I've Finally Found Her...

[Girlfrombar]

she sounds pretty sexy to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

so femenist, smart & sexy

not so often that in a lifetime, we find the most clicked one

now u have found her, enjoy 'at present' moment

when she told u --u r too good for her

have u ever asked her back.. why she said so

why she thinks u just too good for her

don't u wanna know the reason?

where there is 'love', there the "sorrow" is--

even the Buddha said this

sorrow is always there!

whatever she loves u, or u love her

love or not love, the disappointment is always there

it might be pain-in-the-ass but still worth gift

forget about 'how long' the relationship will last

nothing lasts forever, everything has its own cycle

even the seasons!

'love' should focus on only the 'present tense'

if u r happy, it's absolutely fine!

i think,

she needs someone who can absolutely handle with her vulnerable psychological mind, she might seems strong outside, but it's the 'shell'

it's just about oneself-protection, some have less, others have more

time and generosity can cure

anyway

even if it doesn't work out between her & u,

i believe that she will be one of your great&best mate ever

ummm...

it might be a good idea to arrange some time to get to know her 'father'

i guess, he's her hero in mind ever!

take it easy,

and GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!

GFB.

[mouse]

Scamp GO FOR IT but a couple pieces of advice if I may. Do not treat her too good with priceless treasures etc but make it romantic for her and you.

Then have children, many many children. They have a tendency to cement a relationship.

Elsie said slow down. Why should you? Someone else may grab her.

As far as where she worked and how many farang ........... it is all irrellavant. Some girls and guys just look for love in the wrong places. But so what ....... if you find it!!!

[Girlfrombar]

Some girls and guys just look for love in the wrong places. But so what ....... if you find it!!!

W-o-W!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i luv ya MOUSE!

[sleir]

uhm... i think all good the advice and comments are worth nothing...

because none of us actually know her.. the facts we have here tell us nothing about how she really is.

in my humble opinion, all there is to do for you scamp is to look at her, look at the way she is, not looks, look in her eyes and then be honest to yourself. what do you see ?

a girl that makes you happy or one that will deceive you ? best do it after your 2nd brain has had its satisfaction... men tend to be more "neutral" then. just a bit of insight in human nature helps in most cases... and then decide what you want to do and how to behave towards her... nothing wrong about having an exciting relationship that doesn't last forever. the key to a succesful relationship is same expectations... i think. not really an expert either but well... : )

[vanessa_vanillasky]

hey good luck to both of you

[Bizz]

Love will come love to dream. In your heart dream of joy. Live for now and forget about yesterday tomorrow will come and you will both be there.

IN LOVE

[Insight]

I think I'm going to cry...

[medicinebox]

She is also moving in with someone she does not know so well, a man that has a history of going to bars and dating girls  left right and centre.

Seems pretty equal to me!   

When a man goes on a date, he wonders if he will get lucky. She already knows if he will get lucky.

So stop saying it equal. There's nothing wrong with men visiting bars and paying prostitutes. You will probably think different, then I may have to accuse you of being "Sackless". Women in the bars are fallen. Once they cross that line they become a life support system for a vagina and nothing more.

She's been shagged on the beach loads of times? Wheres her morals? Wheres the decency? Wheres the self respect. Sounds like what I would call a slag.

Good luck, but personally I couldn't develop feelings for some one who sucks dicks for a living. I've tried accepting their past and it just plays over in my mind too much.

[Bulldog]

Wow, what a Post!

No doubt you will be joining Begs in The Village of the Banned.

[Bulldog]

I've tried accepting their past and it just plays over in my mind too much.

They had a lucky escape then, cos you seem like a right <deleted>!

[The Gentleman Scamp]

Firstly, I can't reply to everyone but most of these decent posts deserve a response...

12Call - R.e. The Scamp & Ning show, you remembered her name then! yes, 12Call as well as Splitlid have already had the pleasure of her company, having said that she was sat bored shitless in 12Call's cafe while we were chatting and his wife was making me a steak and kidney pie. (Good one too)

Up2U - R.e. Met at a time when we both need to settle - I hope that is the case mate, I know I'm tired of mating with other butterflies trying to find one that suits me.

