Is Your Wife/Partner An X Bar Girl? My Hand Is Up.

[lovelaos]

So all bar girls are bad then and dirty and you shouldnt marry one ?? What about the girls that go to clubs everywekend in your country and get banged off a different guy everyweek? Id marry a Thai girl on the spot rather than marry a nagging, old, selfish farang lady any day

Precisely how insecure are you?

pot, kettle, black

[marstons]

simple answer for me is no i would not marry a bar girl. they have multiple parters for cash, maybe with protection maybe without. maybe 100, or maybe 1000. every nationality around the wrold. the thought of my wife performing sex for money would turn my stomach. then there's the romantic first night out, and you have paid the new wife money in favour for sex.

i want to look friends and family back at home and say this is my wife, and when the question comes how did you meet, i dont feel deep down shame she was working as prostitute.

they have a niche in life, for me marrying them is not one off them here, no more than i would marry one off the street back home.

Edited December 2, 2011 by metisdead
Font size.

[scorpio]

So all bar girls are bad then and dirty and you shouldnt marry one ?? What about the girls that go to clubs everywekend in your country and get banged off a different guy everyweek? Id marry a Thai girl on the spot rather than marry a nagging, old, selfish farang lady any day

I think you might find that the same guys who are married to bar girls might not be able to 'get' the girls who go to clubs every weekend in their country. And those who didn't marry bar girls also apply similar attitudes to keeping away from the sluts in their home country too.. They wouldn't marry them either !

The majority of girls who go to clubs in my country (United States) can barely cook. I mean, let's face it Fellas, Thai women, especially bar girls, know how to feed and care for a family. American (and British) women tend to be independent and upwardly mobile, boring, not interested in child rearing. Then there's the attractiveness issue. Yeah, sure, some American women are cute, but the majority are just too dam_n butt ugly! Woof Woof! No thank you. Bye bye. Thai women are works of art, figuratively speaking of course. I mean, who the Hell wants to wake up next to someone that looks like a man in the morning? My Wife's face is so gosh darn kissable.

A non-smoking, non-alcholoc tattoo-less bar girl makes for an absolutely perfect wife. Help take care of her aging parents, who worked their asses off choppin' rice for next to nothing, and she'll love you for life.

very well said mate, good for you! ! my wife btw has no tattoo,s, is extremely beautifull, is the best mother, she is also very family orientated, i recently had a bad fall out with my dad, my wife was calling him behind my back because she wanted all our fami

Y to be happy, she is also the type of woman who cannot pass a begger on the streer, she will allways give a litle change to most of these old ladies sitting by the roadside with their kids. enough said by me. I think.

[silsburyhill]

Prostitution the oldest profession in the world,I don't understand the stigma behind it to be honest,it's not like it never happens in Europe or the US is it now,no one ever married a pro or admitted that their mother was one,times change country's move on,so what if your girlfriend,wife or boyfriend worked in the sex industry,is it accepted more in the Netherlands because it is government run and taxed,are you a better punter if you are like the rich and famous and pay maybe 500 quid a night,who knows and cares,it's rife amongst the rich and famous,politicians,presidents,footballers,policemen,doctors,lawyers,the milk man,what about those in the adult film industry,how does one feel knowing his or her wife,husband goes to work daily for sex,is this more accepted because it pays top dollar,why don't people look at the wider picture here,it's not just the Los that it happens.<br /><br />And for the record yes,my girlfriend of two years worked in a bar when I met her,I've introduced her to my parents,heard all the usual bullshit comments from friends,colleagues and others,Thai bride,ting tong,ladyboy,etc etc am I fazed no,I work hard provide for her and my family,yes at times it's awkward trying to explain that my girlfriend was in the sex industry,but this is the life I lead and I am happy,my congratulations go out to all those who havent chosen the path i have,but the world would be a very boring place if we were al the same straight laced conformists.

The difference is that in the past prostitution was a profession. The courtesan in most countries were educated to become good companions with knowledge and manners. Those girls had no other option to make a decent living as the societies didnt allow anyone with initiative to make it unless they were from a special class.

Nowadays prostitution is practiced by the lazy, party addict, sleazy or drug addicts in every single country, there is no pride in it. A high class escort is a little more acceptable but personally i still could not handle it. Any poor girl from issaan with some hardwork and initiative and willingness can set herself up to be making 15k+ per month by the age of 30 without having sex with a single man.

