I am just wondering about the differences between Thai women and other Asian women, after two years of marriage.

 

Culturally speaking, from a sexual perspective of the marriage bed, do Thai women always put out, even after 24 months of matrimonial bliss?

 

I have been in a few long-term relationships with Asian women, and have even married an Asian woman, although not a Thai woman.

 

I have no personal experience marrying a Thai woman, although I once had two flings several decades ago.

 

I know something about Korean women.

But, mostly, my experience has been limited to Chinese women.

I even once knew a Malaysian woman.

 

Everybody knows what its like to marry a Western woman, and so there is no need to point out the differences in this case.

 

All I want to know is what is it really like to be married to a Thai woman, after the honeymoon is over.

 

What are some of the things that Thai women do, when one is married, that I might not know about, for example?

 

Probably much of what I really want to know is not mentioned in books.

And it is only here that I feel more comfortable asking these more personal questions.

 

In addition, can anyone compare the differences between being married to a Chinese woman and a Thai woman?

Because, if there is not much difference, then I surely have not been missing out on anything.

 

Everybody says that Thai women are so spicy.

 

But, are they really?

 

I may not have enough time to get married again.

This is why I am asking this question.

 

Thank you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Depends where you're living,

If you live in the west where the law gives them everything you own after 2 years, you'll be getting little or no sex.

If you live in Thailand, where they gain no entitlement to your assets or income, the sex continues.

 

It's all about getting your money!

Briffault's Law.

Edited November 20, 20223 yr by BritManToo

If the relationship was based solely on sex to start with, most relationships find other factors apart from sex on which to build a relationship. Those factors help keep the sex part alive. If no other factors are introduced into the relationship, the sex side is likely to begin to fall off. So if the question is, will my wife still be hot in bed in five years time and want to screw my brains out every night? The answer must surely be yes, as long as the relationship has matured into other things apart from just sex alone. I think this is not much different regardless of where the woman comes from.

Edited November 20, 20223 yr by nigelforbes

Let me be slightly more blunt without being overly overt about this question. 

 

We all see the Pattaya girls dancing around, climbing up and down poles on stage, etc. 

 

But what I am wondering about, mostly, is pillow talk. 

 

Are Thai girls sexier than Chinese girls? And, if not, then why are Thai girls so often perceived as being so? 

 

One thing good about Chinese girls is that they are so attentive, and even pour you a cup of tea before lights out. 

 

Also, I have heard that Thai girls are usually very polite in bed. They say, "Yes Krap. Okay, Krap", for example. 

 

But I believe the biggest difference between Thai women and Chinese women, in bed, might be Thai humor. I Just a guess. 

 

I just wish I knew more about this subject. 

 

 

 

It is hard work, very hard work, but it works

2 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Let me be slightly more blunt without being overly overt about this question. 

 

We all see the Pattaya girls dancing around, climbing up and down poles on stage, etc. 

 

But what I am wondering about, mostly, is pillow talk. 

 

Are Thai girls sexier than Chinese girls? And, if not, then why are Thai girls so often perceived as being so? 

 

One thing good about Chinese girls is that they are so attentive, and even pour you a cup of tea before lights out. 

 

Also, I have heard that Thai girls are usually very polite in bed. They say, "Yes Krap. Okay, Krap", for example. 

 

But I believe the biggest difference between Thai women and Chinese women, in bed, might be Thai humor. I Just a guess. 

 

I just wish I knew more about this subject. 

 

 

 

If you've got a Thai girl in your bed saying krap, get out of the bed sharpish because the she is a he.

3 minutes ago, nigelforbes said:

If you've got a Thai girl in your bed saying krap, get out of the bed sharpish because the she is a he.

Ka

I married both a Taiwanese lady and a Thai lady. Have also dated other Asian nationality women. My very subjective 30-second assessment:

Taiwanese : Sexually passive until it comes time to do the deed, then watch out once the lights are off - and very comfortable accommodating a surprising range of kinks. Very sweet and calm personalities. Would rather go out to eat than cook.

 

Thai : Sexually immature until well into their 30s, seems they take time to get their groove going. Regardless, always pays tremendous attention to getting her partner off by whatever means. Smart and sincere, open minded and not overly jealous unless given very good reason, then you better hide the scissors before you sleep. Also open to her partner having a kik, as long as she can have one too. Great cooks.

 

Filipina : Very sexually outgoing and enthusiastic. Kind hearted, and anxious to settle down and get pregnant ASAP. Can randomly get jealous when around other women. Terrible cooks, but to be fair, Filipino food is awful, even at its best.

 

Hong Kong : Extremely materialistic. Won't even give you the time of day if you're not wearing expensive shoes, a fancy watch, and drive a sports car. Needless to say, I've never dated a HK girl.

 

Oddly enough, I've never dated a Western woman either, so I can't make any comparison. This is mainly because I've lived nearly my entire adult life in Asia, but I also just don't find WW attractive, or even very interesting frankly - a topic which I'm sure has been discussed here countless times - so enough said about that.

