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meeting a lady that doesn't need your money

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50 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

Nope, independently wealthy women tend not to have relationships with men.

Shakira, Oprah, etc.

 

Or Jennifer Aniston, it's very rare. But there are some women who are older and not attractive, who lead with the wallet, with sex, with anything they can, to snare a man, because they know on looks alone they have no chance. It does happen. It's very rare, but I've seen it.

44 minutes ago, Hummin said:

She was not older than him, it was just the fact her clients usually where oldercthan him. I think they where same age. She cut all her financial connections when she met him. 

 

What were her looks on a scale of 1 to 10?

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20 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Or Jennifer Aniston, it's very rare. But there are some women who are older and not attractive, who lead with the wallet, with sex, with anything they can, to snare a man, because they know on looks alone they have no chance. It does happen. It's very rare, but I've seen it.

 

What were her looks on a scale of 1 to 10?

A solid 10, hands down, the queen, and the Swedish blond hair guy, I would say, if I weren’t straight, he would had been my first choice.

 

and she,  I realized she was was way above my league, so better to just be friends, and that’s where most men being played by choosing way above their league 

41 minutes ago, Hummin said:

A solid 10, hands down, the queen, and the Swedish blond hair guy, I would say, if I weren’t straight, he would had been my first choice.

 

and she,  I realized she was was way above my league, so better to just be friends, and that’s where most men being played by choosing way above their league 

 

Yah, it's a very difficult situation to be in if your girl is a solid 10 and you are an 8 or lower.It would normally result in her having all the power.

 

I suppose this was a special situation because the guy was a solid 10, so she had to go the extra mile.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yah, it's a very difficult situation to be in if your girl is a solid 10 and you are an 8 or lower.It would normally result in her having all the power.

 

I suppose this was a special situation because the guy was a solid 10, so she had to go the extra mile.

Exactly my point, know your league and your game, and things will be sorted out

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3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Exactly my point, know your league and your game, and things will be sorted out

 

I still think you should be a with a person who really makes you amazed to be alive. Better to be extraordinary than to be ordinary.

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I still think you should be a with a person who really makes you amazed to be alive. Better to be extraordinary than to be ordinary.

My wife is extraordinary 😉 and my first priority, no mistakes there

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

My wife is extraordinary 😉 and my first priority, no mistakes there

 

What is it about her?

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

What is it about her?

 

She's Filipino. 

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

What is it about her?

When you meet, you will know, 

 

Additionally 

Not one red flag so far in 10 years

30 minutes ago, Hummin said:

When you meet, you will know, 

 

I'm going to meet her? Wow you guys are really open minded.

 

Cool.

44 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I'm going to meet her? Wow you guys are really open minded.

 

Cool.

Will invite you to s freak party soon 🤣

 

Well, it is true what everyone have said, when you meet your final destination, you know.

 

Do not mistake with out of this world experience and execution, like some foreigners feel for every woman above their league and to young for their own best.

 

There is reasons why people burn themselves, and often the same people for 2. And 3. 4. 5. And who truly calls out all woman as prostitutes and all men who contributes, support for men who only have paid relationships 

37 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Well, it is true what everyone have said, when you meet your final destination, you know.

 

I don't think there is a final single destination. I think there are many possible destinations. Each of which could be final.

 

I mean there's 2 billion women in the world, and at least 20 of those could be quality women.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't think there is a final single destination. I think there are many possible destinations. Each of which could be final.

 

I mean there's 2 billion women in the world, and at least 20 of those could be quality women.

Do you have the patience and stamina and drugs enoug to search them all out, go for it. Still Casanova only had how many women to be a legend? 132 woman only! Was Casanova truly happy? 

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Do you have the patience and stamina and drugs enoug to search them all out, go for it. Still Casanova only had how many women to be a legend? 132 woman only! Was Casanova truly happy? 

 

Well, you have to search a few out, I mean if you don't try, how will you find anyone?

 

 

On 5/14/2025 at 10:10 AM, Cameroni said:

 

So you do pay for her, thanks for clarifying. That's what I thought.

 

We share. 😁

14 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Well, you have to search a few out, I mean if you don't try, how will you find anyone?

 

 

It gets boring, same same on an endless repeat. Because of my travelling it was hard to meet or keep someone I truly wanted to be with, but my wife was ok travelling with me, so I havent completely settled one place only. 

2 minutes ago, Hummin said:

It gets boring, same same on an endless repeat.

 

There are times when it does get tedious and repetitive. Sure. But you'are making the most important contract in your life, it would be churlish to complain about a little repitition.

 

I guess one should look at it as "due diligence". Which is always boring and tedious, but very necessary.

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

There are times when it does get tedious and repetitive. Sure. But you'are making the most important contract in your life, it would be churlish to complain about a little repitition.

 

I guess one should look at it as "due diligence". Which is always boring and tedious, but very necessary.

Marriage is not that bad, dependes of you and your wife if you have chemistry and bot willing to make the best out of it for each other, without making to much sacrifices that bothers you. 

 

If you find a good nice person, basically it is up to you, especially with asian women, and there is no big red flags in sight. I married my wife after almost 7 years knowing her, and being with her 6 years. 