I'm guessing the 'most counties' quite possibly refers to Japan and China? The French, from which the word derives, are/were as lazy party goers as those to whom you refer in the rest of your post.

PS I include the French merely because of the word. 'High Class' and 'Prostitute do not belong in the same sentence.

Edited December 2, 2011 by silsburyhill

[F1fanatic]

So all bar girls are bad then and dirty and you shouldnt marry one ?? What about the girls that go to clubs everywekend in your country and get banged off a different guy everyweek? Id marry a Thai girl on the spot rather than marry a nagging, old, selfish farang lady any day

I think you might find that the same guys who are married to bar girls might not be able to 'get' the girls who go to clubs every weekend in their country. And those who didn't marry bar girls also apply similar attitudes to keeping away from the sluts in their home country too.. They wouldn't marry them either !

The majority of girls who go to clubs in my country (United States) can barely cook. I mean, let's face it Fellas, Thai women, especially bar girls, know how to feed and care for a family. American (and British) women tend to be independent and upwardly mobile, boring, not interested in child rearing. Then there's the attractiveness issue. Yeah, sure, some American women are cute, but the majority are just too dam_n butt ugly! Woof Woof! No thank you. Bye bye. Thai women are works of art, figuratively speaking of course. I mean, who the Hell wants to wake up next to someone that looks like a man in the morning? My Wife's face is so gosh darn kissable.

A non-smoking, non-alcholoc tattoo-less bar girl makes for an absolutely perfect wife. Help take care of her aging parents, who worked their asses off choppin' rice for next to nothing, and she'll love you for life.

I'm ashamed to admit that I agree - Western women are often bad cooks. They've made the terrible mistake of thinking that they should use their brains and talents in their career (being a b/g would only be a temp measure to increase their income, and certainly nothing to do with sex).

Funnily enough, most Western women also care about their parents - its just that they don't demand that money is sent to them every month.

[norrona]

to all those questioning how many schlongs a girls had in her for money or not.....

how many girls have you paid for?

My missus, (didn't meet her in a bar) and myself don't delve into what each other done before we met and she has an idea i've been around but I wouldn't want to tell her how many...partly cos I didn't count and also as I reckon it would really upset her to know...

I lived and worked in Pattaya for just over 8 years, I smashed it pretty much week in and out, bar scene, internet dating sites, lonely women I met through work, walking along the street, romantic weekends with thai chinese birds in BKK who wouldn't dare show me to their family as they were extremely anti farang on the whole, well anti farang slipping their off spring his schlong

[Heng]

Oh my Gf's a Dancer in a GoGo, she makes around 150,000 Baht per month including the money she is sent from overseas admirers, she has built her own house up country, she has improved the lives of her close family, she has a healthy bank account, her own motorcycle ( Paid for by some tourist ), has a new car she pays for every month, gave her when she to

What's particularly pitiful (or tragic depending on your point of view) is the large number of "success story" bar girls / ex-prostitutes who refuse to change, or don't make a concerted effort to change their original (zero progress or downward spiral) mindset. I've seen cases of girls owning several homes, in one case even a small hotel and apartment complex.... And then they literally gamble it all away. It's like the stories you see all the time of how well paid athletes from ghetto beginnings find a way to lose it all in the end.

:-)

[taninthai]

How soon you forget what you say in other threads how about the funeral thread she was asking you for money for all her family to travel back to places in Thailand yet above post she never asks for money,and as for she was going to sign the house over to you I think we all know that would never happen once your back in Thailand seems she is really playing you , I don't like to see people lose everything but some people just seem to ask for if you think she would sign everything over to you when you split you are naive than I thought. Good luck when you go back to pataya if you even make it that far

[92302]

i want to look friends and family back at home and say this is my wife, and when the question comes how did you meet, i dont feel deep down shame she was working as prostitute.

No need to feel deep down shame mate you need to learn from the TV mob. Simply hold your head up high and lie through your back teeth.

[F1fanatic]

So all bar girls are bad then and dirty and you shouldnt marry one ?? What about the girls that go to clubs everywekend in your country and get banged off a different guy everyweek? Id marry a Thai girl on the spot rather than marry a nagging, old, selfish farang lady any day

Precisely how insecure are you?

pot, kettle, black

It will obviously come as a complete shock to you to learn that I never went to clubs or "get banged off a different guy everyweek".

