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Theres a similar freak (35-45) that hangs out at the Huay Kaew Aboretum, walking around in slacks, dress shirt and formal shoes. He approaches every girl (14-18) he can and ask for their number.

Ive also seen a group of Thai guys that noticed what he was up to and were planning to give him a serious ass beating.

Some of these cheap freaks need to keep it at Loy Kroh and stop trying to bed innocent girls with a bright future ahead, only to be tarnished by some farang's venereal disease.

What may I ask is wrong with tailored slacks, a dress shirt and decent shoes? Ceap freaks with VD? What a grump you must be.

its a fitness park, everyone is running around exercising....then you see this guy in full dress, sweating his butt off and hitting on children.

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17yo Thai girl has just approached me this afternoon, can I have her locked up and deported?

I was sitting outside camp, minding my own business, waiting for the movie to start at Maya cinema.

It was a very disturbing situation, foreigners could have thought I was stalking her.

Or does it only work one way?

Geez, AOA, just when I thought you couldn't get any weirder, now you're defending the perverts right to stalk young girls? In malls, no less?

By the way, your sarcasm reminds me of another weirdo who used to post on this forum, initials KT.

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In Pattaya, in the old days, all you had to do is watch for young ladies walking around the shopping malls smoking cigarettes. It was a dead giveaway. They were always up for meeting an old perve. No one can smoke anymore, so it is not so obvious.

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Trouble is,

There has always been a lot of hookers working Airport Plaza and KSK.

Security has been keeping the hookers out of Maya and Festival.

Keep the pros out, and there will be less problems of this sort.

you certinally are a day dreamer arent you,ive been a regular shopper in both malls you have mentioned for 11years,and have never seen these so called ladies you mention,and im open any time for a liason,i reckon your just trolling.
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So I ask; what are the security staff doing in these shopping malls who`s job is supposed to be looking out for this sort of thing? Especially taking into consideration that the alleged sexual predator was lurking about and approaching girls in full view by the escalators.

LOL.. Ok I feel awkward as much as the next guy about Farang pervs hanging out and ogling the eye candy, but 'sexual predator' for someone who dares to smile and be friendly at someone else seems a bit much.

Or are we further along in turning Thailand into Sweden than I thought?

As an aside, early on most of my dates in Thailand I found in a shopping malls. But among the sales girls of course: they can't run away. ;)

The dude described in the OP knows nothing.

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Trouble is,

There has always been a lot of hookers working Airport Plaza and KSK.

Security has been keeping the hookers out of Maya and Festival.

Keep the pros out, and there will be less problems of this sort.

you certinally are a day dreamer arent you,ive been a regular shopper in both malls you have mentioned for 11years,and have never seen these so called ladies you mention,and im open any time for a liason,i reckon your just trolling.

A female friend of mine from my 'bad old days' works KSK most days.

She's walking the mall, looking for foreign customers.

Not to mention the many full service massage parlors in KSK, no pretense of massage.

But I agree, they are mostly catering for Thai customers.

As a foreigner they probably don't stand out for you.

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Trouble is,

There has always been a lot of hookers working Airport Plaza and KSK.

Security has been keeping the hookers out of Maya and Festival.

Keep the pros out, and there will be less problems of this sort.

you certinally are a day dreamer arent you,ive been a regular shopper in both malls you have mentioned for 11years,and have never seen these so called ladies you mention,and im open any time for a liason,i reckon your just trolling.

A female friend of mine from my 'bad old days' works KSK most days.

She's walking the mall, looking for foreign customers.

Not to mention the many full service massage parlors in KSK, no pretense of massage.

But I agree, they are mostly catering for Thai customers.

As a foreigner they probably don't stand out for you.

i no the women you mean every body nos her they have a special name for her for the services she performs, she works mainly in spicy and zoe now. not seen her in ksk for years.must admit passed them massage places on first floor thousands of times,never used them though.maybe look a bit closer next time 555.
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The dumb bloke ...if he had the new iPhone 6 or iPhone plus and was pretending to take pictures or fiddling with his phone he would appear safer than in a singlet

He would probably had scored the line ID ...Instagram account and Facebook page if he has the glib and luck of the Irish

Tsk tsk tsk amateurs ...

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Maybe I did not understand the story, but

many girls did worse things to me than this man did to girls. If this is stalker behaviour, then we are being raped by thai girls tongue.png

come on, asking for telephone, wanting sex from many girls may be a rude behaviour but not a "stalker" issue. he did not force anyone, he just tried his chance. why we regard a stalker's behaviour as a bad one? It is because girls would fear him, or he is doing something really bad. In this story, there is no such behaviour. We can call him an idiot, but "stalker" is unjust.

