My wife wanted me to sign a document any money she gets is hers!

[Lacessit]

1 hour ago, rumak said:

 

a unique trait i have.   i can even make fun at my own expense !

I am trying to work out if you are doubling down.

[JakeC]

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IIRC he is talking about his daughter, not the wife.

 

Incorrect, it's with reference to his wife. The daughter reference may have come from her statement that he is the best dad that she ever had.

[JakeC]

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So a girl helped you run your business without any expectations in return?

That's probably because you got "game / Mojo"

Guys like BritMan don't got much "game / Mojo", so they need to pay. 

 

Not just one girl, but every girl in that period. Dull and repetitive work to an extent, but done willingly, without complaint.

This is why I cannot understand these guys who pay to have a pretty girl on their arm, instead of cultivating sustainable relationships.

Girls often believe that men are like dogs. They don't respect that kind of man. But some will take the candy.

Be someone a person can respect. Not some sleazy dog wanting to get his leg over regardless. 

 

[sidjameson]

7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

 

You can't fix stupid!

And it seems you can't fix cruel.

She's your wife and the woman who you reported looked after you so well when you were hit by that car. 

If you're not aware, nearly anyone in a relationship would be very hurt to know this was written about them by the one person in the world who should have their back.

Public flaming of the ones closest to you. It's Trump Musk behaviour.

[dingdongrb]

7 hours ago, BritManToo said:

She has a sticky rice farm in Lomsak and half a mountain in Nan.

Seen both places once, and never felt the urge to return to those rural hell-holes.

Nan a hell-hole?

 

Now I'm wondering who the stupid one in the relationship is......maybe both!

[blaze master]

8 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

And it seems you can't fix cruel.

She's your wife and the woman who you reported looked after you so well when you were hit by that car. 

If you're not aware, nearly anyone in a relationship would be very hurt to know this was written about them by the one person in the world who should have their back.

Public flaming of the ones closest to you. It's Trump Musk behaviour.

 

There always seems to be one turd in the punch bowl.

[sidjameson]

1 minute ago, blaze master said:

 

There always seems to be one turd in the punch bowl.

Be kind. BM2 is a great poster. Constructive criticism is one thing. How does a nasty dig help the world?

[blaze master]

1 minute ago, sidjameson said:

Be kind. BM2 is a great poster. Constructive criticism is one thing. How does a nasty dig help the world?

 

Oh boy. Maybe someone can write it down in crayon for you to better understand.

[transam]

12 minutes ago, sidjameson said:

And it seems you can't fix cruel.

She's your wife and the woman who you reported looked after you so well when you were hit by that car. 

If you're not aware, nearly anyone in a relationship would be very hurt to know this was written about them by the one person in the world who should have their back.

Public flaming of the ones closest to you. It's Trump Musk behaviour.

Spot on..........😊

[Cameroni]

48 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

 

BritMan regularly says his wife has no say regarding money. And he actually calls her stupid in the OP, even if the tone is somewhat humourous, it is telling.

 

It seems quite a few farangs behave this way with their Thai spouses, treating them as inferiors, giving them pocket money and scolding them like children if they aren't happy with what they do with it. So it's no surprise said spouses should retaliate when they feel they are in a position to.

 

We don't really know their dynamic. It seems more likely to me, that now that she has extracted as much as possible from him, he's already 70 plus and the kids are grown up, she feels she does not need to share with him anymore.

 

 

[BritManToo]

1 hour ago, falangUK said:

Sorry if this sounds out of line, but it can’t have been a great feeling when she asked you to write and sign that, especially after all you’ve done for her, sending her to school and uni? 

Briffault was right, it's how women are and I accept that.

 

 

 

[Cameroni]

54 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I suggest you bone up on Thai family law, what she is doing is perfectly reasonable.

 

 

 

Thai family law doesn't come into it. Two adults negotiate the terms of their relationship without reference to the state or family law.

 

55 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

You seem to forget she is giving him sex on demand and bearing his children.

 

That's called being a wife.

[BritManToo]

57 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

 seems quite a few farangs behave this way with their Thai spouses, treating them as inferiors, giving them pocket money and scolding them like children if they aren't happy with what they do with it. So it's no surprise said spouses should retaliate when they feel they are in a position to.

But everyone is my inferior, including you!

[rumak]

BM2......  correct me if i am wrong :

 

1.The person you sent through school is your (mrs)  ......no formal marriage(this i may have wrong ..... see number 3 

 

2.You have a SON , around 13 years old now,  from a different relationship .  He loves you. 

 

3.there was also a female daughter (not yours)  that you sent through school , grown up and out of house now .  

 

4. the one you call your wife is a long term live in .  that is sure.   maybe lately been some disharmony ?

 

[BritManToo]

3 hours ago, StandardIssue said:

 

Apparently really stupid ones also, at least according to you. You do realize, to anyone really reading, it's evident you are proud to have married a stupid women?

I don't know about anyone else but the last person I want as a life partner is someone stupid. Although a lot of the punters on this forum are the type that are perfectly content to hear themselves talk and don't mind if the person they are speaking to doesn't understand a bit of what they are saying.

I prefer to sit quietly, neither talking, nor being talked to.

[hotsun]

2 hours ago, JakeC said:

 

Low brow comment. Not a surprise in your case.

