mogandave Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 In my opinion. If you have a problem that you dont want to occur as a result of drinking alcohol and you continue to drink alcohol at that level so that you have that or another equally unwanted problem occur again, then by definition you have a drinking problem. You decided that the drinking was more important than eliminating the occurance of problems.I think this describes an alcoholic, not a problem drinker.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 2 hours ago, mogandave said: I think this describes an alcoholic, not a problem drinker.. youre welcome to your opinion Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted April 1, 2018 Share Posted April 1, 2018 youre welcome to your opinion As are you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alan Whickerbasket Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 On 4/1/2018 at 8:31 PM, mogandave said: I think this describes an alcoholic, not a problem drinker.. Yes I do too - I am in exactly this boat, I don't want the anxiety and every negative feeling that comes with it and I want this house to see the happy times it once had, don't get me wrong it is still a happy house - but not anything like as happy as it once was and I fantasize about getting things back to the way they once were. But it is not easy when you live in one of the hottest most humid places on earth and don't have any friends around you apart from her indoors - no I won't approach the expats because on previous experience they are nothing but more trouble waiting!! We work hard in merciless heat and I get bored quickly, err maybe now I can play games 3 nights a week but there are still another 4 where I relapse and just can't seem to get out of it - not for want of trying but like the OP says - you are putting the drink before the things you don't want to keep happening, you both make good points but I have to agree - it's alcoholism, not merely a drinking problem. Alan. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 5 hours ago, Alan Whickerbasket said: Yes I do too - I am in exactly this boat, I don't want the anxiety and every negative feeling that comes with it and I want this house to see the happy times it once had, don't get me wrong it is still a happy house - but not anything like as happy as it once was and I fantasize about getting things back to the way they once were. But it is not easy when you live in one of the hottest most humid places on earth and don't have any friends around you apart from her indoors - no I won't approach the expats because on previous experience they are nothing but more trouble waiting!! We work hard in merciless heat and I get bored quickly, err maybe now I can play games 3 nights a week but there are still another 4 where I relapse and just can't seem to get out of it - not for want of trying but like the OP says - you are putting the drink before the things you don't want to keep happening, you both make good points but I have to agree - it's alcoholism, not merely a drinking problem. Alan. I equate a continuing drinking problem with alcoholism. that was my point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 about 2 beers a year is "normal" for me. I don't see the point to pickling my innards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post vogie Posted June 3, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted June 3, 2018 On 2/18/2018 at 9:05 AM, Airbagwill said: If you can't conceive of a social interaction that doesn't involve alcohol If you can't go to a game without alcohol If you can't sit on a beach without alcohol If you look forward to that beer at the end of the day and leave quickly for it If you can't eat an evening meal without aalcohol If you can't celebrate without alcohol If you can't drive home because you drank alcohol If you change your plans to include alcohol..... If your excuse for being late is because of alcohol If you ever get a hangover If you miss work because of alcohol If you argue with someone because of alcohol That's the worst poem I've read in a long time. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 On 2/2/2018 at 9:36 PM, balo said: I think it would be an interesting business idea to open a bar , that looks like a bar serving only alcohol free drinks. Cocktails without alcohol etc. Big signs outside to tell everyone to have fun and stay sober. And I want some great music to dance to . Everyone in party mode without alcohol , that would be great . With girls who serve only drinks and do not leave the bar ? would be a interesting concept in Pattaya. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hummin Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 (edited) 4-5 times a year I get drunk, and then puke, and Im good for another two tree months. Good reminder why I do not drink to often. I get huge hangover days, and first day I do not move out of bed, and hardly eat. Im better off without but two glasses of wine for the week and a dinner is good. Edited June 3, 2018 by Hummin 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted June 3, 2018 Share Posted June 3, 2018 Yes I do too - I am in exactly this boat, I don't want the anxiety and every negative feeling that comes with it and I want this house to see the happy times it once had, don't get me wrong it is still a happy house - but not anything like as happy as it once was and I fantasize about getting things back to the way they once were. But it is not easy when you live in one of the hottest most humid places on earth and don't have any friends around you apart from her indoors - no I won't approach the expats because on previous experience they are nothing but more trouble waiting!! We work hard in merciless heat and I get bored quickly, err maybe now I can play games 3 nights a week but there are still another 4 where I relapse and just can't seem to get out of it - not for want of trying but like the OP says - you are putting the drink before the things you don't want to keep happening, you both make good points but I have to agree - it's alcoholism, not merely a drinking problem. Alan.Why not call Alcoholics Anonymous? