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Report Outrage in Hat Yai over Nude Photos at Sacred Sites Sparks Investigation
Maybe fewer complaints if it had've been women rather than men? First time I've seen no calls for the unpixelated photos. Just to be clear, I am NOT calling for that... Joking aside, this is a crap publicity stunt, showcasing the worst of social media. -
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Are you (or anyone you know) injured by the Covid shot? Try detoxing from the Spike protein.
More discredited anti-vax nonsense: Ditch the detox. The spike proteins produced from COVID-19 vaccination aren’t toxins. August 2, 2023 "There is no scientific data showing that spike proteins produced from COVID-19 vaccination are toxic, a Food and Drug Administration spokesperson said. Rigorous testing and safety monitoring have found that the vaccines are safe and effective. ... PolitiFact has debunked several claims that spike proteins are harmful. We rate the claim that people who received COVID-19 vaccines can "detoxify" their bodies from the spike protein False. https://www.politifact.com/factchecks/2023/aug/02/instagram-posts/ditch-the-detox-the-spike-proteins-produced-from-c/ -
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Border Shut Tight: Migrants Turn Back as Trump’s Immigration Crackdown Takes Hold
Poor old guy gets upset and cries when someone gives him a emoji he doesn't like. The he reports the "over use" of emojis to admin to try to get people blocked because he cant handle the rejection. He's a classic trumpette and can't think on his own or articulate a valid response when called out. -
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British Man's Urgent Plea to Save Dying Father in Thailand
If he is in a private hospital, move him to a government hospital with very low treatment costs. Then there will be no need for a GoFundMe. If he can't be helped at a government hospital, then a British hospital probably can't help him either. Look after him here in Thailand until he can fly home. Just provide him with extra nutrition every day while in a government hospital because he looks very thin. Pray for him. Here is the Baha'i long healing prayer. Just say it from the heart with deep sincerity, and it will be answered. -
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Opinion Russian Teacher to Thais: Drop ‘Farang’ if 'Ni Hao' Offends
Why were these terms a joke 'back then'? Well, because they were understood to be derogatory but used in a kidding way. So without other body language cues they would rightfully be taken as derogatory. When I was in junior high school we would playfully call each other queer and faggot. Was that OK then? Of course gay/lesbian people existed even then. Some of them may have been my friends but certainly never came out of the closet in 1955. They of course laughed along with everybody else but how did that make them feel? Bottom line: if one stops using such terms misunderstandings would never occur. Seems like a simple change to make that avoids a lot of drama especially in a foreign country. Just find other ways to kid your buddies. Is Red ok for the redhead kid? Shortie for the short or tall kid? Fatso or bean pole? Even in high school my friends called me 'brainiac" because my language and math skills were obviously better than theirs. But it was exclusionary and I certainly got that part and it didn't feel good. The problem is that when using such terms you reveal what you see as their shortcomings compared to yourself. That is almost always offensive or demeaning whether the person in question admits it or not. In the end it's just bad social skills. So I don't buy your glib rationalization. The truth is such jokes are never truly appreciated by anybody and weren't even 'back then'. Even if you think you can take a joke just soberly consider if you ever enjoyed being referred to in negative ways. It's always just a way to demonstrate that someone is different from you in a way offensive or amusing to you. We're all different is some way, and that's wonderful. So why muddy the water for the sake of low grade humor and the possibility of being offensive/hurtful? We're not in gradeschool anymore. I'm not a snowflake but just don't see the point of or reward for being offensive. Learning a Thai person's name (or more often their nickname) nevers fails to get a positive reaction from the Thai people I know as well as any Thai person overhearing it even if I get the pronunciation wrong. Smiles instead of frowns, scowls or questioning gazes; I'll take that win every time. My Thai wife is from a large family and has several generations of in-laws and friends. If I am around any of them very often I make it a point of learning their names. It takes an effort to be sure but is ALWAYS rewarding. I allow them all considerable leeway is using my name because it doesn't transliterate easily for native Thai speakers. They don't use 'farang' in a negative way either and I understand that but it still demonstrates exclusion in some degree or another. A few of the more enlightened ones have learned to mangle my name and I give them credit for being more empathetic than the others. I feel immediately that we've formed a relationship and they do too. Is that not a significant gain? Funny how enlightenment is contagious isn't it? If I hear "man" (it) I am offended and immediately let them know even if they aren't speaking to me. From my in-laws I never hear it and they readily acknowledge that it is offensive. People are given names for a reason and are never offended by their use. Give up the puerile humor and learn to use names to make everybody's life easier.
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