Popular Post 212Roger Posted June 25, 2016 Popular Post Share Posted June 25, 2016 You see Filipinas all over the world; you do not see Thai's all over the world. See my point?! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaivisaismylife Posted June 25, 2016 Share Posted June 25, 2016 The only reason is that their country suxx big time and that nobody with a brain would like to live there, right ? You see Filipinas all over the world; you do not see Thai's all over the world. See my point?! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rogeroc Posted June 25, 2016 Share Posted June 25, 2016 I agree with you that P'pinnes is a less desirable country to live than Thailand but i think Filipina's are primarily different to Thais as a resuly of culture, religion and the conditioning they have been brought up with. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rogeroc Posted June 25, 2016 Share Posted June 25, 2016 Up to them and up to me also...but that is the way I saw it back then while I did have several non bar girls that I considered to be my Girlfriends and even lived with a few of them...until the usual Thai Women, irritating idiosyncrasies began to get in the way of a relationship that could have and or should have been drama free but was evolving into a ongoing drama movie, week by week and then day by day ...so time to go our separate ways.... thanks....making me realize all the more that it is better in some respects to satisfy your sexual desires with the bars girls and make yourself happy and do not emotionally damage a good girl....because they are really easy to emotionally damage concerning matters of the heart. Many may disagree but unless you are going to stay with one girl and make a go of it and or marry her then the Mr. Playboy thing with good girls is just as questionable in many ways as the Playboy thing with bar girls. In my heart i am totally with you on this Gemguy and it is the prime reason i always insist on a direct payment agreement with a Thai girl (bargirl or not). Theoretically this will help to protect you both from hurt but, however, if you are in relationships like this for any period of time feelings towards each other will increase and emotions will come into play. I also do not want to hurt a girl emotionally by suggesting intentions that are not real but on the other hand i really think the 'girls' know how to play the 'emotional hurt' card and love nothing better than trying to send you on a 'massive guilt trip'. I have just been through all that having been to the P'pinnes and dated some 'Online girls'. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gemguy Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Up to them and up to me also...but that is the way I saw it back then while I did have several non bar girls that I considered to be my Girlfriends and even lived with a few of them...until the usual Thai Women, irritating idiosyncrasies began to get in the way of a relationship that could have and or should have been drama free but was evolving into a ongoing drama movie, week by week and then day by day ...so time to go our separate ways.... thanks....making me realize all the more that it is better in some respects to satisfy your sexual desires with the bars girls and make yourself happy and do not emotionally damage a good girl....because they are really easy to emotionally damage concerning matters of the heart. Many may disagree but unless you are going to stay with one girl and make a go of it and or marry her then the Mr. Playboy thing with good girls is just as questionable in many ways as the Playboy thing with bar girls. In my heart i am totally with you on this Gemguy and it is the prime reason i always insist on a direct payment agreement with a Thai girl (bargirl or not). Theoretically this will help to protect you both from hurt but, however, if you are in relationships like this for any period of time feelings towards each other will increase and emotions will come into play. I also do not want to hurt a girl emotionally by suggesting intentions that are not real but on the other hand i really think the 'girls' know how to play the 'emotional hurt' card and love nothing better than trying to send you on a 'massive guilt trip'. I have just been through all that having been to the P'pinnes and dated some 'Online girls'. I hear you. That old saying; Screw the bad girls and marry the good one...... sort of applies here. This is Thailand while a man can play it several ways including being married and still go out womanizing and some men do it with the permission of their wife's or at least the wife knows and does not intervene. Some guys have a wife and have one or several "Giks" on the go if financial matters allow them to afford it. Also if you are playing the field with the so called good girl and you get them pregnant and you have no intentions of marrying them and then they have no intentions of aborting your child ....then it really, really hits home concerning the consequences and implications of your little head doing more thinking than your big head. Fortunately I never made any girl pregnant while I nearly always wore a condom, as many men do ...but a lot, as in a lot of men do not and many girls including the bar girls are not taking any form of birth control resulting in unwanted or unnecessary pregnancies. All kinds of implications if you get too involved. Just better to pay your way and be on your way...but done in a safe and respectable and amiable fashion. Cheers 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thaivisaismylife Posted June 26, 2016 Share Posted June 26, 2016 Sorry for you but all the office girls or even girls from rich families that I screwed had a lot of fun with me ! But I understand that not everybody can give as much fun to women as I do <3 I honestly think the more education a Thai girlfriend has the more open she is to other ideas and culture, and the more boring they will be. like another guy said, at least a bar girl will pretend to have fun with you. higher end girls will just cost you more money and wont get into bed for months. whats the point in coming to thailand to be with woman who are just like back home? