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Thai dating apps just escorts?

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3 hours ago, Prubangboy said:

I accept that 3/4's of the dates are going to a one and done. So that means about a year spent to cruise through a dozen possible pre-vetted candidates, which would likely yield up a reasonable partner.

Yes, that my rate in UK of about 20 dates in a year. 

But I was rusty with first dates having one g/f so long and same before that. 

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Not one of the woman I dated for four months were escorts on Thaifriendly

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@Will B Good I meant with reference to my personal experiences, but since @ThreeCardMonte decided to continue to engage, I decided to stay a little longer 😊

That reminds me...during COVID I joined TF to connect with the locals and met a school teacher online... and even she bought me a gift. That's what I mean, that if a girl likes you, she will show it. These fools just spending money to impress are simply digging their own graves. They need to learn to connect on a deeper level.

 

 

 

 

9 minutes ago, freedomnow said:

 

But I was rusty with first dates having one g/f so long and same before that. 

It def takes some time to up your game and to know what you want.

 

My problem:

 

I don't care about my game and I don't know what I want.

15 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

Man, I am trying to manifest from the universe a Shibari Korean 9 for you.

 

The whole good girl patriarchy thing here, plus curiosity and artiness not exactly being encouraged in women, presents a highl barrier to kinky or even horny hot sex. The high libido trad wife is a contradiction in terms.

 

So yeah, if I fell in with one of those unicorns, it would change everything for me too.

 

Is it worth the mud-wading and the hopium it takes to keep staggering on?

 

Our difference may be down our age diff. I have no time left for the dance of 7 veils.

 

But yeah, you will eventually evolve your process and then as you say, make your own luck,

 

Thanks man, I did actually see the Shibari BDSM  girl today on an app. A Chinese lass. It's funny what you find there sometimes, it has all sorts. 

 

Yes, it's really rare to find a truly kinky female, and if she is that kinky that's ironically a major flag, as it's 99% certain that a previous ex brought her up that way. 

 

Is it worth the mud wading, well, if you think about it, choosing a partner is even more important than buying your car, house and even choosing your job, so it makes sense to invest time and do due diligence, and get the best you can get. That's just my view.

 

 

 

 

Tinder

Bumble

Hinge

Thaifriendly

 

Which are hot for leads and which are not ? They vary by country. In UK for me - Hinge and Bumble have better grade women/profiles with effort put into them. Tinder is worst.

1 minute ago, freedomnow said:

Tinder

Bumble

Hinge

Thaifriendly

 

Which are hot for leads and which are not ? They vary by country. In UK for me - Hinge and Bumble have better grade women/profiles with effort put into them. Tinder is worst.

 

I stick with TF and Bumble.That already yields enough.

 

Bumble is for the more serious girls with jobs, tourists and Digital Nomads in CM, TF is for the rural Thai girls.

 

I don't like Tinder as it restricts you to local girls only. Too little control.

 

Bumble is more popular in Thailand than Hinge.

12 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Thanks man, I did actually see the Shibari BDSM  girl today on an app. A Chinese lass. It's funny what you find there sometimes, it has all sorts. 

 

Yes, it's really rare to find a truly kinky female, and if she is that kinky that's ironically a major flag, as it's 99% certain that a previous ex brought her up that way. 

 

Is it worth the mud wading, well, if you think about it, choosing a partner is even more important than buying your car, house and even choosing your job, so it makes sense to invest time and do due diligence, and get the best you can get. That's just my view.

 

 

 

 

I did go to a Shibari "workshop" for laughs nearby. It was me and 6 Indian guys.

 

Who could ever have foreseen that? Other than anyone?

 

I live next door to Demonia Fetish Club. The guy also owns The Castle in Pattaya. Nice old Frenchie, been here 25 years, has a kinky Thai wife (she got kinky in France).

 

He said that it's very hard to get staff who get spanked for money. Tho you will be offered a half a dozen free swats; I tipped 300. For real heartfelt kink, you prob have to go white -and fat. 

