You call her, a Thai man answer

[MyFriend You]

Don't think too much into it mate. that person that answered was your girlfriends "brother".

Tee Lak: Oh Honeeeey, he my Pee Chai, he help me wash your Moto bike.

OP: But tee lak, I called you at 10 PM, who washes motobikes that late at night

Tee Lak: Oh I forget, he landlord fix aircondition so condo be cool

OP: Hmmm but Honeeeey, we don't have a Condo

Tee Lak: Jim?? Jim?? Kuhn Jim?? who talk now??

OP: Charlie Good By, you won't be seeing me again, by the way - I don't have a motobike either

[bangkoklasse]

Why would a male friend have her phone? I never leave my smart phone with my friends so they can answer it for me

[llso]

This post reminds me of an experience I had in Farangland many years ago. I had been seeing this girl for a while and things were serious. I began to have suspicions that she was fooling around and confronted her. She asked me how can you be so sure I'm fooling around? I replied "Because I am not stupid enough to think that you are not". Needless to say she had been fooling around behind my back.

LL

[BobbyL]

Haha, thanks all for your answers, I know what did happen, no big deal, but I wanted to know if all would think the same I was thinking at first.

Actually I called with skype and a random number displayed on the phone. Her son was playing games on her phone and he gave the phone to random guy not knowing it was me...but still, it feels a little bit strange.

Haha

[cornishcarlos]

Make sure you dialled the right number before you jump ship

you should go back to the 1980's

phones have moved on a bit since then........

They certainly have..

TVF members on the other hand ?

[connda]

He's my uncle...

He's my older brother...

He's my younger brother...

He's my father...

He's my cousin...

He's my brother-in-law...

He's my step-brother...

He's my uncle...
Etc, etc, etc.................

Dude! If you haven't called off the relationship and found a new tiirak, you deserve what ever you have coming.

[connda]

Bear in mind platonic relationships are very common in Thailand as are often extended families. I'd not panic too much.

If you believe that, I have a rustic WWII era bridge for sale that you might be interested in buying too.

[BlueSkyCowboy]

Ha ha yes, lying is just part of the rich cultural tapestry of Thailand as is infidelity and outrageous jealousy. Dump her or at least stop sending money if you are doing so.

I don't get it. Westerners always talk about the infidelity in Thailand. I could write a big book about my fun with married women in Europe when I was 18 to 20. Of course there was no HIV etc

[Greg Nixon]

Coitus twice a night for a month should give you your answer.

[BlueSkyCowboy]

when that happened to me, it turned out to be her father, and my GF was in the hospital. I verified it all later too. Reason I verified it was with my first Thai GF, she was with her husband when I called..... trust but verify. Ask her if you think she is real and special. if not, move on there are THOUSANDS of Thai women to choose from. Be patient and be careful to find right one. I did and been with the right one for 7 years now and we're married. But that's after many of not so honest ones...

1000s of women to choose from. All from issarn and so damaged NO respectable thai man would want one................................lol.

Of course this is exxageration but you get the picture.

I assume that you are talking about your experiences and not mine. BTW about those "respectable " Thai men

[uptheos]

No one answers my phone........hell, I don't even answer it.

[jimbeam1]

Have you tried just asking her ?

Are you that insecure you immediately jump to conclusions.

Are you that insecure you immediately jump to conclusions. Thai visa.

Sorry Charlie

jb1

[BlueSkyCowboy]

Why would a male friend have her phone? I never leave my smart phone with my friends so they can answer it for me

No problem for me, I have nothing to hide. My wife and my GF talk civilized together.

[BlueSkyCowboy]

The Thai guy is currently posting on the Thai forums,

"I answered my wifes' phone and some foreign guy was calling her, what do you think I should do?"

Ask her for half of the money the falang gave her

[BlueSkyCowboy]

Bear in mind platonic relationships are very common in Thailand as are often extended families. I'd not panic too much.

The sign point to something bad. Why oh why dont guys want to listen?????

Theres milions of hot girls out there with no baggage or who arnt 2 timin you................lol.

I heard about 3 timing going on too. Of course that was not in Pattaya, it was in California (don't rock the boat )

[lucifer666]

If a man ever answered my missus's phone she would be out on her ass. Penniless and homeless.

[Mudcrab]

If a man ever answered my missus's phone she would be out on her ass. Penniless and homeless.

Assuming you are married she would get 50% regardless of the tough guy talk. Check the law.

[cup-O-coffee]

Is this OP from the same guy who wrote "God Bless them One and All"?

[Rob180]

Your time has run out. If you want to extend your ride, please put more money in the meter. If you've run out of money, work harder for another 6 months and come back.

Hahahahahaha brilliant ...... no its not 'normal' for people to answer other people's phones lol.

[somchaismith]

Could have been worse, could have been her mother who answered.

[Thakkar]

I called Mrs T and a man claiming to be the plumber answered.

"She's outside the house turning off the mains water," he said. I was relieved that she'd finally found a decent plumber. However I got home to find Mrs T in bed with the electrician.

Electricians are a dime a dozen, but we really need a good plumber. Should I worry?

T

[YipYipYa123]

I called Mrs T and a man claiming to be the plumber answered.

"She's outside the house turning off the mains water," he said. I was relieved that she'd finally found a decent plumber. However I got home to find Mrs T in bed with the electrician.

Electricians are a dime a dozen, but we really need a good plumber. Should I worry?

T

That depends what he was plumbing .............

[JSixpack]

Ask if you can watch.

[A1Str8]

Get a Thai woman to call back, using your phone.

Do this do this!

Sent from my GT-I9500 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app

[Otis]

No one answers my phone........hell, I don't even answer it.

I have noticed girlfriends don't like it when a man doesn't answer his phone. It doesn't matter whether they (gf) is present or not. I wonder why. oc

[losworld]

maybe she's a ladyboy

[fishbrando]

[samran]

Haha, thanks all for your answers, I know what did happen, no big deal, but I wanted to know if all would think the same I was thinking at first.

Actually I called with skype and a random number displayed on the phone. Her son was playing games on her phone and he gave the phone to random guy not knowing it was me...but still, it feels a little bit strange.

You mean the son handed the phone to the dad?

[captspectre]

tough luck

it was her brother, uncle, father, or anything else you want to believe. however it was her "thai husband" is more correct!

[kinmaew]

"She go relax with friends" if she is serious about you she should "Go relax with you" - I think she is a liar and you need to get out.