Looking for a man in Phuket for a small job / helpping brother out

[THssii]

At the moment I'm not in the Thailand, but I really need to some help on one matter. Any guy who's into "massageparlours" (not actually have to be just need you to visit there), free time and residing near Bel Air hotel, can you please contact me, I can offer small reward for this job. I think you understand what kind of matter I have. Thanks.

Edited November 1, 2013 by THssii

[NamKangMan]

Somehow, I don't think there will be a "happy ending" to this thread. Pun intended.

[THssii]

Somehow, I don't think there will be a "happy ending" to this thread. Pun intended.

Good point, but lets see.

Actually It really urgent I'll be very thankful for him who can help me out. And there will be reward from this job.

Edited November 1, 2013 by THssii

[NamKangMan]

Somehow, I don't think there will be a "happy ending" to this thread. Pun intended.

Well thats exactly the case, I need to know is there happy ending or no.

You should go with your suspicions and do not send her money.

She managed to get you to the point you are considering it, as I am sure she has others in the past, and tomorrow will hope to get another one again.

[THssii]

Somehow, I don't think there will be a "happy ending" to this thread. Pun intended.

Well thats exactly the case, I need to know is there happy ending or no.

You should go with your suspicions and do not send her money.

She managed to get you to the point you are considering it, as I am sure she has others in the past, and tomorrow will hope to get another one again.

It's complicated, I really need help for this. So if anybody is in Phuket atm then please contact me, I promise you get rewarded.

[N47HAN]

Good luck buddy , i fear the worst if your posting this. Hope i wrong

[THssii]

Good luck buddy , i fear the worst if your posting this. Hope i wrong

Thanks, I'm fearing it too, but before doing any final decisions, I need to have provea not just my feeling, as there is always small change that things aren't the worst. :/

Edited November 1, 2013 by THssii

[jbrain]

Good luck buddy , i fear the worst if your posting this. Hope i wrong

Thanks, I'm fearing it too, but before doing any final decisions, I need to have provea not just my feeling, as there is always small change that things aren't the worst. :/

First rule in life ( specifically in Thailand) : always make decisions on your first perceptions.

Second rule : see rule one.

Edited November 1, 2013 by jbrain

[THssii]

Good luck buddy , i fear the worst if your posting this. Hope i wrong

Thanks, I'm fearing it too, but before doing any final decisions, I need to have provea not just my feeling, as there is always small change that things aren't the worst. :/

First rule in life ( specifically in Thailand) : always make decisions on your own perceptions.

Second rule : see rule one.

I understand, but one is fact another is just a hunch. Are you going to do big decisions in you're life just on some small hunch or on real evidence?

Edited November 1, 2013 by THssii

[jbrain]

Good luck buddy , i fear the worst if your posting this. Hope i wrong

Thanks, I'm fearing it too, but before doing any final decisions, I need to have provea not just my feeling, as there is always small change that things aren't the worst. :/

First rule in life ( specifically in Thailand) : always make decisions on your own perceptions.

Second rule : see rule one.

I understand, but one is fact another is just a hunch. Are you going to do big decisions in you're life just on some small hunch or on real evidence?

No, I definitely gonna make my decision based on the reports of a complete stranger i recruited on an anonymous forum in exchange for a small reward.

[THssii]

No, I definitely gonna make my decision based on the reports of a complete stranger i recruited on an anonymous forum in exchange for a small reward.

Obviously I need more than just a words. Audio and maybe some pictures.

[jbrain]

No, I definitely gonna make my decision based on the reports of a complete stranger i recruited on an anonymous forum in exchange for a small reward.

Obviously I need more than just a words. Audio and maybe some pictures.

Must have misread the OP that said, small job for a small reward.

[Bikkii]

Dangerous job taking photos or audio.

Clearly if the girl is sucking "everyone dry", literally or not she is gonna be pi@@ed off when that money runs out.

Would hate to cross paths with her in the street again.

[NamKangMan]

No, I definitely gonna make my decision based on the reports of a complete stranger i recruited on an anonymous forum in exchange for a small reward.

Obviously I need more than just a words. Audio and maybe some pictures.

So true jbrain. In true Thai style, what if the guy who accepts the "small job" does a deal with the Thai women for a few thousand baht and then also accepts the OP's payment? Any video and audio thereafter is of a "normal" massage.

[NamKangMan]

Good luck buddy , i fear the worst if your posting this. Hope i wrong

Thanks, I'm fearing it too, but before doing any final decisions, I need to have provea not just my feeling, as there is always small change that things aren't the worst. :/

First rule in life ( specifically in Thailand) : always make decisions on your own perceptions.

