Finding A Thaigirlfriend Via Internet

[vertigo4u]

has anyoe done it before with success?

which websites do you suggest?

how is the best way to approach a thailady with emails?

what suggestions do you have, meeting the choosen lady in real for the frst time ?

[alexth]

I wouldn't recommend it at all, but in the end of the day, it all depends on what you're looking for

[NoSpeakIt]

this should be fun.

[RakJungTorlae]

I wouldn't recommend it at all, but in the end of the day, it all depends on what you're looking for

Alex, What about Thailandfiriends.com! muhaha... ! i guess its cased as more of a gig thou..

[technocracy]

Why not just get a girlfriend in your home country? Just a thought like . ..

Alternatively go on any Asia dating website and advertise yourself as a wealthy foreigner who like living in high rise apartments and you'll soon have hundreds to choose from.

[UrbyBiser]

well, my experiences are positive! I have met 2 girls on the web. we have ben talking over msn for about 6 months before i came to thailand. met there both of them and they turned out to be even more cool then on the web. i have to tell though that i never considered any of them as my gf. I told them this also and they were okay with it, well at least they said it.

so maybe it would be smart to use sites like hi5 is not exactly a dating website but is cool!

[Chaimai]

I predict 100+ posts (before the site closes for maintenance).

If the post is for real, I believe there are sponsors or links on TV.com that will point the OP in the right direction.

[Chang_paarp]

Look at harrisblackwatch com fr intructions on how not to do this.

[tomuk76]

I would suggest to forget about it. Either you or them will only be disapointed when you meet in real!

[bkkjames]

I will take the bait.

Ordering Thai on the internet you say,,, hmm novel idea...no need to come to Thailand in person, just order 11 HAHA-SOOON and one will be at your door in 30 mins, otherwise you don't have to pay.

Tried it once but unfortunately the real thing looked nothing like the picture on their website...flat, very little in terms of freshness, a bit soggy around the edges.

The next time I tried 111 Sing A Song and found that they only things on their menu which appeal to the locals,,, a bit fishy, immitation crabs, and smelly hoy.

In conclusion, I can say that if you feel the need to order via internet, it's better to visit their place of business first to check on the sanitary nature of their establishment. Also if you find something real good and to your liking, you can order it repeatedly in the future without concerns for overall quality, but depending on the time of day, freshness may be a consideration.

Now if I can only get my pizza maker to do the same.

[alexth]

I wouldn't recommend it at all, but in the end of the day, it all depends on what you're looking for

Alex, What about Thailandfiriends.com! muhaha... ! i guess its cased as more of a gig thou..

hehehe, I told you RakJungTorlae, don't worry, I left all of them for you guys

[TheDon]

Why would you try and get a girl from the internet? I mean there must be something wrong with them if they need to find a partner on the net.

Go to a shopping centre or a night club and pick up a real girl. BE A MAN

[seagull]

I will take the bait.

Ordering Thai on the internet you say,,, hmm novel idea...no need to come to Thailand in person, just order 11 HAHA-SOOON and one will be at your door in 30 mins, otherwise you don't have to pay.

Tried it once but unfortunately the real thing looked nothing like the picture on their website...flat, very little in terms of freshness, a bit soggy around the edges.

The next time I tried 111 Sing A Song and found that they only things on their menu which appeal to the locals,,, a bit fishy, immitation crabs, and smelly hoy.

In conclusion, I can say that if you feel the need to order via internet, it's better to visit their place of business first to check on the sanitary nature of their establishment. Also if you find something real good and to your liking, you can order it repeatedly in the future without concerns for overall quality, but depending on the time of day, freshness may be a consideration.

Now if I can only get my pizza maker to do the same.

I think the bloke is referring to seeking a long-term relationship on the net with a thai lady. Anyway, what is "HAHA-SOOON" ? (I can't ask my tgf for obvious reasons)

[anthonyu]

I think the bloke is referring to seeking a long-term relationship on the net with a thai lady. Anyway, what is "HAHA-SOOON" ? (I can't ask my tgf for obvious reasons)

11 HAHA-SOOON = 11550

guessing its the number for pizza hut delivery which is 1150 with the extre 5 thrown in for luaghs

[Tod Daniels]

Hmmm,

In perusing your profile and looking at your topic history, (something I often do when trying to glean whether a poster is genuine, a troll, or just a genuine troll); I can see you've enquired about things to do and places to stay in both Manila and Angeles City, as well as the do's and don'ts, (always good to know info).