 

My ex joked that I took longer choosing my sunglasses frames than I did choosing my apartment. My next GF, if that even happens, will likewise likely be a snap decision -which is another argument against trying.

 

Dating Apps in Thailand: Tinder has the most people, Then Facebook. Bumble has been dead for me, I was unable to upload hinge. I looked at ThaiFriendly and it's great if you want to date someone in Phitsolanuk.

 

I never pay for a site. The (possible non-existent) likes that I can't see will eventually get through to me.

7 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I did go to a Shibari "workshop" for laughs nearby. It was me and 6 Indian guys.

 

Who could ever have foreseen that? Other than anyone?

 

I live next door to Demonia Fetish Club. The guy also owns The Castle in Pattaya. Nice old Frenchie, been here 25 years, has a kinky Thai wife (she got kinky in France).

 

He said that it's very hard to get staff who get spanked for money. Tho you will be offered a half a dozen free swats; I tipped 300. For real heartfelt kink, you prob have to go white -and fat. 

 

My ex joked that I took longer choosing my sunglasses frames than I did choosing my apartment. My next GF, if that even happens, will likewise likely be a snap decision -which is another argument against trying.

 

Dating Apps in Thailand: Tinder has the most people, Then Facebook. Bumble has been dead for me, I was unable to upload hinge. I looked at ThaiFriendly and it's great if you want to date someone in Phitsolanuk.

 

Yeah, that's what my grandfather always used to say, go with your gut feeling. He was talking about houses and apartments.

 

I think for the really kinky girls Russian is the way to go. They will literally do anything. Thais are actually very different in this regard, not at all the do anything girls they get protrayed as. As a rule, anyway.

 

Respect for going to an actual Shibari workshop. There's me fiddling with nylon rope from the supermarket, lol.

 

What I like about Bumble is the girls there are so smart they actually put their insta handle half the time. So you can contact them there. So the girls are sabotaging the whole point of Bumble successfully. Which you got to love.

 

There was this guy in Hungary, Dr Lomp. He had no issues in finding girls willing to get spanked, until one of them complained he went too far.  He made some of the most extreme porn on the web to be fair.

 

 

 

 

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

I think for the really kinky girls Russian is the way to go. They will literally do anything. Thais are actually very different in this regard, not at all the do anything girls they get protrayed as. As a rule, anyway.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

In the culture of saving face, being a sub woman in bed is a cultural stretch for Thai's. Again, a westernized Thai person would up you odds a few hundred percent. You are dealing with slightly complex psychology, which again, is not a natural Thai inclination.

 

These post 50 Shades days, probably one in eight whities is up for some kind of soft version.

 

Russians are a tougher nut to crack than Koreans. Because I do a lot of meditation, I meet them a bit because they are super into it.

 

A lot of the docents at the National museum are also Russian women. But they def want to stick to their own kind. Even Polish or Ukrainian doesn't interest them.

4 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

In the culture of saving face, being a sub woman in bed is a cultural stretch for Thai's.

 

Sadly absolutely correct, even if there is a healthy urge to participate.

 

I think BDSM and Kinks have gone pretty mainstream in the west. Studies have shown that 65 to 70% of the population has had BDSM fantasies and up to 17% are actively engaged in the community, which supports your figure,.

 

Maybe Russians have a different morality, maybe it's the Banya thrashing they're used to, but they can take punishment like noone else. Very hardcore girls.

 

I see them in CM banging Americans btw.

I didn't see a lot of Americans in Nimman. More like Little Toronto. For single western Women, Bangkok prob has 80% of them.  I would consider Russian women as a separate category from other western women (and then just write them off entirely).

 

No way are 17% of people engaged in the ultra-sad and useless BDSM community. And if that number is true, it's inflated by sub guys.

 

A sub Indian guy -probably has the absolute worst luck in dating-world. All of the Indian at the Shibari show were doms. Very single doms, obviously.

 

Their chance of tying up another Indian are super low, for white bondage, zero. It cheers me up to see guys doing worse than me. But if I have to reach that far to feel better...... 