[ludditeman]

simple answer for me is no i would not marry a bar girl. they have multiple parters for cash, maybe with protection maybe without. maybe 100, or maybe 1000. every nationality around the wrold. the thought of my wife performing sex for money would turn my stomach. then there's the romantic first night out, and you have paid the new wife money in favour for sex.

i want to look friends and family back at home and say this is my wife, and when the question comes how did you meet, i dont feel deep down shame she was working as prostitute.

they have a niche in life, for me marrying them is not one off them here, no more than i would marry one off the street back home.

What does it matter, how many previous guys your partner had sex with?

(and by the way, 100 would be a very conservative number for a pretty b/g, at age 30+ think 3000-4000 and up)

Why would you be ashamed of what someone else does?

PS unlikely that one off the street back home would agree to marry you. Same name, but different game.

[cardholder]

simple answer for me is no i would not marry a bar girl. they have multiple parters for cash, maybe with protection maybe without. maybe 100, or maybe 1000. every nationality around the wrold. the thought of my wife performing sex for money would turn my stomach. then there's the romantic first night out, and you have paid the new wife money in favour for sex.

i want to look friends and family back at home and say this is my wife, and when the question comes how did you meet, i dont feel deep down shame she was working as prostitute.

they have a niche in life, for me marrying them is not one off them here, no more than i would marry one off the street back home.

You must be quite a catch.

[TingTawng]

Thai women (fact, not generalisation and not all 30 million of them) have a somewhat unique attitude to sex and using their bodies to generate cash/reward.

So...not a generalisation? Is this a roundabout way of you saying "some Thai women", or "most Thai women"? If the latter, then this would be appear to be a generalisation. In any case, who has sex for no reason at all? There's always a reward attached, whether the reward is carnal or fiscal.

Edited December 2, 2011 by TingTawng

[elliss]

So this guy makes a thread about how acceptable it is to be with a bar girl but it really is about how unstable she is. No, I would not date a prostitute and never have.

really ??

FYI , you dont date a prossy , you have sex with them , and pay them

why have so many foreign men , white ,african muslim indian etc,

chosen to visit thailand,?

i would say @ least 90 per cent , the main reason is cheap sex .

myself included .

role reversal .

what does the thai lady , tell her family and friends .

she met her farang darling in , macdonalds , starbucks ,shopping mal , night market etc .etc .

or does she tell them the truth ,

i met him , when he was playing boom boom in BANGKOK

pumping puss in PHUCKET

sha------ng in sex city , PATTAYA.

NONE SO VIRTEOUS AS AN EX SEX TOURIST.

:jap:

[F1fanatic]

Thai women (fact, not generalisation and not all 30 million of them) have a somewhat unique attitude to sex and using their bodies to generate cash/reward.

So...not a generalisation? Is this a roundabout way of you saying "some Thai women", or "most Thai women"? If the latter, then this would be appear to be a generalisation. In any case, who has sex for no reason at all? There's always a reward attached, whether the reward is carnal or fiscal.

Gosh! I must be unique - like all my friends back home .

Who would believe that we married for love to men of a similar background....

[ludditeman]

Thai women (fact, not generalisation and not all 30 million of them) have a somewhat unique attitude to sex and using their bodies to generate cash/reward.

So...not a generalisation? Is this a roundabout way of you saying "some Thai women", or "most Thai women"? If the latter, then this would be appear to be a generalisation. In any case, who has sex for no reason at all? There's always a reward attached, whether the reward is carnal or fiscal.

Gosh! I must be unique - like all my friends back home .

Who would believe that we married for love to men of a similar background....

I was under the impression that your husband held a different view on marriage and bar girls.

Edited December 2, 2011 by ludditeman

[cardholder]

Thai women (fact, not generalisation and not all 30 million of them) have a somewhat unique attitude to sex and using their bodies to generate cash/reward.

So...not a generalisation? Is this a roundabout way of you saying "some Thai women", or "most Thai women"? If the latter, then this would be appear to be a generalisation. In any case, who has sex for no reason at all? There's always a reward attached, whether the reward is carnal or fiscal.

Indeed. But the thread is about fiscal (I think) - my point is that payment for sexual services is more widespread than some might think.

[DocN]

Maybe it is a little "off topic", but here we go:

I had and still have my share of "dates" with bar girls.

