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Do even the best Thai Wives tell Lies?

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After 5 pages & 120 posts, we don't still don't have a definition of what exactly constitutes a lie. We all tell them, to a greater or lesser degree.

People do what they do, to get the results they want.....or think they want. laugh.png Another way to put it is, 'do what they need to do to survive'.

But this doesn't answer the OP's question.Which is, of course, unanswerable. smile.png

How would we define what a lie is?

"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything."

Mark Twain

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  • Do you realize that you responded to a thread from 10 years ago?   Most of the posters on this thread have probably already passed away.

  • cornishcarlos
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    Absolutely... Generally she does it with the best intentions or to cover up and save face Only little things though and I find it quite amusing as she's not a good liar...

  • Have you ever lied to her?

You are probably right, but I think it would be wrong for a UK person to refer to American or Australian politicians or any other countries politicians in that way.

Why? It's well known that politicians lie, wherever they live. Probably the only US person running for office that doesn't lie is Trump and he's not a politician, yet. If he actually wins, you can expect the situation with him to change.

Just because you agree with Trump doesn't mean he's not lying. I tend to think Trump lies his ass off, worse than a typical Republican (and that's saying a lot). Making misleading statements or gross exaggerations are same as a lie.

  • 2 months later...

Even telling "white" is something I just cannot bring myself to do - yet.

In LOS, I have discovered that there is a time & place for same.

I like that a lot.

After 5 pages & 120 posts, we don't still don't have a definition of what exactly constitutes a lie.

Any information you are given that isn't factually correct, but the giver knows to be incorrect.

My wife swears she has a ผัวน้อย (minor husband) but I know she hasn't.

maybe she means you. Wives don't lie, they exaggerate

Lies from his wife are obviously eating at the op and that why he posted this thread

So op, what were the lies you suspect?

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I lie all the time, especially in this forum, it's expected as a norm.

Right then, just off with my squad for a 30 mile tab in a remote jungle for my SAS training. Be back in an hour or so.

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Have you ever lied to her?

yes ,but its only a small one and it gets me out of doing a chore i hate doingsmile.png

Even telling "white" is something I just cannot bring myself to do - yet.

In LOS, I have discovered that there is a time & place for same.

I like that a lot.

You'd rather hurt someone than tell a white lie?

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Definitely NOT!

In most cases, there are exceptions.

Q: How do I know when my wife is lying?

A: I can see her lips moving.

My wife swears she has a ผัวน้อย (minor husband) but I know she hasn't.

Yes she does, it`s me. Please give her some more living money, because I`m getting sick and tired of always having to buy the meals and drinks when we are out.

The tell tale signs that they are lying is when their lips begin to move.

^^

I can't believe the guy in the show was only 48 ......... I look younger than him and I'm 60!

I've met guys who will turn a blind eye to just about any proof rather than be faced with the pain of their own loneliness

  • 9 years later...
On 7/17/2015 at 8:30 AM, NoshowJones said:

My wife has always been very loving towards me, and we have a great marriage, she can never do enough for me. She is never in a bad mood and is

always cheerful and happy.

I know the Thais think nothing of telling lies, and it is second nature to them, I suspect my wife has lied to me a couple of times recently, nothing serious though.

I won't confront her about it as it is highly possible she has not lied to me at all.

What I want to ask is, do you ever think your wife lies to you? Do you just think it is just Thainess and let it go unless it is really serious?

I'm married to my second Thai wife. Thais lie as little or as much as any non-Thai and they don't necessarily lie to you to keep you from harm but it is to save their own little faces. My wife just celebrated a retirement event that was, according to her, only for teachers and public officials. I was strongly discouraged to go. So I agreed to stay home. However, an hour before the event, her daughter rocked up to accompany her. Her daughter travelled 600 km to be at her side. I felt, and still feel, humiliated and upset. I feel sidelined, dumped and fobbed-off. I'm hurt. Because her earlier lies were inconsistent with her daughter suddenly accompanying her, my wife told me that before her daughter got married, she was an officer, and because of that, she could attend. So what? I was a public servant for 18 years before retiring this year. When I called to ask whether I could come anyway, my wife ahhmed and ahhed and sid 'yes' at first. But instead of sending me her location, she sent me a few photos instead. After the event, she sent me her location but she had already left the venue. Her new excuse was that there was no one to look after me, although when I got there, I was greeted by a few of her colleagues. I don't categorize lies into 'white' lies or 'small' or 'big' lies. A lie is a lie. Deceit is deceit whichever way you see it. I've caught both of my wives lying to me to save their necks and for no other reason. Of course, if there were a life and death situation, and one had to lie their way out of it, then that's OK. But as her husband, I deserve respect, the truth and not excuses, lies or deceit. As a peace offering, she said that I could come to her private party at her school where her students will say good-bye. I find it inadequate as the damage has already been done. She's lied to me before. She has no come back. I can never trust her again. And for all those who defend the lies as being part of krungjai, krungjai calls for diffusing situations and not lying to get out of them. Otherwise, krungjai is a self-serving cultural excuse.

1 hour ago, ZigM said:

I'm married to my second Thai wife. Thais lie as little or as much as any non-Thai and they don't necessarily lie to you to keep you from harm but it is to save their own little faces. My wife just celebrated a retirement event that was, according to her, only for teachers and public officials. I was strongly discouraged to go. So I agreed to stay home. However, an hour before the event, her daughter rocked up to accompany her. Her daughter travelled 600 km to be at her side. I felt, and still feel, humiliated and upset. I feel sidelined, dumped and fobbed-off. I'm hurt. Because her earlier lies were inconsistent with her daughter suddenly accompanying her, my wife told me that before her daughter got married, she was an officer, and because of that, she could attend. So what? I was a public servant for 18 years before retiring this year. When I called to ask whether I could come anyway, my wife ahhmed and ahhed and sid 'yes' at first. But instead of sending me her location, she sent me a few photos instead. After the event, she sent me her location but she had already left the venue. Her new excuse was that there was no one to look after me, although when I got there, I was greeted by a few of her colleagues. I don't categorize lies into 'white' lies or 'small' or 'big' lies. A lie is a lie. Deceit is deceit whichever way you see it. I've caught both of my wives lying to me to save their necks and for no other reason. Of course, if there were a life and death situation, and one had to lie their way out of it, then that's OK. But as her husband, I deserve respect, the truth and not excuses, lies or deceit. As a peace offering, she said that I could come to her private party at her school where her students will say good-bye. I find it inadequate as the damage has already been done. She's lied to me before. She has no come back. I can never trust her again. And for all those who defend the lies as being part of krungjai, krungjai calls for diffusing situations and not lying to get out of them. Otherwise, krungjai is a self-serving cultural excuse.

 

 Do you realize that you responded to a thread from 10 years ago?

 

Most of the posters on this thread have probably already passed away.

On 7/17/2015 at 5:12 AM, rijb said:

Have you ever lied to her?

Everybody have to lie sometimes, its part of life. You cant tell the truth all the time, some understand some do not. Yes my wife lies, somemtimes as Thais do, and nothing I worry about, and most times she lies, I know she lies, and I know why she lies. 

3 hours ago, Smokin Joe said:

 

 Do you realize that you responded to a thread from 10 years ago?

 

Most of the posters on this thread have probably already passed away.

Their posts will endure and stand the test of time.

4 hours ago, Smokin Joe said:

 

 Do you realize that you responded to a thread from 10 years ago?

 

Most of the posters on this thread have probably already passed away.

Do you realize that the age of the thread is irrelevant because the topic is still relevant?

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