 

The sexual market place of Thailand is like an ice cream store where you can have any flavor you want, as long as it's vanilla.

Nah bored and lonely medium-wage timewasters who will want to photo their meal to show their friends. 

 

It's not like I am above the timewasting charge myself.

 

Everyone is shopping. Nobody wants to buy.

 

 

Wow...who knew? Some serious weirdos out there.

I go out, find someone who looks acceptable and then find a way to engage.

Shooting fish in a barrel seems to have become so complicated for the participants here. They've lost the skill of hunting in the wild and all of the nuances that go with that.

The overriding feeling that I get, is that these are just not particularly nice people and that is why they struggle to find a good partner. You need to be one yourself.

 

I saw this article recently. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15037045/Billionaire-David-Geffen-superyacht-divorce-Donovan-Michaels.html It put me in mind of the types that post here. Especially reading what the ex partner had to say about Geffen.

 

4 hours ago, kingstonkid said:

 

 

All these apps have one thing in common you can select what you want and eliminate ladyboys and lady looking for another lady.

 

As t them all prostitutes i will assume you are dealing with a younger age group I think you might want to rething what you are posting.

 

I have talked to a lot of ladies on sites and they all say the same thing.  

 

I am tired of guys that are looking for holiday girl or looking for ONS.  I also hate the guys that send me dick pics.

 

I have met a lot of great people on sites none of them prostitutes.  However, like any person if you are expecting them to leave their jobs or stop working then they will need money to pay rent.

 

Check what you are posting.  

 

 


Thank you for your insight but I know exactly what I want and pay them generously to leave afterwards.  

 

Consider focusing your attention on the broke expat that cons woman into paying for his meals and “borrows” 75k baht from them because he only carries a hundred baht in his pocket @JakeC

31 minutes ago, Prubangboy said:

I didn't see a lot of Americans in Nimman. More like Little Toronto. For single western Women, Bangkok prob has 80% of them.  I would consider Russian women as a separate category from other western women (and then just write them off entirely).

 

No way are 17% of people engaged in the ultra-sad and useless BDSM community. And if that number is true, it's inflated by sub guys.

 

A sub Indian guy -probably has the absolute worst luck in dating-world. All of the Indian at the Shibari show were doms. Very single doms, obviously.

 

Their chance of tying up another Indian are super low, for white bondage, zero. It cheers me up to see guys doing worse than me. But if I have to reach that far to feel better...... 

 

The sexual market place of Thailand is like an ice cream store where you can have any flavor you want, as long as it's vanilla.

 

Oh there's quite a few Americans here in CM. Yes, Russians are a very particular category, that's true.

 

That's the stats the internet spits out. Wouldn't it be underreported though? Most probably wouldn't admit to being in that community.

 

It's quite interesting that Indian men are seen as so unattractive, and yet their women do so wel lin the Miss Universe competitions. Something about Asian, Chinese, Indian, Thai, Korean.

 

I  particularly like Koreans.

 

 

I actually don't have 75k in Thailand. I usually just pay with a card. Even in my home country I don't carry cash. So if I need cash, someone else usually pays. But I can easily transfer it back to them. Makes my life easier. It's nice when you have people who do that for you and equally that you can do good things for them. That's why makes life so good. But when you have to bribe and coerce people to do things that they don't really want to do, but will compromise themselves for money, then you have toxicity on both sides. People who deserve each other and secretly despise each other.

That's your life @ThreeCardMonte and likely @Cameroni too. Up to you...or perhaps not, as you simply have no other choices if you want to engage with women.

1 hour ago, JakeC said:

@Will B Good I meant with reference to my personal experiences, but since @ThreeCardMonte decided to continue to engage, I decided to stay a little longer 😊

That reminds me...during COVID I joined TF to connect with the locals and met a school teacher online... and even she bought me a gift. That's what I mean, that if a girl likes you, she will show it. These fools just spending money to impress are simply digging their own graves. They need to learn to connect on a deeper level.

 

 

 

 


What was the gift?   A gofundme account for your plane ticket back home…LMAO

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12 hours ago, JakeC said:

 

Mine are real relationships. Give and take, Free flowing and full trust.