Actually I am one of those idiots, who really falls for their beauty and enjoys their company...but then again, I actually go to bars and talk to them and occasionally look into their faces (and not the department below) when I do. (Crazy stuff, I know!)

Some of these girls are a lot of fun and actually entertaining in a lot more ways than just sexual.

I dated 3 so called "educated women" as well- mind you, they played and cheated me more than any of the bar girls.

My question is: do you actually know JUST ONE bar girl, where the parents actually KNOW what their daughter is doing?

I don't!

The families just request them to send money, so these girls tell them they work in a restaurant or the likes.

I guess, if they knew...the number of those, sending their daughters to BKK or Pats to make money, would shrink by the minute.

[norrona]

Maybe it is a little "off topic", but here we go:

I had and still have my share of "dates" with bar girls.

Actually I am one of those idiots, who really falls for their beauty and enjoys their company...but then again, I actually go to bars and talk to them and occasionally look into their faces (and not the department below) when I do. (Crazy stuff, I know!)

Some of these girls are a lot of fun and actually entertaining in a lot more ways than just sexual.

I dated 3 so called "educated women" as well- mind you, they played and cheated me more than any of the bar girls.

My question is: do you actually know JUST ONE bar girl, where the parents actually KNOW what their daughter is doing?

I don't!

The families just request them to send money, so these girls tell them they work in a restaurant or the likes.

I guess, if they knew...the number of those, sending their daughters to BKK or Pats to make money, would shrink by the minute.

Oh the parents know alright mate......don't kid yourself on that one!

like a lot of people would they choose to not speak about the subject and live in denial

[ludditeman]

My question is: do you actually know JUST ONE bar girl, where the parents actually KNOW what their daughter is doing?

I don't!

The families just request them to send money, so these girls tell them they work in a restaurant or the likes.

I guess, if they knew...the number of those, sending their daughters to BKK or Pats to make money, would shrink by the minute.

I'm absolutely certain that not only do their parents know what they are doing, but everyone else in the village knows as well.

Most people in a Thai village assume every girl that goes to work in Bangkok is selling sex.

They just don't speak about it to outsiders.

[Heng]

My question is: do you actually know JUST ONE bar girl, where the parents actually KNOW what their daughter is doing?

I don't!

The families just request them to send money, so these girls tell them they work in a restaurant or the likes.

I guess, if they knew...the number of those, sending their daughters to BKK or Pats to make money, would shrink by the minute.

I'm absolutely certain that not only do their parents know what they are doing, but everyone else in the village knows as well.

Most people in a Thai village assume every girl that goes to work in Bangkok is selling sex.

They just don't speak about it to outsiders.

Well, these girls most certainly don't make an announcement about on the village loudspeaker.... but any society with so few degrees of separation (like this one) will have few secrets. Not to mention there are dozens of 'tells' for most shady professions. It's simply too difficult to convincingly lie about something to everyone all the time.

"Oh, you work at Sizzler at the Mall Bangkapi?"

"My cousin works there."

"Uh oh."

[F1fanatic]

Thai women (fact, not generalisation and not all 30 million of them) have a somewhat unique attitude to sex and using their bodies to generate cash/reward.

So...not a generalisation? Is this a roundabout way of you saying "some Thai women", or "most Thai women"? If the latter, then this would be appear to be a generalisation. In any case, who has sex for no reason at all? There's always a reward attached, whether the reward is carnal or fiscal.

Gosh! I must be unique - like all my friends back home .

Who would believe that we married for love to men of a similar background....

I was under the impression that your husband held a different view on marriage and bar girls.

And you're absolutely right.

After moving here he had an entirely different view.

And your point is?

[F1fanatic]

My question is: do you actually know JUST ONE bar girl, where the parents actually KNOW what their daughter is doing?

I don't!

The families just request them to send money, so these girls tell them they work in a restaurant or the likes.

I guess, if they knew...the number of those, sending their daughters to BKK or Pats to make money, would shrink by the minute.

I'm absolutely certain that not only do their parents know what they are doing, but everyone else in the village knows as well.

Most people in a Thai village assume every girl that goes to work in Bangkok is selling sex.

They just don't speak about it to outsiders.

One of those odd things. My ex posted on his face-book site how (when he visited 'the family;) he would never do it again..

It was only a couple of months after we separated, but he obviously wasn't taken as a 'cash cow' at all...

