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Come on submaniac, you already know what the thread is going to turn into.

As for comparing slavery with the 'demeaning comments towards thais', there really is no comparison. America is just as different as thailand.

As far as being too sensitive though, there is an equivalent here - ' ... think too much/ tink too mut '

No need for starting a thread and then leaving, because when the s*** hits the fan, as it always does, certain people will come out of the woodwork which you more than likely will respond too.

I do recommend that if it does grate you that much, just try to spend as much time away from TV as you can. You can't change someone's opinion no matter how hard you try. That starts from within. Otherwise you're subjecting yourself to endless irritation and unnecessary migraines.

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I think you have a point, submaniac, there are people on here that post some not very sensitive and sometimes offending comments about Thai in general and probably, their could be more reporting to mods for deletion (you can do this, you know that) and other people (like me) could object more and more clearly and not just ignore those comments.

However, from the things I see on TV, it is still a small minority of people who post such negative views and thus, you might currently be in a very sensitive mood and overrate those comments?

Also, I believe that if their would be a similar website for Thai in foreign countries, we might see similar offending comments from the Thai about the people living in that country, so I guess it is not only one-sided... I have not always been treated nicely by Thai people when I am in my favorite country, but I personally do not take those negative experiences for a general rant.

Just one example: I am Farang in your country and I do not mind being called farang... but I do realize that probably 50% of the Thai who call me farang do so with a very negative tone... shall I now condemn all Thais or should I say (as I do) ok, those 50% are less than 0.0000000001% of the Thai population, so let's not generalize and just ignore...

Maybe you should think the same about those posters with very negative attitude towards Thailand and the Thai population.

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it not like it doesnt go both ways

farangs are thought of as stupid by thai people because they cant get their head around the backwards way thais do things

because thats not the way they were probably taught how to do it as the proper way in uk or usa education system

anyone who is rich sends their kids outside to be educated ,surely thats a good indication that the education system is bonked ?

The only way to gain understanding is to have mutual respect, unfortunately some here don't wish for it and start their own pity party.

There are actually many farangs here who are quite the opposite to what Submaniac is describing and as far as I can tell , he is probably not the right canditate to proclaim justice as he too likes to give out degatory remarks. It doesn't help that he doesn't talk to the people who wants to understand him either so this is just a lame attempt of deflecting criticism that has been aimed at him.

And Submaniac... nice trolling by the way...

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Freedom comes with responsibility. It does not give license to demean others.

Freedom means that there will be things with which you don't agree and which you don't like.

With the excuse of fighting racism, islamists, child porno, nazis, etc etc they just abolish freedom of speech.

If you want freedom you also must live with some unpleasant ugly things. Which is still better than being in an reeducation camp for having the wrong opinions.

Posted (edited)

I feel I understand mostly what you are saying. It seems to me after being in Thailand for years that many foreigners donot grasp the reality they arenot in their homeland or in their culture. Seems to me many expect Thais to be similar to people in their home country. Sure they wear t shirts the same as foreigners not tribal wear. Sure they drive new cars and ,trucks just like foreigners homeland. Sure they are upwardly mobile same as at home. But they are a different culture until a foreigner accepts that and stops judging from their life experiences at home, they will never understand Thailand or its people.

I am Canadian and I find many Europeans judge me by my nationality. They donot even know me but discard everything I say as not meaningful. One even went as far as to state he couldnot relate to people who have not read english literature so he saw no need to talk to me. I read and owned all Charles Dickens before I was 16. Another one who I thought had some decent character,I invited to Canada to sail the west coast with me on my boat. He came and wrecked the whole experience by simply being an aloof fool.I took him to my Royal Yacht Club and all he did was huff and puff and stammer became a complete imbecile.Well trying very hard to look down at me.It was like I didnot deserve to assocate with that class of people. But he showed me he was incapable of associating. He was all bluff about his place in the class system.

So when you read these imbecile post just remember the source. And donot let them drag you down to their level.

This guy was married to a Thai and had done absolutely nothing to learn about Thai culture. He like many others walk through life in a vacuum.

