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we have palm trees too,,,lol

and duck, chickens, pigeons, budgies, dogs,

we love our little piece of heaven

I wanted to find that very ideal

it will have to wait

all it takes is meeting the right girl,,

i must admit, i new i wouldnt be good enough for one of them high flying typs,

so i just tried to find one with a heart as big as mine,

and i did,,,,

jake

...and at the end of the day that's all that matters.

If they do marry us, it's gotta be the heart and mind.

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I had a good girl

but I didnt want her mother, and deadbeat SIL in my life or wallet

TV puts out enough warnings and early on red flags that as I saw them, I knew what awaited me

so I left

I came back to the states because I had pressing issues that are mostly finished and to get my son straight on a career path in real estate,

then, I am off, if my Panama deal fizzles

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I think most Thai women want to marry someone with whom they can be happy... I don't know if money has so much to do with it as money will never make you happy long term.

But it is a well-established code of liberalism that the only reason there are any unhappy people is because the don't have money.Money they didn't earn is the best at bringing satisfaction to the poor, according to liberals.

I mean, what is welfare, socialism and The Occupier Movement all about?

Based on that, I'd say most girls (rich or poor) marry for money. Especially poor girls, because they don't have to marry for poor; they already got that.

Modern culture screams to them how happy money will make them.

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I think most Thai women want to marry someone with whom they can be happy... I don't know if money has so much to do with it as money will never make you happy long term.

But it is a well-established code of liberalism that the only reason there are any unhappy people is because the don't have money.Money they didn't earn is the best at bringing satisfaction to the poor, according to liberals.

I mean, what is welfare, socialism and The Occupier Movement all about?

Based on that, I'd say most girls (rich or poor) marry for money. Especially poor girls, because they don't have to marry for poor; they already got that.

Modern culture screams to them how happy money will make them.

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I think you are pretty much spot on.

But there is one more factor I find interesting.

Many Thai women who would like to get married, have no interest in Thai men.

With some it is a physical attraction thing, they want tall, light skinned men, not short and dark.

But many Thai women have told me they do not like the way so many Thai men treat women, with little or no respect and used as a possion, something to be owned and controlled.

They also know that many Thai men are not ambitious enough to really try to earn a good living.

They do like the way they see so many westerners treat the women they are with.

And being motivated enough to generate a decent income is a plus too!

I am often asked by Thai women if I knw any good farangs they could marry.

I always ask why they want a farang and not a Thai man.

The above are the answers I get most often.

Before I get all of "those " replies,

I know not all Thai men are bad to women and all westerners are not good men..but this is what the Thai girls that I know and talk to see!

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I think you are pretty much spot on.

But there is one more factor I find interesting.

Many Thai women who would like to get married, have no interest in Thai men.

With some it is a physical attraction thing, they want tall, light skinned men, not short and dark.

But many Thai women have told me they do not like the way so many Thai men treat women, with little or no respect and used as a possion, something to be owned and controlled.

They also know that many Thai men are not ambitious enough to really try to earn a good living.

They do like the way they see so many westerners treat the women they are with.

And being motivated enough to generate a decent income is a plus too!

I am often asked by Thai women if I knw any good farangs they could marry.

I always ask why they want a farang and not a Thai man.

The above are the answers I get most often.

Before I get all of "those " replies,

I know not all Thai men are bad to women and all westerners are not good men..but this is what the Thai girls that I know and talk to see!

Thai women see all farangs as "millionaires"..........Many make a big mistake, and find out where hubby comes from the streets are not paved with gold, my Mrs.Trans for one..........laugh.png

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Herewith the basic 10 of my "regime":

1. No kids (that includes kids from previous relationship) wanted whatsoever

2. No family (not from me, not from you) around the house

3. I don't buy a house

4. Each our own finances/bank account (In other words: you will have to work and are free to do with your money whatever you want)

5. English as mutual language (it's not my mother tongue either so fair & square)

6. Jazz music or vintage thai folk/ballads only. Luk thung from the 60s and 70s on sunday (I pay the croissants)!

7. No facebook

8. No soap series

9. Tampon: Yes / Sanitary towel: No

10. No worshipping of imaginary friends/supreme beings

Oddly, sofar no Thai woman still wanted to marry me after hearing this and i've been here sooooooo long and i'm soooooooo handsome and soooooooo rich....clap2.gif

you forgot to add ¨no sinsod¨ to your regime

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Some of them were married before and had to "support" their husbands, they bet the shit out of them, etc...so they know from "hearsay" that foreigners are different.

And some didn't. I have 2 Thai male friends who've been married happily to their Thai wives for the past 30 years.

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I think you are pretty much spot on.

But there is one more factor I find interesting.

Many Thai women who would like to get married, have no interest in Thai men.

With some it is a physical attraction thing, they want tall, light skinned men, not short and dark.

But many Thai women have told me they do not like the way so many Thai men treat women, with little or no respect and used as a possion, something to be owned and controlled.

