Do you think this is a con or true

[Phoenix1312]

My husband met a Thai woman, I think she was his masseuse. Over a month or so she saw he was spiritual and did yoga. She told him that she had been living in a monastery with the monks for 7 years. She said her heart was broken because her Australian boyfriend went back to his wife. She also told him she hadn't had sex for 7 years.

She got my husbands birthdate and said the monk she took it to said they were meant to be together as they knew each other in a past life.

Needless to say my husband was enchanted and started an affair with her. I caught him out and left him. She now has all his assets in her name so I can't claim anything.

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way and continually go for married men? Also would she have sex with my husband after a couple of visits? I think not. I think she got exactly what she wanted and all his assets as well.

Any opinions????

[Neeranam]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

[Swiss1960]

All his assets in the Thai womans name already? You will soon see you husband crawling back to you, broke and desperate... then just give him a kick (guess you know where to kick for most effect.. ) and leave him on the street...

[mania]

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way

555 Question is do all western married men act this way?

Edited May 20, 2014 by mania

[Berkshire]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Agree. Pretty bogus story. But it sounds like the OP's husband would have believed this lady if she said she was Mary Poppins in a previous life. Ms. Cheated, your husband is a fool and a cheat. Anything he tells you about his new GF is meant to mislead you into thinking that he is not a fool and a cheat. Don't fall for it.

Edited May 20, 2014 by Berkshire

[JoeThePoster]

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way....

[ThaidDown]

Of course it's true that......

............it was a con. Although sounds like he went along with it readily so not all her fault.

[thailiketoo]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

[mania]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

Thai Nuns have their own place not at the same monasteries afaik

Edited May 20, 2014 by mania

[Soutpeel]

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way and continually go for married men? Also would she have sex with my husband after a couple of visits? I think not. I think she got exactly what she wanted and all his assets as well.

Your somehow inferring because she lived in a monastery she must have been a nun ?.....maybe not case, maybe the Aussie went back to the wife and left her with nothing ?....she had nowhere to go/no job and the monastery took her in, which does happen in Thailand, but this doesn't mean they become monks/nuns.

Would she have sex after a couple of visits ?...I am surprised it only happened after a couple of visits, usually in Thailand it can happen 30 minutes after meeting for the first time..

[thailiketoo]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

Thai Nuns have their own place not at the same monasteries afaik

http://blogspot-mook.blogspot.com/ A day in the life of a Buddhist nun. Women stay at the Wat all the time for short or longer periods of time doing spiritual and cleaning stuff. They wear white.

Every Wat I've ever been to had nuns. They dress in white. Some shave their heads. My GF used to go on retreats at the Wat and brought back photos of her with the other nuns and cleaning the grounds and fixing food. Are you sure you are talking about Thailand?

[Berkshire]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

She wasn't a nun.

[Phoenix1312]

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way

555 Question is do all western married men act this way?

I hope not. It would be very sad if they did

[mania]

http://blogspot-mook.blogspot.com/ A day in the life of a Buddhist nun. Women stay at the Wat all the time for short or longer periods of time doing spiritual and cleaning stuff. They wear white.

Every Wat I've ever been to had nuns. They dress in white. Some shave their heads. My GF used to go on retreats at the Wat and brought back photos of her with the other nuns and cleaning the grounds and fixing food. Are you sure you are talking about Thailand?

Thanks I never knew that or saw a nun at any monastery here in CM

Just places like this

http://womeninbuddhismtour-thailand.blogspot.com/2011/01/nirotharam-vipassana-meditation.html

[casualposter]

Two quick points:

1. She had a farang ex.

2. She agreed to sex after a couple of dates / visits.

Avoid women like this.

[Phoenix1312]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Agree. Pretty bogus story. But it sounds like the OP's husband would have believed this lady if she said she was Mary Poppins in a previous life. Ms. Cheated, your husband is a fool and a cheat. Anything he tells you about his new GF is meant to mislead you into thinking that he is not a fool and a cheat. Don't fall for it.

Don't worry I won't. He has done his dash with me. I totally agree with your comment

[thailiketoo]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

She wasn't a nun.

How do you know?

Edited May 20, 2014 by thailiketoo

[Phoenix1312]

Two quick points:

1. She had a farang ex.

2. She agreed to sex after a couple of dates / visits.

Avoid women like this.

Actually she has had 4 that I know of. One paid her rent and gave her money if she slept with him.

[casualposter]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

A woman doesn't have to be a nun to stay at a temple. I used to know a girl who often stayed at a temple in Ayuthaya.

[casualposter]

Two quick points:

1. She had a farang ex.

2. She agreed to sex after a couple of dates / visits.

Avoid women like this.

Actually she has had 4 that I know of. One paid her rent and gave her money if she slept with him.

So she's a prostitute with four farang exes.

Your husband needs to leave her asap. These women are scum.

Does she also have tattoos?

[Bkungbank]

Some used black magic to curse on the victim as he will always thinking of her, so I think your husband is beyond his control as some believed that he is under her curse, That lady have been telling lie to get sympathy from your ex-husband if a person who practice religion sex way no-no things to do more over taken other person husband will be punish in hell, if that man is not married then it's okay for her to fall in loved with.