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I feel I understand mostly what you are saying. It seems to me after being in Thailand for years that many foreigners donot grasp the reality they arenot in their homeland or in their culture. Seems to me many expect Thais to be similar to people in their home country. Sure they wear t shirts the same as foreigners not tribal wear. Sure they drive new cars and ,trucks just like foreigners homeland. Sure they are upwardly mobile same as at home. But they are a different culture until a foreigner accepts that and stops judging from their life experiences at home, they will never understand Thailand or its people.

I am Canadian and I find many Europeans judge me by my nationality. They donot even know me but discard everything I say as not meaningful. One even went as far as to state he couldnot relate to people who have not read english literature so he saw no need to talk to me. I read and owned all Charles Dickens before I was 16. Another one who I thought had some decent character,I invited to Canada to sail the west coast with me on my boat. He came and wrecked the whole experience by simply being an aloof fool.I took him to my Royal Yacht Club and all he did was huff and puff and stammer became a complete imbecile.Well trying very hard to look down at me.It was like I didnot deserve to assocate with that class of people. But he showed me he was incapable of associating. He was all bluff about his place in the class system.

So when you read these imbecile post just remember the source. And donot let them drag you down to their level.

This guy was married to a Thai and had done absolutely nothing to learn about Thai culture. He like many others walk through life in a vacuum.

I'm a bit curious... How exactly are the Europeans judging by your nationality?

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@submaniac - it's a shame you didn't follow your own advise when previously posting virulent anti Islamic comments - given your post I assume this activity will now cease

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I could not agree more with the OP. I rarely if ever post replies on this forum. I mostly read the news and occasionally browse some other topics. I have often wanted to say something but to be honest there are too many outspoken, severe negative or arrogant opinions that follow. I believe in tolerance and try to tolerate all that I can.

Some really good reading on this topic is by Kwame Anthony Appiah, particularly his book "Cosmopolitanism" it really delves into this topic and has some great things to say.

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Freedom comes with responsibility. It does not give license to demean others.

You will certainly get counter argument from US TV members using the freedom of speech justification.

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Submaniac, don't take farangotangs too seriously, they really aren't worth it.

Although they think they are - that's the problem.

The behavior has been getting worse though I agree. I attribute this to younger farangs coming to Thailand. They are usually more ignorant, uneducated, and quicker to pull the trigger before thinking.

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Submaniac, don't take farangotangs too seriously, they really aren't worth it.

Although they think they are - that's the problem.

The behavior has been getting worse though I agree. I attribute this to younger farangs coming to Thailand. They are usually more ignorant, uneducated, and quicker to pull the trigger before thinking.

So we fit right in you mean? coffee1.gif

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I feel I understand mostly what you are saying. It seems to me after being in Thailand for years that many foreigners donot grasp the reality they arenot in their homeland or in their culture. Seems to me many expect Thais to be similar to people in their home country. Sure they wear t shirts the same as foreigners not tribal wear. Sure they drive new cars and ,trucks just like foreigners homeland. Sure they are upwardly mobile same as at home. But they are a different culture until a foreigner accepts that and stops judging from their life experiences at home, they will never understand Thailand or its people.

I am Canadian and I find many Europeans judge me by my nationality. They donot even know me but discard everything I say as not meaningful. One even went as far as to state he couldnot relate to people who have not read english literature so he saw no need to talk to me. I read and owned all Charles Dickens before I was 16. Another one who I thought had some decent character,I invited to Canada to sail the west coast with me on my boat. He came and wrecked the whole experience by simply being an aloof fool.I took him to my Royal Yacht Club and all he did was huff and puff and stammer became a complete imbecile.Well trying very hard to look down at me.It was like I didnot deserve to assocate with that class of people. But he showed me he was incapable of associating. He was all bluff about his place in the class system.

So when you read these imbecile post just remember the source. And donot let them drag you down to their level.

This guy was married to a Thai and had done absolutely nothing to learn about Thai culture. He like many others walk through life in a vacuum.

I'm a bit curious... How exactly are the Europeans judging by your nationality?

He wrote very well; he didn't say 'all', but 'many'. This was an experience solely restricted to himself. I've never had any Europeans judge me. I've had a couple of Australians joke about my country but it's just friendly banter.

But anyways, this thread is going to be interesting. Especially with a topic that reads 'The Hotbutton Racism Thread' in a thailand-related forum.

