How do you deal with connotations and assumptions you're a sex tourist?

[Mekmong MICK]

Hi

 

Long tan lurker first time poster.

 

I recently sold up my dent repair business and relocated to Hua Hin. I was hoping to meet a nice Thai girl between 18 - 20 but I find it difficult with all the disapproving stares I get from farang passers-by. How do you deal with the attention from Westerners scolding at you? 

 

 

[Celsius]

2 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Hi

 

Long tan lurker first time poster.

 

I recently sold up my dent repair business and relocated to Hua Hin. I was hoping to meet a nice Thai girl between 18 - 20 but I find it difficult with all the disapproving stares I get from farang passers-by. How do you deal with the attention from Westerners scolding at you? 

 

 

 

So you are a sex tourist.

[Mekmong MICK]

2 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

So you are a sex tourist.

No, I'd like to have a long lasting relationship. However I am finding just like you have here, flogs assume I'm only here for sex

[brewsterbudgen]

What are you hoping to meet a nice 18-20 year-old girl for?  If it's just for sex, then you're a sex tourist just like many others.  If that concerns you don't do it!

 

If you're hoping to find a "girlfriend", then don't look in sex-tourist places like Hua Hin's bar areas or online (most dating sites are really for prostitution) but unless you speak Thai and are young and attractive, you'll find it difficult.  

 

If you are successful in finding a much younger "girlfriend", either from a bar or anywhere else, you'll just have to put up with comments, and after a few years you won't even notice them.  

 

 

[Celsius]

7 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

No, I'd like to have a long lasting relationship. However I am finding just like you have here, flogs assume I'm only here for sex

 

You are a sex tourist.

[brewsterbudgen]

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

You are a sex tourist.

Correct.  Not that there's anything wrong with that.

[Mekmong MICK]

5 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

What are you hoping to meet a nice 18-20 year-old girl for?  If it's just for sex, then you're a sex tourist just like many others.  If that concerns you don't do it!

 

If you're hoping to find a "girlfriend", then don't look in sex-tourist places like Hua Hin's bar areas or online (most dating sites are really for prostitution) but unless you speak Thai and are young and attractive, you'll find it difficult.  

 

If you are successful in finding a much younger "girlfriend", either from a bar or anywhere else, you'll just have to put up with comments, and after a few years you won't even notice them.  

 

 

Companionship and to bring out my youthful side.

 

I would consider myself attractive and I am successful; I own a Ford Raptor

[Mekmong MICK]

5 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

You are a sex tourist.

Wrong.

 

Here to meet someone, eat phó, drink beer and have a good time

[Mekmong MICK]

3 minutes ago, brewsterbudgen said:

Correct.  Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Wrong.

 

I seek a deep and meaningful connection with someone 18-20yo

[Celsius]

2 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Wrong.

 

Here to meet someone, eat phó, drink beer and have a good time

 

Like a sex tourist.

[brewsterbudgen]

2 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

Wrong.

 

I seek a deep and meaningful connection with someone 18-20yo

OK.  Good luck with that.  At least you're good at starting provocative threads!

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, Celsius said:

 

Like a sex tourist.

You're part of the assumption brigade. 

 

You probably couldn't afford a flight back to Australia so pretend you're living like a king on $4 a day 

[Celsius]

1 minute ago, Mekmong MICK said:

You're part of the assumption brigade. 

 

You probably couldn't afford a flight back to Australia so pretend you're living like a king on $4 a day 

 

That is exactly what sex tourist would say. 

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, Celsius said:

 

That is exactly what sex tourist would say. 

I have a $900 suit and sleep in a $6000 bed back in Australia. I don't need to travel to Thailand for sex friend.

 

Good of you to melt in my first thread rather than be constructive and provide some support 

[Celsius]

Just now, Mekmong MICK said:

I have a $900 suit and sleep in a $6000 bed back in Australia. I don't need to travel to Thailand for sex friend.

 

Good of you to melt in my first thread rather than be constructive and provide some support 

 

Yet more sex tourist evidence.

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

Yet more sex tourist evidence.

I doubt you'd find sex as a tourist in Hua Hin. You'd probably spend your evenings playing with your pencil in a hostel imagining girls I'll be out there picking up

[Celsius]

2 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

I doubt you'd find sex as a tourist in Hua Hin. You'd probably spend your evenings playing with your pencil in a hostel imagining girls I'll be out there picking up

 

 

You are so hot and successful.

 

But you choose to be a sex tourist in Hua Hin instead of picking up girls in Australia.

 

Why?

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

 

You are so hot and successful.

 

But you choose to be a sex tourist in Hua Hin instead of picking up girls in Australia.

 

Why?

Because I am cultured. 

[Bangkokhatter]

so you are really saying you want to have sex with some teenagers, how old are you ?

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, Bangkokhatter said:

so you are really saying you want to have sex with some teenagers, how old are you ?

21, do we have a problem?

[MalcolmB]

20 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

You are a sex tourist.

All of us with Thai women are sex tourists or sexpats.

It is very common.

 

Only those who brought their women from back home are not. And it is those couples who give the dirty looks. 
The women because they are intimidated by the beauty and feminity of the beautiful Thai women and the men because they are spewing they are stuck with the farang woman, whether he admits it or not.

 

There is only one person you need to impress. 
And that is yourself. 

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

All of us with Thai women are sex tourists or sexpats.

It is very common.

 

Only those who brought their women from back home are not. And it is those couples who give the dirty looks. 
The women because they are intimidated by the beauty and feminity of the beautiful Thai women and the men because they are spewing they are stuck with the farang woman, whether he admits it or not.

 

There is only one person you need to impress. 
And that is yourself. 

Well said friend.

 

A lot here are casting the first stone whilst they'd pass out if someone U/30 with 6.5/10 good looks sat next to them at a bar. @Celsiusin particular 

[Celsius]

3 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

All of us with Thai women are sex tourists or sexpats.

It is very common.

 

Only those who brought their women from back home are not. And it is those couples who give the dirty looks. 
The women because they are intimidated by the beauty and feminity of the beautiful Thai women and the men because they are spewing they are stuck with the farang woman, whether he admits it or not.

 

There is only one person you need to impress. 
And that is yourself. 

 

Yea... you sound like a sex tourist too

[Berkshire]

2 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

21, do we have a problem?

Would farangs/westerners in Thailand really see a 21 yr old as a sex tourist?  How would you know that they're even thinking this?

[MalcolmB]

7 minutes ago, Celsius said:

But you choose to be a sex tourist in Hua Hin instead of picking up girls in Australia.

I think he made the right decision 

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, Celsius said:

 

Yea... you sound like a sex tourist too

Is there a problem with this?

[CharlieKo]

3 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

21, do we have a problem?

 

Then why are you getting disapproving looks from other westerners. Unless this is a BS posting? 

[patman30]

another one of these vague engagement posts
 

[bob smith]

How do you deal with connotations and assumptions you're a sex tourist?

 

I don't, and never have had to deal with such a thing.

 

Perhaps @OneMoreFarang would be able to give you a better answer!

 

bob.

[Celsius]

Just now, MalcolmB said:

I think he made the right decision 

 

Yes. if you are a loser. I married Australian woman at 23. She looks nothing like that