Second rule : see rule one.

I understand, but one is fact another is just a hunch. Are you going to do big decisions in you're life just on some small hunch or on real evidence?

There is no "big decision" here. It's a very simple decision. Don't send her money.

[eezergood]

Has anyone volunteered to help?

[IrishIvan]

Ok buddy lets make it clear for you, in Patong there a a few majority groups for Thai women (before all the do-gooders pounce on me notice I say majority). Ill explain it in a nutshell

The freelancer: Generally you will meet them early in the night at a disco or a non-girly bar. They are up for a good time and getting drunk, normally you hang out with them for a few days, buy them a new phone or something like that. End of holiday swap numbers and promise to see each other again, generally they like you but they are going to find another punter the night you leave. Its nothing personal they are just party girls

The Bar girl: This is a pure business transaction, You pay the barfine and you take the woman home, if they are attractive then they will get barfined every night, normally they put the sob story on at breakfast time and you send them money each month. A good one will have 5 or 6 guys sending money. Bar girls dont want to work they want to sit around and eat somtum, smoke, gamble and drink lady drinks

The Waitress in the girly bar: These are often higher money earners than the bar girls in the long term because they come across at being nicer and cute, they go more for the punters sending money and less for the one night bar fines. They actually dont mind getting off their butts and working and get good tips for doing so

Lastly you have the massage lady: She is a very hard worker, she rubs down 5 - 10 naked blokes a day and earns decent money from that. Seeing a naked man doesnt faze her, she has seen thousands... She will also earn money from extras, out of those 10 she will probably get 6 or 7 extras. Each one of those she will try to put the guilt trip / hard working woman / cute smile / party girl trick on. They are the most hard working in their industry. They would have 10 guys sending them money if they are good.

Now anyone who knows Patong knows a particular lady there whose western sounding name starts with 'N'. At the height of her career (she is getting a bit long in the tooth now) she had 150 motorbikes, a house in Patong, 3 massage palors, an Internet cafe (which all her girls used to send emails to the punters with her help) and a 1million baht plus Fortuna. She would have men from the 4 corners of the globe sending her money

So, IMO the massage women are the least trustworthy

[hansgruber]

Ivan summarized it perfectly.

I've come across all those groups in my time.

[eezergood]

Ok buddy lets make it clear for you, in Patong there a a few majority groups for Thai women (before all the do-gooders pounce on me notice I say majority). Ill explain it in a nutshell

The freelancer: Generally you will meet them early in the night at a disco or a non-girly bar. They are up for a good time and getting drunk, normally you hang out with them for a few days, buy them a new phone or something like that. End of holiday swap numbers and promise to see each other again, generally they like you but they are going to find another punter the night you leave. Its nothing personal they are just party girls

The Bar girl: This is a pure business transaction, You pay the barfine and you take the woman home, if they are attractive then they will get barfined every night, normally they put the sob story on at breakfast time and you send them money each month. A good one will have 5 or 6 guys sending money. Bar girls dont want to work they want to sit around and eat somtum, smoke, gamble and drink lady drinks

The Waitress in the girly bar: These are often higher money earners than the bar girls in the long term because they come across at being nicer and cute, they go more for the punters sending money and less for the one night bar fines. They actually dont mind getting off their butts and working and get good tips for doing so

Lastly you have the massage lady: She is a very hard worker, she rubs down 5 - 10 naked blokes a day and earns decent money from that. Seeing a naked man doesnt faze her, she has seen thousands... She will also earn money from extras, out of those 10 she will probably get 6 or 7 extras. Each one of those she will try to put the guilt trip / hard working woman / cute smile / party girl trick on. They are the most hard working in their industry. They would have 10 guys sending them money if they are good.

Now anyone who knows Patong knows a particular lady there whose western sounding name starts with 'N'. At the height of her career (she is getting a bit long in the tooth now) she had 150 motorbikes, a house in Patong, 3 massage palors, an Internet cafe (which all her girls used to send emails to the punters with her help) and a 1million baht plus Fortuna. She would have men from the 4 corners of the globe sending her money

So, IMO the massage women are the least trustworthy

Now THAT is the most accurate description of Patongs ladies (in general) i have read!

