What's it =really= like: To be DEEPLY in love with a bar girl? Do you know?

[GammaGlobulin]

Dear Folks,

 

I have read many stories here on the Farang Pub, stories about bar girls.

 

However, not many of the stories or accounts which I have read truly capture the FEELING of being deeply in love with a bar girl....while she goes out, night after night, with...

 

Random strangers, for money.

 

Most of you probably don't know what this feels like.

 

I know, for sure.

 

I had a love affair with a bar girl, even while she was working in the bar.

 

Knowing her was the most difficult time of my life.

 

And so, perhaps, this might be the reason that I have, during the past 25 years, become completely celibate.

 

I guess you recall William Holden and his love for Suzy Wong.

 

But, my love for my bar girl was NOT fiction....

It was real....and....

It was totally heartbreaking.

 

 

Most people might not know the COMPLETE TORTURE AND ANGST that Holden was feeling for Suzy Wong, during this movie....but....

I know, for years of experience.

 

For most of you, movies such as The World of Suzy Wong is just pleasant entertainment....but...

For me.....

It's just about a total eclipse of the heart.....

 

 

All that I can tell you is that.....

 

My Suzy Wong broke my heart, every day, and day by day....

 

She broke my spirit, each and every time she was paid, in the bar, to go out with guys that I thought were not as good as I.

 

The only reason I post this Topic is because.....

 

I think that I know a lot more about being broken-hearted over a common bar-girl, than most of you.

 

============

 

What ever happened to my bar-girl, the love of my life?

 

I am not sure.

 

I have often thought about calling her mother, just to find out.

 

But, now, I think I would prefer not to know.....

 

Because, I think, her end could not have been good.

 

Also, by now, she must be about 68.

And, at the age of 68, considering that bar girls do not age well.....

I just would prefer not to know what eventually happened to her.

 

Some people live charmed lives.

Bar Girls, in most cases, do not lead charmed lives.

They lead very hard lives.

 

Other girls, of course, become debutantes....

The lucky few....

 

 

In my view....

 

There is not much difference between a society debutante and a bar girl in Taiwan, or maybe Thailand.....

Not a hair's difference, in fact.

 

Best regards,

Gamma

 

Note:  It is said that the debutantes are all virgins, and that the bar girls are not virgins. But, I am sure that this cannot be true.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[thaibeachlovers]

On 9/27/2024 at 10:10 AM, GammaGlobulin said:

Most people might not know the COMPLETE TORTURE AND ANGST that Holden was feeling for Suzy Wong, during this movie....but....

I know, for years of experience.

That was not love, but an obsession.

 

No one loves a BG that is still working, or at least wants to believe that she isn't working.

 

Doesn't matter if a BG or not. Plenty of western wives having it off with the window washer while hubby works. They have very clean windows.

[MalcolmB]

I was in Suzy Wong the other night. Pleasant experience.
 

I would say most of the members of this forum are married to bargirls.

Some can admit it, some are in denial and some never knew.

 

 

There is an old Chinese proverb.

 

You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl.

[GammaGlobulin]

34 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I would say most of the members of this forum are married to bargirls.

 

Pure Class !!!!

 

[SAFETY FIRST]

1 hour ago, MalcolmB said:

I would say most of the members of this forum are married to bargirls.

Some can admit it, some are in denial and some never knew.

From some of the comments I read on AN forums, a few husbands here reckon that their Thai wives were virgin's when they met. 😂

 

Edited 12 hours ago by SAFETY FIRST

[fredwiggy]

41 minutes ago, MalcolmB said:

I was in Suzy Wong the other night. Pleasant experience.
 

I would say most of the members of this forum are married to bargirls.

Some can admit it, some are in denial and some never knew.

 

 

There is an old Chinese proverb.

 

You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl.

From what I've read, many are into the bar girl trade, but most are here with regular girls or married. Whether they were previous bar girls only they and the girl would know.

[fredwiggy]

On 9/27/2024 at 5:10 AM, GammaGlobulin said:

Dear Folks,

 

I have read many stories here on the Farang Pub, stories about bar girls.

 

However, not many of the stories or accounts which I have read truly capture the FEELING of being deeply in love with a bar girl....while she goes out, night after night, with...

 

Random strangers, for money.

 

Most of you probably don't know what this feels like.

 

I know, for sure.

 

I had a love affair with a bar girl, even while she was working in the bar.

 

Knowing her was the most difficult time of my life.

