Hello Daddy This Is My New Boyfriend

[TAWP]

Todays 'event'...GF's younger sister is 24, her [thai] bf is 40. When visiting a local restaurant and karaoke place in their little village they got into an argument that escalated into the bf hitting her in the face until she passed out and then kicking her as she was out cold on the ground. She was brought to the hospital and a someone used her cellphone to try and contact her dad (that has his number forwarded to us by mistake, so we got the news first).

[RAZZELL]

This happened to me. My daughter was in training in marital arts for the Olympics.

Freudian slip?

RAZZ

[mca]

in my case, i'm 40, mother-in-law 41, and my wife is 22, so clearly none of this applies, since it's still Pi Mom for me and i'm not twice my wife's age.

If there's ever a " Splitting Hairs " event introduced in the Olympics you're guaranteed a place on the podium mate.

[geriatrickid]

This thread was a bit funny at first, what with the images of a young Mr. Grace and his lady friend(s).

Sadily, it has now veered off into the land of the creepy. Not funny creepy, but creepy as in Anna Nicole Smith and her dead husband ickiness.

Now, we have all been treated to some really disturbing mental images like this.

Edited December 19, 2010 by geriatrickid

[IanForbes]

This thread was a bit funny at first, what with the images of a young Mr. Grace and his lady friend(s).

Sadily, it has now veered off into the land of the creepy. Not funny creepy, but creepy as in Anna Nicole Smith and her dead husband ickiness.

Well, they both got something they wanted out of the arrangement... He spent his remaining days with someone young (I won't say attractive) and she got a pot full of money for being a nursemaid. I've know lots of young men who have spent a good portion of their lives doing nasty, but well paid jobs, just so they could live the "good life" later. Anna Nicole Smith did exactly the same thing in a different manner. More power to her. It just bothers the hypocrites of the world.

[Wallaby]

When I was 32 I dated a 17 year old girl for about 5 years. The only girl I've dated that actually picked ME up. I still work with her, I still play golf with her father, we all still get on very well and she still goes to visit my parents. I have no idea if her parents had any issues, they never said anything to me. If they did say anything to me I think I would have probably just told them to tell their daughter of the concerns, if she didn't want to date me then we would finish.

She's now my best friend.

And was/is she of the same nationality/cultural background?

Yes

[Travel2003]

I have nothing against age differences.

Of course, when one in the couple is older than the potential mother and father in law, I find it kind of strange.

Still, nothing against it.

But I always wonder what do these couples talk about?

What do they have in common?

One part has more in common with the parents. The other more in common with the partner's children.

After all, 10-15 years down the road, the elder in the relationship are maybe not that happy, or even able to (at an age of 60+ maybe) being out late, going to a pub/bar, go hiking, ice skating, traveling, etc, etc.

The one whom is still 35-40 is still in the prime, and would probably not be too happy about the prospect of being a full time nurse within the next 5-10 years.

In the end of the day, I see only one winner in such a relationship.

That is, if the relationship is actually based upon true love.

If it is not about love, I guess its a good deal for both parts.

:-)

[IanForbes]

I have nothing against age differences.

Of course, when one in the couple is older than the potential mother and father in law, I find it kind of strange.

Still, nothing against it.

But I always wonder what do these couples talk about?

What do they have in common?

One part has more in common with the parents. The other more in common with the partner's children.

After all, 10-15 years down the road, the elder in the relationship are maybe not that happy, or even able to (at an age of 60+ maybe) being out late, going to a pub/bar, go hiking, ice skating, traveling, etc, etc.

The one whom is still 35-40 is still in the prime, and would probably not be too happy about the prospect of being a full time nurse within the next 5-10 years.

In the end of the day, I see only one winner in such a relationship.

That is, if the relationship is actually based upon true love.

If it is not about love, I guess its a good deal for both parts.

:-)

There are different types of love. One can be the love you have for your family and children, another is the love you MIGHT have for a spouse. It might be physical love at the early stages of a relationship, but turn into more of a mental love later on.

Personally, I'm too old to start another long term relationship. I'm still physically active in all ways a man enjoys life, but I'm also a realist knowing my time is numbered. When I can no longer perform as a man should I wouldn't WANT a young woman in the prime of her life to be stuck looking after an old invalid. Better I die alone. And frankly, if I just wanted a "friend" without sex involved I would pick another man. We would have more in common.

And, as far as the money issue is concerned I'll stand by what I said on the previous page in post #125

If both parties agree on a business arrangement then that is THEIR decision. They have to live up to the agreement.

[F1fanatic]

I have nothing against age differences.

Of course, when one in the couple is older than the potential mother and father in law, I find it kind of strange.

Still, nothing against it.

But I always wonder what do these couples talk about?

What do they have in common?

One part has more in common with the parents. The other more in common with the partner's children.

After all, 10-15 years down the road, the elder in the relationship are maybe not that happy, or even able to (at an age of 60+ maybe) being out late, going to a pub/bar, go hiking, ice skating, traveling, etc, etc.

The one whom is still 35-40 is still in the prime, and would probably not be too happy about the prospect of being a full time nurse within the next 5-10 years.

In the end of the day, I see only one winner in such a relationship.

That is, if the relationship is actually based upon true love.

If it is not about love, I guess its a good deal for both parts.

:-)

There are different types of love. One can be the love you have for your family and children, another is the love you MIGHT have for a spouse. It might be physical love at the early stages of a relationship, but turn into more of a mental love later on.