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FruitPudding Posted September 4, 2016 Share Posted September 4, 2016 On Thursday, June 23, 2016 at 7:37 PM, MissAndry said: It would depend on his pool. But more seriously, from what I read the posters here don't really have much in the way of assets, and appear in the main to be poorly educated. They all bleat about the quality of women they meet, but seriously, they don't appear to have much to offer an educated woman. Elderly, poor, overweight, reclusive, lacking in morals and uneducated, I'd rather live alone. Naam appears to be the only ThaiVisa poster anywhere approaching the western concept of 'a catch'. You do have a good sense of humor. And do you consider yourself "a catch" by any standard? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissAndry Posted September 4, 2016 Share Posted September 4, 2016 19 minutes ago, FruitPudding said: And do you consider yourself "a catch" by any standard? Seriously, I look like my avatar. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bazza40 Posted September 6, 2016 Share Posted September 6, 2016 On 6/23/2016 at 7:37 PM, MissAndry said: It would depend on his pool. But more seriously, from what I read the posters here don't really have much in the way of assets, and appear in the main to be poorly educated. They all bleat about the quality of women they meet, but seriously, they don't appear to have much to offer an educated woman. Elderly, poor, overweight, reclusive, lacking in morals and uneducated, I'd rather live alone. Naam appears to be the only ThaiVisa poster anywhere approaching the western concept of 'a catch'. Don't mention the war 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NoMeAmes Posted June 15, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted June 15, 2018 I think the reason Thailand is so different from western civilization is the fact that they have never been colonized by any western country before. I'm from another SEA country, born and raised, before I went to Europe and lived there for 10 years. I can definitely see the difference in the mindset, and not only that, the set of logic here in Thailand is so different to other SEA countries that I've been to or made contact with the people. The Philippines was colonized by Spain, Indonesia was under Dutch colonization for over 3 decades, and Vietnam by the French. All these led to an adaptation of the mind as well. These SEA countries I've mentioned have had to adapt to the western set of logic, and they have learned from their colonizers. So they have a more similar logic to the western world than Thais, since Thais have never had to adapt to any other culture, whether for survival, or politically. Thais have always been JUST Thais. No wonder many western-minded people have a lot of questions, dilemma, frustration, etc when dealing with Thais here. This also applies in the dating world. Just my two cents. Don't crucify me. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justfine Posted June 16, 2018 Share Posted June 16, 2018 On 6/25/2016 at 11:31 PM, 212Roger said: You see Filipinas all over the world; you do not see Thai's all over the world. See my point?! Thais are everywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yrag Posted July 10, 2018 Share Posted July 10, 2018 On 6/18/2016 at 2:31 AM, thrilled said: Go to an airport today,any airport in the world and you will see so many women playing on their phones.Many men also. People are being baby sat by their phones Guiding Hands guiding hands Clip.mp4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NonthaburiBear Posted July 13, 2018 Share Posted July 13, 2018 Thais will always be Thais... if my GF say she want to break up with me, i just don't listen ..she'll always comeback like a pussy cat.I also see them ( Thai Girl ) are so funny, trying to be perfect and polite.It's called Fake in the western civillization..if you really love them, you will try to live with that. Just my 2 cents 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoMeAmes Posted July 13, 2018 Share Posted July 13, 2018 4 hours ago, NonthaburiBear said: Thais will always be Thais... if my GF say she want to break up with me, i just don't listen ..she'll always comeback like a pussy cat.I also see them ( Thai Girl ) are so funny, trying to be perfect and polite.It's called Fake in the western civillization..if you really love them, you will try to live with that. Just my 2 cents my question though, is would you love someone you deem is "fake" in the west? If not, why would you do it here? You know the "fakeness" will cause trouble in the future. Fake people always do, they're not capable of a healthy relationship. How can you trust a "fake" person fully? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NonthaburiBear Posted July 15, 2018 Share Posted July 15, 2018 On 7/13/2018 at 7:50 PM, NoMeAmes said: my question though, is would you love someone you deem is "fake" in the west? If not, why would you do it here? You know the "fakeness" will cause trouble in the future. Fake people always do, they're not capable of a healthy relationship. How can you trust a "fake" person fully? Tbh, sometime i don't understand too ? , but i try not to be too hard to think about it. KISS= Keep It simple Safe Simple means dont put too much of your heart for her, Safe= dont give any fancy gift or tremendeous amount of money to get her affecttion ( i never do that and i never will ) even though my fan only work as part time employee on one of Mall in Bkk. With those thing in mind, you will never stress out about your relationship.Why i do it here ? because i like her, she's good to me..never ask me money,teach me everything about Thailand,we share our meal together, she let me doint my stuff..prepare all the thing before i go to work.. should i ask for more , as long shes not cheating or play behind my back ? .If you try to find perfect person, you'll never will and might end up being alone. Just my 2 cents 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted July 15, 2018 Share Posted July 15, 2018 On 6/26/2016 at 9:13 AM, gemguy said: I hear you. That old saying; Screw the bad girls and marry the good one...... sort of applies here. This is Thailand while a man can play it several ways including being married and still go out