5 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

You obviously had the wrong wife or girlfriends for that, as it's always good if you treat them well. They also might be bored with you as it takes two to tango. Men who look at their women as objects and use too much porn are never going to be happy, or neither will his partners.

You've obviously struggled with women

5 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

High testosterone, maybe you are low

Nah I had women. You jerked off.

4 hours ago, save the frogs said:

but there are other elements in a relationship besides sex.

usually.

Yes but this thread is about sex and masturbation

10 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

You've obviously struggled with women

No, I've actually done very well with women. The only couple I've had trouble with are two I had children with. I don't pay for play, so it's much harder to get a legitimate girlfriend, whereas those that do can buy all they want, and even more with a coupon.

6 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

Yes but this thread is about sex and masturbation

Jerking off often over 50yo is kind of sad.

6 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Nah I had women. You jerked off.

i doubt you had women, they tend not to go for fatsos, Thais don't care, low standards and poor options. i was dating a couple a week for my 30s

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

i doubt you had women, they tend not to go for fatsos, Thais don't care, low standards and poor options. i was dating a couple a week for my 30s

You sound more creepy than anything. Jerking off 3 times a day age 35yo like a 17yo. Why you never had a wife. You're a complete hand expert.

Edited April 26Apr 26 by Rockyroad

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Jerking off often over 50yo is kind of sad.

back home most guys over 50 <deleted> it's the best they can get

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

No, I've actually done very well with women. The only couple I've had trouble with are two I had children with. I don't pay for play, so it's much harder to get a legitimate girlfriend, whereas those that do can buy all they want, and even more with a coupon.

a legitimate girlfriend here doesn't want an old guy, especially with no money

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

back home most guys over 50 <deleted> it's the best they can get

Do they? I did not know Brit men were so sad.

It's the old "use it or lose it" case. Also, being sexually active enough helps protect men from prostrate cancer... due to not having to reabsorb fluids, which produce cancer-causing sustances when they are by the body.

Also, taking lycopene through food like pureed tomatoes or supplements will help protect the prostrate too. One of the main reasons why male sexual performance and health can also decline is through having lower nitric oxide levels, which happens with age... get more nitric oxide in you through taking beetroot power in a smoothie or through supplements etc., like the gym types take because it increases circulation and relaxes bllood vessels to increase flow (basically what viagra does). Good supplements for increase circulation are pycnogenol or panax gingseng.

Edited April 26Apr 26 by Sir Dude

1 minute ago, scubascuba3 said:

a legitimate girlfriend here doesn't want an old guy, especially with no money

Women everywhere want a decent man, especially after being used by the trash. Every foreigner here has more money than the average local, and Thai women know what to expect with the majority of local men, so they have a few reasons to gravitate to foreigners. Money is of course one, as a foreigner can give a local woman a better lifestyle than a local can, on average, unless the foreigner is a jerk. Women all want love, unless they have been damaged so much by an absent or abusive and neglective father that they won't know the decent one if it was right in front of them.

5 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

back home most guys over 50 <deleted> it's the best they can get

Depends on your status, wealth, confidence, and social skills. It is not that hard to attract younger women back home if you know how to carry yourself.

But honestly, and this is no joke, if you are single it often takes more effort than if you are already married.

On 4/24/2026 at 8:22 PM, matchar said:

I would've thought Two Tier Kier would relish the opportunity to give the Falklands away and even pay Argentina to take them.

Yes, you understood it. The Americans are out to antagonize ypu and seripusñy defend your right to the Falklands.

I'd rather they kidnap Stürmer than dismantle the UK but up to them. If they were to dismantle the UK most entiries would join the EU in 24 hours

3 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Jerking off often over 50yo is kind of sad.

So you admit to being over fifty and jerking off otherwise how can you make such a statement?

I 'clear the pipes' every day without fail at 08.00. Unfortunately for the staff, I go to get my shopping at Lotus's Go Fresh every day without fail at 07.55.

On 4/25/2026 at 9:19 PM, Jingthing said:

The topic isn't about masturbation actually.

It's about how many spurts per month men over 50 should have (in any way they choose) for optimum continued healthy function of the prostate and equipment.

Watch the video instead of only reading the title of it and you would get it.

But, do you know or realize what the video is about. It´s about a very well chosen topic, to be able to make money on YouTube. $15 for 1000 views. With 1600000 views in 5 months that would be 24000 USD.

5 times per day whether I need it or not. What else you gonna do when your stuck and the traffic in Bangkok isn't moving?

On 4/26/2026 at 3:47 PM, scottiejohn said:

So you admit to being over fifty and jerking off otherwise how can you make such a statement?

This is a no <deleted> shaming zone!

Sex with a partner is sometimes sad depending on the quality and partner.

www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/sex-in-the-second-half

Masturbation is common. Most men (63%) and almost half of women (47%) in the 50 and over age group reported masturbating in the past year, according to the Indiana survey. As with other sexual activities, the percentage declined with age, although a significant number of those 80 and older indicated that they masturbated.