[NamKangMan]

Ok buddy lets make it clear for you, in Patong there a a few majority groups for Thai women (before all the do-gooders pounce on me notice I say majority). Ill explain it in a nutshell

The freelancer: Generally you will meet them early in the night at a disco or a non-girly bar. They are up for a good time and getting drunk, normally you hang out with them for a few days, buy them a new phone or something like that. End of holiday swap numbers and promise to see each other again, generally they like you but they are going to find another punter the night you leave. Its nothing personal they are just party girls

The Bar girl: This is a pure business transaction, You pay the barfine and you take the woman home, if they are attractive then they will get barfined every night, normally they put the sob story on at breakfast time and you send them money each month. A good one will have 5 or 6 guys sending money. Bar girls dont want to work they want to sit around and eat somtum, smoke, gamble and drink lady drinks

The Waitress in the girly bar: These are often higher money earners than the bar girls in the long term because they come across at being nicer and cute, they go more for the punters sending money and less for the one night bar fines. They actually dont mind getting off their butts and working and get good tips for doing so

Lastly you have the massage lady: She is a very hard worker, she rubs down 5 - 10 naked blokes a day and earns decent money from that. Seeing a naked man doesnt faze her, she has seen thousands... She will also earn money from extras, out of those 10 she will probably get 6 or 7 extras. Each one of those she will try to put the guilt trip / hard working woman / cute smile / party girl trick on. They are the most hard working in their industry. They would have 10 guys sending them money if they are good.

Now anyone who knows Patong knows a particular lady there whose western sounding name starts with 'N'. At the height of her career (she is getting a bit long in the tooth now) she had 150 motorbikes, a house in Patong, 3 massage palors, an Internet cafe (which all her girls used to send emails to the punters with her help) and a 1million baht plus Fortuna. She would have men from the 4 corners of the globe sending her money

So, IMO the massage women are the least trustworthy

Yeh, but this massage girl is different. She's not like the others.

[steelepulse]

Just like my sig.

[grumpyoldman]

Dude, why don't you quit the big secrecy to the matter and spill whats up.

Then many of the longtermer professionals here on the subject will give you sound advice (i.e. IrishIvan's excellent post).

I'll ditto Steelepulse, please see second line of my sig also.

[phuketsub]

I like this as a potential movie plot: great opening and who knows what could happen next...

[stevenl]

Ok buddy lets make it clear for you, in Patong there a a few majority groups for Thai women (before all the do-gooders pounce on me notice I say majority). Ill explain it in a nutshell

The freelancer: Generally you will meet them early in the night at a disco or a non-girly bar. They are up for a good time and getting drunk, normally you hang out with them for a few days, buy them a new phone or something like that. End of holiday swap numbers and promise to see each other again, generally they like you but they are going to find another punter the night you leave. Its nothing personal they are just party girls

The Bar girl: This is a pure business transaction, You pay the barfine and you take the woman home, if they are attractive then they will get barfined every night, normally they put the sob story on at breakfast time and you send them money each month. A good one will have 5 or 6 guys sending money. Bar girls dont want to work they want to sit around and eat somtum, smoke, gamble and drink lady drinks

The Waitress in the girly bar: These are often higher money earners than the bar girls in the long term because they come across at being nicer and cute, they go more for the punters sending money and less for the one night bar fines. They actually dont mind getting off their butts and working and get good tips for doing so

Lastly you have the massage lady: She is a very hard worker, she rubs down 5 - 10 naked blokes a day and earns decent money from that. Seeing a naked man doesnt faze her, she has seen thousands... She will also earn money from extras, out of those 10 she will probably get 6 or 7 extras. Each one of those she will try to put the guilt trip / hard working woman / cute smile / party girl trick on. They are the most hard working in their industry. They would have 10 guys sending them money if they are good.

Now anyone who knows Patong knows a particular lady there whose western sounding name starts with 'N'. At the height of her career (she is getting a bit long in the tooth now) she had 150 motorbikes, a house in Patong, 3 massage palors, an Internet cafe (which all her girls used to send emails to the punters with her help) and a 1million baht plus Fortuna. She would have men from the 4 corners of the globe sending her money

So, IMO the massage women are the least trustworthy

You're missing the majority: the girls who are simply looking for a better life, by marrying preferably a farang.

[jbrain]

Ok buddy lets make it clear for you, in Patong there a a few majority groups for Thai women (before all the do-gooders pounce on me notice I say majority). Ill explain it in a nutshell

The freelancer: Generally you will meet them early in the night at a disco or a non-girly bar. They are up for a good time and getting drunk, normally you hang out with them for a few days, buy them a new phone or something like that. End of holiday swap numbers and promise to see each other again, generally they like you but they are going to find another punter the night you leave. Its nothing personal they are just party girls

The Bar girl: This is a pure business transaction, You pay the barfine and you take the woman home, if they are attractive then they will get barfined every night, normally they put the sob story on at breakfast time and you send them money each month. A good one will have 5 or 6 guys sending money. Bar girls dont want to work they want to sit around and eat somtum, smoke, gamble and drink lady drinks

