Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 2 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Almost all the Thai women I've been alone with displayed warmth and affection, even the ones I was paying short-time. Maybe it's you and not them. Quite the opposite 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 (edited) 4 minutes ago, pixelaoffy said: Quite the opposite I'm probably a lot more hansum ...... it makes a difference. If women don't like you, you won't see warmth or affection from them. Edited June 20, 2022 by BritManToo 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pixelaoffy Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 5 minutes ago, BritManToo said: I'm probably a lot more hansum ...... it makes a difference. If women don't like you, you won't see warmth or affection from them Sure that's how shallow Thais are. Affection is Skin deep and fat Wallet. Learn to spell 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
richard_smith237 Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 Simple answer: She’s not into you. And that could be for a multitude of reason... age gap, she’s looking for security not a relationship etc. And those who mention the ‘sniff kiss’.... it seems women of a lower socio-economic demographic do that. I’m sure this is not going to be popular, but... I’ll go ahead anyway. IF you are dating a female who isn’t from a bar or lower socio-economic background, i.e. someone who is financially independent, is educated, speaks English well (from education) etc then they are with you because they want to be not, because they need someone to ‘take care’... these relationships don’t throw up the questions we get on here.... such as this ‘kissing’ question. Thats not to say women who are considered from the ‘lower rungs of society’ can’t be with a Western guy because they genuinely fancy him and feel sexually and romantically attracted to him, but their life has always taken on practical measures - security is paramount and something else may grow from that. Thus: early on in a relationship with a lady from a poorer socio-economic demographic there is perhaps less likely to outward expressions of physical attraction because there simply isn’t any, at the beginning anyway. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iamfalang Posted June 20, 2022 Share Posted June 20, 2022 India: After stirring up a storm of largely sarcastic trolls over his public pronouncement on Sunday that staring at any woman for up to 14 seconds could send the ogler to jail, Kerala’s senior IPS officer and Excise Commissioner Rishi Raj Singh now says it’s not the duration of the stare but whether it makes a woman uncomfortable that decides its criminality. Mr. Singh had made the controversial statement while addressing a meeting attended by girl students at Kochi. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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