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 3 hours ago, Hummin said: 4-5 times a year I get drunk, and then puke, and Im good for another two tree months. Good reminder why I do not drink to often. I get huge hangover days, and first day I do not move out of bed, and hardly eat. Im better off without but two glasses of wine for the week and a dinner is good. Thats a stiff price to pay for those two glasses of wine a week Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gandalf12 Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 In places like Pattaya, Soi Cowboy etc the norm is to get as plastered as you can. Big drinking capacity for small brained people Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 5 minutes ago, gandalf12 said: In places like Pattaya, Soi Cowboy etc the norm is to get as plastered as you can. Big drinking capacity for small brained people Oh wow, gee, that sounds so exciting. So adult. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 1 minute ago, neeray said: Oh wow, gee, that sounds so exciting. So adult. you dont understand substance abuse and its causes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 1 minute ago, AYJAYDEE said: you dont understand substance abuse and its causes You don't understand my dry humor. But you're right! Since I only ever drank as a young adult and have never done drugs, I wouldn't understand. But darn it anyway, I lost my supply of crack last night when I got drunk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 Just now, neeray said: You don't understand my dry humor. But you're right! Since I only ever drank as a young adult and have never done drugs, I wouldn't understand. But darn it anyway, I lost my supply of crack last night when I got drunk. not a great thing to joke about, the abuser is suffering 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 you dont understand substance abuse and its causes Why not explain it for us?Not everyone that drinks or gets drunk has a substance abuse problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 1 minute ago, AYJAYDEE said: not a great thing to joke about, the abuser is suffering Sorry for the abuser but I think there are ways to deal with these issues, even in Thailand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 Just now, mogandave said: Why not explain it for us? Not everyone that drinks or gets drunk has a substance abuse problem. wouldnt serve any good purpose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 Just now, neeray said: Sorry for the abuser but I think there are ways to deal with these issues, even in Thailand. its easier for some than others. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 wouldnt serve any good purpose Explaining something to someone serves no good purpose, but telling them they don’t understand something does? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 1 minute ago, mogandave said: Explaining something to someone serves no good purpose, but telling them they don’t understand something does? you'd have to ask him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 you'd have to ask himYet you know without asking that explaining it would be pointless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 1 minute ago, mogandave said: Yet you know without asking that explaining it would be pointless. thats not it at all. I simply feel that my explaining my ideas on substance abuse to you would definitely serve no purpose for me and whether it would serve a purpose as far as you are concerned is immaterial to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 4 minutes ago, AYJAYDEE said: thats not it at all. I simply feel that my explaining my ideas on substance abuse to you would definitely serve no purpose for me and whether it would serve a purpose as far as you are concerned is immaterial to me. So basically just throw out a barb but don't bother to answer for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 1 minute ago, neeray said: So basically just throw out a barb but don't bother to answer for it. Lol! why would I feel a need to answer for it to you when you agreed with what I said??? your words "But you're right! Since I only ever drank as a young adult and have never done drugs, I wouldn't understand." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 thats not it at all. I simply feel that my explaining my ideas on substance abuse to you would definitely serve no purpose for me and whether it would serve a purpose as far as you are concerned is immaterial to me.Why so selfish? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 Just now, mogandave said: Why so selfish? its more than selfish Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogandave Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 its more than selfish Self centered then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AYJAYDEE Posted June 4, 2018 Share Posted June 4, 2018 3 minutes ago, mogandave said: Self centered then? no. nothing to do with me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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