BKKDUDE Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 (edited) First, sorry for my poor english and being stupid person. I met this 24 girl recently, who works as accountant in thai company in ladprao, I believe i'm the first foreigner she ever met, as she also says so. She is the nicest thai girl i ever met in Los. But this girl is creating problems for me, every time i am doing somthing or giving hints for break up, she shows lot of tears, and i don't want to dump her before she finds new boyfriend, because otherwise it's hard for her to foregt me as i can see. I was thinking if i could introduce her to what's going on in sukhumvit, but i change my mind, because rare chance of finding a decent man in sukhumvit and risk of becoming a hooker later. Any idea how i can make her end up with a nice guy? Please serious replies only. Thank you Edited August 30, 2005 by BKKDUDE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThaiPauly Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 As I see it it is not your problem. Break Ups happen all the time and it is very rare indeed to find someone as CARING as you who wants her to find a new boyfreind before you dump her Best just get it over with and let her move on with her life, thats the way it happens 99.9% of the time. Good Luck TP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 (edited) You sound like a heartless c**t my friend, but you're dilemma can only be eradicated by pretending that you've gotta leave town for a few weeks then just don't answer the phone. I'm assuming you don't live together. Edited August 30, 2005 by DJ Pat 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAceFace Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 First, sorry for my poor english and being stupid person.I met this 24 girl recently, who works as accountant in thai company in ladprao, I believe i'm the first foreigner she ever met, as she also says so. She is the nicest thai girl i ever met in Los. But this girl is creating problems for me, every time i am doing somthing or giving hints for break up, she shows lot of tears, and i don't want to dump her before she finds new boyfriend, because otherwise it's hard for her to foregt me as i can see. I was thinking if i could introduce her to what's going on in sukhumvit, but i change my mind, because rare chance of finding a decent man in sukhumvit and risk of becoming a hooker later. Any idea how i can make her end up with a nice guy? Please serious replies only. Thank you <{POST_SNAPBACK}> So your Duce Bigallo Why do you want to dump her if she is the finest you have seen 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jockstar Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 TROLL??? I think so. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BKKDUDE Posted August 30, 2005 Author Share Posted August 30, 2005 To:ThaiPauly Thank for advice, not that easy if you put yourself in my shoes. Yes,Could have been easier if the girl wanted to beakup up and didn't care at least. To:DJ pat Even i am dog, but not heartless, otherwise i would say <deleted> it To:TheAceFace I have no problem findng decent girls in Thailand, i can find tens of decent girls everyday, but getting saparated isn't easy, and i am not ready for serious relationship. To:Jockstar If you notice, I wanted serious and helpful replies only. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gazza Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 Dude, serves you right. If you're going to play the field then know the rules of the game. Don't let a girl get too close or attached to you. If they do then you've got to learn to phase them out of your life gently or simply don't bed them if you think they want more than just sex. Over a period of a few weeks, don't see them as often and don't receive their every phonecall. And never BS them with 'I love you's'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 Maybe she's concerned over loss of face... Have you slept with her? Do her friends and family know? Do her work colleagues know? Another thing... she'll find it difficult to be accepted by a potential Thai boyfriend after being with a falung. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Pat Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 ^^Too true Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britmaveric Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 Breakup with with her and tell her not ready for serious relationship. Sometime I think people made things too hard....longer you wait the harder it will be. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chownah Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 Paul Simon wrote a song and in it he gave this advice for how to break up: Skip out the back, Jack. Make a new plan, Stan. Hop on the bus, Gus. You don't need to discuss much. Drop off the key, Lee, and get yourself free. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BambinA Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 To:Jockstar If you notice, I wanted serious and helpful replies only. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ok u need serious reply this is mine ..i just hope no more any decent girl meet you ......anymore Bambi 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sua yai Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 If this girl's so good for you, then why the ###### are you breaking up with her? Possibly you just need a reason to finish with her. In other words you're not man enough to tell her straight about the way you feel. "Let her make the decision etc". All you're doing is messing with her head. Pussy!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spit the Dog Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 You have to be careful with Thai girls that are meeting a foreigner for the first time. They are generally nieve and innocent and for some reason seem to think that we are nice guys who will wisk them away to some dreamland and will live happilly ever after. If you want to split with her you will just have to be a bastard and ignore her phonecalls and give her the cold shoulder. If what you say is true that she is a nice girl then she should have no difficulties finding a new boyfriend. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daleyboy Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 I am a heartless moronic undeserving stupid person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BambinA Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 (edited) She is the nicest thai girl i ever met in Los. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> be4 u edited the post i remember that , u dont want her, coz u dont need serious relationship, and what you want is sort of "one night stand" or "benefit friend" i think , u are the person who make all prob , methinks u might give her a HOPE why u dont tell her the TRUE reason, that you dont want her coz u just need sex? and for her..she is just your sex material... coward?? and yes..you are pretty cruel !! Som Num Nah If this girl's so good for you, then why the ###### are you breaking up with her?Possibly you just need a reason to finish with her. In other words you're not man enough to tell her straight about the way you feel. "Let her make the decision etc". All you're doing is messing with her head. Pussy!!! <{POST_SNAPBACK}> i totally agree with you Bambi Edited August 30, 2005 by BambinA 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BambinA Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 ohh..nearly forget to tell you next time b4 u wanna beat any girl on bed...PLEASE make a deal , and tell her that you dont want any serious relationship, just for fun ASAP Bambi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thaipwriter Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 First, sorry for being stupid person. nuff said 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Maiden Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 This girl obviously deserves someone better than you, infact I don't think you deserve any girl judging your post. But why are you leading her on? The more you carry on, the more damage you are doing. Just gently tell her you would like to break up with her. