What Is My Gf's Present Job?

[alex322]

During my last visit to BKK I felt in love (please do not laugh yet) with a girl I met in the Ramkhamhaeng University area who worked in a music Bar in the area there locally. At that time she was quite shy and I found out that she still was a virgin.

Two months ago she told me that she swopped to a job as cashier in the Santana Club in Soi 33. Reason told was to maintain and improve her conversational English. Not very long after that the daily email conversation got sometimes a hickup. Not as frequent as it was before.

So, and yes you all knows where this will lead to, I am wondering what is going on. Although on one hand I have my suspicious, on the other hand I tend to believe her saying she is cashier and nothing else. But scanning her recent mails I see more and more words like "honey i am hiding not for you".

It would be of very much help if someone recently been there, would like to share some information about the cashier named Tong at the Santana Club. Is she really cashier and only that or is she also acting as one of the other staff.

Thanks chaps!

[OxfordWill]

Sounds exciting, if only I was still living nearby and could help you out!

[Totster]

OMG ..

totster

[johng]

My opinion, from what you have told us here...is that you should believe your suspicions !!!!!!

However just to be on the safe side..wait untill the requests for money arrive before finishing with the relationship...

[Ice Maiden]

I can do the whole sweet, innocent virgin thing. Any girl can. But your getting a little too obsessive I think. Asking people to check where she is working and your not even dating her?

If you have your doubts, chuck her and find a new one. And as for the thing about you being in love

[alex322]

  I can do the whole sweet, innocent virgin thing. Any girl can. But your getting a little too obsessive I think. Asking people to check where she is working and your not even dating her?

If you have your doubts, chuck her and find a new one. And as for the thing about you being in love   

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As from the first replies, I understand that the information is not complete enough. OK sorry I am a newbie here.

As said I met her, and dated her on my last trip to BKK. And yes I have enough experience to know if a girl is really a virgin or not. Believe me.

I have even met her parents in KhongKean when we passed by during a country side trip.

This is not a simple flirt from an MSN contact. No it always has been a intensive email exchange where we discussed all kinds of issues. Also we still have our weekly phone contact and that is still OK.

I will visit BKK again end of October and we have already made arrangements of how to spend that 4 weeks in BKK and the part of Thailand. Also we are planning her visit to UK early next year.

I hope to be taken serious and look forward to your replies.

Thanks

[loong]

There are some girls that work as a cashier and don't go with the customers but they are few and far between.

Her reason for the job change - to improve her conversational english? I don't think so.

Have you been in the bars, have you heard the general standard of english.

She coulld work in a department store or somewhere like that with farang customers to improve her language skills.

You obviously don't trust her. so your relationship is most likely doomed.

Sorry, but that/s the way I see it

[udon]

The only diff between a cashier and the rest of the staff at Santana is, she can't leave the bar until closing time.

Cynical but true.

[Ice Maiden]

  I can do the whole sweet, innocent virgin thing. Any girl can. But your getting a little too obsessive I think. Asking people to check where she is working and your not even dating her?

If you have your doubts, chuck her and find a new one. And as for the thing about you being in love   

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As from the first replies, I understand that the information is not complete enough. OK sorry I am a newbie here.

As said I met her, and dated her on my last trip to BKK. And yes I have enough experience to know if a girl is really a virgin or not. Believe me.

I have even met her parents in KhongKean when we passed by during a country side trip.

This is not a simple flirt from an MSN contact. No it always has been a intensive email exchange where we discussed all kinds of issues. Also we still have our weekly phone contact and that is still OK.

I will visit BKK again end of October and we have already made arrangements of how to spend that 4 weeks in BKK and the part of Thailand. Also we are planning her visit to UK early next year.

I hope to be taken serious and look forward to your replies.

Thanks

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If you have met the parents it dosen't mean everything is safe and hunky dory. And you have ways do you? Well women have ways too. You seem to know very little about Thailand, time is all you need...and a load of mistakes! That learns most people though.

Lots of thai girls keep regular contact with their english boyfriends to keep their piggy bank full and most have a thai boyfriend.

Just think the "virgin" her thai boyfriend and her family will prob all be laughing at you right now drinking beer chang.

[britmaveric]

Easy to checkout...what's her name? Quite confident someone can find out...Kreon??

[Butterfly]

During my last visit to BKK I felt in love (please do not laugh yet) with a girl I met in the Ramkhamhaeng University area who worked in a music Bar in the area there locally. At that time she was quite shy and I found out that she still was a virgin.

Two months ago she told me that she swopped to a job as cashier in the Santana Club in Soi 33. Reason told was to maintain and improve her conversational English. Not very long after that the daily email conversation got sometimes a hickup. Not as frequent as it was before.

So, and yes you all knows where this will lead to, I am wondering what is going on. Although on one hand I have my suspicious, on the other hand I tend to believe her saying she is cashier and nothing else. But scanning her recent mails I see more and more words like "honey i am hiding not for you".

It would be of very much help if someone recently been there, would like to share some information about the cashier named Tong at the Santana Club. Is she really cashier and only that or is she also acting as one of the other staff.

Thanks chaps!

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If she is still a virgin, I will go take a look

I was in Soi 33 last night, too bad I missed this thread

[udon]

What does a virgin look like?

[Pink Mist]

here we go again

[sriracha john]

here we go again

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ROFLMAO!!!

[simon43]

Not everyone who works as a cashier in a bar is on the game The cashier in my bar perfroms that role because she is trustworthy. And she has a steady boyfriend and has zero interest in other guys!

But I don't think you can assume you are her BF when you are 10,000km away most of the time! For a relationship to have any chance of success you really need to be here in Thailand. - Simon

[HarryHacker]

....a whole bunch of new members seem to be trolling of late, could all be the same person. IMO

[cdnvic]

Ok, as most of you know, bargirl threads are not allowed here and this is drifting into one.

However, I don't want to be a total pr1ck so will one of you please go down to Soi 33, check this girl out, then PM me and I will post the result of the investigation.

Meanwhile, talk all you want on the subject at barladies.com

cv