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Posted
6 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Why don't you find a part time gf, living with them becomes annoying after a while.

Get yourself a cute little university chick. 

 

I found this chick, 21yo, 160H, 47kg.

She only wants 3500 a week, I can see here anytime after school, 6pm on and all day Saturday and Sunday.

 

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Also, don't forget, you are a Brit. 

 

Your terrible teeth, poor wardrobe, big gut won't allow you to get the prettiest bird.

 

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Posted
6 hours ago, Geoff914 said:

You lost me on that one.

 

This was in response to:

"Then perhaps her Thai boyfriend has expensive taste."

 

You need this explained?

Sounds like you have led a sheltered life.

Were you home schooled?

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Posted
10 hours ago, Geoff914 said:

I have been in relationships before with Thais before so I know what it is all about. Had a thai gf for a year and we do get on well. Well even the most ardent scammer is going to play along. Demands for cash have been slowly increasing  to the point that last month was unreasonable. Now I have been weighing up for while if she is merely a scammer. A week ago I laid it on the line that in July I had a lot of expenses  myself and that I could not give her any cash in July. I just yesterday had to pay 26,000 baht to the Thai accountant for company accounts and tax and currently by bank account stands at £26. I have an Am Ex bill for £600, Barclaycard is not due until the end of the month. Council tax £200, gas and electric £180, vets bill to put the dog down £140. Planned works on the house been put off for 18 months £3200. That is not to say money wont be coming in through out the month to meet my commitments. So having told the gf she can have nothing this month today she wants 13,000 baht to clear her credit card, and it is only the first of the month.

Now she is not stupid, she has a degree in Business Admin, or something similar, so running a budget should not be too difficult for her. So is she a scammer or just plane stupid. Or am I stupid, I think I know the answer to that.

Plain stupid,     My  Thai Mrs. has a degree in Business admin... too,.... she bought it

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Posted
8 hours ago, Kinnock said:

A real, exclusive girlfriend would already know your financial situation and would not ask for money, at least until you had some spare cash.

 

 

 

They assume you have money stashed away and are also lying about your income.

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Posted
1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Why don't you find a part time gf, living with them becomes annoying after a while.

Get yourself a cute little university chick, plenty in Bangkok. 

 

I found this chick, 21yo, 160H, 47kg.

She only wants 3500 a week, I can see here anytime after school, 6pm on and all day Saturday and Sunday.

 

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You write Thai or do it through a translator?

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Posted
33 minutes ago, davb said:

 

They assume you have money stashed away and are also lying about your income.

Well yes I guessed that. Although I have never said what my actual income is. Just as I am sure they have a stash some where.

Posted
48 minutes ago, Celsius said:

This is one of the funnier threads. Boy do i need a laff in miserable Canada 

Glad I made up your day in miserable Canada. Since you are here the Pizza Hut near where I lived closed and they turned into a Tim Hortons. Must be be the only one in the UK, never seen one before. What is so special about Tim Hortons? 

 

Posted
1 hour ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Also, don't forget, you are a Brit. 

 

Your terrible teeth, poor wardrobe, big gut won't allow you to get the prettiest bird.

 

What is it with American's and the British having bad teeth? Big gut coming from an American?

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Posted
12 hours ago, Geoff914 said:

 I just yesterday had to pay 26,000 baht to the Thai accountant for company accounts and tax

Doesn't your company have to pay that, or doesn't your company make any money?

Where did you find this GF?

Posted
7 hours ago, Geoff914 said:

That is an issue. She is a licenced travel guide. She was working on and off up until I returned to the UK in April. Her family are in the process of selling farming land and she has been involved with that. Given she had three other sisters, one of whom sounds well connected and local to where the family lives it does pee me off that she is the one that commutes on a regular basis from BKK to KK to sort out the sale. Why the one in KK who has a string of condos and cars can't get off her arse and do something is beyond me. Her own history is that she had a Thai husband. Good job working in Singapore but he had a heart attack. She has been living off the disposal of assets. That is what I have been told.

 

Why would somebody with a degree in Business Admin work as a tour guide?

Why does she need to travel all the time to sell some land? You only need to go to the land office once you have somebody who has money and wants to buy the land.

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Learn how to say NO.   Anyone, anywhere, demanding money from me, just had their last conversation with me.  😎

Posted

Your doubts are your greatest ally and you absolutely must listen to them. If you think she's taking advantage she is, and I don't care how young or beautiful she is, she's not worth it. Sounds like it's time to move on and find somebody who's truly worthy of your devotion. It's about self-esteem at this point, if you don't do it you're going to hate yourself for it. 

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Posted
48 minutes ago, KhunLA said:

Learn how to say NO.   Anyone, anywhere, demanding money from me, just had their last conversation with me.  😎

Can I borrow 1 baht?

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Posted
15 minutes ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

Communication is important. 

 

Thai chicks are lazy, you got to talk Thai.

 

True. Flirt in Thai etc.

 

 

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Posted
9 hours ago, Geoff914 said:

That is an issue. She is a licenced travel guide. She was working on and off up until I returned to the UK in April. Her family are in the process of selling farming land and she has been involved with that. Given she had three other sisters, one of whom sounds well connected and local to where the family lives it does pee me off that she is the one that commutes on a regular basis from BKK to KK to sort out the sale. Why the one in KK who has a string of condos and cars can't get off her arse and do something is beyond me. Her own history is that she had a Thai husband. Good job working in Singapore but he had a heart attack. She has been living off the disposal of assets. That is what I have been told.

 

Based on my past experience with an educated Thai GF (my ex is a micro-biologist) in the middle class-upper middle class, if you focus solely on

this post, you may find your answer…. 
 

1. ‘Family obligations’ are often used as an excuse to  not being able to work ‘for now’.  They often choose to take-on the ‘task’ to gain favor in the family and/or hide other activities. 
 

2. There is probably a reason the sister is not involved, though you will never get a straight answer. 
 

3. Living Off Assets… Big red flag as some educated Thai women will have the opportunity to have a good job, but prefer the freedom of having a BF or Husband or other windfall profit support them. 
When the relationship fails or the money is gone…rinse & repeat. 

4. Work history: They will have a vague work history often interlaced with a multitude of reasons they left their job or similar. 
 

In the end, while many Thai ladies are very responsible & hardworking, some are very irresponsible and just want to play.

 

Due to the family background, working the bars or similar is not acceptable so they become serial GF /wives with the only real intention being to live an easy life off the backs of others. 
 

Hopefully, this helps and you can find a way forward that works for you. 

 Cheers

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6 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

Why would somebody with a degree in Business Admin work as a tour guide?

Why does she need to travel all the time to sell some land? You only need to go to the land office once you have somebody who has money and wants to buy the land.

Again what I was told, she ran her own business but Covid saw the end of that. She said it was what she liked to do.

Posted
18 hours ago, proton said:

What has she asked the cash for and how much?

she wants 13,000 baht to clear her credit card,

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