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daleyboy Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 This girl obviously deserves someone better than you, infact I don't think you deserve any girl judging your post.But why are you leading her on? The more you carry on, the more damage you are doing. Just gently tell her you would like to break up with her. I think the question should have been How to get rid of a <deleted> useless moronic farang bloke? Its pricks like you bkkdude that give the rest of us a bad name, i just hope she takes the break up really badly and cuts your nuts off while you sleep. Then you can report back on here so we can all have a good laugh at you 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrincon17 Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 First, sorry for my poor english and being stupid person.I met this 24 girl recently, who works as accountant in thai company in ladprao, I believe i'm the first foreigner she ever met, as she also says so. She is the nicest thai girl i ever met in Los. But this girl is creating problems for me, every time i am doing somthing or giving hints for break up, she shows lot of tears, and i don't want to dump her before she finds new boyfriend, because otherwise it's hard for her to foregt me as i can see. I was thinking if i could introduce her to what's going on in sukhumvit, but i change my mind, because rare chance of finding a decent man in sukhumvit and risk of becoming a hooker later. Any idea how i can make her end up with a nice guy? Please serious replies only. Thank you <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok first of all never have a girlfriend in Thailand . Period , I dont care what anyone else says. There are just so many beautiful women in Thailand , myself i went through this in3-4 times in 2 weeks . Telling you that they love you after 2 days come on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice Maiden Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 First, sorry for my poor english and being stupid person.I met this 24 girl recently, who works as accountant in thai company in ladprao, I believe i'm the first foreigner she ever met, as she also says so. She is the nicest thai girl i ever met in Los. But this girl is creating problems for me, every time i am doing somthing or giving hints for break up, she shows lot of tears, and i don't want to dump her before she finds new boyfriend, because otherwise it's hard for her to foregt me as i can see. I was thinking if i could introduce her to what's going on in sukhumvit, but i change my mind, because rare chance of finding a decent man in sukhumvit and risk of becoming a hooker later. Any idea how i can make her end up with a nice guy? Please serious replies only. Thank you <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok first of all never have a girlfriend in Thailand . Period , I dont care what anyone else says. There are just so many beautiful women in Thailand , myself i went through this in3-4 times in 2 weeks . Telling you that they love you after 2 days come on. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> An ###### advising an ###### 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrincon17 Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 You have to be careful with Thai girls that are meeting a foreigner for the first time. They are generally nieve and innocent and for some reason seem to think that we are nice guys who will wisk them away to some dreamland and will live happilly ever after. If you want to split with her you will just have to be a bastard and ignore her phonecalls and give her the cold shoulder. If what you say is true that she is a nice girl then she should have no difficulties finding a new boyfriend. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yeah but most think of you as an ATM machine , you I hear about all these guys getting taken advantage . Makes me sick when i hear about it , you set yourself up for it . This guy needs to nut up and tell her the truth and dont let anything last for more than 2-3 days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jrincon17 Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 This girl obviously deserves someone better than you, infact I don't think you deserve any girl judging your post.But why are you leading her on? The more you carry on, the more damage you are doing. Just gently tell her you would like to break up with her. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I think the question should have been How to get rid of a <deleted> useless moronic farang bloke? Its pricks like you bkkdude that give the rest of us a bad name, i just hope she takes the break up really badly and cuts your nuts off while you sleep. Then you can report back on here so we can all have a good laugh at you <{POST_SNAPBACK}> None of you guys played the field when you came to thailand ? Give me a break ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BambinA Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 (edited) and i don't want to dump her before she finds new boyfriend, because otherwise it's hard for herto foregt me as i can see. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> wake up to real life .. what on earth makes you think she can have new BF while she's still loving you , and you still be there for her .. MERCI KILLING? you are nearly smart indeed @rsehole BB Edited August 30, 2005 by BambinA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bangbuathongben Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 Its pricks like you bkkdude that give the rest of us a bad name, i just hope she takes the break up really badly and cuts your nuts off while you sleep. I think you ought to grow a pair of nuts first!!! You spineless ######! Bang........ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meelousee Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 (edited) BKKDUD, There is a whole story here about someone wanting to know how to find a "Nice Lady" and then you come along and want to know how to get rid of a "Nice Lady" I think your either a troll ................Or...................you may have another problem? Edited August 30, 2005 by meelousee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Khutan Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 TROLL???I think so. <{POST_SNAPBACK}> The OP did say <snip> Please serious replies only.<{POST_SNAPBACK}> But I do tend to agree with you Jockstar Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daleyboy Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 Its pricks like you bkkdude that give the rest of us a bad name, i just hope she takes the break up really badly and cuts your nuts off while you sleep. I think you ought to grow a pair of nuts first!!! You spineless ######! Bang........ Was this intended for me bang? If it was i think you will find my nuts are in perfect working order, having found out on Saturday we are expecting our first baby. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrbojangles Posted August 30, 2005 Share Posted August 30, 2005 i just hope she takes the break up really badly and cuts your nuts off while you sleep. Bambi, Where are those Ducks, they must be getting hungry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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