Then there's another one about 'reasonable' accommodations on lower Sukhumvit in Bangkok. From these topics it would seem you've got a game plan already well thought out as far as itinerary.

To be completely honest; it doesn't appear you're going to the ideal areas in either country to "find a girlfriend"; unless you're looking for the "rental" or "timeshare" kind.

I don't know if where you're from has a thing called 'Google'. Typing in "Meet Thai Girls" (in quotes to rule out single word spurious matches) turned up a mind wobbling 26,800 hits (in 0.62 seconds). That should be enough to keep you busy for a while.

I know I speak for very few posters here on T/V when I say; we are on the edge of our seats here wondering how things are working out for you in your endeavor.

As an aside; although I am loathe to agree with the self professed muscle bound, 10 year steroid abusing, snap or spin kicking poster known as "TheDon". In this instance he said it better than I ever could.

Good luck. ..

[seagull]

I think the bloke is referring to seeking a long-term relationship on the net with a thai lady. Anyway, what is "HAHA-SOOON" ? (I can't ask my tgf for obvious reasons)

11 HAHA-SOOON = 11550

guessing its the number for pizza hut delivery which is 1150 with the extre 5 thrown in for luaghs

Oh sh!t !

[ourmaninbangers]

Why would you try and get a girl from the internet? I mean there must be something wrong with them if they need to find a partner on the net.

Go to a shopping centre or a night club and pick up a real girl. BE A MAN

whats the difference they,re still all mostly on the game anyway.. are,t they?

which country is this?

Internet saves alot of time, money energy

most birds here have zero between there ears, so internet saves alot of grief.

Intelligent chats is,nt too big here.

What does " be a man " mean? If you try and contact on the internet are you not " a man".

I,d like to be a real man like you- can you teach me? Do have to get big muscles like that to be a ' real man"

[farang555]

i see a hot chick(not one of those dark issarn types) at asoke internet place web chatting to a not so hot looking farang every sunday. seems they just friends as i never hear the buffalo shit or if u lub me u send me munney nonsense. maybe it works.

dam_n this girl looks so sweet and innocent. something must be up , youngish and man look much older.

Edited July 23, 2008 by farang555

[britmaveric]

nanaplaza.com

Edited July 23, 2008 by britmaveric

[sweetchariot]

Why would you try and get a girl from the internet? I mean there must be something wrong with them if they need to find a partner on the net.

Go to a shopping centre or a night club and pick up a real girl. BE A MAN

whats the difference they,re still all mostly on the game anyway.. are,t they?

which country is this?

Internet saves alot of time, money energy

most birds here have zero between there ears, so internet saves alot of grief.

Intelligent chats is,nt too big here.

What does " be a man " mean? If you try and contact on the internet are you not " a man".

I,d like to be a real man like you- can you teach me? Do have to get big muscles like that to be a ' real man"

Great post for a newbie . I suspect you won't make many more.

[sgtpeppers]

Why would you try and get a girl from the internet? I mean there must be something wrong with them if they need to find a partner on the net.

Go to a shopping centre or a night club and pick up a real girl. BE A MAN

Have to agree with thedon on this. The cream is not on the net, its populated mostly by scrubbers and fantasies. The ones "advertising" that is.

