Sending Your Child/siblings Overseas

[viciouskitty74]

This was kinda borthering me for a while.

I have a stepmother 3 years my senior.

I have a half sister at 16+ years old.

Stepmother been telling me ever so often, she wants my sister to go to Singapore to get her degree. Singapore education being more better of some sort.

But little sis isnt willing to go. She finds it hard that she has to be the oldest kid in school, and has to make new friends all over again. And that she isnt proficient in English, or Mandarin Chinese, if her understanding of my english and manadarin is anything to go by.

Somehow, stepmother being trying to exert pressure for little sis to go, as a means to keep the father faithful. (He is starting to mess with a china lady.)

Little sis does not want to go, (Besides above reasons, she also does not want to be stranded in Singapore should my father messing gets out of hand. Chances are, both mother and child can be left penniless, stranded or at worst returned back to Thailand broke, with no education completed. If my father could do it to his first family then, it wouldnt be difficult to do it again.)

I do not know how to deal with it.