 

The white knight has entered the chat.

 

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6 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Indeed online dating suggests an ocean of potential mates, which is clearly not the case. It creates a false impression. Particularly for a man, you will never have the optionality a woman enjoys, no matter how rich, good looking or even famous you are.

 

Even if you were to meet a woman offline, she would still enjoy this optionality and would probably have several men on the go at the same time, if she's dating. That's how women date. It was a shock to find out, but women's promiscuity is real. They just have all the options.

You generalize too much.

This may be correct about the women you have known.

It's not correct about the women I have known (and not correct about most Thai women) - your whining (sorry) is actually a bit ridiculous.

So, the question remains,  why are our experiences so different?

@ThreeCardMonte It was honey from her province, as she knew I liked honey and wanted a genuine and unadulterated product. She got it for me without me asking, but just listening to what I liked during our conversations.

@Oliver Holzerfilled...just another ugly Troll... what a surprise. 😊

The people who have no love in their lives always reveal themselves, in one way or another.

1 hour ago, Lorry said:

You generalize too much.

This may be correct about the women you have known.

It's not correct about the women I have known (and not correct about most Thai women)

 

It probably is correct about the women you have known, they just hid it from you, that's all.

 

And if I generalize too much, you however can talk about "most Thai women"? So you have had relationships with "most Thai women" then?

 

Impressive.

@Cameroni I have explained, succintly, why you have a prevailing view of women that isn't consistent with the experiences of others. In short, you fish for gold diggers, even if you think that you are not doing so. It's your MO. Repeating the same trauma over and over again.

A kid in a candy shop and on the other side, enticing girls with candy. 

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

It probably is correct about the women you have known, they just hid it from you, that's all.

A girl whose main concern when breaking up is to give me back 2m Baht is indeed hiding her greed very well.

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

And if I generalize too much, you however can talk about "most Thai women"? So you have had relationships with "most Thai women" then?

Your women are an extremely biased selection,  as @JakeC has explained. Can't you see that yourself?

Your modus operandi is extremely unusual,  so are the girls you get. 

Why not, if it makes you happy (unfortunately,  it obviously doesn't) - but don't think this has anything to do with normality. 

4 minutes ago, Lorry said:

A girl whose main concern when breaking up is to give me back 2m Baht is indeed hiding her greed very well.

Your women are an extremely biased selection,  as @JakeC has explained. Can't you see that yourself?

Your modus operandi is extremely unusual,  so are the girls you get. 

Why not, if it makes you happy (unfortunately,  it obviously doesn't) - but don't think this has anything to do with normality. 

 

First of all that's not what I refererd to, money greed. I was referring to women having a dating roster of more than one guy, so i wasn't referring to women in fully committed relationships either, but to women who were dating.

 

JakeC can't explain anything, and I don't read his texts.

 

Granted my modus operandi is unusual, but the women are not. That's the key. 

 

These are very normal girls.

On 8/25/2025 at 12:48 AM, Packer said:

 

A girl near here, 23, makes +/-300,000 a month. Mainly does 3-4 short times each afternoon and evening from guys online at 3,000 a go. Does the odd overnight with guys that fly in to Thailand for 2 weeks or so at 10k a night or 100k per week. Puts most into property and will be a retired USD millionaire by 30. 

HAha 3000. you are getting off cheap.. Some i have chatted are asking 5k up front.. for ST.. 6. - 7k. for LT if they are even willing to do LT... No Pu--y is worth paying so much for. Even 3k... Better to find long time GF and give her some monthly money for expenses. Then you can screw her as many times as you want every day and not go poor..

4 hours ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Thank you for your insight but I know exactly what I want and pay them generously to leave afterwards.  

 

I usually chose the ones who only need 3K max to leave after 5 minutes.

 

Dating Apps are stupid in Thailand. Want a girl in Bangkok? Walk up and down Sukhumvit between Terminal 21 and Soi Nana. You will see a bunch of Dating App girls on the street, some of whom you will realize arent really girls.

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