[dominique355]

There seems to be a awful lot of double standard and social (if not racial) prejudice around here.

Honestly, what's so bad about a person (girl) who accepts money for sex? And how is that different from a non-professional, whom you invite for a drink and dinner and then hop in the sac with her? She didn't get any cash, but a dinner (worth 5,000).

Or shall I stretch it a bit? You "pay" a girl 20k (or whatever) per month and you got a paper saying she said "Yes" and has your name now. In addition to provide for the carnal pleasures, she also has to cook for you and wash your cloth. And guess what she gets when you call it quits? Half of what you have! How is that for taking to moral high grounds?

A person is good or she is bad. Period. Just because she takes money for a shag does not necessarily make her a bad person.

I would guess that if a marriage between a Bg and a farang fails, more likely than not it's not because she was a BG, but because the two were not compatible. He may have thought he was morally superior to her, hence condescending and judge-mental and could not adapt to her culture and social background. And if I say "social background", I don't mean the bar scene, I mean her upbringing in Isan (or wherever), her education and ethnic environment, which all clash with his and both were not capable of adjusting to that. It was just easier for him to meet her that way. But in which ever environment he would have met her and married her, it would have been a failure.

So IMO whether or not she was a BG before marriage has little to do with success or failure of the marriage.

[GreenSnapper]

So all bar girls are bad then and dirty and you shouldnt marry one ?? What about the girls that go to clubs everywekend in your country and get banged off a different guy everyweek? Id marry a Thai girl on the spot rather than marry a nagging, old, selfish farang lady any day

Precisely how insecure are you?

Pricisely, you find yourself in his description?

[scorpio]

How soon you forget what you say in other threads how about the funeral thread she was asking you for money for all her family to travel back to places in Thailand yet above post she never asks for money,and as for she was going to sign the house over to you I think we all know that would never happen once your back in Thailand seems she is really playing you , I don't like to see people lose everything but some people just seem to ask for if you think she would sign everything over to you when you split you are naive than I thought. Good luck when you go back to pataya if you even make it that far

take a closer look at the thread i posted about her asking me for money for the funeral, it was only borrowed from me, the whole 50,000 thb was paid back to me a few days after the funeral from my wifes fathers insurance, dont be a fool, read before you post.

[thaibeachlovers]

Yes she has a temper and you have to run from her.. Cant wait to hear the story when the money stops or when she meets a richer person or when she starts hitting the children because they cost too much of her beer money allowance. Even if she's faithfull, she is a bargirl. Her character and non-existent virtues will be transferred to your children. I would never have children or date a bargirl even if she was hotter than jessica alba, had a PH.D and could take care of me financially. It's not about pride or the job, its about the character of the person. a working girl is a working girl.

They deserve the same things we do but personally i don't want to have my energy sucked out by someone who thinks spreading her legs for money and getting drunk every night is a way to appreciate the beauty of this world and the good charm of life we were given.

Sincerly hope we dont see you on stickman or bangkokpost for having had your penis cut up by magic and eaten by buffalo while you were flying off a balcony in pattaya

Complete and utter bul******t, my wife does not drink or smoke and never has done so, "spreading her legs for money" such a way with words havent you? says a lot for your " character " DOESNT IT? also she has never hit or slapped my baby girl and god forbid the day she ever does. Just goes to show how many small minded pea brained people on tv who generalise thai bar girls. Did it ever cross your small mind that my wifes family were very very poor, she didnt have an option wether to have chicken or beef for her dinner let alone a pair of shoes on her feet, talking of shoes, put the shoes on your feet, what would you do?

where did you meet your tee rak btw, or is that none of my business lol lol. I cant help laughing at it because i sit drinking in soi nana or walking street and i watch all these "suits" obviously business types sitting chatting and drinking with bar girls, but off course theyre only passing the time of day right?

My wife's parent lost everything when she was in her teens and they were really dirt poor. When i met her she was making enough to live comfortably working for large companies and then owning her own small shop.

It's called working part time and going to school for a better life. All thais have a choice, the 'i had to sleep with men for money' is complete bullshit. The real thing to say is 'I was not resourceful and did not have the mental capability to make it without boning old men for money'

Obviously men who come here and marry a prostitute are people who could not find a decent woman in the west because of their personality and looks so i wont expect you to understand all of this. Why cant you just be happy that you can get someone in this country without raving about how prostitutes are great? keep it for yourself.