Edited July 23, 2008 by sgtpeppers

[najman]

Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. You'll find all kinds of people on dating sites such as Thai Love Links TLL which seems to be the best laid out and highest number of girls. I can give some experience from myself and about 7 friends I've made on that site:

My Experience (so far):

Had plenty of interest from girls. Some want to marry you on the first day if you give them too much attention. Some girls you'll go chasing and they'll have too much interest already. Some girls will be bar girl's you may feel compelled to "save" Others will be bar girls you will feel compelled to run away from. Some girls will tell you you need to "love" (pay) their family on the first chat. some girls will be students keen to make friends and practice their english, some girls will use a relative with great english to chat to you and you'll find out too late the photo you fell for doesnt speak english and is being ordered to find a farang husband. While others will want to see your 3rd leg (hard to find and often not expected from such polite looking girls). More than likely the ones you like the most speak the least english. The ones you want to marry just from talking to - they will be the ugliest and less attractive once you see them on webcam. And finally you found the "perfect one" - young, super cute, loves you always, misses you so much, loves you alone and is ready to settle down and have lovely kids - she will have her profile written by her cousin who has studied english for 3 years. She will say all the right things, her picture will blow you away and by the time you've made it to webcam 2 weeks later you are already head over heeels in love with your "dream girl" emphasis on "dream"... as in it's not real - just an illusion. You will count your lucky stars - you'll look around your local area and see nothing that comes even close to her. you will count the days until you meet her, you wont mind her english is very poor and has nothing much to say everyday anyway. And when you finally meet her you will be ready to marry her on the 2nd day. She's just quiet coz she's shy. She'll sleep with you... take you to her family... travel with you and sleep with you some more... dont worry if she's having sex robotically with you... i'm sure she's just still shy around you... dont worry if as soon as you're done she goes and showers and goes straight to sleep without a word or cuddle... she's just young right? ... dont worry if she receives phone calls early in the morning everyday from some "friend" that you happen to hear once or twice has a male voice "girls have friends of the opposite sex too right" she's with you anyway so she must love you. The guy is just some long time friend of hers that likes to share his problems with her on a daily basis... don't worry if she doesn't like to speak much and is slow to answer your questions and seems dis-interested one minute and telling you she loves you so much the next minute... this is all "normal" for "thai girls" she really will be the perfect wife one day. And she's just so dam_n hot anyway so who cares right? you have that lovely body with you everynight so what could possibly go wrong?

It's your adventure you can find out about her long time boy friend for yourself who works in bangkok and will pick her up from the airport once you leave. You'll be interested to find out later that she's not allowed to marry him and wont be accepted by her family. Dont worry too much... just coz only he has her heart doesn't mean you cant have 10% too.

It's such a fun adventure. I'm going to back to try again... man what a ride. Lets see how many rides my heart can handle. (seriously i'm giving it another go) And plan to live there so if it doesn't work out i can find another. more later. I just spoke to her and want to cry for her and her lies to me... sad sad. I can make a drama from it and get millions. I'm too sad though. I have another girl waiting. bye

[Jimjim]

I'm not going to make any comment on internet dating and your wish to do it, vertigo4u. All I'll say is use a free one like dateinasia . com. It's not worth paying money for because you get a lot of the same girls either way.

Edit: And to the najman above. She's not in love with you. Give it up. You've got millions of other girls to pursue.

Edited July 25, 2008 by Jimjim

[issanpaul]

Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. You'll find all kinds of people on dating sites such as Thai Love Links TLL which seems to be the best laid out and highest number of girls. I can give some experience from myself and about 7 friends I've made on that site:

My Experience (so far):

Had plenty of interest from girls. Some want to marry you on the first day if you give them too much attention. Some girls you'll go chasing and they'll have too much interest already. Some girls will be bar girl's you may feel compelled to "save" Others will be bar girls you will feel compelled to run away from. Some girls will tell you you need to "love" (pay) their family on the first chat. some girls will be students keen to make friends and practice their english, some girls will use a relative with great english to chat to you and you'll find out too late the photo you fell for doesnt speak english and is being ordered to find a farang husband. While others will want to see your 3rd leg (hard to find and often not expected from such polite looking girls). More than likely the ones you like the most speak the least english. The ones you want to marry just from talking to - they will be the ugliest and less attractive once you see them on webcam. And finally you found the "perfect one" - young, super cute, loves you always, misses you so much, loves you alone and is ready to settle down and have lovely kids - she will have her profile written by her cousin who has studied english for 3 years. She will say all the right things, her picture will blow you away and by the time you've made it to webcam 2 weeks later you are already head over heeels in love with your "dream girl" emphasis on "dream"... as in it's not real - just an illusion. You will count your lucky stars - you'll look around your local area and see nothing that comes even close to her. you will count the days until you meet her, you wont mind her english is very poor and has nothing much to say everyday anyway. And when you finally meet her you will be ready to marry her on the 2nd day. She's just quiet coz she's shy. She'll sleep with you... take you to her family... travel with you and sleep with you some more... dont worry if she's having sex robotically with you... i'm sure she's just still shy around you... dont worry if as soon as you're done she goes and showers and goes straight to sleep without a word or cuddle... she's just young right? ... dont worry if she receives phone calls early in the morning everyday from some "friend" that you happen to hear once or twice has a male voice "girls have friends of the opposite sex too right" she's with you anyway so she must love you. The guy is just some long time friend of hers that likes to share his problems with her on a daily basis... don't worry if she doesn't like to speak much and is slow to answer your questions and seems dis-interested one minute and telling you she loves you so much the next minute... this is all "normal" for "thai girls" she really will be the perfect wife one day. And she's just so dam_n hot anyway so who cares right? you have that lovely body with you everynight so what could possibly go wrong?