I can see why your ex didn't give you any assets as he is under her control as some bad monks also found to practice black magic charm with his hair or date of birth,so you should ask local for help to get a good master to release him from spell.

[Beetlejuice]

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way

555 Question is do all western married men act this way?

Answer, well speaking for myself, no, plus of course this can work both ways, as in many cases the wives can also do the crap on the husbands, this situation is not only just a male trait.

I have been happily married to my Thai wife for over 30 years, met her in the States, and we are still in love, although I admit the romance part of the marriage has long gone and we are just a happy couple now. The old bird is knocking on a bit, in her late 50s, but we stick together and I`m very happy. We have 3 loving children, 2 sons and a daughter, dogs, cats, my wife`s Thai relatives and all that makes a proper family, so I consider myself as being a lucky guy.

Over my 30 years in Thailand there have been countless opportunities for me to stray off, even been pursued by women young enough to be my granddaughter, but my common sense above the waist has always prevailed over that jangly thing I have below the waist

Absolutely no way would I commit myself to any woman other than my wife, because throwing everything in for some gold digging bimbo would be like throwing away everything I have archived in my lifetime, plus me and my family`s secure and peaceful future.

As for the OP, I have no idea of what was her marriage situation, perhaps her husband is just an idiot, a total loser by the sound of things. Her only option now is to move on with her life and let nature take it`s course regarding the inevitable downfall of her husband according to how she described him in the OP.

i can assure you that not only me but many more farang married to farang and with Thai spouses are completely happy here and do stick together without being tempted off by some women offering a bit of sex if these guys are willing to sell their souls to the devil for a price and with serious consequences later on.

[Phoenix1312]

Some used black magic to curse on the victim as he will always thinking of her, so I think your husband is beyond his control as some believed that he is under her curse, That lady have been telling lie to get sympathy from your ex-husband if a person who practice religion sex way no-no things to do more over taken other person husband will be punish in hell, if that man is not married then it's okay for her to fall in loved with.

I can see why your ex didn't give you any assets as he is under her control as some bad monks also found to practice black magic charm with his hair or date of birth,so you should ask local for help to get a good master to release him from spell.

You know I have heard about this. It happened so fast I believe what you say. I didn't think it was possible but now I am not so sure. I didn't believe in black magic.

[mania]

I ask the question, do Buddhists that live in a monastery act this way

555 Question is do all western married men act this way?

Answer, well speaking for myself, no, ....<snipped >

Well of course many of us do not but my question was to her regarding her husband

[thailiketoo]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

A woman doesn't have to be a nun to stay at a temple. I used to know a girl who often stayed at a temple in Ayuthaya.

A woman can be a nun for a day or a week and so on.

Once I had received permission from the head nun to do so, I would be ordained for 7 days, to see if I could tolerate the life style. I was ordained for initially 7 days and went through the following procedure. Once I was settled into my room and dressed in white, it was time to face the monks. A flower, 3 incense sticks and a candle, together with an envelope containing money was prepared. Five sets were required for 5 monks. I received the 8 precepts, followed by 5 monks chanting the blessings. Pronunciation of the 8 precepts in the Pali language was a challenge, but the monks were most helpful. I had the advantage of being able to speak Thai,

http://blogspot-mook.blogspot.com/

[CharlieH]

Sad to say the sequence of events or story are really irrelevant. For whatever reason your relationship was over or he wouldnt have left, regardless of any manipulation, he wanted out, she provided the way to do it.

Whatever happens now is of his own doing, no matter how stupid it is or unbelievable it all may seem.

Its no good analysing how it happened, concern yourself more with why it happened, and learn from that.

[mania]

Once I had received permission from the head nun to do so, I would be ordained for 7 days,

Not to stray too far off topic but,

She is a bit loose with terminology as no woman is recognized as ordained in Thailand since the 1950's afaik

Although some have gone to Sri Lanka to do so.

Edited May 20, 2014 by mania

[thailiketoo]

Once I had received permission from the head nun to do so, I would be ordained for 7 days,

Not to stray too far off topic but,

She is a bit loose with terminology as no woman is recognized as ordained in Thailand since the 1950's afaik

Although some have gone to Sri Lanka to do so.

Ya she picked the wrong word. I really don't know what to call it; a nun-temp or something like that. Hookers do it all the time for anywhere from 3 days to a few weeks.

[marko kok prong]

I mean no disrespect as if that is you in the photo,you look a very nice and attractive lady,but could there possibly have been things in your marriage,that were not going so well,whist i feel sorry for what has befallen you there are always two sides in every story.

[DavidMavec]

Living in a monastery with monks? NO WAY.

Well where do you think the Thai nuns live?

Thai Nuns have their own place not at the same monasteries afaik

Actually, that's wrong. There are many temples where nuns live in the same temple as the monks. They don't live in the same huts and their sleeping quarters are usually far away from the monks, but they often do live in the same compound.