Now to be fair, I know there are lots of good Thai women, and I know some guys are lucky with good relationships. I'm just not willing to take that chance to the point of marriage. Before you say it, I also realize that there are lots of grubbing Western women too.

I was just visiting a Thai dating site, mostly for kicks, but maybe to find a gf - who knows. Then I run across this very honest if scary message from an unusually pretty Thai woman who claims to have a bachelor's degree.

It doesn't get any more honest than this. The problem is that I fear too many are thinking it but not saying it.

Comments please.

If you want to have sex with me shortly. Do not waste time with me. Because I will not have sex with someone if I'm not sure

Now I'm in (city named.)
I have one daughter her age five years.
My family has seven people.
I love my family more.
If you love me you must love my family.
I want people to care for me and my family.
Because I do work in low income.
I want people to feel sincere.
And important I do not like liar
************ Very important please read. ****************
[ If you want to have sex with me shortly.
Do not waste time with me.
Because I will not have sex with someone if I'm not sure.].

Age: 34 Gender: Female

Is she called NeverSure too ?

Is she called NeverSure too ?

Sorry to be dense. I don't get that.

I read it as a girl clearly stating that she is only interested in a serious long term relationship and hoping to discourage punters looking for freebies. Sounds like a 'once bitten twice shy' kind of scenario.

Is she called NeverSure too ?

Sorry to be dense. I don't get that.

That, amongst a great mulitiude of other things....

Sounds sincere. When I was dating, I was looking primarily for non-pretentiousness. That eliminated about 90% of the profiles I saw.

As much as guys complain about the Thai dating sites (pro's and pro-Am's on the site) imagine how bad it is for any half-decent looking girl seeking a genuine relationship. They're probably swamped with all kinds of lewd offers, and wondering how can they meet a truly straight-up guy. That might well be the case here.

straight answer to the question : Yes and No.

YES : They seek hopefully somebody with enough money to support her, himself and the rest of the close relatives, mostly a kid or two

NO: She does not want your money if you are in only for the fun

As simple as that. Western women are the same, they just don't utter it so directly. When you engage them however, you soon find out they think on the same level.

This date is absolutely serious in not wanting to meet a Cheap Charlie punter, why waste time, she's committed and she told ya.

If I was you, I would respect her.

Age : 34

On-the-shelf : Yes

Kid by Thai Man : Yes

Ex-bargirl who's too crazy/ugly to work the scene anymore : Yes!

Run, Forrest,Run!

A rather charming post has been removed.

Having read this and other threads, I would strongly recommend any girl against internet dating.

Unless she had seriously psycopathic tendencies, a well thought out plan and a slightly ironic sense of humour.

SC

The BIGGEST problem for Thai girls on the dating sites is that they are bombarded with requests from slimy Turkish scum to log on to Skype and provide some sex cam action.

The Turkish scum record this footage on their computers using desktop recording freeware and then resell it as porn to their other slimy Turkish brethren.

Don't believe me, ask ANY Thai girl from a dating site how many Turkish men have contacted her and asked for a sex cam session.

The BIGGEST problem for Thai girls on the dating sites is that they are bombarded with requests from slimy Turkish scum to log on to Skype and provide some sex cam action.

The Turkish scum record this footage on their computers using desktop recording freeware and then resell it as porn to their other slimy Turkish brethren.

Don't believe me, ask ANY Thai girl from a dating site how many Turkish men have contacted her and asked for a sex cam session.

I can attest to this.

I've logged in as Western lesbian in order to find Thai females interested in putting on some sort of lesbian show and the amount of Western male pervos trying to get in there almost made that one webcam show I got not worthwhile at all.

Wait there while I check it out again.

The BIGGEST problem for Thai girls on the dating sites is that they are bombarded with requests from slimy Turkish scum to log on to Skype and provide some sex cam action.

The Turkish scum record this footage on their computers using desktop recording freeware and then resell it as porn to their other slimy Turkish brethren.

Don't believe me, ask ANY Thai girl from a dating site how many Turkish men have contacted her and asked for a sex cam session.

I can attest to this.

