You call her, a Thai man answer

[nikkoid66]

It just happened to me. She is not in town and she tells me she go relax with friends.

She post something on FB so I call her to comment about what she post... a Thai man answer who do not speak English.

After she tells me she is with friends, even send me a pictures with girls and boys from her work....

Now is it normal that a male friend answer her phone?

What do you think?

[Mango Bob]

Doesn't matter what I think. It's what you think that counts. If you think she is two timing you. Forget her and move on. Your never trust her in the future.

[Naam]

tough luck

[pluto_manibo]

Stop torturing yourself and move on! It's not worth it and nip it in the butt before you get more involved.....Plenty of beautiful women out there, some of them even have morals and heart!

[rijb]

Get a Thai woman to call back, using your phone.

[PoorSucker]

I don't think you want advice from the ladies, moved to general.

[Spoonman]

Don't think too much into it mate. that person that answered was your girlfriends "brother".

[cornishcarlos]

Make sure you dialled the right number before you jump ship

[YipYipYa123]

tell him you want to speak to your "gik" and if she comes back black and blue youll have your answer ...........

[DavidBonnie]

Ha ha yes, lying is just part of the rich cultural tapestry of Thailand as is infidelity and outrageous jealousy. Dump her or at least stop sending money if you are doing so.

[HeavyDrinker]

Bear in mind platonic relationships are very common in Thailand as are often extended families. I'd not panic too much.

[YipYipYa123]

Make sure you dialled the right number before you jump ship

you should go back to the 1980's

phones have moved on a bit since then........

[AnotherOneAmerican]

The Thai guy is currently posting on the Thai forums,

"I answered my wifes' phone and some foreign guy was calling her, what do you think I should do?"

[ThaidDown]

Don't get greedy, it's just not your turn today.. Get back in line.

[JoeThePoster]

Oh brother !

[Lucifer]

Your time has run out. If you want to extend your ride, please put more money in the meter. If you've run out of money, work harder for another 6 months and come back.

[richard_smith237]

In short a friend would never answer someone else's phone.... A jealous significant other would...

Contrary to bar stool belief: There are no major mysteries in Thailand - the same levels of dating jiggery-pokery exist anywhere in the world. The signs and indications are the same, there is no big secret in the interpretation of courting skullduggery.

If there is reasonable cause for reasonable doubt, doubt will always remain.

[pigeonjake]

i know, lets crucifi her,,,

i wouldnt like you lot as my judge,, christ just bloody ask her why a man answer her phone,,

you all wouldnt be so keen to move on and get a new one,,,,just like a broken toy,, in your own country,, just because you can get a new one here easy,,lol,,,un believable

jake

[Ulysses G.]

It is probably just her husband pretending to be her brother- very common here.

[h90]

Feel for him...he having a good time with his wife and than some farang calls....surely he things she is cheating him.

[CharlieH]

Have you tried just asking her ?

Are you that insecure you immediately jump to conclusions.

[pigeonjake]

charlie

that would be to easy mate,

plus wouldnt give some of these morons the excuse to pull thai ladys to bits,,

i really cant see why some want to be with a thai lady, they dont like them and dont trust them,,

[daveAustin]

What would you do in your country if you called your gf and a bloke answered?

TV comment of the day: 'nip it in the butt' lol

[daveAustin]

charlie

that would be to easy mate,

plus wouldnt give some of these morons the excuse to pull thai ladys to bits,,

i really cant see why some want to be with a thai lady, they dont like them and dont trust them,,

I'm sure you'd trust your woman if you called and some random guy answered, right.

[choochoo]

Bear in mind platonic relationships are very common in Thailand as are often extended families. I'd not panic too much.

The sign point to something bad. Why oh why dont guys want to listen?????

Theres milions of hot girls out there with no baggage or who arnt 2 timin you................lol.

[samran]

It is probably just her husband pretending to be her brother- very common here.

On a holiday that you've paid for!

[AnotherOneAmerican]

Theres milions of hot girls out there with no baggage or who arnt 2 timin you................lol.

I'm not so sure.

[Deserted]

Was it a real man or a ladyboy?

[stockholm1995]

Did you ask her why a man answer the phone?

[nikkoid66]

Haha, thanks all for your answers, I know what did happen, no big deal, but I wanted to know if all would think the same I was thinking at first.

Actually I called with skype and a random number displayed on the phone. Her son was playing games on her phone and he gave the phone to random guy not knowing it was me...but still, it feels a little bit strange.