pigeonjake Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 ok ill go first,,,, ok at first it was me who brought the money to our relationship, i paid for our HOME, not expencive,maybe a little over a million, i paid and built out pig pens,, a little over 300,000 but now, it is my wife who works the farm a lot more then i do, im away working all over the world, so the farm, its abnout 70% 30% the work load, and the farm now pays for everything,, my money just keep going in my bank,, jake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post benalibina Posted April 24, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 24, 2014 ok ill go first,,,, ok at first it was me who brought the money to our relationship, i paid for our HOME, not expencive,maybe a little over a million, i paid and built out pig pens,, a little over 300,000 but now, it is my wife who works the farm a lot more then i do, im away working all over the world, so the farm, its abnout 70% 30% the work load, and the farm now pays for everything,, my money just keep going in my bank,, jake You provided security .....you have a child together......you are not there alot because of work......house in the vicinity of wifes family.......mate....your wife hit the jackpot. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post pigeonjake Posted April 24, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 24, 2014 ok ill go first,,,, ok at first it was me who brought the money to our relationship, i paid for our HOME, not expencive,maybe a little over a million, i paid and built out pig pens,, a little over 300,000 but now, it is my wife who works the farm a lot more then i do, im away working all over the world, so the farm, its abnout 70% 30% the work load, and the farm now pays for everything,, my money just keep going in my bank,, jake You provided security .....you have a child together......you are not there alot because of work......house in the vicinity of wifes family.......mate....your wife hit the jackpot. you forgot to mention, am also very ver handsum,,,,lol 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
benalibina Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 (edited) ok ill go first,,,, ok at first it was me who brought the money to our relationship, i paid for our HOME, not expencive,maybe a little over a million, i paid and built out pig pens,, a little over 300,000 but now, it is my wife who works the farm a lot more then i do, im away working all over the world, so the farm, its abnout 70% 30% the work load, and the farm now pays for everything,, my money just keep going in my bank,, jake You provided security .....you have a child together......you are not there alot because of work......house in the vicinity of wifes family.......mate....your wife hit the jackpot. you forgot to mention, am also very ver handsum,,,,lol Hmmm...never ever seen a photo from you.....but.....doubting though...lol.Edit to add; as long as the heart is in the correct place. Edited April 24, 2014 by benalibina 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post pigeonjake Posted April 24, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 24, 2014 you got it mate,, there is pics of me in the farming section, in shaggys farming photos,,,lol see ive got nothing to hide, i sit here and tell the truth, ive told a couple on here, there welcome at our place anytime, pics of the jackson farm in farm photos, not a big posh place, but its our home, jake 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aussiejon1604 Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 I think they marry for security and genuinely as most woman the opportunity to have a family. Farangs may create the chances in a more immediate environment but as most of us culturally its across the board. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
john1000 Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 Most women feel more insecure after a certain age. The Thai female wants someone to " care " yes that means dosh, but also the emotional needs factor in. Young BGs usually have a Thai BF. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolf5370 Posted April 24, 2014 Share Posted April 24, 2014 I think most Thai women want to marry someone with whom they can be happy. Unfortunately, many Thai women cannot attract the quality of Thai men they can be happy together, often because of her poorly planned decisions earlier in life, such as not studying hard or forgetting to use a condom. As a consequence, they look for a foreigner as he is more accepting of her lack of education, Thai male spawn, etc. I see it more as a choice of last resorts for many Thai females. There are some well educated, childless young Thai women who look for foreign husbands as they believe, rightly or wrongly that western men make better fathers, are less likely to cheat and so on. I don't know if money has so much to do with it as money will never make you happy long term. Tips: Spawn is used to refer to the eggs of fish or frogs, as well their offspring. Spawning is laying and fertilizing of eggs by fish and frogs. In business, spawn is used figuratively to describe creating or initiating new ideas or strategies. Want to Learn More Words Like spawn? Discover How You Can Improve Your Vocabulary 10 to 100 Times Faster with "Going to grade school" Dear Friend, The definition and lessons for the word spawn were made available by the new idea of, "Going to grade school" The Power Vocabulary Builder will help you develop a fuller, richer vocabulary 10 to 100 times faster than any other program available. While the quote is technically correct, spawn is widely used in the US to refer to the child of an individual, an is not necessarily derogatory. It's just slang. If it was used in the UK, it would be "bloody spawn." Londoner's would say "Sprog" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 I think most Thai women want to marry someone with whom they can be happy. Unfortunately, many Thai women cannot attract the quality of Thai men they can be happy together, often because of her poorly planned decisions earlier in life, such as not studying hard or forgetting to use a condom. As a consequence, they look for a foreigner as he is more accepting of her lack of education, Thai male spawn, etc. I see it more as a choice of last resorts for many Thai