I've logged in as Western lesbian in order to find Thai females interested in putting on some sort of lesbian show and the amount of Western male pervos trying to get in there almost made that one webcam show I got not worthwhile at all.

Wait there while I check it out again.

Moving to Pub

The gist being she wants a man to take care of her family or no pussy .,... IMHO.

Better the women who categorically state they do not want any money at all.

I always read your posts, NeverSure. Love 'em.

I enjoy the outpourings of angst, bitterness and misogyny all wrapped up in a small soufflé parcel. It warms the cockles.

MOVING TO THE PUB??????????????

It seems it is another Saturday night and SeaVisions has a long evening ahead keeping posters in line.

I do not envy anyone this task.

When does he sleep?

Great Avatar image by the way.

Anyone working with primates such as we TV Posters requires plenty of patience.

Actually its the avatar doing all the work. I'm sitting at the pub.

Lost count of the number of girls I've met via the dating sites who's profiles all read a different flavor of the OP. Even with those girls a single date is all it takes to get them back to the hotel/their place. Everyone has needs, even the 'good girls'.

The BIGGEST problem for Thai girls on the dating sites is that they are bombarded with requests from slimy Turkish scum to log on to Skype and provide some sex cam action.

The Turkish scum record this footage on their computers using desktop recording freeware and then resell it as porn to their other slimy Turkish brethren.

Don't believe me, ask ANY Thai girl from a dating site how many Turkish men have contacted her and asked for a sex cam session.

This very thing happened to my now ex gf. I think they had some mutual friends on facebook . Anyway I logged in as her and sent a message to the guys gf to screw him over.

It's a standard profile, neversure.

I have been down there

MOVING TO THE PUB??????????????

It seems it is another Saturday night and SeaVisions has a long evening ahead keeping posters in line.

I do not envy anyone this task.

When does he sleep?

Great Avatar image by the way.

Anyone working with primates such as we TV Posters requires plenty of patience.

I don't believe we have met ..

She wants a lot and offers nothing.

Why would anyone bother?

She wants a lot and offers nothing.

Why would anyone bother?

I agree

Only a fool will hook up with a pure taker like her. But I bet there are other problems with her. Also I do not think any on Thai Visa has enough to make her or her family happy. Will a million US dollars do it?

She will not even be happy with Brad Pit type

This is the sort of girl who despite saying all that ends up in your bed on the first night. I ignore whatever they say on the profiles and just look at the pictures most of the time and message if I like the look of them. The amount of girls I've met who claimed they aren't interested in sex then have sex with me about 2hrs after meeting is unreal.

Even the obvious bar girls on the dating sites say they aren't looking for sex and not to message them if you want it.

I don't understand the purpose of Dating Sites in Thailand? It's like taking a fishing rod to a fish farm.

There are millions of potential wives and lifetime partners walking around Thailand looking for a good, caring man to look after them and they want to look after him in return. There are also thousands of wiley girls looking to take a mug for an (expensive) ride ..... but it's hardly rocket science to be able to spot the difference.

Shes been mucked around now she just cuts the crap and tells it like it is.

Gotta say makes you wonder why she talks about her family though? I take that as you will be helping support them. Fair enough her daughter, but as for the rest of them. Hmmm.

The woman has told the OP two things.

1. She's looking for someone to help her take care of her family (a good/bad thing -well that depends on the guy who takes her up)

2. She clearly holds the view that guys searching these sites are looking for sex.

The OP chooses to address the former.

bachelor's degree is held by so many thai people ,

straight answer to the question : Yes and No.

YES : They seek hopefully somebody with enough money to support her, himself and the rest of the close relatives, mostly a kid or two

NO: She does not want your money if you are in only for the fun

As simple as that. Western women are the same, they just don't utter it so directly. When you engage them however, you soon find out they think on the same level.

This date is absolutely serious in not wanting to meet a Cheap Charlie punter, why waste time, she's committed and she told ya.

If I was you, I would respect her.

i think one should not overlook the fact that she has probably had more than her fair share of email abuse from horny dipshits who are simply using the dating services to avoid paying a bar fine and is reacting accordingly.

good for her

bachelor's degree is held by so many thai people ,

Yes easily purchased for around 500 baht.