The University of Chicago survey found masturbation to be almost equally common among those in a relationship and those not in one.

Edited April 27Apr 27 by Jingthing

I've heard it said there is no such thing as bad sex just like there is no such thing as bad pizza.

Such people clearly have no taste in sex OR pizza.

On 4/26/2026 at 3:25 PM, Sir Dude said:

nough helps protect men from prostrate cancer... due to not having to reabsorb fluids,

And the reason men get urine infection....you want me to tell you why ?

I will....they Wxnk and dont pee afterwards letting the semen travel back down causing a infection

Edited April 27Apr 27 by georgegeorgia

7 hours ago, Jingthing said:

This is a no <deleted> shaming zone!

Sex with a partner is sometimes sad depending on the quality and partner.

www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/sex-in-the-second-half

Doubt he has ever had a partner. Who would go with a creep like him?

On 4/26/2026 at 3:47 PM, scottiejohn said:

So you admit to being over fifty and jerking off otherwise how can you make such a statement?

You sound surprised! Maybe you should enlighten yourself a bit, by clicking to Youtube when looking the video. Please read the comments under, and you will suddenly understand how stupid your comment above is.

3 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

You sound surprised! Maybe you should enlighten yourself a bit, by clicking to Youtube when looking the video. Please read the comments under, and you will suddenly understand how stupid your comment above is.

I suggest that you look at who the comment was addressed to and consider the content and quality(sic) of its posts!

On 4/26/2026 at 12:19 PM, fredwiggy said:

No, I've actually done very well with women. The only couple I've had trouble with are two I had children with. I don't pay for play, so it's much harder to get a legitimate girlfriend, whereas those that do can buy all they want, and even more with a coupon.

So, what you are saying is that it´s harder to get a legitimate girlfriend/wife if you don´t pay for play? With that you are stating that that ones in the pay for play group is more legitimate, right? Now you´re getting totally unbalanced Freddy.

And you also say that you only have problem with the ones you had children with. I guess it got too real for you then, right?

Also, you have done very well??? How come you didn´t end up in better situation then?

Hormones dry up as you age,

4 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

So, what you are saying is that it´s harder to get a legitimate girlfriend/wife if you don´t pay for play? With that you are stating that that ones in the pay for play group is more legitimate, right? Now you´re getting totally unbalanced Freddy.

And you also say that you only have problem with the ones you had children with. I guess it got too real for you then, right?

Also, you have done very well??? How come you didn´t end up in better situation then?

Assuming again Gottfrid. And obviously a little confused. Common sense. Anyone can buy a girlfriend with beauty. Not everyone can get a normal, especially beautiful, girlfriend. How is paying for a P4P legitimate? Maybe for you.

Nowhere near unbalanced, although some things you say here are suspect. What got too real? You weren't there so yes, all you can do is guess, and as usual, be wrong.

That I had trouble with the ones I had children is just chance, especially seeing that I stick around when children are born and not head for the hills like many men do, which means you're going to be around a woman you aren't good with, at least until you get custody.I have a better situation now, with my girlfriend here of over 5 years.

Yes, I have been with a lot of women, both as a physical mutual relationship and as girlfriends. As most people know, most relationships end, and a lot are because the two aren't a good fit, even though they like and are attracted to each other. Different future plans perhaps?

I'm not sure if you've been with many women, but from what you say, it seems like just a couple and then your wife here. Getting a wife, or girlfriend, back in the west, especially a pretty, decent, normal one, is a lot harder than here. All you need here is cash, for either type.

Men who are happy in their relationships with women don't go into an online forum intending to insult people they have little knowledge of. Not normal behavior but done by a few here, and likely we'll see at least one usual suspect back here, assuming and demeaning, with no idea to whom he's trolling or how he lives his life.

Edited April 28Apr 28 by fredwiggy

When I showed my Missus the original "21 times a month" research last year, she started to keep a log 😅.

I'm fortunate that she sees keeping me happy as her key responsibly - (and I think this is delightfully common for Thai women as they see it as a way to keep their men from straying), so in addition to a healthy sex life, she can also deliver a suspiciously good 'happy ending' if the monthly timing is a limiting factor.

And with the age gap in my favour, she still looks super hot to me, so I'm an enthusiastic supporter of the 21 target, although I admit to falling short some months.

21 times a month is not really practical if you're both running a business that involves meetings, workshops and travel, unless you like an audience.

2 hours ago, 3NUMBAS said:

Hormones dry up as you age,

So does full stops.

About three times a week, but I have full on sex about six or eight times a week.

Past 73, it is harder to come. I’m going to see a urologist about it.

My testosterone shots have helped with arousal and erection, but delayed ejaculation has haunted me for about a decade.