The Waitress in the girly bar: These are often higher money earners than the bar girls in the long term because they come across at being nicer and cute, they go more for the punters sending money and less for the one night bar fines. They actually dont mind getting off their butts and working and get good tips for doing so

Lastly you have the massage lady: She is a very hard worker, she rubs down 5 - 10 naked blokes a day and earns decent money from that. Seeing a naked man doesnt faze her, she has seen thousands... She will also earn money from extras, out of those 10 she will probably get 6 or 7 extras. Each one of those she will try to put the guilt trip / hard working woman / cute smile / party girl trick on. They are the most hard working in their industry. They would have 10 guys sending them money if they are good.

Now anyone who knows Patong knows a particular lady there whose western sounding name starts with 'N'. At the height of her career (she is getting a bit long in the tooth now) she had 150 motorbikes, a house in Patong, 3 massage palors, an Internet cafe (which all her girls used to send emails to the punters with her help) and a 1million baht plus Fortuna. She would have men from the 4 corners of the globe sending her money

So, IMO the massage women are the least trustworthy

Very accurate description of the situation in the Thai tourist centers.

Just one slight correction. The globe doesn't have corners.

[Paangjang]

Ivan summarized it perfectly.

I've come across all those groups in my time.

Like Hans, i have also cum across all of the groups in my time, i think thats what their supposed for

[NamKangMan]

Ok buddy lets make it clear for you, in Patong there a a few majority groups for Thai women (before all the do-gooders pounce on me notice I say majority). Ill explain it in a nutshell

The freelancer: Generally you will meet them early in the night at a disco or a non-girly bar. They are up for a good time and getting drunk, normally you hang out with them for a few days, buy them a new phone or something like that. End of holiday swap numbers and promise to see each other again, generally they like you but they are going to find another punter the night you leave. Its nothing personal they are just party girls

The Bar girl: This is a pure business transaction, You pay the barfine and you take the woman home, if they are attractive then they will get barfined every night, normally they put the sob story on at breakfast time and you send them money each month. A good one will have 5 or 6 guys sending money. Bar girls dont want to work they want to sit around and eat somtum, smoke, gamble and drink lady drinks

The Waitress in the girly bar: These are often higher money earners than the bar girls in the long term because they come across at being nicer and cute, they go more for the punters sending money and less for the one night bar fines. They actually dont mind getting off their butts and working and get good tips for doing so

Lastly you have the massage lady: She is a very hard worker, she rubs down 5 - 10 naked blokes a day and earns decent money from that. Seeing a naked man doesnt faze her, she has seen thousands... She will also earn money from extras, out of those 10 she will probably get 6 or 7 extras. Each one of those she will try to put the guilt trip / hard working woman / cute smile / party girl trick on. They are the most hard working in their industry. They would have 10 guys sending them money if they are good.

Now anyone who knows Patong knows a particular lady there whose western sounding name starts with 'N'. At the height of her career (she is getting a bit long in the tooth now) she had 150 motorbikes, a house in Patong, 3 massage palors, an Internet cafe (which all her girls used to send emails to the punters with her help) and a 1million baht plus Fortuna. She would have men from the 4 corners of the globe sending her money

So, IMO the massage women are the least trustworthy

You're missing the majority: the girls who are simply looking for a better life, by marrying preferably a farang.

Marriage is just a short term contract postition for most of them now.

Once the new house is built up in Issan, and they have a pick-up truck, maybe a shop in the village, some cash in the bank, maybe some land, and the girl has residency of the country of the farang - she is out of there.

Should the money dry up during the marriage - she's out of there a lot sooner.

She returns back to Issan, to retire early, after being a successful business women in Southern Thailand.

Edited November 2, 2013 by NamKangMan

[Blindside]

Has anyone volunteered to help?

I can't. I asked my wife and she said NO!

I said it was helping a brother out, but that made it worse.

[NamKangMan]

Has anyone volunteered to help?

I can't. I asked my wife and she said NO!

I said it was helping a brother out, but that made it worse.

"I said it was helping a brother out, but that made it worse." - probably when you told her it was helping a "brother" she thought the masseuse was a ladyboy. :)

[Bikkii]

Has anyone volunteered to help?

I can't. I asked my wife and she said NO!

I said it was helping a brother out, but that made it worse.

I thought about it but then reality set in. What if I fell for this girl and thought she was the one and I then felt obliged to sending her money every paycheck so her, her husbands family are all able to eat again.

I would love too but thinking with my Crown Jewels instead of whats left inside my head would mean my days in Thailand are very few.