Is Your Current Partner The "Love Of Your Life"?

[sidjameson]

Just curious as my friend as never really got over the end of the relationship that can easily be seen as his greatest, in fact only love.

I don't think I have had that feeling yet.

I wonder what % are lucky enough to find it in Thailand?

[WinnieTheKhwai]

12 years together, two kids.. I'd call that a yes.

Of course I had other girlfriends before, but didn't pick that option as it seems weird. "But" I've head girlfriends before?? who doesn't?

Or does it mean that a person has had a 'love of their life' before? In that case I picked the right option because I didn't have one of those before.

[meatboy]

21years married and happy as a pig in shit.dont read to much into my topic in the pets forum although i have another love in my life.

[sidjameson]

Love of your life is not measured by length of relationship but by intensity of feelings I would have thought.

But I could be wrong, I know little about these things.

[slapout]

Some of us reach a stage in life that to wake up in the morning is fantastic. So to put 'love of your life' into hours, days, years etc may not be relavent to our way of thinking. If both parties can/do respond to each other in a acceptable way, its way better than some other possible alternatives.

[cdnvic]

I've head girlfriends before??

Freudian?

[GarryP]

No. She was at one time, but after 25 years she is more like a favorite piece of furniture. Something taken for granted while it is there, but would be missed if it disappeared.

[theblether]

No. She was at one time, but after 25 years she is more like a favorite piece of furniture. Something taken for granted while it is there, but would be missed if it disappeared.

Brutal, brutal, but for many oh so true

[JBL]

Yup she is the one!

We may matured a little bit with time but we still have a cheeky sense of adventure & a 3 year old to keep us in line

JBL

[Thongkorn]

Married for the first time at the age of 56, I hope i have a long life. Took a while to fight her off but relented, But its the best thing i have done, a life alone is not good,

[ludditeman]

Always!

But remember relationships rarely last (especially in Thailand).

[Roadman]

Had many loves before but none that come close to this one so yeap easily the love of my life and also the love of her life or same same - each others "Big Love".

And for your other question - yes found in Thailand. Looking around among our friends and acquaitances who are falang guy/ thai girl dominant I see a healthy majority who fall into the love of their lives category and found in Thailand.

As for your friend surely their stance should be OK that was my greatest love with key thought being to date. As great as something may be unless we move on we will never find the even greater love.

[TAWP]

Ask me in 50 years.

[thaifkrlim]

love of your life mean the sweet young thing that gave you the best sex you ever had.

[Bagwan]

Not only the greatest of the fine ladies that I have lived with but for the first time I have a family that shares a mutuaI love and respect. I have never strayed because that would break her heart, and that would hurt me more than the hurt she felt. She is a one woman cuddling machine and can still make my heart skip a beat.

[Moonrakers]

Yep

Swindon Town FC has always been the love of my life. We've had our rough patches, like when we were relegated last season, but still the relationship is as strong as it ever has been.

The wife's pretty cool as well.

[Jingthing]

Yes!

[doji]

YES,,,,,and I hope it will last until the day we can exchange our dentures as the Valentine gift

[thaimate]

Always!

But remember relationships rarely last (especially in Thailand).

The sort that dont last in Thailand are the sort where your 50 go into a bar fall in love with a 20 year old ,marry her in haste and repent at leisure ,the same as ones anywhere in the world , but if you marry an ordinary woman from the same sort of background as yourself ,then chances are it will be the same as marrying a woman anywhere in the world and the chances of it lasting are the same ,not rocket science.

[Kwasaki]

I've head girlfriends before??

Freudian?

Come on give him a break there's no spell check.

[Kwasaki]

Can't vote don't know the answer, maybe let you know if it works out.

Sorry I am understandably psychologically arrogate about poles.

[Moonrakers]

Can't vote don't know the answer, maybe let you know if it works out.

Sorry I am understandably psychologically arrogate about poles.

Why, what have the Polish done?

[maiphedmaiaroi]

No but no big deal. Plenty more girls out there to keep me busy most of the time.

[marstons]

No and never will be here, love's of my life came from the West (Farang ladies) so guess i am going to be a sad lonley old man. . Got so many friends who have loves of their lives who came from bars, just dont get that, still if folks are happy with that up to them.

[Kwasaki]

Can't vote don't know the answer, maybe let you know if it works out.

Sorry I am understandably psychologically arrogate about poles.

Why, what have the Polish done?

sang som and typo go hand in hand.

[Kwasaki]

No and never will be here, love's of my life came from the West (Farang ladies) so guess i am going to be a sad lonley old man. . Got so many friends who have loves of their lives who came from bars, just dont get that, still if folks are happy with that up to them.

Yep !! that is sad, get yourself up, dust yourself off and find that companion unless your happy being on your own.

[ludditeman]

Always!

But remember relationships rarely last (especially in Thailand).

The sort that dont last in Thailand are the sort where your 50 go into a bar fall in love with a 20 year old ,marry her in haste and repent at leisure ,the same as ones anywhere in the world , but if you marry an ordinary woman from the same sort of background as yourself ,then chances are it will be the same as marrying a woman anywhere in the world and the chances of it lasting are the same ,not rocket science.

You have no evidence to support that theory.

I have no desire to live with an 'ordinary woman' and would quickly tire of one.

Chances are that marrying anyone will result in divorce, so why choose someone dull.

[DocN]

I would have to specify: my current partner is always the love of my life.

What sense would it make otherwise?

It may turn out later that she wasn't, though.

But for the moment (and I hope it will last forever) she is!

[WinnieTheKhwai]

I've head girlfriends before??

Freudian?

LOL!

Come on give him a break there's no spell check.

Show me a spell checker that highlights the word 'head' please. (A grammar check might just work though, but browsers don't have those.)

[Pacificperson]

Of course she is.