A question about cross-dressing

[fredwiggy]

3 hours ago, Freddy42OZ said:

I don't care what other people want to do with their emotions and their sex lives. 

I know a few friends with kids that have decided to change their pronouns or their gender identity. 

The one thing I have noticed is that ALL of the kids who were born female but ended up being fat and either plain or actually ugly have chosen to dress and act male, or turn asexual.

One of my friends has a daughter named Elizabeth. Elizabeth is a fat, ugly girl who has worn shapeless black clothing since she was about 10 years old and goes by the name 'Ace'.  She just graduated high school.  She knew by age 10 that no boys would ever find here attractive and feminine so she's chosen to be asexual. I don't think she's gay, I think she just knows she'll never fit into the societal role of being an attractive female.

I've seen countless thousands of fat females that still act female, dress accordingly, and the ones I've known personally have done the same, have children, are good moms, treat their husbands well, and act like women with makeup, nice clothes , feminine basically. so where you get they ALL act male or asexual I have no idea. I lived in the US 62 years, and saw my share of women you described, as far as overweight and some yes act butch, but it's a minority, especially as adults.

[WDSmart]

On 5/27/2025 at 8:08 AM, Krillin said:

1.) What percentage of this is due to peer pressure?
2.) What percentage continue to live like this as adults?
3.) Would these people face discrimination from society if they decided that their previous ways of dressing and acting had been "a phase?"
4.) How do Thai parents typically react to their children cross-dressing or identifying as LGBTQ?

After having lived in Thailand for about 20 years, my answers (some are guesses) to the questions above are as follows:

1.) What percentage of this is due to peer pressure?
- 0%. I think they're just trying out something different.
2.) What percentage continue to live like this as adults?
- 5 to 10% (A guess)
3.) Would these people face discrimination from society if they decided that their previous ways of dressing and acting had been "a phase?"
- No. (An opinion)
4.) How do Thai parents typically react to their children cross-dressing or identifying as LGBTQ?
- They are okay with it. (Limited knowledge, but based on a few personal experiences)

[Yagoda]

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

I've never heard that. Do you have a link?

Im not going to disgrace this board by posting the digusting vids. Google it.

[fredwiggy]

2 minutes ago, Yagoda said:

Im not going to disgrace this board by posting the digusting vids. Google it.

I'm thinking they don't exist. People walking down the street saying, "we're queer and we want your kids". would have people throwing things at them or much worse. Gays aren't the ones after kids. It's mostly straight people that have been abused as children that attack children.

[Baht Simpson]

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

I'm thinking they don't exist. People walking down the street saying, "we're queer and we want your kids". would have people throwing things at them or much worse. Gays aren't the ones after kids. It's mostly straight people that have been abused as children that attack children.

Apparently, it was "we're here, we're queer, we're coming for your children" chanted by a few people at the New York Drag March in 2023 and was meant as an ironic riposte to claims of them harming children. 

 

The chant was adapted from "we're here, we're queer, we're not going away" which was used some time ago. It's meant to be provocative of course but personally I think it was ill-judged in the present political climate and it was criticized by both sides of the trans debate. 

 

Nevertheless condemning all LGBT+ and claiming it proves they're harming children is clearly preposterous. 

[SAFETY FIRST]

On 5/27/2025 at 8:08 AM, Krillin said:

I have a delicate question,

Thank you for answering and avoiding heated arguments

identifying as LGBTQ

A delicate question deserves a delicate reply. 

I saw this sign yesterday.  

Entrance through the backside. 😮

 

Isn't that how they do it? 

 

[fredwiggy]

9 hours ago, Baht Simpson said:

Apparently, it was "we're here, we're queer, we're coming for your children" chanted by a few people at the New York Drag March in 2023 and was meant as an ironic riposte to claims of them harming children. 

 

The chant was adapted from "we're here, we're queer, we're not going away" which was used some time ago. It's meant to be provocative of course but personally I think it was ill-judged in the present political climate and it was criticized by both sides of the trans debate. 

 

Nevertheless condemning all LGBT+ and claiming it proves they're harming children is clearly preposterous. 

Thank you for clarifying. Some don't read enough on a subject before replying, and many assumptions are made with not enough information.

[Krillin]

On 5/28/2025 at 4:44 PM, WDSmart said:

After having lived in Thailand for about 20 years, my answers (some are guesses) to the questions above are as follows:

1.) What percentage of this is due to peer pressure?
- 0%. I think they're just trying out something different.
2.) What percentage continue to live like this as adults?
- 5 to 10% (A guess)
3.) Would these people face discrimination from society if they decided that their previous ways of dressing and acting had been "a phase?"
- No. (An opinion)
4.) How do Thai parents typically react to their children cross-dressing or identifying as LGBTQ?
- They are okay with it. (Limited knowledge, but based on a few personal experiences)

Thank you for your rational, calm answer.