Was I Being A Cheap Charlie Or Not?

[TheVinylMan]

No not cheap - daft but not cheap

Listen to the following song by the Offspring :"Why Don't You Get a Job?"

PMSL........... thanks for that

[Geekfreaklover]

Why don't you just give her your ATM card, pin number and let her use the money as she sees fit, seeing as it is a loving relationship founded on common grounds.

But seriously, if you want to spend your life with a "working girl", 10k per month should be more than enough. But keep in mind that there are no pensions / social security for her and her family and if you are the only cash cow you will be milked (probably dry) ... It is sad to see farangs get taken to the cleaners, but it's also sad to see these Isaan "woking girls" get left stranded when their farang boyfriends (who they have given their bodies to in exchange for long term financial support ) leave them high and dry.

If you want to go ahead with this one. Agree terms and stick to them.

My personal opinion is that she is a greedy cow and you should get shot of her. The bar will take her back with no problem.

Edited February 4, 2009 by Geekfreaklover

[desertrat]

I have repeated the same story many times, "Needs must when the Devil Drives"

I have seen some foxes I would mortgage my house for, and give up my right arm.

I have taken some back and some not, it's all part of life's rich pattern.

As for knowing the amount you have I am led to understand that they all believe that

we are bottomless wells financially.

Don't take any notice of what others say, you do your own thing.

[TheVinylMan]

No you are not a cheap charlie you are not a very experienced charlie.It also depends how much she has to pay to the bar owner who told you the old story of an unexperienced girl with no child which arrived only a few days ago from the country side.That she is not so unexperienced shows her reaction when she saw your ATM slip.20 000 Bath a month is a big amount for a rural girl.Do you really believe that a bar owner who went up country to stock up on his dancers would let her go only after a few days work without a substantial bar fine?He probably had to pay some money to a family member.

This is from page one post number 12 ...................... I not too sure about the inexperienced bit.......... with regards to the bar owner........... he is a friend of mine from the UK who i have known for A LONG TIME.................. he knew i would like the girl and when we got on very well there was NO MONEY given by me to the bar and the girl had no ties to the bar.............. other than she had some mates working there who she would go and see when I was working just for a chat................ who i think talked her in to trying to get more baht out of me

[kingwillly]

Why don't you just give her your ATM card, pin number and let her use the money as she sees fit, seeing as it is a loving relationship founded on common grounds.

But seriously, if you want to spend your life with a working girl, 10k per month should be more than enough. But keep in mind that there are no pensions / social security for her and her family and if you are the only cash cow you will be milked (probably dry) ...

how did you calculate that?

[TheVinylMan]

Why don't you just give her your ATM card, pin number and let her use the money as she sees fit, seeing as it is a loving relationship founded on common grounds.

But seriously, if you want to spend your life with a working girl, 10k per month should be more than enough. But keep in mind that there are no pensions / social security for her and her family and if you are the only cash cow you will be milked (probably dry) ...

LOL I didnt even give my ex in the UK my bank cards ............. so a TG hasnt got a hope in hel_l of getting it lol

[Geekfreaklover]

Why don't you just give her your ATM card, pin number and let her use the money as she sees fit, seeing as it is a loving relationship founded on common grounds.

But seriously, if you want to spend your life with a working girl, 10k per month should be more than enough. But keep in mind that there are no pensions / social security for her and her family and if you are the only cash cow you will be milked (probably dry) ...

how did you calculate that?

Easy. Average Thai monthly wage and add a couple of thousand for good measure.

[Geekfreaklover]

Why don't you just give her your ATM card, pin number and let her use the money as she sees fit, seeing as it is a loving relationship founded on common grounds.

But seriously, if you want to spend your life with a working girl, 10k per month should be more than enough. But keep in mind that there are no pensions / social security for her and her family and if you are the only cash cow you will be milked (probably dry) ...

LOL I didnt even give my ex in the UK my bank cards ............. so a TG hasnt got a hope in hel_l of getting it lol

Sorry, I was being sarcastic in the first paragraph. The following paragraph was sincere.

[TheVinylMan]

Why don't you just give her your ATM card, pin number and let her use the money as she sees fit, seeing as it is a loving relationship founded on common grounds.

But seriously, if you want to spend your life with a working girl, 10k per month should be more than enough. But keep in mind that there are no pensions / social security for her and her family and if you are the only cash cow you will be milked (probably dry) ...

LOL I didnt even give my ex in the UK my bank cards ............. so a TG hasnt got a hope in hel_l of getting it lol

Sorry, I was being sarcastic in the first paragraph. The following paragraph was sincere.