 

Jeez, are we teenage boys here?

 

Woman are humans for God's sake, not some blow up doll for you to use.

 

@GammaGlobulin I thought you are celibate, so this whole discussion should be moot.

 

My Thai wife, is sexually the same as my American wife, my Chinese gf's, and am I going to get into details, NO.

 

For God's sake Grow Up, you're not in a boys HS locker room

Marry one and find out!

1 hour ago, nigelforbes said:

If you've got a Thai girl in your bed saying krap, get out of the bed sharpish because the she is a he.

Perhaps she's referring to his performance, Kraap!

On 11/20/2022 at 4:16 PM, clokwise said:

I married both a Taiwanese lady and a Thai lady. Have also dated other Asian nationality women. My very subjective 30-second assessment:

Taiwanese : Sexually passive until it comes time to do the deed, then watch out once the lights are off - and very comfortable accommodating a surprising range of kinks. Very sweet and calm personalities. Would rather go out to eat than cook.

 

Thai : Sexually immature until well into their 30s, seems they take time to get their groove going. Regardless, always pays tremendous attention to getting her partner off by whatever means. Smart and sincere, open minded and not overly jealous unless given very good reason, then you better hide the scissors before you sleep. Also open to her partner having a kik, as long as she can have one too. Great cooks.

 

Filipina : Very sexually outgoing and enthusiastic. Kind hearted, and anxious to settle down and get pregnant ASAP. Can randomly get jealous when around other women. Terrible cooks, but to be fair, Filipino food is awful, even at its best.

 

Hong Kong : Extremely materialistic. Won't even give you the time of day if you're not wearing expensive shoes, a fancy watch, and drive a sports car. Needless to say, I've never dated a HK girl.

 

Oddly enough, I've never dated a Western woman either, so I can't make any comparison. This is mainly because I've lived nearly my entire adult life in Asia, but I also just don't find WW attractive, or even very interesting frankly - a topic which I'm sure has been discussed here countless times - so enough said about that.

 

Excellent critique. 

 

But, regarding Taiwanese women, it's best when you date a married one. 

On 11/20/2022 at 3:31 PM, nigelforbes said:

If you've got a Thai girl in your bed saying krap, get out of the bed sharpish because the she is a he.

I think the OP needs to be clear if they are a man or woman as that would or could affect the type, quality or actions of the question on sex.  In a previous rambling post (she, he, they) posted about the music "her" husband had loved and was asked directly without a response if I recall. 

On 11/20/2022 at 7:33 AM, BritManToo said:

If you live in the west where the law gives them everything you own after 2 years, you'll be getting little or no sex.

My Thai ex-wife was hot in bed for the whole of our relationship (and we lived in "the west") - I'll credit her with that and being an excellent cook. Also, she was and remains, the only 50+ year old I ever shagged. After 14 years marriage, she got half of everything I owned but my freedom and son were worth every penny. Now happily with a Cambodian lady for over 2 years. Equally as hot without all the BS. People are people whether in east or west but SE Asian ladies do it for me.

 

6 minutes ago, soi3eddie said:

My Thai ex-wife was hot in bed for the whole of our relationship (and we lived in "the west") - I'll credit her with that and being an excellent cook. Also, she was and remains, the only 50+ year old I ever shagged. After 14 years marriage, she got half of everything I owned but my freedom and son were worth every penny. Now happily with a Cambodian lady for over 2 years. Equally as hot without all the BS. People are people whether in east or west but SE Asian ladies do it for me.

 

Hey Soi3eddie.

Did you used to write those stories that I read in Penthouse 25 years ago?????????

On 11/20/2022 at 4:16 PM, clokwise said:

I married both a Taiwanese lady and a Thai lady. Have also dated other Asian nationality women. My very subjective 30-second assessment:

Taiwanese : Sexually passive until it comes time to do the deed, then watch out once the lights are off - and very comfortable accommodating a surprising range of kinks. Very sweet and calm personalities. Would rather go out to eat than cook.

 

Thai : Sexually immature until well into their 30s, seems they take time to get their groove going. Regardless, always pays tremendous attention to getting her partner off by whatever means. Smart and sincere, open minded and not overly jealous unless given very good reason, then you better hide the scissors before you sleep. Also open to her partner having a kik, as long as she can have one too. Great cooks.

 

Filipina : Very sexually outgoing and enthusiastic. Kind hearted, and anxious to settle down and get pregnant ASAP. Can randomly get jealous when around other women. Terrible cooks, but to be fair, Filipino food is awful, even at its best.

 

Hong Kong : Extremely materialistic. Won't even give you the time of day if you're not wearing expensive shoes, a fancy watch, and drive a sports car. Needless to say, I've never dated a HK girl.

 

Oddly enough, I've never dated a Western woman either, so I can't make any comparison. This is mainly because I've lived nearly my entire adult life in Asia, but I also just don't find WW attractive, or even very interesting frankly - a topic which I'm sure has been discussed here countless times - so enough said about that.

 

Cheers, I'll be checking their passports from here on in.????????