Dave - lol

GirlFromBar - Really nice post GFB, and the present tense is the most important as it sets the foundations for the future, one which I can't help thinking about. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift - that's why we call it the present. (Suggs out of Madness)

Mouse - R.e. Kids cementing a relationship - o you mean in Thailand they do, because it doesn't cement one in the U.K. I hope this is true because my biggest fear would be to have some with her one day and then for her to leave me.

Funily enough, she as no desire to get married - is that a good thing?

Medicinebox - R.e. Sucks dicks for a living - I'm surprised at you.

Don't hear from you for ages then you come out with something like that. I'm sure she's not over the moon at the fact that over the past fourteen years I've put mine in more than quite a few - and for pleasure, not survival.

Bulldog - Good reply.

[Dr. Jekyll]

Are you still with her Scampy...?

[elsie]

Elsie said slow down.  Why should you?  Someone else may grab her.

If that's the case, then she was not really in love with Scampy. Why should he be sorry if he lost her?

PS. That's a damm genuine question from my part.

Edited August 31, 2004 by LovelyCutie

[The Gentleman Scamp]

I'll let you know when I next post.

When I arrived back after my last post I opened the door with the usual anxiety - expecting her to be on the phone to some ex boyfriend or not even there at all but she was wearing nothing but my silk kimono that I brought in Vietnam a few years ago. She had put her hair up in a bun and had skewered it with a chopstick and was having a little wiggle to Robbie Williams which she turned into a teasing, flirtatious but lovey dovey dance when I walked in.

I got out the camcorder and got some good black and white footage - she loves the camera and it loves her.

She gave a big childish scowl when she saw that I hadn't brought enough chicken drumsticks and after we ate she pulled me towards her, undid the belt on the kimono and I spent the next thirty odd minutes thinking about football.

She really is too good to be true - why can't she tone down her looks a bit?

She looks like a slighly taller, Thai Angelina Jolie but with better lips, and she thinks I'm handsome!!! I can tell you now in all honesty that I look alright, but I'm not what I would call handsome.

With make up on and ready to go out she's undescribable.

If I took her to where I live in England then I would surely have the 5hit kicked out of me out of pure jealousy, and she could be attaced, though knowing her she would be the one doing the shitkicking.

After our roll in the hay she told me to excercise and sat on my feet while I did thirty sit ups. After that she farted, shrieked with surprise and put her hand to her mouth in shock like a little girl - then she jumped into bed and hid under the covers.

She farts, she actually does cute little farts with a 30 second afterhum... I want to lock this girl up so she never comes into contact with another man.

Later I told her all about Thaivisa.com a-She's just called-nd she sent me here to see what everyone was saying about us.

Like I said she just called saying - "Where are you, I hate you, you be very long time - hurry up I want your ****"

She's incredible, she's funny, she's out of any man's league and I'm out of my depth and I'm going to get so so so so so so hurt - but maybe, just maybe I won't - and she's worth the risk ayway and I should enjoy this while it lasts, be it another day or till the end of time.

I'll keep y'all updated.

[IamMaiC]

like the old saying better to have loved and lost then too have never loved at all I don't know if it's true but my opinion i rather not love someone then love someone and then lose them

I don't get to hear about the beginnings of relationships often and this a pleasent surprise

[Totster]

Scampy all I can say is for now trust your own instincts.... but remember, love is blind, so later in the relationship trust what your friends have to say, they will be looking at the relationship from the outside, they will have an untainted view of what is happening.... (whether it be good or bad)

We playfight a lot and she tries to punch my spagglepods

spagglepods... 5555 you crack me up... another new word for me

chok deeeeee !!

totster

[medicinebox]

I've tried accepting their past and it just plays over in my mind too much.

They had a lucky escape then, cos you seem like a right <deleted>!

Hey bully. Did your girl ever give bj's for money?

I have standards, its how I feel about it. You don't experience my sleepless nights and constant niggling in the back of my mind, of "How could she" "Yuk".

So don't critisize me for the way I feel.

"<deleted>???" Are we down to name calling now?

I don't find it insulting, because I'm pretty sure you wouldn't say it to my face.

Do I sound like a keyboard warrior now? Grrrrrr!

Scampy.

Sorry if that came across a bit blunt, but was it a true statement or not?

[mbkudu]

She is 27 years old and not from BKK, her first job after university was fixing the electrics on cars and motorbikes and since then she has raced bikes for money, worked as a bar gi

Scamp, this part really impresses me if in fact it is true. Chicks who are handy with tools and don't mind getting dirty are worth keeping, real gems. The part about the Swedish drug dealer ex-boyfriend gives me the creeps however.