Personally, I'm too old to start another long term relationship. I'm still physically active in all ways a man enjoys life, but I'm also a realist knowing my time is numbered. When I can no longer perform as a man should I wouldn't WANT a young woman in the prime of her life to be stuck looking after an old invalid. Better I die alone. And frankly, if I just wanted a "friend" without sex involved I would pick another man. We would have more in common.

And, as far as the money issue is concerned I'll stand by what I said on the previous page in post #125

If both parties agree on a business arrangement then that is THEIR decision. They have to live up to the agreement.

Yup - that is precicely how I feel - men are completely untrustworthy and not deserving of respect (at least in this country).

I agree - I'm too old and been too through much to o care any more....

[Travel2003]

I have nothing against age differences.

Of course, when one in the couple is older than the potential mother and father in law, I find it kind of strange.

Still, nothing against it.

But I always wonder what do these couples talk about?

What do they have in common?

One part has more in common with the parents. The other more in common with the partner's children.

After all, 10-15 years down the road, the elder in the relationship are maybe not that happy, or even able to (at an age of 60+ maybe) being out late, going to a pub/bar, go hiking, ice skating, traveling, etc, etc.

The one whom is still 35-40 is still in the prime, and would probably not be too happy about the prospect of being a full time nurse within the next 5-10 years.

In the end of the day, I see only one winner in such a relationship.

That is, if the relationship is actually based upon true love.

If it is not about love, I guess its a good deal for both parts.

:-)

There are different types of love. One can be the love you have for your family and children, another is the love you MIGHT have for a spouse. It might be physical love at the early stages of a relationship, but turn into more of a mental love later on.

Personally, I'm too old to start another long term relationship. I'm still physically active in all ways a man enjoys life, but I'm also a realist knowing my time is numbered. When I can no longer perform as a man should I wouldn't WANT a young woman in the prime of her life to be stuck looking after an old invalid. Better I die alone. And frankly, if I just wanted a "friend" without sex involved I would pick another man. We would have more in common.

And, as far as the money issue is concerned I'll stand by what I said on the previous page in post #125

If both parties agree on a business arrangement then that is THEIR decision. They have to live up to the agreement.

I might have mentioned this before.

Some years ago now, me and a pal was in one of the bars in Soi Cowboy.

In comes this gorgeous young woman, pushing an old geezer in a wheel chair.

The chair is parked in front of the stage.

She orders the drinks, hands one over to him, then place herself on his lap.

My friend looks at them and says: way to go Sir, way to go.

He most likely just stated how most single men would like to leave this life.

Seemed like a perfect business sollution, for both of them, as he probably was not performing anymore, and she was just a paid sexy nurse.

:-)

Here is one I know I have mentioned before.

When I got married.

The couple next to us was (he)75-90, and she 30-35.

They were escorted by an American lawyer, dressed in shorts t-shirt, and sandals.

The groom sat in a wheel chair, wearing the hospital PJ (including the slippers), and basically did not know what he signed.

:-(

[ChangMaiSausage]

Great thread,

I personnaly dont have a problem though sometimes I cant help myself double taking (looking) when I see a young hot TG walking arm in arm with a elederly gentleman. As pointed out by others, good for him both parties are in a win win situation the lady hopefully will have financial security and the guy....... well he has a young hot lady on his arm (what happens behind closed doors is their own business)

The guy I can understand why he would go for a younger model, the lady? suppose i know the answer financial reward.

The above thoughts are based on a mixed relationship, it would be easier with someone from the same culture (I imagine)

[powderpuff]

The situation posed by the OP should hopefully happen to every man who finds himself "dating" to a lady who is young enough to be his daughter. There is something sublimely sweet about the saying: what goes around comes around.

Every man who has a "lady" half his age really should not mind that his own daughter ends up with a much older man. And every sexpat should not mind if his own daughter ends up with a sexpat. True?

I guess your definition of "sexpat" & mine are different.

To me a sexpat is a guy playing the field.

Once you are in a committed relationship you can hardly be a "sexpat".

I just think the Thai's are much less worried about a spring fall relationship. Is that because it is so common in China? Maybe.

When American talk about this they are absolutely horrified. Closed minded. That's why we're here & they're there.

[craigt3365]

The situation posed by the OP should hopefully happen to every man who finds himself "dating" to a lady who is young enough to be his daughter. There is something sublimely sweet about the saying: what goes around comes around.

Every man who has a "lady" half his age really should not mind that his own daughter ends up with a much older man. And every sexpat should not mind if his own daughter ends up with a sexpat. True?

I guess your definition of "sexpat" & mine are different.

To me a sexpat is a guy playing the field.

Once you are in a committed relationship you can hardly be a "sexpat".

I just think the Thai's are much less worried about a spring fall relationship. Is that because it is so common in China? Maybe.

When American talk about this they are absolutely horrified. Closed minded. That's why we're here & they're there.

You obviously don't get out much. Plenty of Americans here in Thailand. None are horrified or closed minded. And a few are mods here on TV!

[Thongkorn]

I am 56, my wife is a thai lady of 36 , my mother inlaw is 52 , She wants to be called mamar, So what its all in the mind.

[PatHIverson]

It boils down to the money factor. I wonder if he wants to invest in some spray foam insulation? Post a picture of this winner...

[PatHIverson]

Maybe he has lots of property? See if you wants your wife? lol

[powderpuff]

You obviously don't get out much. Plenty of Americans here in Thailand. None are horrified or closed minded. And a few are mods here on TV!

Yes sonny & your English comprehension skills are poor.