On 11/20/2022 at 2:18 PM, GammaGlobulin said:

All I want to know is what is it really like to be married to a Thai woman, after the honeymoon is over.

There's a honeymoon?

 

I don't think I am going out on a limb to say that it is very individual as to not only the woman, but the couple... 

OP, you clearly don't know anything about women, or relationships.  I've never seen such a dumb post subject on any forum. 

2 hours ago, Doctor Tom said:

OP, you clearly don't know anything about women, or relationships.  I've never seen such a dumb post subject on any forum. 

Maybe yes. 

Maybe no. 

 

But the best sex I have have ever had was when I was dating Taiwanese doctors' wives. 

 

So, at least, I know something. 

 

By the way, I once had two 24-hour relationships with two different girls in Sattahip. 

 

I was 19. 

Each of them was 18. 

 

This is the extent of my experience with long-lasting relationships with Thai women. 

 

And those two girls are probably now old enough to be your grandmothers.

 

Those girls were not your typical high-society golphing types. 

 

 

And, by the way, just in case you might think that I know nothing about sexual relationships in Taiwan, after many conjugations with doctors' wives, one such union resulted in a pregnancy. 

 

But, fortunately, for him, the good doctor was able to arrange an easy abortion for his wife at his clinic.

 

That doctor's wife was Hot Stuff. She couldn't get enough. 

 

 

 

Edited November 22, 20223 yr by GammaGlobulin

On 11/20/2022 at 11:07 PM, GinBoy2 said:

Jeez, are we teenage boys here?

 

Woman are humans for God's sake, not some blow up doll for you to use.

 

@GammaGlobulin I thought you are celibate, so this whole discussion should be moot.

 

My Thai wife, is sexually the same as my American wife, my Chinese gf's, and am I going to get into details, NO.

 

For God's sake Grow Up, you're not in a boys HS locker room

Do you know what sub forum you are on?

This one is for pub talk, but supposedly more risque subjects can be discussed.

 

For "those that think women are goddesses", they'll have to look elsewhere.

f. scott fitzgerald and his wife zelda...

Couldn't get enough.

 

All that I can say, my friends, is that the spiciest sex you can ever have is when...

 

You are cuckolding another.

 

Once you begin...you really can't stop.

 

There is something so deeply satisfying about illicit love.

 

You know what I mean.

 

This is why society frowns upon it, so much.

 

I just hope that, when you get to be my age, you will not look back on your lives and feel regret for not cuckolding as many guys as I have.

 

Now that I am old, being celibate as I am, I have no motivation to cuckold anybody.

 

So, then, please cuckold other guys while you are young.

 

This is my best advice.

 

Because, when you get to be my age, then you will look back on your lives, and savor the many times you have cuckolded others.

 

I am not joking.

 

And, this is just part of what I know about sexual relationships in Asia.

 

Note:  It is wise, from my own experience, to check out the DNA at the maternity ward, when you look through the window at your newborn.  Why?  Because:  There is a significant probability that this newborn might not be yours.

 

Just saying....

 

 

Please note: I have never cuckolded anyone in Thailand. 

 

It was mostly the Chinese. 

Also, just to reply to a comment above.... 

 

Females in Thailand sometimes do use the term Krap. Just as men use the term, Ka. 

 

I just mention this point, for the record, Krap. 

 

Ka.... 

 

 

Edited November 22, 20223 yr by GammaGlobulin

2 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

And, by the way, just in case you might think that I know nothing about sexual relationships in Taiwan, after many conjugations with doctors' wives, one such union resulted in a pregnancy. 

 

But, fortunately, for him, the good doctor was able to arrange an easy abortion for his wife at his clinic.

 

That doctor's wife was Hot Stuff. She couldn't get enough. 

 

 

 

Nobody Moves like Jagger, actually.

 

 

Speaking of relationships with Asian women, especially those who have been married for a few years, some just love a change.

These women, in some respects, are being treated by their husbands as chattel.

 

And, after being married for a few years to an Asian guy, then these girls just want something more.

But, they are not looking for love, initially.

They just want someone to kiss them and hold them, at first.

 

At first, they are looking for sex.

And then, sex leads, in the worst case, inevitably to love.

 

And then, this love causes heartache.

 

In the best case scenario, one just spends time with these married women, and then there is no issue.

If an issue comes of it, then there are ways.

There is always Levonelle or ellaOne.

And, if one chooses to not take this option, then there is an issue.

 

In Taiwan, there are many illegitimate children.

One reason for this is that there are many Xiao-Taitai, as you know.

 

This thing about Taiwanese Xiao-Taitai is fairly well culturally accepted.

Most rich guys in Taiwan have a Xiao Taitai, if not locally, then in China.

 

Therefore, it is only fair that women in Taiwan have a backdoor man.

There is nothing wrong with this.

Just don't get caught.

 

There are many advantages to being a backdoor man.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But, just be careful if you eat more chicken than pork and beans.....

Being a backdoor man comes with risks, as well as its rewards.