womanizing and some men do it with the permission of their wife's or at least the wife knows and does not intervene. Some guys have a wife and have one or several "Giks" on the go if financial matters allow them to afford it. Also if you are playing the field with the so called good girl and you get them pregnant and you have no intentions of marrying them and then they have no intentions of aborting your child ....then it really, really hits home concerning the consequences and implications of your little head doing more thinking than your big head. Fortunately I never made any girl pregnant while I nearly always wore a condom, as many men do ...but a lot, as in a lot of men do not and many girls including the bar girls are not taking any form of birth control resulting in unwanted or unnecessary pregnancies. All kinds of implications if you get too involved. Just better to pay your way and be on your way...but done in a safe and respectable and amiable fashion. Cheers Many bar girls have a form of deprovra. Three month renewable contraceptive injections. So their TBF does not put them.up the duff.....again Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kevvy Posted July 15, 2018 Share Posted July 15, 2018 On 6/17/2016 at 6:34 PM, StreetCowboy said: Try looking in the mirror: "All the foreigners I meet are only interested in sex, but they expect me to be interested in whatever backwater of farangistan they come from. If it was that interesting, they'd have stayed there. The only way I can keep awake in his company is by playing candycrush, and letting his inane prattling wash harmlessly over me. I'd dump him now, but I hate to hurt his feelings. Let's hope he doesn't hang around too long. If I'd known he wasn't here on a week's holiday I'd have never gone out with him" All the foreigners I meet are only interested in sex, Mate , I hope i dont meet you ...Sure I like making love to my wife , who wouldn't , she is so beautiful , I have friends who think the same , came here because they found love and friendship. Not for sex. My wife is 49 and more in love with now then I was 9 years ago. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The manic Posted July 15, 2018 Share Posted July 15, 2018 (edited) The OP bored the girls. Beur Lao! Bored already. Edited July 15, 2018 by The manic 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted July 16, 2018 Share Posted July 16, 2018 (edited) On 6/26/2016 at 9:13 AM, gemguy said: That old saying; Screw the bad girls and marry the good one...... sort of applies here. Who dug this old thread up? Edited July 16, 2018 by BritManToo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NonthaburiBear Posted July 16, 2018 Share Posted July 16, 2018 12 minutes ago, BritManToo said: Who dug this old thread up? a bloke who has the same experience with The OP? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted July 17, 2018 Share Posted July 17, 2018 Thanks, gents! My apologies for any offence caused. It was thoughtless and uncalled-for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StreetCowboy Posted July 17, 2018 Share Posted July 17, 2018 On 7/15/2018 at 7:46 PM, kevvy said: All the foreigners I meet are only interested in sex, Mate , I hope i dont meet you ...Sure I like making love to my wife , who wouldn't , she is so beautiful , I have friends who think the same , came here because they found love and friendship. Not for sex. My wife is 49 and more in love with now then I was 9 years ago. My apologies; I was taking the piss out of the OP, not you - trying to portray the perception of his relationship from the other party’s point of view. My subsequent comments went beyond ribald banter, and I’m sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoMeAmes Posted July 22, 2018 Share Posted July 22, 2018 On 7/15/2018 at 6:27 PM, NonthaburiBear said: Tbh, sometime i don't understand too ? , but i try not to be too hard to think about it. KISS= Keep It simple Safe Simple means dont put too much of your heart for her, Safe= dont give any fancy gift or tremendeous amount of money to get her affecttion ( i never do that and i never will ) even though my fan only work as part time employee on one of Mall in Bkk. With those thing in mind, you will never stress out about your relationship.Why i do it here ? because i like her, she's good to me..never ask me money,teach me everything about Thailand,we share our meal together, she let me doint my stuff..prepare all the thing before i go to work.. should i ask for more , as long shes not cheating or play behind my back ? .If you try to find perfect person, you'll never will and might end up being alone. Just my 2 cents So you have a friend and a maid. 2 in 1. Good for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted July 22, 2018 Share Posted July 22, 2018 On 9/4/2016 at 12:12 PM, MissAndry said: Seriously, I look like my avatar. Any chance of a date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
talahtnut Posted July 22, 2018 Share Posted July 22, 2018 On 6/24/2016 at 3:28 AM, williamgeorgeallen said: well i guess they are all the same the world over. thai men seem to be better at handling thai woman however. never thought i would ever be able to stay with a woman long enough to raise kids but i have had the same thai girl for 5 years now and we have 2 kids. the kids seem to keep her busy and she relies on me for financial support. co dependence is about as good as you can hope for really. I'm thinking same as you, co-dependence is the key to a relationship, with mutual respect, its a winner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RamenRaven Posted September 4, 2018 Share Posted September 4, 2018 Sounds like you just described Farang women too, especially the Millenial generation and younger. I.e., No brain, interested in random junk. Farang women from many different Western countries (not just the US, UK, or Australia) are also stuck to their phones and have inane interests. And so do the men. For those of you who claim that Farang women are not like this, perhaps you are referring to Farang women over the age of 35. Welcome to the wonderful world of globalization! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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