Pseudolus is banned. The other thread about 'offensive comments towards thais possibly being against thai law' didn't bring enough people who would've been banned out, so I guess this is the next attempt.

I believe it is way too early to start a thread on this - I highly doubt old wounds have been healed, as witnessed by the last explosive thread from a couple of weeks ago. It's just bound to increase anger on both sides, while cleaning up the TV member registry.

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Note to the OP.

I see you still have that childish "one liner" at the bottom of each post you make and i note you are also fully aware that there are other members that don't appreciate it

Kindly remove it as i find it offensive and racist then i will sit down and read your racism post.

You sound like a hypocrite so heres an oppotunity to prove you are not.

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@submaniac - it's a shame you didn't follow your own advise when previously posting virulent anti Islamic comments - given your post I assume this activity will now cease

And then you might want to answer this but as i say, please remove the racist jibe on every post you make first, theres a good fellow

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@submaniac - it's a shame you didn't follow your own advise when previously posting virulent anti Islamic comments - given your post I assume this activity will now cease

Since when is Islam a race?

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I have to agree , with OP ,

However when we see Ferrari kid as )an example ) kill a copper , and yet all my thai friends have accepted that he ain't gonna serve 1 min in jail, these being successful people it makes you think about the society your in.

And in the west if that was the deputy PMs son ( example ) the country would want him on trial and if convicted slung in jail.

No matter how rich he is,

If somebody run down my kid and came offering me money ,and I knew he wouldn't go to jail I'd put a bullet in his head,

that's the difference between our society and upbringing , comes from education,

But has I have decided to live here it's ( when in rome)

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Come on submaniac, you already know what the thread is going to turn into.

As for comparing slavery with the 'demeaning comments towards thais', there really is no comparison. America is just as different as thailand.

As far as being too sensitive though, there is an equivalent here - ' ... think too much/ tink too mut '

No need for starting a thread and then leaving, because when the s*** hits the fan, as it always does, certain people will come out of the woodwork which you more than likely will respond too.

I do recommend that if it does grate you that much, just try to spend as much time away from TV as you can. You can't change someone's opinion no matter how hard you try. That starts from within. Otherwise you're subjecting yourself to endless irritation and unnecessary migraines.

Ofcourse he knows what this will turn into. And no, it won't be closed because he's having a general pop at foreigners, bless him. biggrin.png

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Note to the OP.

I see you still have that childish "one liner" at the bottom of each post you make and i note you are also fully aware that there are other members that don't appreciate it

Kindly remove it as i find it offensive and racist then i will sit down and read your racism post.

You sound like a hypocrite so heres an oppotunity to prove you are not.

That brings the freedom of speech vs. political correctness nicely on the point.

Everyone is for freedom of opinion and freedom of speech as long as it is the one opinion....but at different opinion it must be banned immediately.

So Submaniac is strongly against bashing Thais and think it is racist.

But bashing British is complete normal and a sign of freedom of speech.

Posted

Note to the OP.

I see you still have that childish "one liner" at the bottom of each post you make and i note you are also fully aware that there are other members that don't appreciate it

Kindly remove it as i find it offensive and racist then i will sit down and read your racism post.

You sound like a hypocrite so heres an oppotunity to prove you are not.

That brings the freedom of speech vs. political correctness nicely on the point.

Everyone is for freedom of opinion and freedom of speech as long as it is the one opinion....but at different opinion it must be banned immediately.

So Submaniac is strongly against bashing Thais and think it is racist.

But bashing British is complete normal and a sign of freedom of speech.

I havenot read any British bashing in TV it seems to me we just give them free wheeling opportunity to do themselves in. Unless I misunderstand bashing.

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submaniac I used to respect your posts but recently there seems to been a seismic change. As some posters have already said you seem to be appearing a little thin-skinned?

Looking at the comments you posted they could all be taken out of context by themselves and the last one I though a vaguely amusing caricature - accepting that i have no idea in what context it was posted.

I have seen many insinuations/specifics about Brits/English but there is no point in getting upset by all of them otherwise I would be forever down.... in many cases I believe they are not really serious and if they are it is more their problem than mine (see lovesomlak post received as I wrote this).

I do agree generally with GHs comments but often it is not clear what is realy meant and what is in jest.....

edit for spelling

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