No offence taken................ made me chuckle actually

But if you know of any nice none pi55 taking thai ladies 27 - 34 years old that want a bf then pm me lol

Edited February 4, 2009 by TheVinylMan

[Neeranam]

Discusing bar prostitutes is against forum rules.

OP, no you weren't being cheap unless she is a stunner and you are old, smelly and look like Quasimodo.

[Maigo6]

As I said in the original post I knew i would get the "why pay a girl to live with you brigade" slating me ...........

Of course you did, thats why you started the thread.

[Maigo6]

Why would anybody keep a large amount of money in an account accessible by ATM?

1 out of 10. Try much harder.

Because I get paid In THB direct to bangkok bank which I have Visa card for and savings account........... where do you keep money.......... under your pillow

He gives it all to his GF.

[Geekfreaklover]

But if you know of any nice none pi55 taking thai ladies 27 - 34 years old that want a bf then pm me lol

Yep. For 20k a month am sure sure I can find a nice one for you. Will PM you with my bank account details,

Best,

Geek Freak "Pimping" Lover.

[Jimjim]

Nah, you were giving her 20K too much per month. A relationship that starts out with you being the sole financial support is never a good one, in my opinion.

[Neeranam]

As I said in the original post I knew i would get the "why pay a girl to live with you brigade" slating me ...........

Of course you did, thats why you started the thread.

I don't see anything wrong with paying a girl to live with you if you have no chance of getting one normally. The real question here is, "do you think prostitution is ok"?

[RakJungTorlae]

No not cheap - daft but not cheap

Listen to the following song by the Offspring :"Why Don't You Get a Job?"

PMSL........... thanks for that

My friend's got a girlfriend Man he hates that bitch He tells me every day He says "man I really gotta lose my chick In the worst kind of way"

She sits on her ass He works his hands to the bone To give her money every payday But she wants more dinero just to stay at home Well my friend You gotta say:

I won't pay, I won't pay ya, no way (now now) Why don't you get a job

[TheVinylMan]

As I said in the original post I knew i would get the "why pay a girl to live with you brigade" slating me ...........

Of course you did, thats why you started the thread.

............... and then there are the sarcastic posts ............. whatever

[TheVinylMan]

But if you know of any nice none pi55 taking thai ladies 27 - 34 years old that want a bf then pm me lol

Yep. For 20k a month am sure sure I can find a nice one for you. Will PM you with my bank account details,

Best,

Geek Freak "Pimping" Lover.

PMSL.................. I not gonna go down that route

[Geekfreaklover]

No not cheap - daft but not cheap

Listen to the following song by the Offspring :"Why Don't You Get a Job?"

PMSL........... thanks for that

My friend's got a girlfriend Man he hates that bitch He tells me every day He says "man I really gotta lose my chick In the worst kind of way"

She sits on her ass He works his hands to the bone To give her money every payday But she wants more dinero just to stay at home Well my friend You gotta say:

I won't pay, I won't pay ya, no way (now now) Why don't you get a job

Offspring?

[Gary A]

Greedy and jealous. That's a great combination to stay FAR away from, bar girl or not. My wife and I live pretty well and want for nothing. Her household budget is 25,000 baht per month and she pays for everything except big ticket items.

[MrPot]

I give my wife all my money, stops me from spending it

[Geekfreaklover]

But if you know of any nice none pi55 taking thai ladies 27 - 34 years old that want a bf then pm me lol

Yep. For 20k a month am sure sure I can find a nice one for you. Will PM you with my bank account details,

Best,

Geek Freak "Pimping" Lover.

PMSL.................. I not gonna go down that route

Sounds like you already have

[TheVinylMan]

As I said in the original post I knew i would get the "why pay a girl to live with you brigade" slating me ...........

Of course you did, thats why you started the thread.

I don't see anything wrong with paying a girl to live with you if you have no chance of getting one normally. The real question here is, "do you think prostitution is ok"?

LOL it was nothing to do with not "not getting one normally" ............ the question is how do you define "getting one normally".

[Geekfreaklover]

Greedy and jealous. That's a great combination to stay FAR away from, bar girl or not. My wife and I live pretty well and want for nothing. Her household budget is 25,000 baht per month and she pays for everything except big ticket items.

She pays for everything?.... are you meaning to say that you are a kept man? .. i'm insanely jealous if thats the case. I have to slpit the cost of living with my gf.

