JBChiangRai Posted April 29, 2023 Share Posted April 29, 2023 My 2 daughters live in Bo Sang attending Payap University. They are like most girls their age, their house is like a pig sty. Does anyone have any recommendation for a maid to come in one or two days per week? Many thanks in anticipation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaLa Posted April 29, 2023 Share Posted April 29, 2023 Sorry can't help with any recommendation of a maid, but would recommend giving them an ultimatum on cleaning the house themselves. I use to have student properties I let out years ago and agree, most girls are untidy, but they need to learn. What was funny is how in the first week of living in a property, the 4 girls would have a rota of jobs posted in the kitchen. After another week the rota was gone and the house became worse than a pigsty. Use the maid money on sending them to a Swiss finishing school, the nuns will sort them out. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mac Mickmanus Posted April 29, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 This maybe an ideal time for them to learn to be self sufficient and to keep themselves clean , rather than relying on other people to clean up after them ? 2 3 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post marin Posted April 29, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 9 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said: My 2 daughters live in Bo Sang attending Payap University. They are like most girls their age, their house is like a pig sty. So you are going to get them a maid? Damn dude that sure would not fly in our house. Get them off their lazy butts and get cleaning or you are going to have a life long problem. 8 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Celsius Posted April 29, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 30 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said: They are like most girls their age, their house is like a pig sty. I don't think so bud 3 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mac Mickmanus Posted April 29, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 Its the Parents job to make sure that their Children can live independently when they get older . May I ask what you have been doing for the last 18 or so years ? 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JBChiangRai Posted April 29, 2023 Author Share Posted April 29, 2023 12 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said: May I ask what you have been doing for the last 18 or so years ? Yes you may ask. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Mickmanus Posted April 29, 2023 Share Posted April 29, 2023 Just now, JBChiangRai said: Yes you may ask. So, how come your Children cannot fend for themselves and need assistances in living ? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JBChiangRai Posted April 29, 2023 Author Share Posted April 29, 2023 11 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said: So, how come your Children cannot fend for themselves and need assistances in living ? Tragically, they are disabled. 1 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Mickmanus Posted April 29, 2023 Share Posted April 29, 2023 2 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said: Tragically, they are disabled. What disabilities do they have ? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post JBChiangRai Posted April 29, 2023 Author Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 1 minute ago, Mac Mickmanus said: What disabilities do they have ? It’s very sad, they are allergic to cleaning 1 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mac Mickmanus Posted April 29, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 (edited) 3 hours ago, JBChiangRai said: It’s very sad, they are allergic to cleaning You thought that I would get embarrassed and apologise because of your claim that your Children were disabled . You made the mistake of saying it was "tragic" that your Children were disabled , Parents of disabled Children don't usually say its "tragic", and it could be classified as being offensive to some , saying its tragic that some people are disabled . Anyway , that was a low card to play Edited April 29, 2023 by Mac Mickmanus 2 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post marin Posted April 29, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 (edited) 29 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said: You made the mistake of saying it was "tragic" that your Children were disabled , Parents of disabled Children don't usually say its "tragic" and it could be classified as being offensive to some , says its tragic some people are disabled . Anyway , that was a low card to play Just about as low as you can go. As they say " The apple does not fall far from the tree" it seems. Edited April 29, 2023 by marin 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JBChiangRai Posted April 29, 2023 Author Share Posted April 29, 2023 11 minutes ago, Mac Mickmanus said: You thought that I would get embarrassed and apologise because of your claim that your Children were disabled . You made the mistake of saying it was "tragic" that your Children were disabled Not only are you predisposed to offering unsolicited & unwelcome advice, you’re a poor mindreader. I had no such thought. Neither did I make any mistake, which is self evident. If you can’t stay on topic, id est, volunteer details of a maid, then spare me your ignorant assumptions. 