It's your adventure you can find out about her long time boy friend for yourself who works in bangkok and will pick her up from the airport once you leave. You'll be interested to find out later that she's not allowed to marry him and wont be accepted by her family. Dont worry too much... just coz only he has her heart doesn't mean you cant have 10% too.

It's such a fun adventure. I'm going to back to try again... man what a ride. Lets see how many rides my heart can handle. (seriously i'm giving it another go) And plan to live there so if it doesn't work out i can find another. more later. I just spoke to her and want to cry for her and her lies to me... sad sad. I can make a drama from it and get millions. I'm too sad though. I have another girl waiting. bye

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[jomtienbob]

Yes Thai Love links dot com is quite good and you'll get lots of educated Thai girls who are looking for love & money, the trick is finding out which way the see-saw balances with each one, but hey that is the same deal in any country and Thailand is not much different only the amount is. I gave it (TLL) a go for 3 months and had a huge number of interested puyings and some were quite good, some were just hustlers, and some were lairs. I met probably 10-12 and made a choice but it was a poor choice because she turned out to be a hustler. Most of these girls are corresponding with many guys and some stupid guys send them money without ever having met them. Anyhow that is life and you move on. I think the TLL deal is cheap at 1200 baht for the 3 months. Date in Asia is free, but you'll just get bombarded by Filipinos there.

So the internet today is not seen with the hang-ups or any incriminatory guise in Thailand, indeed they embrace new technology with no strings, so you'll get a mixed bag and it is really up to you to try and step over the other side of the fence and think about the real motives of the individual you are getting to know. Not so dissimilar as when you meet them in the shopping mall or disco except for the fact that the educated middle class girls would not risk losing face by "picking up or being picked up" by a guy at such places.

Just my 2 cents worth anyhow

[surface]

My Experience (so far):

This must account for 50% of the Pattaya Flyers.

[VespaSeeker]

Well i used TLL ( THAI LOVE LINKS ) after trying for 4 years in vain to meet a nice lady in Thailand and i had a great time while i was a member on there , i met my current GF threw TLL and i made many good friends who i still keep in touch with , my GF is eduated ,well travelled and has her own business here in Pattaya . Now obviously there are plenty of hustlers and liers on there too ,but thats where webcams and voice chat comes in handy and you need to be pretty daft or in too much of a hurry not to spot the bullshitters !!.

Also be a little sneeky yourself ! I used to have 2 profiles , one which was actually me and a pic of my ugly mug and one false one with a nice pic of a male model , needless to say if some lovely lady was giving me the usual ,i love you darling and your the only one for me darling then a quick test with the other profile would find them out sharpish !! And i am glad to say my current Gf past the test and ignored constant messages from my good looking other halve !!

So to sum up , good fun and it worked in the end for me !!

[AlexLah]

A few tips for those desperate people that try to find their real love on internet.

Rules:

1: Tell her you are poor and just have enough money to pay for your room and some fried rice.

2. Tell her you will not be able to support her ore any family member.

3. Make sure you have two accounts, at least one that shows you have nothing ore litlle

Believe me, I have been through this all