For what reason does one have to be dishonest with oneself, thats called denial

[Baht Simpson]

8 hours ago, BritManToo said:

So my wife thinks she's coming into a few million Baht (almost no chance).

And wanted me to sign a document stating any money she gets is hers, and I have no claim on it.

I say, "sure, no problem", and she brings over a notepad for me to write out the agreement.

I write "any money you get and half belongs to me" she tells me to sign and date it to make it official.

She asks me to read out what I wrote, and I read out "any money you get belongs entirely to you"

She walks off happily clutching the document to keep somewhere safe .........

 

You can't fix stupid!

That means she could now take something that belongs entirely to you, sell it and legally get half the proceeds. Clever lady. 

[rattlesnake]

16 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

But everyone is my inferior, including you!

 

That much I had gathered…

 

I do understand why you are much happier in Thailand than in the UK, this country accommodates your type pretty well.

[BritManToo]

7 minutes ago, Baht Simpson said:

That means she could now take something that belongs entirely to you, sell it and legally get half the proceeds. Clever lady. 

I don't own anything of any value in Thailand.

My most expensive possession (excluding her) is my electric MTB @34kbht, and if she wants it she can have it.  Never saw any reason to spend big money while in a country I have no right to live.

[rumak]

6 hours ago, KhunLA said:

My wife was self supporting before she met me, computer graphic design.  With excellent investment skills.  Along with, she could literally build a house herself with a crew.  She's that good, as her Greenhouse shows.  She re-plumbed this house, under the floor, as you wouldn't believe the crap job the builder did.   Luckily their only building failure.

 

 

 

I ain't got a plumbing degree... but I have the experience of many house builds here in Thailand.  The plumber you show was putting in something of a "P" trap .... which will hold water and prevent gas/smells and insects from going up to the drain ( shower or sink usually .      Yes, bathroom sinks have a SS one already )

Since there is crawl space to work with at yours, i would have used the one shown. (  I use with my kitchen sink as it is good for a lifetime) .  Sold in different diameters at building supplies.     I am not a fanatical photo taker... but i keep this one to show a builder what I want .   

[Cameroni]

Imagine you pay for a woman for 20 years, put her children through school, give her a roof over her head, feed her...and then she tells you she wants you to sign something to make sure you don't get  any money from her sale.of land.

 

I have to say I would be a little disappointed in her.

[BritManToo]

10 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Imagine you pay for a woman for 20 years, put her children through school, give her a roof over her head, feed her...and then she tells you she wants you to sign something to make sure you don't get  any money from her sale.of land.

 

I have to say I would be a little disappointed in her.

You expect gratitude, something most women don't have in them.

Think about all the knightly virtues.

They're called knightly because only men have them.

 

Women have different virtues, all centered on their direct bloodline, of which you will never be part (unless you live in Alabama).

[blaze master]

46 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Thai family law doesn't come into it. Two adults negotiate the terms of their relationship without reference to the state or family law.

 

 

That's called being a wife.

 

I was out with my girl last night. We was chilling at the bar when some a hole walked by and slapped her fine booty. 

 

She turned to me and said...well aren't you going to do something about that. You're supposed to protect me. 

 

I turned to her and softly said. Not tonight hunny I have a headache. 

[Ralf001]

3 hours ago, rumak said:

 

It's true.  I saw him bringing her lunch ......😅

 

And then she tossed his salad ?

[johng]

3 hours ago, KannikaP said:

We are not married,

I'm quoteing for brevity again hope you don't mind this time.

 

As you are not married then what is your's is your's and what is her's is her's.

[Cameroni]

19 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

You expect gratitude, something most women don't have in them.

 

I don't expect gratitude. But I would expect that she views us as a team, that she does what's good for the relationship. Doing what she did with this paper, this indicates that she thinks mostly about herself, and that the team aspect is not on her mind. That she doesn't value the relationship.

 

She must have known, or thought, that you wouldn't like it.

[JakeC]

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For what reason does one have to be dishonest with oneself, thats called denial

 

Denial of what? I have intelligent and successful friends and acquaintances here. Perhaps the people with whom you mix lack some important qualities.

If you insult my friends, expect some pushback. If you are only meeting unintelligent people, then remember the saying "birds of a feather, flock together". No need for you to deny.

[rattlesnake]

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't expect gratitude. But I would expect that she views us as a team, that she does what's good for the relationship. Doing what she did with this paper, this indicates that she thinks mostly about herself, and that the team aspect is not on her mind. That she doesn't value the relationship.

 

She must have known, or thought, that you wouldn't like it.

 

Nothing happens for no reason.

[JakeC]

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Imagine you pay for a woman for 20 years, put her children through school, give her a roof over her head, feed her...and then she tells you she wants you to sign something to make sure you don't get  any money from her sale.of land.

 

I have to say I would be a little disappointed in her.

 

You'll be lucky to get another 18 years out of your current 'model'. I think you'll find @BritManToo somewhat more pragmatic than yourself, even though you are both taken to using some artistic licence. You'll learn....eventually.

He's has no problems admitting that he paid for what he wanted. You are still fantasising, trying to convince us that you are the hot property.

 

[JakeC]

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Women have different virtues, all centered on their direct bloodline, of which you will never be part (unless you live in Alabama).

 

You have some quaint notions 😊