 

 

38 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Marriage is not that bad, dependes of you and your wife if you have chemistry and bot willing to make the best out of it for each other, without making to much sacrifices that bothers you. 

 

If you find a good nice person, basically it is up to you, especially with asian women, and there is no big red flags in sight. I married my wife after almost 7 years knowing her, and being with her 6 years. 

 

 

 

I am sure marriage too can become tedious and boring, like all relationships. Yet it's still the best of all worlds, the least bad choice. Alwyas provided, as you say, you have a suitable woman. One should really only marry after 7 or 10 years, thereabouts, so well done there.

 

My problem is I'm finding more red flags than at a Communist party rally.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

My problem is I'm finding more red flags than at a Communist party rally.

Well, thats part of the game, see the real red flags, and not the imaginary ones.

 

Red flags is lies, excuses, complain about everyone else without taking responsibility. Talk negative about x boyfriends/husbands and make excuses why it did not work out, by doing so, nothing is learned, and you where part of it. Talk negative about friends. 

 

Family is one big red flag

Kids, especially more than one, and also big red flag different fathers. Good luck with that one. Drinking and partying, alot to learn when she is drunk and how she behaves. As well go often party with her friends and drinking especially when separated.

 

Anything else? 

11 hours ago, Hummin said:

Kids, especially more than one, and also big red flag different fathers.

 

I met one woman whose husband died in a motorbike accident.

 

Although no one is forcing you to take that on, but some foreigners have. Not me, so I'm not getting holier than thou on you, but there are some foreign guys who have supported these single mothers. 

 

A bit silly and harsh to label all single mothers as "red flags" and dismiss them as garbage. 

 

21 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Well, thats part of the game, see the real red flags, and not the imaginary ones.

 

Red flags is lies, excuses, complain about everyone else without taking responsibility. Talk negative about x boyfriends/husbands and make excuses why it did not work out, by doing so, nothing is learned, and you where part of it. Talk negative about friends. 

 

Family is one big red flag

Kids, especially more than one, and also big red flag different fathers. Good luck with that one. Drinking and partying, alot to learn when she is drunk and how she behaves. As well go often party with her friends and drinking especially when separated.

 

Anything else? 

 

All that plus cheating, lying, texting the ex-boyfriend, refusing to do simple things for you, emotional and physical coldness, depression, narcissim, and especially the lying. All the lying. Suddenly disappearing.

 

So many.

2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

I met one woman whose husband died in a motorbike accident.

 

Although no one is forcing you to take that on, but some foreigners have. Not me, so I'm not getting holier than thou on you, but there are some foreign guys who have supported these single mothers. 

 

A bit silly and harsh to label all single mothers as "red flags" and dismiss them as garbage. 

 

 

No, I think it's spot on. Whatever the reason she's a single mother, a man who takes on a woman and raises her child from another man is effectively cuckolding himself. He's spending his resources to raise the DNA of another man. A child is a massive liability. How is that not a red flag? It surely is.

 

Not for me, if that's what some men want to do, okay, it's their life. But it's a massive red flag for a normal guy.

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

All that plus cheating, lying, texting the ex-boyfriend, refusing to do simple things for you, emotional and physical coldness, depression, narcissim, and especially the lying. All the lying. Suddenly disappearing.

 

So many.

Money, I left my then new gf with my credit card after second meeting with an credit of 300k. 

 

She seemed shocked and asked why, but I insisted if she needed something this was the easiest way, instead of starting transfer.

 

In 3 months she asked for total amount of 8. 

 

I normally sacked earlier gf's when we got to the point wher the money question came up for sone kind of crisis. She proved her self.

 

If I didnt feel she was the right one, I would never left her with a credit card, and this as the ultimate test.

7 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

 

I met one woman whose husband died in a motorbike accident.

 

Although no one is forcing you to take that on, but some foreigners have. Not me, so I'm not getting holier than thou on you, but there are some foreign guys who have supported these single mothers. 

 

A bit silly and harsh to label all single mothers as "red flags" and dismiss them as garbage. 

 

Not my intention to label all single moms, especially widows. 

 

However single mom comes with a total package often including an x whos maybe not present, but if present and an abusive alcoholic or drug user, you have an additional problem

4 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Money, I left my then new gf with my credit card after second meeting with an credit of 300k. 

 

She seemed shocked and asked why, but I insisted if she needed something this was the easiest way, instead of starting transfer.

 

In 3 months she asked for total amount of 8. 

 

I normally sacked earlier gf's when we got to the point wher the money question came up for sone kind of crisis. She proved her self.

 

If I didnt feel she was the right one, I would never left her with a credit card, and this as the ultimate test.

 

Yes I am amazed at how little gold digging is an issue. When a girl does ask it's usually for 2000 or 1000 baht. It's very modest.

 

There are exceptions of course, but on the whole gold digging is not an issue.

3 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes I am amazed at how little gold digging is an issue. When a girl does ask it's usually for 2000 or 1000 baht. It's very modest.

 

There are exceptions of course, but on the whole gold digging is not an issue.

I told her it was 30k only, and I was interested to know if she would try to max it out

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