females. There are some well educated, childless young Thai women who look for foreign husbands as they believe, rightly or wrongly that western men make better fathers, are less likely to cheat and so on. I don't know if money has so much to do with it as money will never make you happy long term. Tips: Spawn is used to refer to the eggs of fish or frogs, as well their offspring. Spawning is laying and fertilizing of eggs by fish and frogs. In business, spawn is used figuratively to describe creating or initiating new ideas or strategies. Want to Learn More Words Like spawn? Discover How You Can Improve Your Vocabulary 10 to 100 Times Faster with "Going to grade school" Dear Friend, The definition and lessons for the word spawn were made available by the new idea of, "Going to grade school" The Power Vocabulary Builder will help you develop a fuller, richer vocabulary 10 to 100 times faster than any other program available. While the quote is technically correct, spawn is widely used in the US to refer to the child of an individual, an is not necessarily derogatory. It's just slang. If it was used in the UK, it would be "bloody spawn." Londoner's would say "Sprog" I can't write here what I was called as a London kid............ ...........was none of those. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackfox Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 ok ill go first,,,, ok at first it was me who brought the money to our relationship, i paid for our HOME, not expencive,maybe a little over a million, i paid and built out pig pens,, a little over 300,000 but now, it is my wife who works the farm a lot more then i do, im away working all over the world, so the farm, its abnout 70% 30% the work load, and the farm now pays for everything,, my money just keep going in my bank,, jake Ok; lovely girl, business owner, from a sound middle class family. She has her own money. Yes, financial security is important for her but honesty in love is the priority. Her previous Thai/Chinese bf left for a younger girl. I will not do that. I will honour her and be the best man I can always. Together for 2 years, engaged, and will marry later in the year. No other girl I find more loving, beautiful, caring, and honest. I will respect her and family always and she will do likewise. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigeonjake Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 good luck to you mate, jake 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 ok ill go first,,,, ok at first it was me who brought the money to our relationship, i paid for our HOME, not expencive,maybe a little over a million, i paid and built out pig pens,, a little over 300,000 but now, it is my wife who works the farm a lot more then i do, im away working all over the world, so the farm, its abnout 70% 30% the work load, and the farm now pays for everything,, my money just keep going in my bank,, jake Ok; lovely girl, business owner, from a sound middle class family. She has her own money. Yes, financial security is important for her but honesty in love is the priority. Her previous Thai/Chinese bf left for a younger girl. I will not do that. I will honour her and be the best man I can always. Together for 2 years, engaged, and will marry later in the year. No other girl I find more loving, beautiful, caring, and honest. I will respect her and family always and she will do likewise. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Good luck... I was with a lady for twenty odd years just the same, I could not believe the shit I had to deal with when she decided to do something different.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EBlair48 Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 As you rarely see wealthy or even just independent Thai women married to foreigners, I would surmise it is a social stigma. If poor women seek out men to marry for economic reasons, where I'm from that's called gold digging and is usually seen as a sustainable form of prostitution- it isn't considered an admirable and even desirable trait like foreign men in Thailand seem to view it . 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 As you rarely see wealthy or even just independent Thai women married to foreigners, I would surmise it is a social stigma. If poor women seek out men to marry for economic reasons, where I'm from that's called gold digging and is usually seen as a sustainable form of prostitution- it isn't considered an admirable and even desirable trait like foreign men in Thailand seem to view it . LOS women DO marry LOS blokes purely for his financial (Gov job) position, even though they don't like the bloke........... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johninbkk71 Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 I know westerners married to bar girls some are happy and not being ripped off, some not so. I know some married to rich girls who take care of their needs their are happy, but some others who have to pay for everything are not.Some married to farm girls who are happy, some who pay for ..... You know. If a marriage works,it works because both partners want it to work. If one half excepts their being ripped off it's their problem. Thai girls want to marry someone who will look after them and except their family as part of their life. This happens the world over. I have friends in the US whose wife's dumped them when their buisness was going bad and ran with what ever the lawyer could get. Never go into a buisness or personal deal with more than you can lose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackfox Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 (edited) ok ill go first,,,, ok at first it was me who brought the money to our relationship, i paid for our HOME, not expencive,maybe a little over a million, i paid and built out pig pens,, a little over 300,000 but now, it is my wife who works the farm a lot more then i do, im away working all over the world, so the farm, its abnout 70% 30% the work load, and the farm now pays for everything,, my money just keep going in my bank,, jake Ok; lovely girl, business owner, from a sound middle class family. She has her own money. Yes, financial security is important for her but honesty in love is the priority. Her previous Thai/Chinese bf left for a younger girl. I will not do that. I will honour her and be the best man I can always. Together for 2 years, engaged, and will marry later in the year. No other girl I find more loving, beautiful, caring, and honest. I will respect her and family always and she will do likewise. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Good luck... I was with a lady for twenty odd years just the same, I could not believe the shit I had to deal with when she decided to do something different.. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Edited April 25, 2014 by Blackfox Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackfox Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 Trans, was that here or abroad? Just out of interest. Anyhow, thanks lads for the wish of good luck. It feels good in every way so I'm happy...this Thai girl does want to marry me for all the right reasons, and yes, one of them is financial security. I'm well aware of that but, she was pursued by the black Mercedes, Armani suit wearing Thai businessman. She did not feel happy in his company but does with me; and she felt it the moment we met, as did I. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post transam Posted April 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 25, 2014 Trans, was that here or abroad? Just out of interest. Anyhow, thanks lads for the wish of good luck. It feels good in every way so I'm happy...this Thai girl does want to marry me for all the right reasons, and yes, one of them is financial security. I'm well aware of that but, she was pursued by the black Mercedes, Armani suit wearing Thai businessman. She did not feel happy in his company but does with me; and she felt it the moment we met, as did I. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand It was back home and haunts me every day, why, cos I still cannot understand why. BUT, thats life (it seems) and we (I) must move on. Still is very difficult. Yeh I am cracking on in years and perhaps makes it more difficult, buuuuuuuuut, when "true" love suddenly ends......WOW........ 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post pigeonjake Posted April 25, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted April 25, 2014 Trans, was that here or abroad? Just out of interest. Anyhow, thanks lads for the wish of good luck. It feels good in every way so I'm happy...this Thai girl does want to marry me for all the right reasons, and yes, one of them is financial security. I'm well aware of that but, she was pursued by the black Mercedes, Armani suit wearing Thai businessman. She did not feel happy in his company but does with me; and she felt it the moment we met, as did I. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand It was back home and haunts me every day, why, cos I still cannot understand why. BUT, thats life (it seems) and we (I) must move on. Still is very difficult. Yeh I am cracking on in years and perhaps makes it more difficult, buuuuuuuuut, when "true" love suddenly ends......WOW........ morning trans,, yes mate ill agree with you again on this one,,, its not just women who get hurt, in the heart,, but it has tought me,, ill be the first to admit, my thai wife has tought me to be more chilled and look at things differently, this world isnt all about money and posesions ill tell you mate from my heart, IM BLOODY HAPPY HERE IN THAILAND, more then ive been before,, and that down most part to my wife and now our daughter, so yes im bloody glad this young thai lady wanted to marry a falang jake, sermon over,,lol 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
transam Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 Trans, was that here or abroad? Just out of interest. Anyhow, thanks lads for the wish of good luck. It feels good in every way so I'm happy...this Thai girl does want to marry me for all the right reasons, and yes, one of them is financial security. I'm well aware of that but, she was pursued by the black Mercedes, Armani suit wearing Thai businessman. She did not feel happy in his company but does with me; and she felt it the moment we met, as did I. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand It was back home and haunts me every day, why, cos I still cannot understand why. BUT, thats life (it seems) and we (I) must move on. Still is very difficult. Yeh I am cracking on in years and perhaps makes it more difficult, buuuuuuuuut, when "true" love suddenly ends......WOW........ morning trans,, yes mate ill agree with you again on this one,,, its not just women who get hurt, in the heart,, but it has tought me,, ill be the first to admit, my thai wife has tought me to be more chilled and look at things differently, this world isnt all about money and posesions ill tell you mate from my heart, IM BLOODY HAPPY HERE IN THAILAND, more then ive been before,, and that down most part to my wife and now our daughter, so yes im bloody glad this young thai lady wanted to marry a falang jake, sermon over,,lol Mrs,Trans is my saviour, for sure, I got out of everything back home to try just one more thing before I went under. I am lucky that I can love someone to give my life, and I mean my life, yeh, that was my UK wife...........So I had to do something, take a chance...........So far lucky but who knows. Think many of us here in LOS are doing the same thing, taking that chance, I know many that stuff didn't work out, BUT, they had the balls to try.. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackfox Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 I've always been quite guarded with the love. Never married. I actually saw a girl in Europe last year (Sweden) I nearly married 14 years ago. When I told her I was partnered and happy in BKK, she asked "Is she 22 and beautiful". "No Anna, she is 36 and beautiful". Her meaning and undertone was perhaps one of the reasons it didn't work. I was all the more certain of my life in LOS...and I'm an Aussie. Don't get me started on the Aussie chicks. What do you do, what part of town are you in, and who do you know? Get the f.....k. Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 I know westerners married to bar girls some are happy and not being ripped off, some not so. I know some married to rich girls who take care of their needs their are happy, but some others who have to pay for everything are not.Some married to farm girls who are happy, some who pay for ..... You know. If a marriage works,it works because both partners want it to work. If one half excepts their being ripped off it's their problem. Thai girls want to marry someone who will look after them and except their family as part of their life. This happens the world over. I have friends in the US whose wife's dumped them when their buisness was going bad and ran with what ever the lawyer could get. Never go into a buisness or personal deal with more than you can lose. it is very true, American women will go for the throat and never look back, once they turn and become toxic, everyone suffers, the best thing to do is get out, before anyone gets too burned Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 As you rarely see wealthy or even just independent Thai women married to foreigners, I would surmise it is a social stigma. If poor women seek out men to marry for economic reasons, where I'm from that's called gold digging and is usually seen as a sustainable form of prostitution- it isn't considered an admirable and even desirable trait like foreign men in Thailand seem to view it . if that were true, then there wouldnt be so many females on websites talking in english looking for men, even if half of them were con artists that still leaves thousands, that are legit looking for a man who will treat them well and not have two and three g/f's that is why they seek foreigners, because thai's treat them like door mats, I have seen plenty of thai women with foreign men in the mall at Promenande and Fashion Island, they seem very happy, usually well dressed and speaking english, they cant all be losers looking to hook the fish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewlyMintedThai Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 The reason they look for foreigners is that quality Thai men have taste. They wouldn't be caught dead with the butt-ugly, uneducated, uncultured skanks most Westerners seem to go for indiscriminately. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 The reason they look for foreigners is that quality Thai men have taste. They wouldn't be caught dead with the butt-ugly, uneducated, uncultured skanks most Westerners seem to go for indiscriminately. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app nonsense, "quality" thai men have a huge female population pool to swim in "qulaity" thai men, are also regularly found, in massge parlors, having sex with anything that moves they just do it in the dark, so their mothers dont find out Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewlyMintedThai Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 Having sex is one thing. Choosing a wife is another. You know that, right? Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackfox Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 The reason they look for foreigners is that quality Thai men have taste. They wouldn't be caught dead with the butt-ugly, uneducated, uncultured skanks most Westerners seem to go for indiscriminately. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app nonsense, "quality" thai men have a huge female population pool to swim in "qulaity" thai men, are also regularly found, in massge parlors, having sex with anything that moves they just do it in the dark, so their mothers dont find out But it is true. Thai men with just a little savvy don't go for the uneducated, skanky trash that the majority of falangs fall for and empty their wallets to. Fact is, you must have something more than $$$'s to lure the hotties we see and envy in Central. Quite a lot more if they are to "marry a western man". Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scarpolo Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 The reason they look for foreigners is that quality Thai men have taste. They wouldn't be caught dead with the butt-ugly, uneducated, uncultured skanks most Westerners seem to go for indiscriminately. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app nonsense, "quality" thai men have a huge female population pool to swim in "qulaity" thai men, are also regularly found, in massge parlors, having sex with anything that moves they just do it in the dark, so their mothers dont find out But it is true. Thai men with just a little savvy don't go for the uneducated, skanky trash that the majority of falangs fall for and empty their wallets to. Fact is, you must have something more than $$$'s to lure the hotties we see and envy in Central. Quite a lot more if they are to "marry a western man". Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand just remember, as hot as you think they are, when they are home, without their makeup they can be downright scary Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pigeonjake Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 The reason they look for foreigners is that quality Thai men have taste. They wouldn't be caught dead with the butt-ugly, uneducated, uncultured skanks most Westerners seem to go for indiscriminately. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app nonsense, "quality" thai men have a huge female population pool to swim in "qulaity" thai men, are also regularly found, in massge parlors, having sex with anything that moves they just do it in the dark, so their mothers dont find out But it is true. Thai men with just a little savvy don't go for the uneducated, skanky trash that the majority of falangs fall for and empty their wallets to. Fact is, you must have something more than $$$'s to lure the hotties we see and envy in Central. Quite a lot more if they are to "marry a western man". Sent from my iPhone using Thaivisa Connect Thailand so your saying you sit in central looking in envy of what you cant have,,??? is that with your jaw on the floor,?? i think most of these thai girls would sooner be with a westener, with the same money and possition age as the thai man,, just think they might get to live abroad,,, jake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewlyMintedThai Posted April 25, 2014 Share Posted April 25, 2014 "Get" to live abroad? Most Thai women would (sensibly) far prefer Thailand to whatever rainy, cold, depressing place most Westerners come from. Sent from my iPhone using ThaiVisa app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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