I'll be picking up a Thai girl at the airport in a few weeks (Songkran), I like her a bit but we are only friends at this stage. However, she is the hugging type (in this regard her behaviour is more like a farang than a Thai). My problem is I often get a boner when hugging attractive females and I don't want her detect it and think I am having perverted thoughts. Its not that I will be having perverted thoughts, its involuntary more than anything else.

I think she likes me a bit too, but the last thing I want is to give myself away too early in the game.

Should I just avoid hugging her, protecting myself with a solid wai, or just make it an upper body hug? Both seem a little cold to me, and not an impression I really want to give unless I have no other choice.

I guess I could just laugh it off and say sorry, I have no control over it, but when I tried like this before it came across as a bit lame and she teased me about it.

Serious answers please.

Is this for real????

I'll be picking up a Thai girl at the airport in a few weeks (Songkran), I like her a bit but we are only friends at this stage. However, she is the hugging type (in this regard her behaviour is more like a farang than a Thai). My problem is I often get a boner when hugging attractive females and I don't want her detect it and think I am having perverted thoughts. Its not that I will be having perverted thoughts, its involuntary more than anything else.

I think she likes me a bit too, but the last thing I want is to give myself away too early in the game.

Should I just avoid hugging her, protecting myself with a solid wai, or just make it an upper body hug? Both seem a little cold to me, and not an impression I really want to give unless I have no other choice.

I guess I could just laugh it off and say sorry, I have no control over it, but when I tried like this before it came across as a bit lame and she teased me about it.

Serious answers please.

Wear some tight fitting pants

I'm still not sure if this is for real though.

I'll be picking up a Thai girl at the airport in a few weeks (Songkran), I like her a bit but we are only friends at this stage. However, she is the hugging type (in this regard her behaviour is more like a farang than a Thai). My problem is I often get a boner when hugging attractive females and I don't want her detect it and think I am having perverted thoughts. Its not that I will be having perverted thoughts, its involuntary more than anything else.

I think she likes me a bit too, but the last thing I want is to give myself away too early in the game.

Should I just avoid hugging her, protecting myself with a solid wai, or just make it an upper body hug? Both seem a little cold to me, and not an impression I really want to give unless I have no other choice.

I guess I could just laugh it off and say sorry, I have no control over it, but when I tried like this before it came across as a bit lame and she teased me about it.

Serious answers please.

Wear some tight fitting pants.

How long is the cuddle? Christ man if your getting a lob on from a quick cuddle you may well blow your load if she squeezes your bum. . If shes coming on a plane to see you the chances are she likes you anyway. Tell her you have the the opposite of impotence( what is that?). couple of Barcadi breezers and way hay.

arrive at the airport completely exhausted by a full night of hard....work ;-)

Seriously, if the lady can feel your ....emotion, I believe that she should not be offended if you two are "special" friends....And later, you might even not have to be embarrased , trying to let her understand that you feel a lot of good about her....she will know already

I'll be picking up a Thai girl at the airport in a few weeks (Songkran), I like her a bit but we are only friends at this stage. However, she is the hugging type (in this regard her behaviour is more like a farang than a Thai). My problem is I often get a boner when hugging attractive females and I don't want her detect it and think I am having perverted thoughts. Its not that I will be having perverted thoughts, its involuntary more than anything else.

I think she likes me a bit too, but the last thing I want is to give myself away too early in the game.

Should I just avoid hugging her, protecting myself with a solid wai, or just make it an upper body hug? Both seem a little cold to me, and not an impression I really want to give unless I have no other choice.

I guess I could just laugh it off and say sorry, I have no control over it, but when I tried like this before it came across as a bit lame and she teased me about it.

Serious answers please.

Wear some tight fitting pants.

How long is the cuddle? Christ man if your getting a lob on from a quick cuddle you may well blow your load if she squeezes your bum. . If shes coming on a plane to see you the chances are she likes you anyway. Tell her you have the the opposite of impotence( what is that?). couple of Barcadi breezers and way hay.

Priapism ?

it's the baby batter in the brain. you gotta take care of that before you go to the airport, or in the bathroom before the plane lands.

My friend had a similar problem, except his popped up all the time. He wore 2 pairs of undies.

Releive yourself first in the airplane toilet - down to the tatty water if need be.

Just tell her you have a gun in your pocket.

Anyhow, if it's happened before what's the problem? Go with the flow I say and why would she think you are having perverted thoughts? Perfectly normal reaction that in later life you may find yourself relying on chemical stimulants for.

I have heard it said some guy's start getting a boner in anticipation just as they are passing over the Bay of Bengal.

Buy an old fashioned cod piece or a cricket box, or just relieve yourself before the flight arrives.

Some people are saying to relieve yourself before, but there is always the slim chance I might be expected to perform later in the night.

I need everything to be working if the opportunity arises.

shades of "There's Something About Mary" here .... has to be a wind up

Wonderful stuff. I expect any women reading this will never look at an aeroplane toilet quite the same again.

Wonderful stuff. I expect any women reading this will never look at an aeroplane toilet quite the same again.

They might think you have the runs or are smoking ;-))

PS: I had better not mention how my ex used to give me her panties at the airport ;-)

Wear one of those swimming rings around your waist- after all your on your holidays.

There are a number of world-class surgical fix-up centers around Bangkok that cater to "men" needing a solution for this very problem.

There are a number of world-class surgical fix-up centers around Bangkok that cater to "men" needing a solution for this very problem.

Maybe they could do it on the plane - now that would BE inflight entertainment

Board the plane a man and exit in Thailand a woman - they could even have a cabaret al la Mambo on board

OMG, take her home and have sex with her man. Get it out of your system. You don't need to make it deep and meaningful.

She probably won't notice.... unless it makes that "schhwing" sound.

just be careful, you could put someones eye out.

Releive yourself first in the airplane toilet - down to the tatty water if need be.

Just make sure he washes his hands though.

Some people are saying to relieve yourself before, but there is always the slim chance I might be expected to perform later in the night.

I need everything to be working if the opportunity arises.

I'm slightly curious though, how this thread is in the Airport forum. Shouldn't it be in Health and Medicine? Considering that it appears to be a medical/psychological problem.

To the OP, I know this may sound a bit hardon you, but for how long have you had this problem?

OMG, take her home and have sex with her man. Get it out of your system. You don't need to make it deep and meaningful.

It is generally more satisfying if you do.

To the OP, I know this may sound a bit hardon you, but for how long have you had this problem?

Since I did slow dancing in my teens (that was even worse). But I fail to see how knowing this will help me at the airport.

stay off the plane then! problem solved!

To the OP, I know this may sound a bit hardon you, but for how long have you had this problem?

Since I did slow dancing in my teens (that was even worse). But I fail to see how knowing this will help me at the airport.

You need to come up with some type of conrtol mechanism, maybe some visulaisation/distraction technique. Something like thinking about a dead ugly women with flies swarming around her thighs, that should be enough to stop said appendage from getting hard .

I'm sorry to be a kill joy, BUT, normal Thai ladies are not given to showing affection in public places.

There are a number of world-class surgical fix-up centers around Bangkok that cater to "men" needing a solution for this very problem.

Really ?