Many old farangs (expats) "buy" their young girlfriends (buying them high valued presents, renting their homes, giving them monthly payments, etc.). I think this is a bad behaviour; not the so-called Stalker's ashaming himself.

Just "tried his chance"?

In your country can a teenage girl visiting a Mall or High Street shops expect to be accosted by a grotty old Alien in a Chang vest?

Maybe there is something to this Feminism thing....?

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Stalking is unwanted or obsessive attention by an individual or group toward another person. Stalking behaviors are related to harassment and intimidation and may include following the victim in person or monitoring them. The word stalking is used, with some differing meanings, in psychology and psychiatry and also in some legal jurisdictions as a term for a criminal offense.

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Unwanted attention .... check

Harrassment ..... check

Intimidation..... check

That's exactly what this slob was doing according to the OP.

If you don't want to call him a stalker call him a sex pest.

But it's the same thing and it's still wrong.

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Maybe I did not understand the story, but

many girls did worse things to me than this man did to girls. If this is stalker behaviour, then we are being raped by thai girls tongue.png

come on, asking for telephone, wanting sex from many girls may be a rude behaviour but not a "stalker" issue. he did not force anyone, he just tried his chance. why we regard a stalker's behaviour as a bad one? It is because girls would fear him, or he is doing something really bad. In this story, there is no such behaviour. We can call him an idiot, but "stalker" is unjust.

Many old farangs (expats) "buy" their young girlfriends (buying them high valued presents, renting their homes, giving them monthly payments, etc.). I think this is a bad behaviour; not the so-called Stalker's ashaming himself.

Just "tried his chance"?

In your country can a teenage girl visiting a Mall or High Street shops expect to be accosted by a grotty old Alien in a Chang vest?

Maybe there is something to this Feminism thing....?

I studied feminism, this has nothing to do with feminism. There are various feminisms (1st wave, 2nd wave, 3rd wave, etc.), but none of them consider this as stalking. etc. Actually, feminism is completely another issue. Always fear of incomplete knowledge. Maybe you should make some research.

It is obvious that you don't like his behaviour. I don't like his behaviour either. Yet, he is not a stalker, nor a rapist. Maybe in your country, old men are expected to suppress their will and natural insticts, but i think this would not be a crime in your country also. Maybe, it is you who believe what s/he learned in her/his own country. I hate my own country by the way, but that has nothing to do with this thing. Some Thai women think that bodily differences are not so important. In the 1st post, it says the so-called stalker is stalking young Thai women, not kids. This is not a bad thing. Young women can say "no". No one is forced. Please do not speak from your memory. Just try to see what happens and who you blame for what.

There is a an appropriate time to hang out in a shopping mall to pick up young girls. This time is when you are about that same age, in your own country.

This is clear sexual harassment. Sexual harassment of females is a common theme in Feminist theory and advocacy.

This gent is probably completely unaware of the gross inappropriateness of his actions, which would signal a strong propensity for aggression. Or, perhaps he does not care because he thinks he

can get way with it here. Either way I say fine him heavily, label persona non grata, and send him back to wherever he came from, forthwith. I'm sure there are plenty of shopping centers there can troll.

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Theres a similar freak (35-45) that hangs out at the Huay Kaew Aboretum, walking around in slacks, dress shirt and formal shoes. He approaches every girl (14-18) he can and ask for their number.

Ive also seen a group of Thai guys that noticed what he was up to and were planning to give him a serious ass beating.

Some of these cheap freaks need to keep it at Loy Kroh and stop trying to bed innocent girls with a bright future ahead, only to be tarnished by some farang's venereal disease.

What may I ask is wrong with tailored slacks, a dress shirt and decent shoes? Ceap freaks with VD? What a grump you must be.

its a fitness park, everyone is running around exercising....then you see this guy in full dress, sweating his butt off and hitting on children.

There is a creepy, heavy set guy that was at Suan Bak Haad every day in the early evening and has been for at least 5 years. He also wears slacks, a white dress shirt and dress shoes. I'm not sure of his nationality, perhaps Middle Eastern although he could be Malaysian, Indian, etc. He sits on the bench and plays with his mobile phone as the girls walk/jog by him. I'm sure he is taking "upskirt" photos or photos of the girls in jogging shorts, etc. as I always see him aiming the phone at an odd angle. A number of people have mentioned that he makes them feel uneasy as they don't really know what he's up to.

There used to be an older Japanese man - perhaps in his late 60's who used to hang out at KSK up on the 3rd? Floor where the students buy their clothes at those little clothing shops. He was around there for years. He could not speak much English or Thai but would approach girls as young as 13-14 in their school uniforms and offer to buy them clothes or ask if he could take their photo. I was there once when a student called her mother in the mall and she came up with a security guard who escorted the older guy down the escalator.

