Why is that Thai girls get more angry when you catch them cheating? Not even a sorry or anything, just anger for some reason. Anyone else have this experience??

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Whoa.  Great first OP.

 

Let me get a beer, kick back and watch the fireworks on this on.

Your a policeman you tell me.

 

 

 

Only the most demented type of Thai girl would do such a thing.  And it would only work if the guy was a spineless foreigner.  No Thai guy would put up with that. 

"no Thai guy ..."

 

Always comes up, there's a hell of a lot of Thai guys out there, pretty sure they have their fair share of spineless ones and sappy lovesick ones too tbh

It goes like this and it's not restricted to just Thai girls:

 

He -"I checked up on you, you're cheating on me".

 

She - "You did what, you checked up on me because you didn't trust me, you followed me, do you not understand personal boundaries! You invaded my personal space, how dare you, if you can't respect my privacy you have no place in my life, we're finished. What that you say? It doesn't matter what I was doing, you had no right to distrust me and check up on me".

 

He - "Umm, sorry, mumble grovel, I bad".

I think you will find thats a world wide male and female thing, get caught cheating and the best defense is a good offense. Anger, outrage etc

It's all noise to distract from the fact they effed up

4 hours ago, phuketpoliceman said:

Why is that Thai girls get more angry when you catch them cheating?

 

How many Thai girls have you had do the dirty on you?

Thai girls wrote at least three chapters in the book. Turning The Tables, Have him apologize first.

Two Of them have cheated and they both reacted the same way.


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27 minutes ago, phuketpoliceman said:

Two Of them have cheated and they both reacted the same way.


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How did you catch them exactly?  In the act?  Or were you going through their phones? 

We were looking for somewhere in Google maps on her phone and Facebook tags your messages if your GPS setting is on and one popped up with some farang's messages and I lost it. She went crazy saying "so what. I'll do it again!" I said "Later!"

The other one was similar. I could see the messages on her home screen when she was sleeping. Amateur night! Later!


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5 minutes ago, phuketpoliceman said:

We were looking for somewhere in Google maps on her phone and Facebook tags your messages if your GPS setting is on and one popped up with some farang's messages and I lost it. She went crazy saying "so what. I'll do it again!" I said "Later!"

The other one was similar. I could see the messages on her home screen when she was sleeping. Amateur night! Later!


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You did the right thing.  The only proper response to this type of craziness is to say bye bye. 

1 minute ago, Berkshire said:

 

You did the right thing.  The only proper response to this type of craziness is to say bye bye. 

 

But herein lies the rub and, with respect, the OP seems to be attracting the wrong crowd or his beer goggles are out of focus or he's continually accepting of second best.

 

I can provide some further advice to the OP but not certain it would be well received.

Best part is she asks me to send her money the next week.


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It's not just thai girls, lots of people fake anger when they know they are in the wrong. Human nature I suppose

18 hours ago, phuketpoliceman said:

Best part is she asks me to send her money the next week.

 

Gogos have been short of business lately what with the mourning period and all. 

On 21/11/2016 at 0:18 PM, phuketpoliceman said:

Best part is she asks me to send her money the next week.


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How much did you end up sending her?

Maybe they are afraid they will be exposed on Thai visa?

 

Or maybe not...

OP

What do you want them to do?

On November 21, 2559 BE at 7:18 PM, phuketpoliceman said:

Best part is she asks me to send her money the next week.


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Sure,  why should her income suffer?... sorry, but this sounds more like you were a customer than a boyfriend... 

Cheating ! Trust! ? The whole country is based on the former with very little of the latter!


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I don't mind them cheating, as long as I can watch !

Thais don't like being caught in their lies. I'd say most of em aren't even comfortable with the suggestion that they did something negative.

Nobody likes getting caught. Duh!

And as a Farang you're not cheating? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Savé.

Thais are serial liars.  Not my judgement, it's even a saying in neighboring countries (Malaysia, Singapore, etc.): "Hey, don't Thai to me!"  Like all serial liars, they're furious when they're caught.

 

They're also some of the most sex-crazy, promiscuous people you'll find.  Those "short-time hotels" on every other block are NOT primarily for assignations with farangs or sex workers/clients, you realize...they're for everyday Thais cheating on their boyfriends/girlfriends/spouses.  Stand outside one for 15 minutes sometime and see who goes in and out (no pun intended).

Op if your speaking English and you don't attend a Thai university your self then they would be hookers or part time hookers especially since you have only caught them with other farang.
That's why you never attempt a relationship with them

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