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Pakistan's gender violence

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[Opinion. Of course, the racists and anti-immigrant types will tell us this is where the rape gangs in the UK originated. Maybe. But I don’t see the evidence.

What is astonishing to me is the extent of complicity in violence of mothers-in-law who must have gone through the same thing and, Allah ke fazal say, survived.

"Honour" killing is the most despicable kind of murder imaginable. It brings no honour to the family, only shame.]

‘If a woman is killed, they say she fell, she took poison’: Pakistan’s devastating rise in ‘hidden’ sexual violence

Karachi’s chief police surgeon condemns increasing acceptance of domestic murders and rapes of women and girls

Zofeen T Ebrahim

The Guardian: 13 Jul 2026

SOURCE: https://www.theguardian.com/global-development/2026/jul/13/if-a-woman-is-killed-they-say-she-fell-she-took-poison-pakistans-devastating-rise-in-hidden-sexual-violence

A white-bearded man looks straight into the camera, in the video circulating for the past few weeks on social media. “I killed my wife,” he says calmly in Urdu. “We have a give-and-take arrangement and when she refused to give, I said I would take.” Hours earlier, the 64-year-old had walked into a police station in Karachi’s Orangi neighbourhood and confessed to murdering Asma Begum, a 58-year-old mother of four, in the home they shared because she had refused him sex.

“If the woman has been killed in the process, they will say, she fell, she took poison, she burnt herself, or she committed suicide. In the last case, they often stage the entire event by hanging a flimsy scarf from a ceiling fan.”

Her experience with such cases, Tariq says, has shown her that many men do not see women as human beings, but as objects. “It baffles me no end – even if there is little love, where is the companionship and friendship?”

Disturbingly, social media was flooded with videos of men – including lawyers – praising the husband for killing his wife over her “disobedience”, with some legal professionals publicly offering to represent him.

Tariq is not surprised. “I have met mothers-in-law who insist their sons were right to put the fear of God into their wives. They cannot comprehend a wife saying no, and they invoke religion to justify it. The common refrain is that angels would otherwise send their laanat [curse] upon her.”

There is a significant Pakistani diaspora, which has concentrated pockets within the UK. It is a fact, and I am sure that some will condemn me as racist for saying this, but this diaspora has brought these attitudes along with it.

5 hours ago, unblocktheplanet said:

[Opinion. Of course, the racists and anti-immigrant types will tell us this is where the rape gangs in the UK originated. Maybe. But I don’t see the evidence.

Maybe because you don't WANT to see the evidence because then you would need to call your whole narrative into question?

Did you do any research?

https://www.atlanticcouncil.org/blogs/southasiasource/understanding-rape-culture-in-bangladesh-india-pakistan/

Understanding “rape culture” in Bangladesh, India, & Pakistan

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