It's always a crap shoot no matter what background they are from. just roll the dice and go with the flow, bro.

[simon43]

Slighty OT but why were you moving to HH? New job? And is this all on hold now?

And good luck with her! You may need it

[britmaveric]

Not sure what giving BJ(s) has to do with anything, medicinebox? I dare say you are treading on a dbl standard here mate. What if a TGF thought about every gal a lad has had? (no difference really)

[Jeff1]

It's called LOVE GS ! No one can give you advice , that is for you to decide. Enjoy every second of it . Go with the flow and see what happens . Spend time with her NOT your computer . Im happy for you ( and I dont even know you )

[Bulldog]

Do I sound like a keyboard warrior now? Grrrrrr!

Nope, you still sound like a <deleted>.

[davethailand]

I've tried accepting their past and it just plays over in my mind too much.

They had a lucky escape then, cos you seem like a right <deleted>!

Hey bully. Did your girl ever give bj's for money?

I have standards, its how I feel about it. You don't experience my sleepless nights and constant niggling in the back of my mind, of "How could she" "Yuk".

So don't critisize me for the way I feel.

"<deleted>???" Are we down to name calling now?

I don't find it insulting, because I'm pretty sure you wouldn't say it to my face.

Do I sound like a keyboard warrior now? Grrrrrr!

Scampy.

Sorry if that came across a bit blunt, but was it a true statement or not?

came across a bit blunt!

<deleted> me, it was'nt blunt it was just plain rude!

you should keep opinions like that to yourself

Hey bully. Did your girl ever give bj's for money

did yours?

[falong]

Destiny or danger?

You've heard the expression "2 good years and 40 years of ######" ?

Clearly you're in the puppy love stages--which studies show will last up till 18 months. Then the real work starts. i.e keeping the relationship going

Only danger I see.. is you having children before the initial euphoria of love wears off and reality sets in.

Other than that I would enjoy it while it lasts.

[medicinebox]

Do I sound like a keyboard warrior now? Grrrrrr!

Nope, you still sound like a <deleted>.

Here's to wishing you a trouble free life, and nothing nasty happening to you, my new friend.

I see your tagline has just about summed you up. Nice one.

[medicinebox]

I've tried accepting their past and it just plays over in my mind too much.

They had a lucky escape then, cos you seem like a right <deleted>!

Hey bully. Did your girl ever give bj's for money?

I have standards, its how I feel about it. You don't experience my sleepless nights and constant niggling in the back of my mind, of "How could she" "Yuk".

So don't critisize me for the way I feel.

"<deleted>???" Are we down to name calling now?

I don't find it insulting, because I'm pretty sure you wouldn't say it to my face.

Do I sound like a keyboard warrior now? Grrrrrr!

Scampy.

Sorry if that came across a bit blunt, but was it a true statement or not?

came across a bit blunt!

<deleted> me, it was'nt blunt it was just plain rude!

you should keep opinions like that to yourself

Hey bully. Did your girl ever give bj's for money

did yours?

I don't have one at the mo (by choice), The last one specialised in that department, but i never thought she was the girl of my dreams either. So while we are on about it, did yours?

you should keep opinions like that to yourself

Well maybe Scampy should keep what his new girl gets up to, to himself too.

[Darknight]

Best of luck scampi , great to hear you happy but i must agree with one thing she says.

"YOU THINK TO MUCH"

just enjoy and see were the flow goes, if it doesn' t work just let go. Don't make it bad already by anticipating.

[meemiathai]

Darknight points it out rightly!

"YOU TINK TOO MUT"

Just enjoy yourself.

[Wolfie]

Hey guys.

Scampy: do what you think is best... good luck!

Everyone else: Keep it civil or the thread gets locked, kow jai mai?

[SoCal]

Scamp,

Stop with all this I'm not good enough <deleted>. This makes me sick.

Let her make that decision.

It's not healthy for a relationship on either side. Breeds insecurity. Besides other party may think you start to make sense.

Have a good time, and what will be will be.

Worry about your work and finances. Here you have more control, and the better you are, the more positive you will be about yourself, and more positive people will be about you.

Also, good luck on your move to Hua Hin.

Positive thoughts bring about positive results.