Perhaps they could not find a "decent woman" in the west because they are usually PC and demanding. I left my western partner because I was sick of being exploited. I had lots of female friends because I worked mainly with women, but I'd never have considered marrying one again.

[scorpio]

Taninthai, i am not on here to tell lies or am i in denial about anything, you dont know me or my wife so therefore you cant judge, myself and wife have had joint bank account with over 4 million baht in it at one time, never has she taken a penny without asking me, we have accounts in thailand and in uk and even last week i withdrew from her acount money and then told her, she dont mind, its our money together, we have a beautifull daughter together, is it beyond your comprehension to believe that when a couple have been married and have a baby together then they do mot rip each other off? i think you are angry, i think you have something to hide, i think maybe you have been badly scorched in the past, am i right? btw have you ever been with a bar girl? yes or no, just one answer. :-)

[F1fanatic]

Yes she has a temper and you have to run from her.. Cant wait to hear the story when the money stops or when she meets a richer person or when she starts hitting the children because they cost too much of her beer money allowance. Even if she's faithfull, she is a bargirl. Her character and non-existent virtues will be transferred to your children. I would never have children or date a bargirl even if she was hotter than jessica alba, had a PH.D and could take care of me financially. It's not about pride or the job, its about the character of the person. a working girl is a working girl.

They deserve the same things we do but personally i don't want to have my energy sucked out by someone who thinks spreading her legs for money and getting drunk every night is a way to appreciate the beauty of this world and the good charm of life we were given.

Sincerly hope we dont see you on stickman or bangkokpost for having had your penis cut up by magic and eaten by buffalo while you were flying off a balcony in pattaya

Complete and utter bul******t, my wife does not drink or smoke and never has done so, "spreading her legs for money" such a way with words havent you? says a lot for your " character " DOESNT IT? also she has never hit or slapped my baby girl and god forbid the day she ever does. Just goes to show how many small minded pea brained people on tv who generalise thai bar girls. Did it ever cross your small mind that my wifes family were very very poor, she didnt have an option wether to have chicken or beef for her dinner let alone a pair of shoes on her feet, talking of shoes, put the shoes on your feet, what would you do?

where did you meet your tee rak btw, or is that none of my business lol lol. I cant help laughing at it because i sit drinking in soi nana or walking street and i watch all these "suits" obviously business types sitting chatting and drinking with bar girls, but off course theyre only passing the time of day right?

My wife's parent lost everything when she was in her teens and they were really dirt poor. When i met her she was making enough to live comfortably working for large companies and then owning her own small shop.

It's called working part time and going to school for a better life. All thais have a choice, the 'i had to sleep with men for money' is complete bullshit. The real thing to say is 'I was not resourceful and did not have the mental capability to make it without boning old men for money'

Obviously men who come here and marry a prostitute are people who could not find a decent woman in the west because of their personality and looks so i wont expect you to understand all of this. Why cant you just be happy that you can get someone in this country without raving about how prostitutes are great? keep it for yourself.

Exactly. Except nobody thinks they are having a relationship with someone looking for money here - they are all convinced 'they love me for myself' .

[ludditeman]

My question is: do you actually know JUST ONE bar girl, where the parents actually KNOW what their daughter is doing?

I don't!

The families just request them to send money, so these girls tell them they work in a restaurant or the likes.

I guess, if they knew...the number of those, sending their daughters to BKK or Pats to make money, would shrink by the minute.

I'm absolutely certain that not only do their parents know what they are doing, but everyone else in the village knows as well.

Most people in a Thai village assume every girl that goes to work in Bangkok is selling sex.

They just don't speak about it to outsiders.

One of those odd things. My ex posted on his face-book site how (when he visited 'the family;) he would never do it again..

It was only a couple of months after we separated, but he obviously wasn't taken as a 'cash cow' at all...

I can understand that.

My gfs village is my idea of hell, her house is a corrugated iron shed on stilts, no windows or doors, completely open at the back.

The toilet is a smaller shed in the jungle with a hole in the floor, no shower, no running water. Nowhere to go and nothing to do.

Oh, and everyone in the village (including her aunt) calls her 'that whore from Bangkok' (rightly or wrongly), behind her back, but in front of me because they think foreigners can't speak Thai.

PS, nobody got any money out of me, not when they are calling the gf names. How daft would I have been then?

Edited December 2, 2011 by ludditeman