Sadly there are some weird pervert/stalker types around.... Watch your kids...

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You just tell the ladyboy to leave you alone. It is not that complicated. These girls need to do the same thing with old perves and young ones too. It is a life skill that they will need as long as they are young and pretty and it all stems from natural sexual urges.

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What's it to you?

You aren't a policeman, you don't have a work permit.

Too many old weirdos, watching other old weirdos, get a life, mind your own business.

No, sorry I don't want to drop my kids off somewhere and have them subjected to weirdos like that. Some of those people are child molesters. It's another thing to worry about when you have kids.

Spot on.

My two daughters are grown and can take care of themselves because their mother taught them from an early age that no older man who is not one of the family or one of their circle of friends would make an advance to them with anything other than evil intentions.

Not always true perhaps, but it was a part of their traditional upbringing that I never argued with.

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You just tell the ladyboy to leave you alone. It is not that complicated. These girls need to do the same thing with old perves and young ones too. It is a life skill that they will need as long as they are young and pretty and it all stems from natural sexual urges.

Unfortunately youngsters are often intimidated by adults. More to the point, why should they have to protect themselves from disgusting dirty old creeps?

Better for a public-minded expat to step in with a well-timed kidney punch and a warning to get lost.

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........ Better for a public-minded expat to step in with a well-timed kidney punch and a warning to get lost.

Will this before or after you've ascertained that the foreigner wasn't just asking for directions to some shop, or perhaps where to find help for his wife who is feeling dizzy and sitting down waiting for him?

What I'm most curious about is... several posters have talked about seeing the same 'child molester/stalker' many times. I wonder just how much time these posters spend sitting in the malls watching... and just WHO are they sitting there watching? While it's true that I see many of the same people in the food court eating, I rarely see the same people walking around the mall. I guess I just don't spend enough time sitting and l̶e̶c̶h̶i̶n̶g̶ watching to notice them...

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Happened to be at a place with an escalator today and found myself looking aound - saw one guy that seemed to be hanging around just watching - we were there 2 hours - saw him before and after.....kind of caught his eye and he moved.....

But I couldn't help but think - that if someone is inclined it's just a conveyor belt delivery system made to order....so to speak.....

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Took my boy to the mall for lunch today,

Was approached by about 10 different ladies, ranging from about 14 (in school uniform) to 35.

All touching him, pinching his cheek, generally molesting him (he's three).

Where where all you white knights when I needed you?

Why weren't you punching these child molesters out for me?

@PG

That could have been me, my 3yo plays running up and down the escalators, I have to position myself to watch him (with all the molesters around). Too old to keep up with him.

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Happened to be at a place with an escalator today and found myself looking aound - saw one guy that seemed to be hanging around just watching - we were there 2 hours - saw him before and after.....kind of caught his eye and he moved.....

Can't say as I blame him for moving. If I had seen you watching me, having been there for two hours, and then you 'kind of caught my eye,' I would have figured you were some kind of hustler, that, or trying to pick me up! Either of which would have caused me to move out of your area PDQ! He probably thought that if you were hanging around the mall for two hours you were up to no good!

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Happened to be at a place with an escalator today and found myself looking aound - saw one guy that seemed to be hanging around just watching - we were there 2 hours - saw him before and after.....kind of caught his eye and he moved.....

Can't say as I blame him for moving. If I had seen you watching me, having been there for two hours, and then you 'kind of caught my eye,' I would have figured you were some kind of hustler, that, or trying to pick me up! Either of which would have caused me to move out of your area PDQ! He probably thought that if you were hanging around the mall for two hours you were up to no good!

I think the OP and PG were in the same Mall.

This entire thread is about the two of them stalking each other.

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Happened to be at a place with an escalator today and found myself looking aound - saw one guy that seemed to be hanging around just watching - we were there 2 hours - saw him before and after.....kind of caught his eye and he moved.....

Can't say as I blame him for moving. If I had seen you watching me, having been there for two hours, and then you 'kind of caught my eye,' I would have figured you were some kind of hustler, that, or trying to pick me up! Either of which would have caused me to move out of your area PDQ! He probably thought that if you were hanging around the mall for two hours you were up to no good!

Wife and I were walking along hand in hand with our shopping carrying bags....not really looking like on patrol.....but as my Mom used to say "a guilty conscience needs no accuser"....maybe what this guy was feeling....it was about school let out time.....been asked many times if ex military or ex cop so I might just have that look or bearing....

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