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Mickmanus Posted April 29, 2023 Share Posted April 29, 2023 28 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said: Not only are you predisposed to offering unsolicited & unwelcome advice, you’re a poor mindreader. I had no such thought. Neither did I make any mistake, which is self evident. If you can’t stay on topic, id est, volunteer details of a maid, then spare me your ignorant assumptions. My friends daughter goes to Rajabhat University in Chiang Mai , I will ask her where to find some cleaners to clean your Daughters room , they have some Uni websites . Shall I ask my friends Daughter to place an advertisement for cleaners for your Daughters rooms on the Uni Websites ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Muzzique Posted April 29, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 29, 2023 8 hours ago, JBChiangRai said: My 2 daughters live in Bo Sang attending Payap University. They are like most girls their age, their house is like a pig sty. Does anyone have any recommendation for a maid to come in one or two days per week? Leave them to it. It's part of growing up and taking responsibility. If you bail them out they will make even more mess as they now know someone else will clear it up. You´re not living there so why do you worry? Let them live in the squalor and filth. They're over 18 and adults, not your job to bail them out anymore. I few bouts of food poisoning, some bed bug bites, and discovering the dark crunch bits in their yoghurt is actually mouse poop will swing them around. If you really want to hire help then I recommend sending a Henry round and leaving the rest to them. 2 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JBChiangRai Posted April 30, 2023 Author Share Posted April 30, 2023 My daughters do clean, but not properly and my guess is they probably only do it just before I come down to visit them which is every 3 weeks. it’s not so much about spoiling my kids with a cleaning service as it is about preserving this house for resale when they finish university. I tried and failed 6 months ago to find a cleaning company that would service this area, the companies I found would only service their local area. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
steven100 Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 tell them to get off their lazy fat a__ and keep the place reasonably tidy and clean ...... or your thinking about moving them out to a fan room and renting that place out ..... tell them your serious unless they lift their game ..... they'll change their lazy attitude ! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post marin Posted April 30, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted April 30, 2023 49 minutes ago, JBChiangRai said: it’s not so much about spoiling my kids with a cleaning service as it is about preserving this house for resale when they finish university. Excuse me? Are you their father or little brother? Time for some teaching of life skills, and stopping how incredibly spoiled they seem to be. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roo860 Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 13 hours ago, Muzzique said: Leave them to it. It's part of growing up and taking responsibility. If you bail them out they will make even more mess as they now know someone else will clear it up. You´re not living there so why do you worry? Let them live in the squalor and filth. They're over 18 and adults, not your job to bail them out anymore. I few bouts of food poisoning, some bed bug bites, and discovering the dark crunch bits in their yoghurt is actually mouse poop will swing them around. If you really want to hire help then I recommend sending a Henry round and leaving the rest to them. They probably wouldn't know that it needs plugging in. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaideedave Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 13 hours ago, Muzzique said: Leave them to it. It's part of growing up and taking responsibility. If you bail them out they will make even more mess as they now know someone else will clear it up. You´re not living there so why do you worry? Let them live in the squalor and filth. They're over 18 and adults, not your job to bail them out anymore. I few bouts of food poisoning, some bed bug bites, and discovering the dark crunch bits in their yoghurt is actually mouse poop will swing them around. If you really want to hire help then I recommend sending a Henry round and leaving the rest to them. I must agree with your suggestion.Let the lazy buggers wallow in their own s---! Not to blow my own horn but my step daughter keeps our house spotless.I don't have to coerce her ever.Thats how she was guided when she first came into my life.There is no instruction manual on parenting.Its on you as their guardian to provide them with whats right/wrong. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante99 Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 Require them to maintain your property just like you would require a non family member renter. Tell the that is the standard and hold them to it. Then it is not so personal. Damn fool it you do not do something to get them to improve their behavior. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 Turn up without warning, and take photos, put them on F/B, with their photos and names, and "cleaner needed for lazy adult students'' see how they like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 Give them the bill for the cleaning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante99 Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 3 minutes ago, brianthainess said: Turn up without warning, and take photos, put them on F/B, with their photos and names, and "cleaner needed for lazy adult students'' see how they like that. What a prick. That is the best you can do, sad fellow. Can't think of anything more stupid to do? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianthainess Posted April 30, 2023 Share Posted April 30, 2023 4 minutes ago, Dante99 said: What a prick. That is the best you can do, sad fellow. Can't think of anything more stupid to do? Oh but I can, Evict them. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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