[TheVinylMan]

But if you know of any nice none pi55 taking thai ladies 27 - 34 years old that want a bf then pm me lol

Yep. For 20k a month am sure sure I can find a nice one for you. Will PM you with my bank account details,

Best,

Geek Freak "Pimping" Lover.

PMSL.................. I not gonna go down that route

Sounds like you already have

But got away very very lightly

[mrnosey]

I give my wife all my money, stops me from spending it

Well done sir.

[Sabum]

Yeesh, ok OP at first I was thinking that you knew what you were doing but then read a few more of your posts and realised you are still totally in denial like so many dumb bastages over here. You KNOW you were employing a girl to pose as your gf but you are still making excuses and trying to lie to yourself..... I think its totally ok to keep a woman on salary IF YOU FULLY ACCEPT AND UNDERSTAND THIS. The minute you try to fool yourself into thinking its ok to pay your lover a salary (especially a salary that triple an average Thai salary that goes far beyond a bit of clothes money) you are opening yourself up to all kinds of heartache, headaches, problems and possibly financial loss. No amount of explaining this will make you understand though so I'll just stop there.

You asked about the amount and if you were being cheap.... well nobody in this thread seems to have a clue and nobody has pointed out the actual measuring stick to judge what you should be paying your EMPLOYEE girlfriend. Go run to a mirror quick (since you are probably in denial about this too...) When you look in the mirror, do you see a young handsome man with a killer sexy body and chiselled good looks? NO?! oh well then you have to pay ALOT. DUH! If you are a fat old man than you should be paying your young sexy killer body girlfriend a whole lot of money, it is really that simple.

I'll use my girlfriends as examples, I date the girls that guys like you pay. They tell me what they make and I exclaim "soooo stupid" and they giggle and say "ya stupid!" These girls make about 50k per guy sending them money every month. So if you were only paying 20k you must be not too old or fat or horrible to look at, otherwise you are grossly underpaying your hard working employee. So go calculate all those variables I gave you to see what you should be paying your employees in the future.

[TheVinylMan]

Yeesh, ok OP at first I was thinking that you knew what you were doing but then read a few more of your posts and realised you are still totally in denial like so many dumb bastages over here. You KNOW you were employing a girl to pose as your gf but you are still making excuses and trying to lie to yourself..... I think its totally ok to keep a woman on salary IF YOU FULLY ACCEPT AND UNDERSTAND THIS. The minute you try to fool yourself into thinking its ok to pay your lover a salary (especially a salary that triple an average Thai salary that goes far beyond a bit of clothes money) you are opening yourself up to all kinds of heartache, headaches, problems and possibly financial loss. No amount of explaining this will make you understand though so I'll just stop there.

You asked about the amount and if you were being cheap.... well nobody in this thread seems to have a clue and nobody has pointed out the actual measuring stick to judge what you should be paying your EMPLOYEE girlfriend. Go run to a mirror quick (since you are probably in denial about this too...) When you look in the mirror, do you see a young handsome man with a killer sexy body and chiselled good looks? NO?! oh well then you have to pay ALOT. DUH! If you are a fat old man than you should be paying your young sexy killer body girlfriend a whole lot of money, it is really that simple.

I'll use my girlfriends as examples, I date the girls that guys like you pay. They tell me what they make and I exclaim "soooo stupid" and they giggle and say "ya stupid!" These girls make about 50k per guy sending them money every month. So if you were only paying 20k you must be not too old or fat or horrible to look at, otherwise you are grossly underpaying your hard working employee. So go calculate all those variables I gave you to see what you should be paying your employees in the future.

LOL............ nice post............... she was far from a hard worker.......... still had the maid 3 times a week ......... I think you have gone a little bit off the beaten track.............. but not to worry............. Not in denial of anything......... I knew it MAY be a rocky road ahead......... but hey a having a relationship like a hand grenade with the pin ready to pop is the spice of life......... I was just asking the question "Do you reckon 20k was cheap.......... to me for a month its great........ I will spend that over a couple of nights in a club anyway!!!"

I may be reading your post wrong but you make it sound like i was sending her money every month.......... no I live here and she lived with me

As regards to me......... 38 year old ex air force guy about 75-80kgs depending on the day

Happy days

[asiancup2007]

Not being cheap IMO.

[Sabum]

No to me sending money and handing it to her are pretty much the same so.....

If youre only 38 and 80kg of non fat then do you have a hunchback or horrible scarring and rotting teeth? If not what are you doing? You could be sleeping with the very girls SOMEONE ELSE is paying! Want me to school you how? I can take you out and teach you how to socialise if you have some sort of personality problem, put your good looks to work and save you some money.