They also know that many Thai men are not ambitious enough to really try to earn a good living.

They do like the way they see so many westerners treat the women they are with.

And being motivated enough to generate a decent income is a plus too!

I am often asked by Thai women if I knw any good farangs they could marry.

I always ask why they want a farang and not a Thai man.

The above are the answers I get most often.

Before I get all of "those " replies,

I know not all Thai men are bad to women and all westerners are not good men..but this is what the Thai girls that I know and talk to see!

Undoubtedly there are women who want a foreigner for the reasons you state ...i truly believe that but you should ask them.....ok....what can YOU give to that foreigner ?

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my 2c,

ive been chatting to a thai lady (33)from TLL, she said she was interested in, she completely wasnt my type, and I told her that. but she pestered me consistently and said she just wants to be friends, so I gave in and said "friends only" we have been chatting for about 6 months now. about general stuff, and my position has not changed, just friends

she lives in Buriram, and is very wealthy, a couple of mercs, family owns a furniture company,

one of those typical good girls, doesnt drink, doesnt go to bars, and id have to say very naive(whether its her or good girls in general I am not sure), even at 33

anyway, recently her sister who is married to a thai guy, with 2 kids about 5-6ish, left for another woman,and the kids behind

the next day I get the msgs "ALL THAI MAN BAD"

"WHY ALL THAI MAN PLAYBOY"

"I WANT FARANG MAN":

just made me laugh,

they must have some idea from friends/media/soapies/dreams that Farangs dont cheat, farangs dont leave their wives, faranges are perfect, farangs dont drink as much

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my 2c,

ive been chatting to a thai lady (33)from TLL, she said she was interested in, she completely wasnt my type, and I told her that. but she pestered me consistently and said she just wants to be friends, so I gave in and said "friends only" we have been chatting for about 6 months now. about general stuff, and my position has not changed, just friends

she lives in Buriram, and is very wealthy, a couple of mercs, family owns a furniture company,

one of those typical good girls, doesnt drink, doesnt go to bars, and id have to say very naive(whether its her or good girls in general I am not sure), even at 33

anyway, recently her sister who is married to a thai guy, with 2 kids about 5-6ish, left for another woman,and the kids behind

the next day I get the msgs "ALL THAI MAN BAD"

"WHY ALL THAI MAN PLAYBOY"

"I WANT FARANG MAN":

just made me laugh,

they must have some idea from friends/media/soapies/dreams that Farangs dont cheat, farangs dont leave their wives, faranges are perfect, farangs dont drink as much

Your final sentence is pretty much accurate.

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my 2c,

ive been chatting to a thai lady (33)from TLL, she said she was interested in, she completely wasnt my type, and I told her that. but she pestered me consistently and said she just wants to be friends, so I gave in and said "friends only" we have been chatting for about 6 months now. about general stuff, and my position has not changed, just friends

she lives in Buriram, and is very wealthy, a couple of mercs, family owns a furniture company,

one of those typical good girls, doesnt drink, doesnt go to bars, and id have to say very naive(whether its her or good girls in general I am not sure), even at 33

anyway, recently her sister who is married to a thai guy, with 2 kids about 5-6ish, left for another woman,and the kids behind

the next day I get the msgs "ALL THAI MAN BAD"

"WHY ALL THAI MAN PLAYBOY"

"I WANT FARANG MAN":

just made me laugh,

they must have some idea from friends/media/soapies/dreams that Farangs dont cheat, farangs dont leave their wives, faranges are perfect, farangs dont drink as much

Your final sentence is pretty much accurate.

Until, after a while....reality sets in.......t-shirt.....same same but different.

Btw hellohello ....whats her profilename on TLL...i am interested....even without profilephoto....but she has the mercs right ?

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my 2c,

ive been chatting to a thai lady (33)from TLL, she said she was interested in, she completely wasnt my type, and I told her that. but she pestered me consistently and said she just wants to be friends, so I gave in and said "friends only" we have been chatting for about 6 months now. about general stuff, and my position has not changed, just friends

she lives in Buriram, and is very wealthy, a couple of mercs, family owns a furniture company,

one of those typical good girls, doesnt drink, doesnt go to bars, and id have to say very naive(whether its her or good girls in general I am not sure), even at 33

anyway, recently her sister who is married to a thai guy, with 2 kids about 5-6ish, left for another woman,and the kids behind

the next day I get the msgs "ALL THAI MAN BAD"

"WHY ALL THAI MAN PLAYBOY"

"I WANT FARANG MAN":

just made me laugh,

they must have some idea from friends/media/soapies/dreams that Farangs dont cheat, farangs dont leave their wives, faranges are perfect, farangs dont drink as much

Your final sentence is pretty much accurate.

Until, after a while....reality sets in.......t-shirt.....same same but different.

Btw hellohello ....whats her profilename on TLL...i am interested....even without profilephoto....but she has the mercs right ?

Careful - you will lose all credibility if you call them Mercs.

I live nearer to her and I would refer to Benz!

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