 

And so, perhaps, this might be the reason that I have, during the past 25 years, become completely celibate.

 

I guess you recall William Holden and his love for Suzy Wong.

 

But, my love for my bar girl was NOT fiction....

It was real....and....

It was totally heartbreaking.

 

 

Most people might not know the COMPLETE TORTURE AND ANGST that Holden was feeling for Suzy Wong, during this movie....but....

I know, for years of experience.

 

For most of you, movies such as The World of Suzy Wong is just pleasant entertainment....but...

For me.....

It's just about a total eclipse of the heart.....

 

 

All that I can tell you is that.....

 

My Suzy Wong broke my heart, every day, and day by day....

 

She broke my spirit, each and every time she was paid, in the bar, to go out with guys that I thought were not as good as I.

 

The only reason I post this Topic is because.....

 

I think that I know a lot more about being broken-hearted over a common bar-girl, than most of you.

 

============

 

What ever happened to my bar-girl, the love of my life?

 

I am not sure.

 

I have often thought about calling her mother, just to find out.

 

But, now, I think I would prefer not to know.....

 

Because, I think, her end could not have been good.

 

Also, by now, she must be about 68.

And, at the age of 68, considering that bar girls do not age well.....

I just would prefer not to know what eventually happened to her.

 

Some people live charmed lives.

Bar Girls, in most cases, do not lead charmed lives.

They lead very hard lives.

 

Other girls, of course, become debutantes....

The lucky few....

 

 

In my view....

 

There is not much difference between a society debutante and a bar girl in Taiwan, or maybe Thailand.....

Not a hair's difference, in fact.

 

Best regards,

Gamma

 

Note:  It is said that the debutantes are all virgins, and that the bar girls are not virgins. But, I am sure that this cannot be true.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

If you would have left that bar girl as soon as she went with another man, your heart wouldn't have been so broken, and you would have had the opportunity to find a regular girl, and might still be with her, as most of the women in Thailand aren't, and haven't been bar girls.

[SAFETY FIRST]

My girlfriend has never been a bar girl but she is a little naughty.

 

Her and her girlfriends bought some matching outfits off the internet recently.

 

Show off's ♥️♥️♥️

 

 

Edited 12 hours ago by SAFETY FIRST

[SAFETY FIRST]

7 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

My girlfriend has never been a bar girl but she is a little naughty.

 

Her and her girlfriends bought some matching outfits off the internet recently.

 

Show off's ♥️♥️♥️

 

 

 

Pattaya guys have some serious problems with bar girl girlfriends. 

 

I'd imagine some here had similar girlfriends, now wife. 

 

 

 

Edited 5 hours ago by SAFETY FIRST

[Hummin]

8 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

I was in Suzy Wong the other night. Pleasant experience.
 

I would say most of the members of this forum are married to bargirls.

Some can admit it, some are in denial and some never knew.

 

 

There is an old Chinese proverb.

 

You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl.

Seems you are stuck with your heads up where the sun doesn't shine, and never will 😄😏

 

Good luck

Edited 5 hours ago by Hummin

[SAFETY FIRST]

23 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Pattaya guys have some serious problems with bar girl girlfriends. 

 

I'd imagine some here had similar girlfriends, now wife. 

 

 

 

Not my girlfriend, she's never worked bars.

 

She likes hard work, sometimes working in a mechanics workshop. 

 

Sorry, she's not very ladylike, those legs spread, she's a country girl. 

 

I still love her 👍

She's a good girl 🥰

 

Edited 4 hours ago by SAFETY FIRST

[MalcolmB]

3 hours ago, Hummin said:

Seems you are stuck with your heads up where the sun doesn't shine, and never will 😄😏

 

Good luck

Thanks mate

[Gottfrid]

12 hours ago, MalcolmB said:

There is an old Chinese proverb.

 

You can take the girl out of the bar but you can not take the bar out of the girl.

Where is that proverb?

[MalcolmB]

3 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Where is that proverb?

In China

[Sandboxer]

When a seasoned monger and a seasoned hooker decide to give it a go it's either gonna be a nuclear disaster or a totally solid deal till the end. There's really no middle ground. I've gone both ways, but the nuclear result is by far the more common.

 

But the one time it didn't it was awesome. Only ended because I couldn't keep it in my pants eventually.

 

 

Edited 48 minutes ago by Sandboxer

[GammaGlobulin]

37 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Where is that proverb?

 

You can find it on the Farang Pub, as it has been written many times during the past centuries.