Scammed by my wife

[MrBold]

I got married to a Thai lady in mid-summer 2013. As many other, she is from a very poor family up in north east of Thailand. From before she had a son from previous relationship. I took her son to me as my own, and I have done everything what I can do for both of them. Late 2013 we also got a daughter together.

Beginning of last year, my wife and I agreed that she could join a short time nurse school in Thailand. She left me alone with two kids; since I was in full time work we hired a nanny. I paid the school fee in 4 payments as my wife and I agreed. Late last year I found out that she had made false school receipts, making me pay 8 times more than actual cost.

I love her, but generally I think she will never stop lying to me.

Your answers will be highly appreciated, thank you.

[blackcab]

Option 1: Stay and pay.

Option 2: Leave, but stay in contact and get milked for more cash.

Option 3: Leave without notice and cut all contact. After a few months she will divorce you with no demands and give you sole custody of your child (if it's even yours) because it's too much hassle for her.

Up to you.

[nev]

How much did you pay, I put my son in in kindergarten here only costs 200 baht a month, my wife did joke that she should have added a 0 on the end.

[rocketboybkk]

Man up & have some dignity

You're being treated like a fool, you know she's using you & you still stay?

If you don't bin her you're a mug & will live a life of wondering & stress

You know what to do but are you man enough to do it

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[sunnyjim5]

Sorry but what is a "short time nurse school" ?

Nurse education/training in Thailand involves a 4 year BSc university course.

[rocketboybkk]

I assume she's got the op to pay for her nursing course which in reality she's not learning didley squat & as per the school fees they're going to her 'brother' who hangs around quite a bit & drinks a lot, drives her pick up & doesn't seem to need to work

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[wooloomooloo]

Your answers will be highly appreciated, thank you.

I'm dying to know what your wife spent the money on.

Are you giving your wife enough money to get by every month?

[stickylies]

If your post is real: leave her and leave the kids. You're only (emotionally) connected a little over 2 years to your daughter so do like Thai men do: deny her. She will soon find another daddy-farang. Find yourself a nice farang wife who speaks your languague, who can count to 25 without calculator and who doesn't blatantly ripoff her "darling". I have one like that, pure gold!

[thaiduncankk]

A bit of history, e.g. where did you meet her, and a bit about her background would be helpful to people in making suggestions about your predicament.

[rocketboybkk]

Can't condone abandoning his daughter

Any father worth their salt would never do it

Bad advice imo

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[manxninja]

You seem to have a keeper there.

My advice keep paying but buy her a house and car if she promises to be truthful in future.

[Lukecan]

If she is a pathological liar like this, chances are you have been cucked before. Get a DNA test to confirm its your daughter. If the test comes out negative, jump ship.

[shirtless]

Thais see any financial transaction as an opportunity to fleece you, They are so poor money means everything.

[kannot]

Thais see any financial transaction as an opportunity to fleece you, They are so poor money means everything.

u missed out "lazy" after poor

[geronimo]

Be bold! Confront her. Only that will give you the answers you require!

[CharlieH]

Believed to be a Troll.